Paige showed us the surgeon’s hands of God in Ruth 1, where His knife was used for good, to remove stones from their hard hearts, for these were the days of the judges. As promised in Deuteronomy, He brought famine to Bethlehem to bring His people to their senses. Also, as promised in Leviticus, he cut the days off early for those who married pagans.
This week, in Ruth 2, Paige shows us the shepherd’s hands of the Lord, who tenderly cares for and carries us.
Sunday:
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently? (Double credit if you can share both!
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi
B. Ruth
C. Boaz
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
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How have you seen that in Ruth?
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How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this?
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.)
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point?
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here?
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why?
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us?
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible)
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16
B. Proverbs 16:9
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the Shepherd
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response)
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary?
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16?
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?”
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this?
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us?
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus?
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this.
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven?
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her?
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul?
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth?
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton?
Saturday:
21. What have you learned about the Lord that you could apply to your heart in hard times? Do you have another takeaway?
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I experienced the shepherd’s steering had last week. I had my car’s oil changed and they told me I needed new tires, so I ordered them. On the way home I had a flat, so I was scared (it was blizzarding) yet so thankful the tires were already ordered. My grand-daughter is here and so using her wheels until Wednesday when they come in.
God’s shepherding hand was definitely upon you…so glad you’re ok and you have the use of your granddaughters car❣️
Oh, dear Dee, that is scary! Thanking God that you had ordered the tires. I am thankful that the Shepherd kept you safe and in His care.
Thankful for His watch care over you, Dee!
Sunday:
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently? (Double credit if you can share both!
I have shared here how the Lord has called attention to my weariness of body and mind. He has allowed physical symptoms to refocus my priorities. I have been asking for relief, but His surgeon’s hands have been exposing my need for His priorities to be eminent; it is not relief that I most need but his priorities. I am weary because I have chosen the lesser things to feed my idol of approval. I thank Him for His surgeon’s hands.
As I repent of sins of commission and omission in this area, God has patiently led the way He wants me to walk in. “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” Isaiah 30:21 I have seen Him steering in my heart and circumstances, sustaining me through the rigors of change, and covering/sheltering me with His love and understanding. I have seen my church family coming alongside me and my pastor husband. I see the beauty of women friends here in this blog. I see “Boaz” in my husband, Richard. I thank God for His shepherding hands.
Bing, I so love your heart that comes through in this post. Your trusting and obeying is inspiring…continued prayers dear friend🙏
Amen!
I can relate to this, Bing, and have been striving to seek out where the Lord is leading me with regard to work in the church and my community. It is sometimes difficult to distinguish when there are so many exciting and good opportunities to serve, but definitely I hear my approval idol and desire for my own glory instead of the Lord’s at times.
So true, Chris.
Bing, I love that you see Boaz in your husband, Richard. You have such a humble and contrite heart for God. Prayers, as the Shepherd leads.
Sunday:
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently? (Double credit if you can share both!
My how it seems he has been working overtime in our family, with many difficult and tragic circumstances, as well as in my personal life and marriage. Death of grandchildren (2 in less than 2 years), discovery of abuse, significant (even life threatening) health challenges for multiple family members and myself, the daily struggle of our son with attachment, etc. We have begun to say, “there’s always something…”
Overall, I see the Lord leading me to trust Him. I’m being called to look for his bigger purpose in the circumstances. I find myself asking, “Lord, what am I to learn in this?” The song, “I asked the Lord that I Might Grow”, has been on constant replay. His sovereignty in my life is evident. His work in my heart has been humbling. I see him working in the body of Christ to gently lead us through our trials, including encouragement from this blog. Sometimes, I find myself weary and tired and thinking, I cannot suffer another trial, but truly, he does walk closest with us through them. I find myself drawn closer to him daily and seeking him more all the time.
Chris, you have been through so much and I love that your heart is opened to His Sovereignty and that you’re pressing into Him. When we lost our son God gave me this verse from Job 23:10, “But He knows the way that I take; when He has tried me, I shall come out as gold.” Oh how He loves you…prayers🙏
Chris, my heart aches for your losses and trials. I love how you are trusting Him and I pray that He will give you peace and strength each day. I am reading Isaiah 40:25-31 and praying this for you.
Oh Chris, what a blessing it must be to feel the closeness of God and his arms around you during these rough times.
Chris — so much! May the Lord continue to undergird you and your family.
I so appreciate all the prayer. I am trying to focus less on how much we have been through and more on how much grace and love we have experienced in this time. I know my focus needs to change-certainly there are others facing the same or worse circumstances and my focus needs to be on the ONE who redeems my circumstances, no matter how overwhelming.
Chris, I listened to the song that has ministered to your heart. Yes, God is sovereign, and I must be reminded of that daily.
I am sorry about your struggles. Life is hard at times. The only hope we have is in Jesus; it is good that you cling to Him. This space is a blessing too! The women here are the best. I am reading a book called “Life is Worth Living” by Phillip Keller, the one who wrote the (awesome!) book we read on Psalm 23 about the Shepherd. It’s short like the other one. Praying for you today. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sunday:
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently? (Double credit if you can share both!
God is definitely doing some surgical work in my heart regarding our church. I am memorizing Colossians this year and the first several verses speak of the love the Colossians had for all people and one another. I know God is speaking to my hardened heart…it is a struggle! Studying “The Mark of a Christian,” was timely and I know it wasn’t a coincidence. I just keep wondering how long this surgery will last😜, God has a plan for what I’m going through and I just keep trusting, knowing that He will guide/shepherd me in the direction I should go.
Hold tight to Him and his promises Sharon. Hugs.
❤️ Thank you Julie!
I join Julie in praying for you, dear Sharon. You have been on my heart so much this past week.
Much appreciated, Patti❤️!
Sharon, Colossians is such a great book to pray for the church. Your comment has prompted me to look at the book again as I need to be more prayerful for our church,
Thanks for the idea of going to Colossians, Sharon. I just realized something, as I was reading it. I always wondered why it’s always God’s “right hand” that is mentioned in the Bible. For example,
““Your right hand, O Lord, is glorious in power. Your right hand, O Lord, smashes the enemy.”
Exodus 15:6 NLT
As I read Colossians this morning it says that Jesus sits at the right of God the Father. I have always known this, but now it makes me think that when the right hand is mentioned throughout the Bible, that it’s referring to Jesus! Wow! How I love the Bible. I learn something every time I pick it up.
Sunday:
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently? (Double credit if you can share both! – My biggest shepherding was years ago, after my divorce. I had to sell my home because I could not afford to keep it up. I had no idea why I was being drawn away from the comfortable, but I moved to an unknown county, an unknown town. I didn’t know anyone. I drove into different apartment complexes to find where my boys and I would live. In one of them, I felt the presence of God so I knew it was the one we would live in. I applied and got an apartment. In time, I met friends of a gentleman in the complex. I became very good friends with his friends, they became like family to me and through that relationship I met my current husband, Joe. After Joe and I met, my friends moved away. It was God who directed my steps to that ‘foreign’ town. As for the Lord being my surgeon, I feel His surgery happens daily. I feel myself growing more and more in His Word and in knowledge to what I’m finding in His Word. I can see and feel the difference in my life and it’s because of hands of the surgeon. When I look back in journals that I have written in, I’m surprised to see what is in there. I can see the growth and I know it’s all because of the tug from God and my need to get closer to Him.
Yes Julie…”As for the Lord being my surgeon, I feel His surgery happens daily.” So true…I’m definitely a work in progress!
Amen Sharon, I am definitely a work in progress too!
Oh, Julie! What a journey of faith. I love how the Lord prompted you and you heard His voice. John 10:27 “My sheep hear My voice and I know them and they follow me;” I see this verse in all the posts here. It gives me good chills to see how our Shepherd is steering all of us, to His kingdom. Praise His Name!
Such a step of faith and testimony, Julie.
wow, I see the steering, sustaining, sheltering hand of God as I read your comments, Julie! Thanks for sharing!
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi –
She seems “blah” like she doesn’t really care. I think Paige says something like, “what doesn’t Naomi go and glean? She isn’t that old, right?” I’m thinking she would be older though. But then again they got married much younger than we do now. She might be early 40?
B. Ruth –
She wants to contribute to her family. She wants to be included.
C. Boaz –
For some reason Boaz sees Ruth and takes interest in her. Maybe he is smitten? Why her? Of all the workers/gleaners, he picks her. He wants to care for her. He has a kind heart.
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth?
She wants to stay with Naomi even though she might be outcast. She wants to help her family by working.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14?
He says to invite those who can’t repay you when you have a gathering like a luncheon.
Do you do this?
