Seek happiness, and it’s like chasing the wind.
Seek righteousness in the Lord and get happiness thrown in.
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Psalm 1 is not just the doorway to Psalms, but to the whole Bible, and to the secret of an abundant life.
God wants us to thrive, to be blessed, and happy. And Psalm 1 shows us how. Keller has 7 sermons on Psalm 1. All wonderful, but I’ve chosen this one. I’ve also bought his transcripts up to 2019, so they are in a little different form than in the past, and I’ve divided it by days for your study convenience. But we will only do Keller occasionally — we have other great resources.
Welcome newcomers — I hope you stay with us! This is a great and welcoming group.
Here is the audio link:
https://gospelinlife.com/sermon/the-search-for-happiness/
Here is the transcript to download and print:
Correct Search for Happiness
It’s always fun when our blog sisters get together in person. Patti and Bing (Ernema) met up in person in Seattle for breakfast. The second picture shows Bing’s daughter, Ruth, and their Seattle friends Caleb and Danny.
In July you will need to have the book: A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23. Right now it is only 1.79 on Amazon! They just dropped their price.
Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances….this last week?
Sing the following song to the tune of Ode to Joy (Joyful, Joyful, We Adore You.) This is from A Metrical Psalter by Julie and Timothy Tennent. I hope you sing it daily! We are loving doing this in our church. I think you can have memorized by the end of the week!
Bless-ed is the one who does not walk within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
Monday: The Text
Bless-ed is the one who does not wal within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described?
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
F. What is the outcome for each?
G. What strikes you for your life?
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
B. What stands out and why?
Tuesday: What Does the Bible Tell Us About Happiness?
Bless-ed is the one who does not wal within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
Listen or read Tuesday’s section.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
8. What else stands out to you from this section?
Wednesday: Why do so few people have happiness?
Bless-ed is the one who does not wal within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point?
13. What else stands out and why?
Thursday: Happiness Can Never Be Found Directly
Bless-ed is the one who does not wal within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness?
15. What verses support this?
16. Does your life support this?
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain.
18. What else stands out and why?
Friday: Happiness is Something You Choose
Bless-ed is the one who does not wal within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
19. What does Keller say about the 3 verbs in verse 1 of Psalm 1?
20. What does it mean to be subject to seasons yet to have roots?
21. Who owns you? Who calls the tunes in your life? Ask Him.
22. Do you know how to “play the gospel?” What does he mean?
23. Why are Christians happier and sadder at the same time?
24. Pray verses 1-3 (the song) for yourself — and for one other person.
Saturday:
Sing the song without looking at it.
25. How might you apply this psalm to our study this summer?
26. What is your take-a-way? Why?
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Sunday: There were simple answers to prayers this week, a blessed reunion with the daughter and her infant son of my friend who passed from cancer, traveling mercies down to Milwaukee to a Jazz concert with family, a slow leak discovered from a nail, with a major trip this week. At first I struggled with this question because I was like ‘there was no major God appearances’, but what a goof I am, not to be grateful for all the little prayers I prayed.
So true, Tammy — seeing Him in the details!
Love all the hugs you got this past week Tammy.
I love your gratitude for the little answers, Tammy. I know you were a big answer to the daughter of your dear friend.
Tammy, little and big prayers-the Lord hears them all!
Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances….this last week? – Two years ago I met a new friend in our new hometown. We hit if off from the start and have become close. She has come to our Ladies Bible studies and done things with our Ladies Group at Church. I slowly started to answer questions she had and talked about salvation. She started to come to church with us and today, was her first day serving in our children’s ministry. God is good and He is working in her heart each day. It’s such a blessing to see her eager to learn and not afraid to ask questions. She is now praying for her husband, daughter and son to see what God is doing