Not as much as I should.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
Our neighbors are such kind people. We have known them a long time and they are Christians. They go to our church. We are friends, but not really close on a day to day basis. The husband snow blows our driveway! Three times already this season. We feel guilty, but he just shows up before we know it! The wife invited us for dinner last week with the kids. They always have presents for them at Christmas too. So sweet.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
I have had a tea and a luncheon at my house where I didn’t expect anyone to ask me to do something to repay me. I’m not sure if some could repay me, but I didn’t care if they couldn’t. But, I also knew the people. I get the feeling you are saying we should invite people we don’t know, who are less fortunate.
Recently, I helped a young girl who is troubled, connect with our young adult group, through dance, at our church. I gave my time to be with her, so she could dance there, since she isn’t a member. I don’t know her very well.
A couple of years ago I paid for a person’s groceries who didn’t have enough money in line ahead of me. It was only $20 or so. They were thankful.
I doubt she was older than 45 since they married in their early teens and had children right away. But of course, we don’t know. And 45 then was older than 45 today.
Laura, The way you showed kindness in those three examples tells me you are following the Spirit’s leading, and you are showing hesed. You did those things without even thinking they were special, just because that’s who you are, a daughter of the king.
Love your hesed moments Laura. You are a blessing to everyone you encounter. Don’t ever forget that.
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi -her heart is softening.
B. Ruth -heart of providing/helping.
C. Boaz -heart of kindness.
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth?
In her attitude towards Naomi in wanting to contribute and provide for her.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14?
To invite those into our homes that are less fortunate and unable to reciprocate.
Do you do this?
Not as I should.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
When we visited a church in eastern Oregon we got an invite to lunch by a family that did it out of love and kindness knowing full well we could not reciprocate. What always stuck out to me more in this story is that this family was quite poor and the lunch they offered was very simple but the love I felt in that home was very genuine…from the heart.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.)
Kind, protective, providing and godly.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
Giving food, money or physical help to those in need.
Such a great example of biblical hospitality from Sharon:
When we visited a church in eastern Oregon we got an invite to lunch by a family that did it out of love and kindness knowing full well we could not reciprocate. What always stuck out to me more in this story is that this family was quite poor and the lunch they offered was very simple but the love I felt in that home was very genuine…from the heart.
This made me remember when we first moved to our town, we didn’t know anyone at all. I had to start school before the kids did. I was starting with another teacher who went to our church. His wife offered to watch the kids (3 of them) for nothing in return, during my week of new teacher in-service. I have never forgotten her kindness.
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi Firstly is a description of Boaz, mighty and wealthy, a relative of Naomi’s, so why didn’t she contact him right away upon her return? Vs 2 Ruth asks permission to go and glean, Naomi tells her to go ahead, without offering any advice about where to go or offer to go with her.
I think this shows Naomi is heart is gripped in grief, bitterness, and depression. She shows no interest in her life, no concern for Ruth, and a resignation (it is what it is).
B. Ruth Ruth loves Naomi and wants to take care of her. This evident by her offer to glean during the harvest. Gleaning was hard, physical, back breaking work. Ruth is eager to work to help Naomi.
Ruth has a very humble heart. In vs 2,7 she asks permission to go and glean (Naomi), and then she asks permission of the reapers to work in a certain field.
Ruth worked continually from early morning until midday with only a short break (vs 7), and I doubt she would have stopped without the invitation from Boaz. This speaks of a heart that is selfless; Ruth is only thinking about supporting Naomi and herself, not how difficult the work might be.
C. Boaz Boaz has a heart that is humble, godly, and kind. He was a mighty and wealthy man, but he wasn’t proud. He went to visit his workers and greeted them personally with a blessing. He must have known each one of his employees by sight (and I’m sure there were quite a few), because he immediately recognized a strange worker (Ruth).
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth? Ruth clung to Naomi after being told four times to go back to her parents. She committed herself to the Lord and Naomi, when she knew that the future was uncertain and she would not be welcome in Bethlehem. Ruth went to glean in the fields in order to get food for Naomi without asking for Naomi’s help/advice.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this?
Jesus says to show kindness, hesed, by inviting and sharing with the people who cannot respond in kind. Don’t just fellowship with friends and family, knowing that they will invite you back.
I’ve tried to do this whenever I can. Years ago the job I had was only M-Th, so once a month on a Friday I would have tea parties for the widows at church. I would set the table with linen, china, and crystal. Being much younger, I did not know them well at all. I was so blessed by the wisdom and friendship as I got to know them better.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
That would be the time immediately following my daughter’s accident when the entire community sent food, cards/poems, etc. , people we did not even know personally, God used them to show hesed to us.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.)
When Boaz finds out the strange woman is Naomi’s DIL, he speaks to hear kindly, listen to me my daughter (recognizing the difference in their ages speaks to her a father might). He shows a kind regard for her (and Naomi) by telling Ruth to stay close to the women gleaning in his field, and not to worry about being harassed by the men (the YOUNG men). Ruth has done nothing to gain such favor nor can she return anything to Boaz in payment. He tells her to get a drink when sh’e thirsty from the containers then workers (the YOUNG men) have filled.
Ruth is astonished and asks why he would show such kindness. Boaz now speaks in greater detail describing all he knows of Ruth’s reputation/character, and prays the Lord’s blessing for her. This shows a habit of Boaz’s heart, to ask for God’s favor for everyone.
Boaz invites her to eat lunch with the workers, and he shows personal attention to make sure she has enough to eat (hesed, kind concern). When she returns to work, Boaz tells the men to let Ruth glean among the sheaves and to drop some of the barley on purpose for her to gather. He admonishes the men TWICE more to neither reproach/rebuke her.
Although Boaz may admire Ruth’s character, there is nothing here that shows he expects anything from her, not even gratitude. Because of his relationship to the God of Israel, his heart is right, and it’s his habit to show hesed.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
I enjoy baking and try to bake things for anyone the Lord lays on my heart, delivering the goodies with a short visit wherever/whenever I’m led.
Cheryl, what a wonderful idea of having a fancy tea party for the widows of the church❤️❤️
It was such fun. Each time I would ask a question to start conversations, such as, When did you meet your husband? We talked and laughed together, I mostly listened. Some of the comments they made to me were: “When you are older, you start feeling invisible at church,” “Thank you for letting me help clear the table and handle the china.” What I was doing took little enough effort from me, but I reaped such great reward. These tea parties lasted until either the women moved (to retirement homes far away), or sadly went home to glory.
I love this idea of tea parties and baking visits. What a great idea to encourage others and learn from them. I have loved times of conversation with older folks to glean wisdom.
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently?
I feel both of these and I am so thankful for the Lord. He is trimming from my life, things that are not eternally good and for steering me to a pasture, where I have not been, but it is good and safe. I have been listening to James Tour teaching Isaiah. (on you tube) His calm teaching is speaking to my heart. I am loving this lesson on Ruth, and all of what you dear friends have posted. It is helping me to know how to Trust what I do not know to the One who has the perfect plan. There is such a richness of healing to my soul, in sharing the path we travel together.
Love this Patti, It is helping me to know how to Trust what I do not know to the One who has the perfect plan. There is such a richness of healing to my soul, in sharing the path we travel together. I agree it is so refreshing to come on this blog and have so many great friends and sisters in Christ to learn and grow with.
I like the idea of trusting what I don’t know to the One who has a perfect plan. My heart is continually challenged in this.
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi – She is recognizing Ruth, showing more love by calling her daughter
B. Ruth – Hard worker, determined to prove her worth and help Naomi.
C. Boaz – Caring to his reapers. Observant, seeing Ruth in the field. Inquisitive wanting to know who she belongs to.
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth? – I definitely see this in Ruth. She didn’t know what would happen to her and Naomi, but she stayed with her to care for her, because she loved her mother-in-law.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this? – He tells us to care/love/invite those who we know cannot pay us back in some way. To reach out to the needy. I’ve done it in the past, but not recently. Joe and I would celebrate Christmas early with my family so when the actual holiday came, we had nothing to do, so we invited people we knew that had nowhere to go to celebrate. We had a Mexican themed supper, and we all had a good time. We ate, fellowshipped and laughed as we celebrated the birth of Jesus.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific. – We had recently moved to Tennessee and were coming up on our second Thanksgiving and a couple from church had been praying who they could invite to their home. I was talking to her and she asked if we were doing anything for Thanksgiving and I said I was just going to make a turkey breast. She told me what her and her husband had been praying for and we ended up being that couple. It was a great time and nice to learn more about them and how each of us ended up in Tennessee.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.) – he cared so much for her from the start, he didn’t want anything to happen to her and wanted to take care of her. Just in these first few verses with Boaz, he seems to be a very caring person. When he came upon his reapers, he met them with a small bless of “The Lord be with you” I just sense he has a caring heart for those he meets.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two! – I have been drawn to people who may struggle walking or have a physical need and want to make sure they are ok and don’t get hurt or fall. I find myself even be more observant to complete strangers trying to maneuver their way. God continue to help me see the needs around me and have hesed habits of the heart for others. In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.
I love your hesed stories, Julie. So sweet.
Love your entire post, Julie. Such sweet stories of connecting with others. Community and fellowship.
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi ~ Naomi encouraged Ruth to go to the fields, calling her daughter. This seemed like the beginning of a bond and of acceptance.
B. Ruth~ She was wanting to work and get food for them, as well as find favor with Boaz.
C. Boaz~ Boaz was caring for widows; he was a caring man, who gave a blessing to the reapers.
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth? Ruth reached out to Naomi, to be with her, to care for her, to get food for her
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this? Jesus says to give when you are never given anything in return and to feed and help those who cannot repay you. I do love to do for those, who are in need. I love the underdogs, the children, animals and those who are too shy to have friends. I love sending notes or cards to elderly, sad and unwell people who are lonely.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
I send notes, cards, texts and emails to people going through hurt, pain, illness or loss.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.) Boaz means what he says, it is deep in his heart. It is who he is. He follows through. Boaz had the best interest of Ruth and her mother in law, in his heart.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
I love to give a meal or a gift, with no strings or expectations, just to connect and get to know people. Even if they are people I don’t know, if it makes their day better, or brings joy. So many people have no one that cares. I want to live as the Lord desires and be a true friend, not a surface acquaintance. I try to be a good listener to others… this is probably not totally on point, but to really know someone and know their heart is so important to me.
I can relate to your desire to be a true friend, not a surface acquaintance. When eternity is looming, what do surface relationships matter?
I have so oft been blessed by Patti’s “hesed” love — but particularly when I was new in Seattle and so very lonely.
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi : short on time and love all the answers previous, so moving on to next questions….
B. Ruth
C. Boaz
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth? Absolutely, when Boaz helps Naomi and Ruth-they are destitute and have no way to repay him.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this? Helping those in need-I wish I could say I do more…its on my heart to SEE the needs.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific. When we lost our granddaughter, so many people poured love on us with meals, cards, etc.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.) Boaz shows up…BEHOLD here he is. As if it’s not expected but he comes almost as if he is seeking out this girl he heard of who is with Naomi. He knows everything about her and wants to bless her -it’s amazing.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two! I have been trying to listen for the Lord’s leading in terms of helping others. I have a friend who lost both children and is now caretaker of her grandson and has many health concerns. She has nothing of material value and much need. I’m trying to be a friend to her and sometimes don’t feel like a good friend. In addition, our adoption of our son. He’s such a sweet soul but so needy and I find myself praying daily for patience with him. My greatest goal is for him to know the Lord and without a doubt, his love for him.
How old was your son when you adopted him and how old now?
He was 22 months when he came into foster care. We had him as respite on weekends and adopted at 3 years old. He’s 7 years old now. He’s made progress but still struggles with fears. He tells me every day he loves me multiple times, looking for assurance.
I agree with everything Patti said about what you have done for that precious son, hesed. You are being the shepherds hands, Chris. I’ll be praying, too.
I will pray for your relationship with you sweet son, dear Chris. I pray that the Lord will be very close to you, as you work with him. You have given him the great love of family and being in a godly family. Such a gift from your huge heart.
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi Naomi was steeped in her grief and couldn’t be of any help to Ruth. Nowadays, she might still be I her pajamas while she tells, Ruth “You go, girl!” (Paige)
B. Ruth She took the initiative to survey the land and took the risk to glean in the fields for leftover grain. She must be very committed to making a life for herself and Naomi.
C. Boaz He is a man of good standing and from the clan of Elimelech. Paige noted that Boaz must be a godly man as he greets his workers with a blessing. She mentioned that we need to consider that Boaz is already the way he is although this happened during the days of the judges.
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth?
She did not ask Naomi to come along with her to help her. She went on her initiative and was determined to do the backbreaking labor of gleaning.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this?
To give without expectations of a return. To help those who are in need.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
I worked part-time only when we were raising our daughter, Ruth. We did not have much money but one year, Richard suggested I visit my Mom and my siblings in the Philippines. He knew I was getting homesick (hesed). We looked at our savings and there was enough for me to go with not much to spare for incidentals/needs. We bought my tickets trusting God to provide. A few days before my trip, the administrator of the nursing home I worked at called me to her office. She handed me an envelope and told me that it was a bonus for me since I had worked there for over a year! I don’t know then how that money was calculated! The timing was perfect, and the amount gave me some extra spending money and was more than I could hope for. This lady, Wally, continued to “watch” over me in the ensuing years, buying little gifts for our daughter, bringing food to our house when one of us was sick, and giving me opportunities for advancement, like sending me to special training. I have kept the cards she sent to me through the years and treasure them. She is still alive and keeps in touch with me. Incidentally, three of her grandchildren were students in my class at different times.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.)
Boaz’s habits of the heart have been so ingrained that he seemed to have an antennae for opportunities to bless others, like his greetings of blessings to his workers. And that time, it was for Ruth. He right away considered her safety and offered her to glean in his field; asked the men not to bother her (first anti-harassment bill according to Paige!) and provided for her, food and water and among his harvesters.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
Yes, I love to bake and make treats, especially for the elderly. I know many of them cannot make these for themselves at home anymore. I also like to write cards instead of buying them and if I did, they would often be blank cards to write something personal. I am also learning to be more verbal with my sincere appreciation of others when I have the opportunity to do so.
Lately, I have learned to appreciate “presence” as a hesed habit of the heart. As I grow older, I find I get tired more easily. So even if I cannot bake treats as often as I can, I can be a “presence” in their lives. I find that people like to talk and visit if I just come and sit for a while.
I love your idea of presence.
I love your practice of presence.
Chris, thank you. I believe all of you ladies who come here in Dee’s blog have given me the gift of “presence”. Though we are hundreds of miles apart, spirit calls to spirit! What beauty the body of Christ brings to each one of us despite the distance.
Amen! Amen! Amen! to this Bing. I so agree that we have very sweet and special relationships here in Dee’s blog, regardless of distance in miles; our hearts are entwined in the love of Jesus, our Shepherd.
What a precious relationship with Wally and the way the Lord has used her to minister to you through the years.
Yes, Cheryl Ann! Wally is very precious to me. And she does Facebook! LOL My birthday does not go by without a greeting from her.
Naomi Naomi was steeped in her grief and couldn’t be of any help to Ruth. Nowadays, she might still be I her pajamas while she tells, Ruth “You go, girl!” (Paige) 🙂
What a lovely story of your relationship with Wally, Bing. Thank you for sharing the beautiful and timely ways the Lord has provided for you. I love how you care for the elderly and I so agree with Chris, about the practice of “presence”. That is truly a heart gift. To just listen to someone and to respond, so they know you are truly listening. Your love and humility speak Jesus in all you do. I love that you make your cards for others. That is a huge gift of love.
Sunday:
1. How has the Lord been a surgeon or a shepherd to you recently? (Double credit if you can share both!
—Hmmmm? A surgeon? I guess He keeps working on my heart and whittling away any hardness that I am prone to develop in response to those in my life that are pretty trying and unlovable. I’m always needing to be softened to be more loving.
—As my Shepherd I am blessed to feel the presence of his gentle hands leading and nudging me through his Word and prayer. I feel His love often as He speaks and guides my life. His voice is the only one that really matters.
Such meaningful thoughts, Bev. I love this: His voice is the only one that really matters.
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point?
God was in control.
Maybe this weeks’ song should be this one? I love it and reading Chris’ trials above made me think of it. Chris, you are loved well by Him. After I listened to it again I noticed that all of Dee’s headings for each day are about the Shepherd! A kiss from the King!
https://youtu.be/WW0VJxPqeRc?si=GALlVmh8cddnNPGn
Thank you for sharing this song, Laura!
I love this song ❤️
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here?
For what reason did Boaz allow Ruth, a stranger and foreigner, to glean behind the others? Why did he allow her to drink with the others? Why did he tell the men to throw some of the heads of the barley for her to pick up? He was being used by God to help this sweet woman.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why?
He says she should glean behind the young women. That makes me think she is older than them.He doesn’t hold back, giving her food water and telling people how to treat her.
I’m thinking how I would treat someone who just shows up for an event, let’s say at our church. I would want them to feel welcome even though I have no idea where they are from, who they are, etc. we have people visit our church each week and we try to make them feel comfortable and welcome. I get sad when they don’t return. Maybe I should pray for them? Duh!
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
The men had to be told to leave her alone.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us?
He wants us to be fulfilled and at peace. He wants us to be covered, to be taken care of in this earthly place where we are so often sad and live with evil around us. He loves us.
Love all your responses, Laura. So important: I’m thinking how I would treat someone who just shows up for an event, let’s say at our church. I would want them to feel welcome even though I have no idea where they are from, who they are, etc. we have people visit our church each week and we try to make them feel comfortable and welcome.
Says Patti, who is new at her church. 🙂
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point?
Her point is: Look at the hands of GOD at work. There are no coincidences with God. He is in charge of every detail of our lives. I loved that she said earlier about “every mosaic tile that He is putting together.” I so needed this right now, as I see the “happenstance” of where I am in my own life.
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here?
Yes! Boaz has heard about Ruth and her loyalty to Naomi, in spite of Naomi’s cold and resigned heart. God is Steering and Shepherding all of their hearts.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why?
Boaz calls her ” my daughter”. He does not treat her like a gleaner, but like family. He is concerned about her safety and her well being. He invites her to reap not glean. He invites her to stay close to his young women (family) and to each and drink with his people. He directs the young men not to touch her.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
She is a Moabite, a foreigner, from a place of idol worshippers. The men could have taken advantage of her and mistreated her. Boaz is her protector, steering her and Shepherding her like God Shepherd’s His flock.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us?
The Lord is our Surgeon and our Shepherd. He has a long term and personal plan for our lives. We just need to love Him, trust Him, listen to Him and follow Him.
Monday: Internally Steering Hearts with “Hesed”
2. Find everything you can glean about the hearts of the following people in Ruth 2:1-6. Also, share anything from Paige that stood out in this section.
A. Naomi
—Naomi called Ruth “Daughter”. That would seem a clear acknowledgment of her heart for Ruth.
B. Ruth
—Ruth had a caring heart that wanted to do whatever she could to provide food for Naomi and herself.
C. Boaz
—Boaz had a heart for God in the way he acknowledged his workers with the Lord’s blessing.
He was obviously caring
in that he tuned into the people around him when he noticed and inquired about Ruth.
—Paige said we see the work of God’s hands in the book of Ruth through an ordinary story played out in the lives of ordinary people.
This is great encouragement for me personally as my husband and I are spending a few months down here in Texas with family. There are some major heart needs among these family members but we continue to trust God’s hands to be on our lives and on theirs.
3. “Hesed” love reaches out simply to love, not to get something back.
How have you seen that in Ruth?
—Ruth placed her faith in the God of Israel and took the hard road of going back to Bethlehem with Naomi even when the future looked bleak for two widows. But she loved Naomi in the midst of those circumstances and in spite of her discouraging voice.
How does Jesus tell us to do that in Luke 14:12-14? Do you do this?
—It is a wrong motive to only serve the needs of our close friends and neighbors so they will serve us back. We are to reach out to the ones in need around us and include them and share what we have with them. We should not expect anything in return.
—Do I do this? I am sure I don’t do it in the measure that I could and should. A good challenge to be more aware.
4. Share a time when you experienced that from someone. Be specific.
—I am sure there are instances where I was provided for and unable to repay in the material sense in my childhood. But as an adult I can only think of instances where individuals met a deep heart need of mine and I in no way can repay their loving kindness to me.
5. How do you see hesed love in Boaz in Ruth 2:7-16? Paige talked about the “habits of his heart.” How do you see that? (John Piper said Boaz is soaked through in hesed.)
—Boaz was gracious beyond measure to Ruth first if all just in his giving her place and status in spite of her being an alien in Israel. He called her daughter and immediately provided sustenance and protection. And He practiced love in great measure by affirming her practice of love for Naomi and spoke God’s blessings over her. Ruth responded warmly to all his kindness by acknowledging it and seeking to continue in being pleasing as one of his workers.
6. Has the Lord helped you develop some “hesed” habits of the heart? (You aren’t bragging, but giving glory to Him.) Share one or two!
—I try to practice encouragement where ever I can. I try to handwrite notes especially when someone is in the grieving process. If I knew them I share my good memories of the deceased person. But I always offer scripture for comfort.
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point?
“The steering hands of the Shepherd” is written across the sky in neon lights! Love this word picture from Paige. It reminds of the song, “Savior like a Shepherd Lead Us. Much we need Thy tender care.” He is Sovereign!
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here?
God’s hand steered Ruth to the field of Boaz where she would be protected, provided for, known and accepted.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why?
His words, “May the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge, reward you fully for what you have done.” I think this must of been such an encouragement to Ruth as it couldn’t have been easy for her to be with Naomi in her bitterness.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
Boaz warned the young men who were harvesting not to treat Ruth roughly.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us?
It tells how much He loves us and wants what is best for us.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible)
Many years ago we were driving to see my parents for Christmas and the roads were slick. Jim took an exit to a rest area and the car was headed for a big boulder, we came to a stop just in front of it and Jim said to me, “did you feel that?” My response, “I think God just grabbed the bumper of the car and pulled us to a stop!” He said, “exactly, we didn’t come to a stop, we were pulled from behind to a stop!” I have to say that we were both in shock and relieved, but also knew that God was watching over us…He was mindful of us.
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16
The hand of God, the Shepherd is always in our lives guiding and leading us.
B. Proverbs 16:9
We make plans but the it’s the Shepherd who directs our steps…again, He is guiding and leading.
Wow! Sharon, your answer to 9. gave me chills!! I love that! There are those times when you know it is Only God!! Thank you for sharing!
Love the God pulled your car back story!
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point? – It’s not by chance or coincidence that she was there. Her steps were all planned out by God. From the time she left Moab with Naomi to when she started working in Boaz’ fields. God knew where he wanted her to be and end up from the beginning of her journey.
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think (Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here? – Ruth felt she needed to stay with Naomi and didn’t really know the end result, but God knew. What we think should happen to our life is not in God’s plan. He has laid it all out before we were even born. He guides us and steers us to where he wants us to be and if we hear his voice and listen, we will follow that leading.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why? – Boaz was a complete stranger to her and her to him and yet he was kind to her and wanted to take care of her. Naomi didn’t seem to care at this time about Ruth’s well-being.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger? – Any of the other men could have taken Ruth and not cared about what happened. They could have kept her as their servant.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us? – God always sees our needs and takes care of us. He will never let us be without His provisions. I think sometimes God takes away to keep us from harm in some way when we don’t see it as harming us. He sees all and knows all. He is our protection and provider.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible) – I was overwhelmed when God provided financially at just the right time. My need was great, I cried out to him about my need, and he always met them, in His timing.
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16 – God will provide blessings to his children in the order he sees fit.
B. Proverbs 16:9 – The Lord is in control of our steps, our life. Who better than him to have control over me. Thank you, Lord.
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point? “The repetition points to the hands of God at work, similar to using air quotes. This is happening, SEEMINGLY by coincidence, but not really, it’s God controlled.
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here? God led Ruth to that certain field on that certain day, and He led Boaz to that same field on the exact same day. Only God does things like that.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why? Boaz speaks kindly to Ruth, accepting her presence among his workers and telling her to stay with them. He takes thought for her comfort, telling her to drink from the water already drawn by his men (so she doesn’t have to go to the well, where she might not be welcome). Boaz also prays for her, this stands out to me because he is not only concerned for her physical need but her spiritual needs also. He recognized that she had committed herself to the God of Israel, and he asks the Lord to reward her for her commitment to Naomi.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
Boaz tells the YOUNG men three times not to harass Ruth, v. 9,15,16. He obviously had to repeat the directive to impress the importance of it, once was not enough. Ruth was young, and she was a foreigner (open to ridicule/harassment). This also tells me that Boaz was very aware of what was happening every day around him in Bethlehem (time of the Judges).
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us? The Lord loves me with an everlasting love, hesed. I can trust Him in every situation, whether he takes/gives or gives/takes.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible) I always seem to go back to my daughter’s death, but really the nearness of God was overwhelming in many ways. Pardon me if I’ve mentioned this before.
One of the devastating thoughts I had was wondering if Mary was scared during the accident, and I was not there for her (a mother’s heart). As I dwelled on this thought, I’d think “Who can I ask? Who would know? No one.” One of the notes I got days later, from an acquaintance (NOT a believer), told me about a similar accident she had been in where she had survived, having 22 stitches in her face. “Cheryl, it happened so fast, I DIDN’T HAVE TIME TO BE SCARED.”
The Lord answered my question and poured love on my grieving heart and mind, it was overwhelming. I keep that note in; it’s been there for 30 years in my Bible.
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16 Near the end of his life, Jacob acknowledges that God has taken care of him and been with him his whole life (deception, lies, exile, return, 12 sons, etc), also claiming to have been redeemed from evil. The point being that from birth until my dying day, God is in control of everything that happens to me.
B. Proverbs 16:9 I might make plans to do things, but ultimately it’s God’s plan. He leads my heart and directs me.
Cheryl, what a wonderful gift from God in the word that acquaintance sent you and such comfort…God does rule the details!
That was a gift from the Lord!
It is still so amazing to me that the Lord cared about my THOUGHTS, nothing I spoke aloud to ANYONE.
Cheryl, I love how God knew your thoughts and gave you this message.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible)
I believe that God gave me my husband, to “take care” of me since I really have no one left in my extended family to help me as I grow older. My husband is a good guy. He struggles with earthly things, just as we all do, but I do believe his heart is in the right place. I wish he were closer to God, as he is unhappy a lot. But, our daughter has caused us so much angst that it’s hard for him to forgive and forget. I’m the opposite; forgiving and forgetting quickly. I ask prayers for him if you think of it. He is in pain, in his heart for the hardness of life right now.
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16
The blessing of His children. We are blessed too.
B. Proverbs 16:9
God is in control over our lives.
Father, I do thank you for Laura’s husband. Help him release his hurt to you and experience Your peace.
Amen🙏
I agree, Lord.
I also agree, Lord.
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point?
—It wasn’t by accident or just by chance Ruth came to the field of Boaz but rather it was by the design of God. He made it happen.
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here?
—As Paige brought out God steers all the happenings of our lives down to the tiniest details. In this section Boaz not only provides generously food for Ruth but great kindness and affirmation in the way he addresses her. He met a deep heart need in her.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why?
—The fact that as Paige pointed out Boaz changed the label she had been given which was Ruth the Moabite. He gave her place and served her and saw that she was served by Israelite men. Paige also pointed out this was in the time of the Judges when Israel was in a free fall and no one obeyed the laws. But here we see Boaz was and he practiced true hesed. I think Boaz had been raised well and would have heard the stories of his mother Rahab’s rescue along with her family from the destruction of Jericho. But like Ruth his mother had been an alien and Boaz had a heart for Ruth’s situation.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
—It was apparent there were unscrupulous workers in the harvest fields. Naomi mentioned the danger of being assaulted and Boaz had charged the young men not to touch her. As the boss he protected her.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us?
—When God takes away dealing with the pain of loss can be so very hard but we have to continue to trust God because the loss is not the end of it. God is a giving God and he is never finished but rather he always has more to give us and in the details of our lives he provides. And God is not stingy when he provides. Eventually he gives to us what we truly need. I think if not in this life it will be in the next restored to us beyond measure. God’s heart is perfect hesed.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible)
—As a very young couple God led my husband and I to be part of starting a new church in town. Not because we were incredibly spiritual, well trained with a grand plan in hand. Quite the opposite. We had no idea what we were doing. We were immature, needy and not even biblically strong. But God’s hands led us by putting us next to a couple of godly mentors one being a dear old Norwegian pastor and his sweet wife serving as church planters. The church grew and became established in our community. Lots of stories and history but eventually we went through a very painful time and had to leave that church. I was so broken by it I would have walked away from organized church but we had our two younger children still at home and felt the need to keep them involved in the ministry and the fellowship of church. In the church we chose to attend our younger son grew up involved and attending the children’s and youth ministries then after bible college and seminary he eventually became the lead pastor and served for ten years. There was an occasion one Sunday morning where I sat listening to him preaching and was overwhelmed by what God had done. It was like God brought beauty up out of the ashes. No one but God could have orchestrated all of it.
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16
—It was all God! God’s hand on the life of Jacob (Israel) in spite of all that had transpired. God had a plan and was working for Jacob’s good and would continue to carry out his plan through Jacob’s prodigy. His eternal plan for the world.
B. Proverbs 16:9
—“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”
This verse speaks for itself.
It comes back to Paige’s premise about the hands of God being on the lives of his own children.
The Surgeons hands.
The Shepherds hands.
The Steering hands.
The Sustaining hands.
The Sheltering hands.
All glory and praise and honor goes to God for his gracious hands guiding our lives.
Bev, I had not even considered Boaz’s background until you mentioned it. It add a whole other dimension to what was happening in Ruth 2. The memory you shared brought Paige’s words to mind (via the Burton story), you didn’t know a lot, but the two of you knew the Shepherd, and that’s what mattered. He orchestrated all the details, even the painful parts, and created a beautiful symphony.
Wonderful story of a Norwegian couple. And great summary, Bev.
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the ShepherdT
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response)
Ruth’s heart responded to God as she cast herself upon Him, and he led her. He led her to want to work for Naomi, he led her to that exact field on that particular day, He led her to submit to Naomi’s advice, He led her to offer marriage to Boaz, he led her as a mother to include Naomi in Obed’s upbringing.
Boaz had a heart for God, as shown by his speech and actions. He was led to that same field on that particular day, he was drawn to Ruth when others rejected her, he was led to speak kindly to her, he was led to offer support and protection, he was led to accept her as a wife.
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary?
It’s interesting that you asked “how well,” and not just “how.” My mind immediately tries to list the things I am doing, but you didn’t ask for a list. You asked “HOW WELL,” and I have to say well enough, and yet my heart responds, “Could I be doing more?” I try to follow/obey the Lord’s leading, but am I overlooking someone? Dear Lord, let me see people with your eyes and be more sensitive to their needs.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16?
In those verses Boaz makes sure Ruth has a proper meal and does not go hungry (physical support). She returns to her work, and that shows emotional support from Boaz. He does not offer her money to buy food, although he is a relative and wealthy, he respects her desire to work.
When she returns to work, Boaz tells the men to leave her alone and drop barley on purpose for Ruth to gather. This is physical support (she will glean extra grain) and emotional support (she won’t suffer harassment).
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share.
You can offer help, but do not try to change them or their circumstances unless they desire it.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?” The day when those two dear saints just “happened” to be at the hospital, and just “happened” to exit the elevator where I just “happened” to be, when I was alone and frantic.
Love that elevator happening.
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the Shepherd
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response)
Ruth: He steered her to the field of Boaz where she was protected, treated kindly and provided for. Boaz covered her and sent her home with barley. Boaz becomes her kinsman redeemed.
Boaz: He ‘s been blessed as a farmer, good workers that respect him and provided with a loyal woman.
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary?
Sadly, not well. I could name things here and there but this is one area that I’m not very sensitive to. I do question if that reflects my heart…is it hardened, am I over cautious because of being taken advantage of or just not seeing the needs? God, forgive me for being so turned in to self and open my eyes and heart to see the marginalized, the poor and the weary.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16?
Through provision of food and drink and protection while gleaning the fields.
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share.
I’m not sure I’m one to answer this question but in times of giving to those in need, it’s been anonymously.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?”
Going back to my sweet friend in Oregon who reached out to me after we lost our son.
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point?
The events were all steering from God’s hand.
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here?
Ruth happened to be at the field owned by Boaz.
Boaz happened to come and inquire about who Ruth was.
Ruth must either have stood out in terms of her physical looks or dress, or she may have been close to Boaz to notice her. Or Boaz was so well acquainted with his workers that he noticed Ruth as unfamiliar to him and therefore piqued his interest and concern.
The overseer was where Boaz could ask him about Ruth. The former also knew and had favorable news about Ruth’s background!
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why?
It may mean Naomi hasn’t spoken kind words to her.
Boaz was the “bigger” person here but he went and talked to her.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger?
Boaz told her that he had instructed the men to not a hand on her; and also, for her to stay with his harvesters.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us?
He is always on the giving end. And when He does take it away, it is always from His good heart that we might experience His ultimate goodness.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible)
One day in the past when I was so tired and felt so unprepared for school the next day God gave us a snow day! I knew there was inclement weather coming but did not think it would be enough for schools to be cancelled! And the verse above came to mind: Lord, thank you for being mindful of me! when I consider the much bigger things that you could have been addressing at that time, you saw me and provided rest and relief. Thank you!
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16 god is in the details of our lives.
B. Proverbs 16:9 We may plan, but the purposes of God will prevail. and because I know, He is good, I want to be content with what He has laid out for me, and follow the ways He is directing me to go.
Snow day provision! 🙂
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the Shepherd
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response)
—From the moment Ruth stepped foot into the fields of Boaz God began to pour out his sustaining provisions for her life. First with grace and acceptance from Boaz and plenty of food to eat for her and Naomi as well as protection.
Ruth was obviously a gift in Boaz’s life. It was God’s timing in bringing her to his fields and under his care. She was the right woman for him. Just as he was the right man for her.
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary?
—I always try to make it my practice to smile at and be pleasant when I encounter marginalized individuals. Especially the handicapped. My dad had a first cousin who was mentally challenged and we learned at an early age to be kind and considerate of him. Also my closest friend Lynda has a very mentally and physically handicapped son. The trials have been many and hard for Richie and for her as his mother.
We don’t encounter the poor in an up close and personal way very often in our small community like you see in warmer and more urban places. But we have given money to help relieve some needs that we became aware of. We also sponsored a girl for a number of years through Compassion International.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16?
—He gave her place and as was pointed out yesterday Boaz changed the label she had been given which was Ruth the Moabite. It was a deep kindness to upgrade her status and elevate her self worth. Physically he graciously provided an abundance of food for her and Naomi.
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share.
—Last year we financially provided for a need to someone in our church family but chose to do it anonymously.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?”
—There was an occasion when I was emotionally distraught and God provided a sweet encouraging voice into my life that greatly lifted the burden I was carrying. She renewed my self worth in a significant way.
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response)
Ruth is “ruthless” (sorry!) in her faithfulness to a God she barely knows. She is determined to be with Him no matter what. God guides and protects her. Because of her faithfulness, she is eventually married and has a family for the rest of her life.
Boaz follows all the laws and offers a safe place for Ruth to be as she is working. He cares for her by giving her food and water. He is sustained by God, in that he is given a child, and through his lineage Christ is born.
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this?
—Paige said “He welcomed and blessed her. He changed the label she had been given. Ruth the Moabite.” I guess I am reiterating what I have already written that I think Boaz had a kind heart of understanding for Ruth because of his mother Rahab. It would seem without a doubt he grew up knowing the significance of his mother as a Canaanite prostitute believing in the one true God of the Israelites and being rescued and becoming the wife of an Israelite.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us?
—The Ammonites and Moabites refused to help the Israelites when they came out of Egypt and even sought to curse them so God told the Israelites to forbid them from becoming part of their assembly. And God said “You shall not seek their peace or their prosperity all your days forever”.
—I think Ruth was able to enter in because she had believed in and put her trust in the one true God of the Israelites. She had put her faith in God and like with Abraham God had counted her faith as righteousness.
—Just like Ruth because of our sin we are aliens and foreigners apart from God. But when we recognize Who God is and see our need of Him as our Savior and believe in Him by placing our faith in Him we can come into His family and are accepted. And like Rahab and Ruth we can be rescued out of our sinful past and alienation.
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus?
—I don’t remember the particulars on that. It was in the middle of the night when I couldn’t sleep that I listened to this teaching and as she neared the end and was talking about Jesus her comments were very moving and I stopped taking notes and just listened.
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this.
—One of the last things I wrote in my notes was “Ruth placed herself under the shelter of God. He was her only hope. He was her Refuge.” It is a beautiful picture of her request to be covered by the corner of his garment and all that meant in her submission to Boaz and the power he held over her life and all it symbolized in Boaz as a redeemer and a loving , caring provider for her and Naomi. He was her refuge. She came “under his wings” just as we can find shelter and refuge under God’s wings.
Psalms is full of references to God’s wings.
“How precious is your steadfast love, O God! The children of mankind take refuge in the shadow of your wings.”
Psalm 36:7 ESV
Love that Bev: God counted Ruth’s faith as righteousness!
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this?
Ruth is no longer a Moabite but is one of them. She is a reaper not a gleaner and will eat with the reapers and not with the servants or gleaners. Foreigners usually drew water for the Israelites but now Boaz is drawing water for Ruth.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say?
The nations of the Ammonites and Moabites didn’t welcome Israel but rather hired Balaam to curse them, but the Lord turned it around into a blessing because of His love for them. And because they did this God told them for as long as they live they must never promote the welfare and prosperity of the Ammonites and Moabites.
Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in?
My first thought is because she married Naomi’s son, but I really think it’s because God knew her heart, her faith, her kindness to Naomi and her “hesed” love…it was very evident to Boaz and all the people.
How does this apply to us?
I think it can be applied two ways…to remember how God accepted me into His family, a sinner and that He sent His Son to die for me.
The other way is, how accepting am I of those who are different than me? Do they see hesed love in me and am I allowing God to use me to His glory?
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus?
Jesus isn’t covering us with His wings…He is carrying us under the cover of His wings and it isn’t to safety but all the way home.
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this.
I’m not real sure…Boaz protected, provided and eventually became her refuge?
She didn’t go into that, but my understanding is that in an orthodox Jewish wedding ceremony he covers her with part of his cloak as a sign of his promise of protection and provision, which were the “marital rights” of a wife according to the law. I’ll do a bit more research!
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary?
I don’t do a very good job of this unless I am told about a situation and I feel like I can help. I don’t just naturally reach out. For example, a friend of mine told me about baby formula at a local food bank that was going to be thrown away due to an expiration date. The friend asked me if I knew any mothers who might be able to use this formula. I searched around and found some mommies, and delivered it to them as well. We haven’t gotten all of the formula given away however I do feel like I did a good deed.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16?
Boaz cares for Ruth by allowing her to rest with his other employees as well as drink water and eat their food. He gives her extra food as well.
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share.
I think being quiet about your giving is probably the best route to take. Don’t make a spectacle of what you’re doing to help.
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this? I think it was because Boaz recognized her standing before the Lord, and he was saying she was now part of the congregation of Israel (familial connection). Also by calling her “daughter,” I think he was referring to their difference in age (he was old enough to be her father).
Paige said Boaz meant “you’re not a foreigner” (Moabite), because Ruth had committed herself to the Lord.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us? It says that Moabites shall not be allowed into the congregation of Israel. I don’t know why Ruth was able to enter in, other than that was God’s design. It wasn’t because of who she was or what she did, the Lord drew her to Himself and she committed herself to Him.
One application would be that NO ONE is beyond the reach of God. He will save whomever he chooses, whether that person is “acceptable” to us or not.
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus? To take refuge is to place your trust and yourself completely into the SOURCE of the shelter. God doesn’t provide refuge, He IS the refuge. Paige said (referring to NT), “you’re either in Christ, or you’re not in Christ.”
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this.
Ruth asking Boaz to cover her with his cloak was asking for his protection. She lay back down for the rest of the night covered by his garment, knowing she was safe and that he would continue to provide for her. This is a picture of being under the wings of the Lord; He provides safety and provision for those that throw themselves on Him. Nothing can take us away from the Lord, His “wings” will carry us home.
His wings will carry us home. Reminds me of the old spiritual: “I’ll fly away…”
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the Shepherd
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response)
The Lord used Boaz to sustain Ruth by providing for her and Naomi. He has encouraged her with his words of blessings. The Lord has used Ruth to sustain Boaz with her choices.
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling, and the weary.
I agree. Jesus chose the 12 rag-tag disciples always reaching out to what others would consider the “scum” or the “littles” of the world, the woman at the well, the poor, the sick, the widows, the children. We are to follow Jesus example.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary?
God has given my husband and me a heart for others. Only God can do this in both of us. I love our ministry to the elderly, especially in the nursing home. We led Sunday school for many years in the nursing home where I worked. To some degree, we have passed this heart of service to our daughter who works for a non-profit center helping students deal with conflict resolution.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16?
He provided food for her and more to take home. He ordered his men not to rebuke her.
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share.
First of all, I see Boaz giving generously to Ruth and Naomi by providing Ruth with a safe workplace and earning her keep.
I see this practiced by my husband. He has “created” jobs for high school boys and a few clients of our local food pantry so they can earn money to meet their needs. He always tells me that there is dignity in manual labor and the laborer is worth his hire. I see quite several people in our community who do the same.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?”
After being married for 2 years, Richard and I were headed to the Philippines for what we thought was our calling to be full-time missionaries with the Navigators. We worked during those 2 years so we could meet our budget along with some financial support from family and friends. We did not quite meet it, but we felt God’s blessings for us to forge on confident He would provide.
Our church in Lawrence, Kansas prayed for us the last Sunday we were there. After the service, an older man approached Richard and me and wished us God’s blessings on our trip. He also handed Richard an envelope and proceeded to tell us about what was in the envelope.
It turned out that he was a lawyer and had power of attorney for a lady who just died. She left a large amount of money and instructed this man to use it for whatever needs he saw especially among members of our church. This lawyer does not come to church regularly, but he made sure he was there that Sunday hearing about us from a member of the church. He did not have bunny slippers, but we sure wanted to fall on him in gratefulness! The amount allowed us to get over the financial hump for another 2 years in the Philippines before we came back to the U.S. I often look back with much gratitude for the many ways God has provided for us through His people.
Don’t miss Bing’s final story!
Wow! Bing, Only the power of God!
Wonderful indeed how the Lord worked through that lawyer to provide for you! He made sure to be there that Sunday especially. Such an encouraging story, Bing, of hesed.
Yes, Dee, Patti, and Cheryl Ann! Who would have thought that possible? But for God!
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven?
—I have noticed that and especially in Southern Gospel. My brother lives in the Branson, Missouri area and has sang in several groups over the years. Many of their songs are about Heaven. And with the upbeat rhythms and harmonies a delight to listen to. It would take me some tome to sort out a favorite.
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her?
—In Ruth 2:10 it says “Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?”
The verbiage in the verse says she fell at his feet. Not that she just bowed down or just asked why he was so kind to her. She actually fell at his feet and in essence was saying why in the world would you treat me a foreigner so well.
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul?
—I think we see when Ruth came home and told Naomi all the good that had happened to her that day and Naomi connected the dots quickly to Boaz a family redeemer her heart was quickened to the good thing that God was doing. It was like a light was coming on for her after a long time in her misery.
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth?
—She expressed her concern about Ruth’s welfare and affirmed her going back to the field of Boaz and gave her instructions on what to do.
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton?
—I have forgotten the particulars but as I remember it was a beautiful and interesting insight to Richard Burton recognizing his being able to read the words well as an actor but the far greater beauty of the elderly man reading the same words from his heart knowing well the author of the words.
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven?
I have noticed that, and it seems natural as all of our lives will finish in heaven. Any hymn talking about salvation and the Christian’s life has to lead to heaven. A favorite of mine is “And Can it Be,” which describes the whole life of a Christian ending with “Bold I approach the eternal throne, and claim the Crown through Christ, my own. Amazing love! How can it be, that thou my God shouldst die for me?”
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her?
Naomi almost trips over her words asking questions of Ruth about Who? What? Where? She wanted to know how Ruth had acquired such an astounding abundance.
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul? In v. 20 Naomi begins to see the kindness and provision of the Lord in the abundance that Ruth brought home, and in the appearance of Boaz in their lives, a near kinsman (and all the possibility that holds for the future).
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth? It’s shown by the rapport conversation that Naomi starts by asking Ruth questions v. 19-21, and the concern she shows for Ruth’s safety v.22.
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton? Burton knew the Psalm and touched the eyes and ears of the audience; but the elderly pastor knew the Shepherd and touched the hearts of the people.
It doesn’t matter if you know stuff (i.e. bible knowledge, theological degrees), it only matters if you know the Shepherd, Jesus.
This brings to mind 1 Co. 13. Faith, hope, and love are more valuable than anything else and are only attained through knowing the Shepherd, Jesus.
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven?
Yes, I remember as a child singing hymns, how many referenced heaven…sadly, they aren’t sung too often now-a-days😔! My favorite hymn that talks about heaven is, “All The Way My Savior Leads Me.” It was sung at our wedding and I want it sung again my funeral.
All the way my Savior leads me,
What have I to ask beside?
Can I doubt His tender mercy, Who through life has been my Guide?
Heav’nly peace, divinest comfort,
Here by faith in Him to dwell!
For I know, whate’er befall me,Jesus doeth all things well;
For I know, whate’er befall me,Jesus doeth all things well.
All the way my Savior leads me, Cheers each winding path I tread,
Gives me grace for every trial, Feeds me with the living Bread.
Though my weary steps may falter And my soul athirst may be,
Gushing from the Rock before me,Lo! A spring of joy I see;
Gushing from the Rock before me,Lo! A spring of joy I see.
All the way my Savior leads me,Oh, the fullness of His love!
Perfect rest to me is promisedIn my Father’s house above.
When my spirit, clothed immortal,Wings its flight to realms of day
This my song through endless ages:Jesus led me all the way;
This my song through endless ages:Jesus led me all the way.
~ Fanny Crosby
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her?
I see the shock when Ruth told her the name of the man who owned the field she worked in, Boaz. Naomi tells Ruth, “that man is one of our closest relatives, one of our family redeemers.”
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul?
He’s restoring her soul by giving her a glimpse of God’s hand upon Ruth and His leading her to the field of a family redeemer.
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth?
She got excited when she heard where Ruth had gone and told her, “Good! Do as he said, my daughter…you will be safe in his field.”
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton?
Richard Burton was asked to say the 23rd Psalm at a church, which he did but then he asked a man who had been a pastor and was up in his years to say it. The retired pastor got up and in his frail voice quoted the Psalm from his heart and everyone knew he had a personal relationship with the Shepherd. There’s a difference between knowing “about” the Shepherd and “knowing” the Shepherd.
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the Shepherd
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response) – The Lord, protected Ruth and Naomi as they traveled from Moab back to Judah. He provided everything they both needed and put Ruth in the path of Boaz. For Boaz, he provided for him and made him a wealthy, honest man. He placed Boaz in the field where Ruth was and the other redeemer did not want to marry Ruth, so Boaz was able to take care of her and marry her.
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary? – I am not as good as I should be in reaching out to the people mentioned here. I have helped each group in some way, at time, but not as often as I know God would like me to. I’m more aware of the weary and like to help people who are just worn out from life happenings. To be honest, it’s hard these days for me to really know who the marginalized groups are. Our society is so off track I feel and that makes it so much hard to know the truth about certain groups. I think we’ve turned into a world that only cares about themselves and not the world as a whole.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16? – Boaz provided a meal for her and also provisions to sustain her as she worked and provided protection to her from the other men around.
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share. – Boaz did things without Ruth knowing about it so it didn’t diminish who thoughts about herself. If we do the same thing to those who may not have, and not just assume they need something, but ask, how I can I help. Then they have the chance to let us know their need. We should not just assume someone is in need by the outside appearance we see.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?” – I don’t remember the story. I love doing Paige’s study through this blog, but it is so much harder to remember everything she says and not have the option to go back and at least read the transcript. But from the question, I remember when I first moved to the new town where I knew no one, the secretary of the school was willing to take my oldest son home with her after they called for early dismissal for snow. I was at work 45 minutes away and she graciously offered to care for him until I could get back to town. I have never forgotten that, pretty much a complete stranger and she stepped up to help me.
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this? – I don’t remember what she said. But I’m wondering if ‘my daughter’ would show Ruth that Boaz cared. It’s a more loving and enduring term than ‘a Moabite’ would reveal.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us? – it says that no Moabite could enter the assembly of the Lord because they were not hospitable and did not worship the Lord. But I think she was able to because she showed signs completely opposite of a ‘normal’ Moabite. She was wanting to seek and worship the Lord that Naomi served. It applies to us and shows that when we mess up and fall a way, God is waiting for us to turn around and come back. He loves us enough to wait and watch and guide us back to Him.
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus? – She said something to the fact of when we take refuge, we are placing ourselves in the protection of the shelter. The Shepherd is not covering us he is carrying us. It’s not just to safety it is all the way home. Jesus our Shepherd is our shelter from the world.
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this. – What comes to my mind when I see ‘corner of your garment’ is the woman with the issue of blood. She knew she only needed to touch Jesus’ garment, and she would be healed. How powerful is this, to know that just being near Jesus is all we need to feel the protection only he can provide to us.
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven? – I can’t think of any right off the top of my head. I’m so bad about remembering names of songs.
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her? – Naomi was shocked to see what Ruth was bringing to her. The extra food, and the look on Ruth’s face even. I would think it radiated a peacefulness. Knowing they were being provided for. What surprises me about Naomi’s reaction though is that Naomi went back knowing the abundance was there and did she not think that her relatives would take care of her? Wasn’t it their custom to do so?
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul? – She’s starting to see that God has not left her, that he has been with her always and guiding her steps all along.
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth? – She is concerned now for Ruth’s safety and is telling her to stay with the women that belong to Boaz.
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton? – I don’t remember this part sadly.
Tuesday: Externally Steering Hands of the Shepherd
7. Paige said the literal Hebrew translation of Ruth 2:3 is: “And the happenstance that happened to her was that she happened to happenstancely come into the field of Boaz.” Her point? Coincidence is not a thing in the Christian life-God is always guiding and directing our path.
8. Read Ruth 2:7-16.
A. Paige quoted (I think( Sinclair Ferguson who said: “God doesn’t care about the details of your life — He rules them.” How do you see that here? Naomi gives Ruth no direction about where to go, but the Lord leads her where he would bless her.
B. Paige says these are the first kind words Ruth has heard since they have come. What stands out to you in particular and why? He calls her daughter and speaks a blessing over her and treats her as an equal with his servants.
C. What do you see that intimates Ruth could have been in danger? Boaz has to tell the men not to touch her.
D. We often think the Lord gives and he takes away, as Job says. But in Chapter 1 He took away, and now He gives. What does this tell you about His heart for us? God is forgiving and loving, using whom he chooses to further his kingdom.
9. I particularly love how Paige emphasized Ruth’s shock in Ruth 2:10. She’s astounded, “Why?” It reminds of her great grandson’s exclamation: When I consider the stars, what is man that you are mindful of Him? Share a time when you sensed God was mindful of you and it overwhelmed you, actually shocked you. (If possible) When I was 10 years old, my family was in a terrible car wreck. We had a cottage in northern Michigan and the whole family left in the evening to drive up after my dad finished night shift at work. For some reason, I had asked to sleep over at my girlfriend’s house instead. Her house was close by and I walked home afterward, but no one was home. My grandmother called to tell me the whole family was in the hospital and my grandfather would be coming to pick me up. Of course this was shocking and it was before I had officially prayed to receive Christ, but I remember thinking, why? Why was I the only one spared from that wreck. Of course, I felt all the effects with my dad nearly passing from a closed head injury and all the family suffering from various injuries, BUT I was spared the wreck. I had been to VBS and I had decided to believe in God and I wondered what all of this could mean.
10. Meditate on the following verses Paige mentioned and share the main point of each.
A. Genesis 48:15-16 God is our shepherd all of our days.
B. Proverbs 16:9 We may make plans, but the Lord is always directing.
Oh Chris, what an experience for a child of 10, and for your thoughts to turn to God, wow. I’m glad everyone recovered and that you were reunited with your family.
Wednesday: The Sustaining Hands of the Shepherd
11. Paige said the Lord sustains those whose hearts respond to Him. How do you see this happening to both Ruth and to Boaz? (Since you’ve read the whole book, include Chapter 4 in your response) Ruth has her needs met in Boaz, both immediate and future and Boaz as well has his future family given to him in children from Ruth as the Lord blesses her, removing her barrenness. This must truly have been leading from the Lord because Boaz and Ruth must have wondered if there would be any children, but it’s the townspeople who speak a blessing on her for children. We must conclude that Boaz had waited for a woman of character and trusted the Lord for the future.
12. She also said the real test of character is not how people react to the great, famous, rich, and noble but to the marginalized, the poor, the struggling and the weary.
A. As you reflect on your life, how well do you reach out to the marginalized, the poor, and the weary? I suspect there are more I need to reach, but I am definitely looking for more today than in the past.
B. How does Boaz physically and emotionally sustain her in Ruth 2:14-16? He gives her grain from the fields through the gleaning and gives her kindness through his actions.
C. Have you learned anything about how to give to those in need in a way that respects their dignity? If so, share. This can be tough! I have tried to give to a friend who has very little and find looking for ways to bless her financially can be challenging but I think it’s the emotional connections and blessings that she more appreciates. Having a friend and spiritual support.
13. She told a great story about a woman in bunny slippers in Portland, Maine. Have you had any experience where you knew the Lord was providing and you wanted to “fall on that person in gratefulness?” There is probably not a dramatic time like Paige, but during our months after losing our granddaughter, the Lord gave me a friend who always met me with a hug and a blessing. I knew she was always praying for my family and especially for Hunter, our son. Though we don’t see one another anymore, she is a special person to me and I know the Lord used her to comfort me.
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this? I don’t remember what Paige said. I think it is a term of endearment. Boaz was touched by her loyalty to Naomi and her God.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us? No one is to befriend an Ammonite or Moabite because they did not help the Israelites when they left Egypt and hired Balaam to curse them. They may not enter the assembly of the Lord to the tenth generation. I believe Ruth leaving her people and taking Naomi’s God as her own is why she was able to enter in. We are covered by Christ’s righteousness which is the only covering for our sin.
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus? I’m not remembering Paige’s comments on this, but I remember Tim Keller telling the story of a mother bird that covered its young in a forest fire and when the firefighters saw the ash of the mother bird and went to kick it over, underneath were the babies, still alive. He said that this is what Christ has done for us in covering us with his wings-we have been spared the fires of hell.
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this. Ruth comes looking for protection and redemption into society from Boaz. The symbolism is beautiful, even if the method seems inappropriate to us. Christ covers us with his robe of righteousness and this visual is similar.
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven? This always hits me after a loved one passes. My son chose to have us sing, “All Creatures of Our God and King” when they removed life support from our granddaughter. It was the most heart wrenching experience. I still struggle to sing this in church.
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her? She can hardly believe the provision- she says he has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead. She knows that he has blessed them because he is a relative. Clearly, she did not expect this.
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul? She begins to have hope. She starts becoming involved in the affairs of Ruth.
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth? She mentions to Ruth that she could be harmed if gleaning elsewhere where she did not attempt to direct her previously.
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton? We can know the scriptures, our “religion”, but to know the Savior should be our goal. Richard Burton had a beautiful voice and was often asked to recite scripture, but his frail pastor with a weak voice was the one who moved everyone to tears in his reading of the 23rd Psalm.
It brought tears to my eyes to imagine what that was like as you sang for your granddaughter, Chris. Precious.
Thank you, Cheryl Ann. I truly believe the Holy Spirit led my son to choose that song. Sweet Lucy was ushered into heaven with much praise- only the Lord could give us such hearts in that moment.
Chris, I am so touched by you and your family singing, “All Creatures of our God and King” for your granddaughter. Such a poignant picture to imagine. And also the symbolism of Ruth’s asking Boaz to cover her. We need our True Boaz to cover us.
I think I shared this song before with you but will do so again: Cover me, Lord, with your presence
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3vyWg9IOcM
Thank you, Bing. I remember. I do love this song. We used to sing this with a former congregation. Sadly, today our church doesn’t sing some of these older hymns, but I love that I can access them online. ❤️
Hi My name is Merry Lou and I learned of this study from Cheryl. Please add me to your group. Thank you
Merry Lou — looks like you did it! So glad to have a friend of Cheryl’s. Welcome.
Thursday: The Sheltering Hands of the Shepherd
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this?
Boaz used “my daughter” to call Ruth to show her that she has a place of belonging in his family of workers. He saw past her being a Moabite but as a person of dignity and respect. In the days of the judges where everyone did as they deemed fit in their own eyes, Boaz stood out like a beacon of light to the less privileged.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us?
No Ammonite, Moabite, or any of their descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, not even in the tenth generation. V 3
Ruth was able to enter in because of the hesed love of God for her and her part in the story of Jesus. We can enter into the family of God even though we are not biological Jews or their descendants because Jesus made it possible for us. We have been grafted into the family of God and have Jesus as our older brother.
I love this verse: Listen, my beloved brothers, has not God chosen those poor in the world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom, which he has promised to those who love him? James 2:5
Ruth was rich in faith and loved God!
16. Boaz says to Ruth: “under whose wings you have come to take refuge.” What do you remember that Paige shared about this concerning Jesus?
I am not sure if I remembered what she said but it had to do something with the scarred hands of Jesus on the cross. He spread them out like wings so he could be my refuge and he would cover me and shelter me.
17. I’m sure Paige will point this out next week, but the same Hebrew word that is translated as wings by Boaz is translated as “corner of your garment” in Ruth 3:9. Write down everything you see through this.
When we come to Jesus, we are under His protective “wings”.
This is radioactive for me!
“I will greatly rejoice in the LORD; my soul shall exult in my God, for he has clothed me with the garments of salvation; he has covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decks himself like a priest with a beautiful headdress, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.” Isaiah 61:10 ESV
I also remember that the woman who had a bleeding issue said to herself if I only could touch his garment… “ And, behold, a woman, which was diseased with an issue of blood twelve years, came behind him, and touched the hem of his garment: For she said within herself, If I may but touch his garment, I shall be whole.” Matthew 9:20-21 Wholeness under the cover of His garment!
Ruth is asking Boaz to be her protector and provider.
I have listened to Paige and am so excited to hear what she had to say about the “corner of your garment”. I will not spill the beans here!
Paige is so fun!
I had not even noticed the fact that Bias was protecting Ruth without her knowing, until you mentioned it. There’s just so much richness to our combined comments.
What a memory of that woman caring for your son at a time of great need. God is so good!
Friday: The Scarred Hands of The Shepherd
18. Paige and her family had been singing to her dad, and she said every hymn referenced heaven. Have you noticed that? Do you have a favorite that talks about heaven?
I saw a list of 57 songs about Heaven from The Gospel Coalition. The hymn “When We All Get to Heaven” is a favorite and this one, “No More Night” by Christian Edition.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AwA9rdr3fU&t=137s
19. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Paige compared Naomi to Kevin in “Home Alone.” Her eyes pop out. How do you see the shock in her?
I got goosebumps rereading this passage. I can just sense a stirring in Naomi’s heart. “Could it be that the Lord is mindful of us?” Boaz! One of our relatives! In her grief, having a relative to redeem them and their land hasn’t even entered her mind. And who would care for such destitutes?
B. How do you see God restoring Naomi’s soul?
When she exclaimed, “He has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead.” I thought it was kind of uncanny for Naomi to include “the dead” in this statement. But since family is very important, Naomi was awakening from her despondency as she looked back on her loss over the deaths of her husband and her two sons.
C. How do you see her warming toward Ruth?
She shows her concern for Ruth when she says, “It will be good for you, my daughter, to go with the women who work for him because, in someone else’s field, you might be harmed.” Almost like she saw Ruth as a person and in a different light.
20. What was her point in her story about Richard Burton?
Richard said he knew the psalm, but the pastor knew the Shepherd after both of them recited the same. It is one thing to have a head knowledge of what the Bible has to say about Jesus, as our Shepherd; another to experience His hands in our lives. Our personal experiences of the goodness and greatness of God can be reflected in our faces and how we see our stories.
14. Why do you think Boaz calls Ruth “my daughter” instead of referring to her as a Moabite? Do you remember what Paige said about this?
Maybe he is thinking about us being sons and daughters of God? She would be a daughter because she is younger than him.
15. What does Deuteronomy 23:3-6 say? Why do you think Ruth was able to enter in? How does this apply to us?
Iit says you must never promote the welfare of the Moabites. Hmmmm….confusing for sure. Ruth was part of the family of Elimenech, so perhaps she is accepted as one of them? We aren’t Israelites either. We are included.
This is actually so beautiful — she is no longer a Moabite but a new creation in Christ, for He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Yes!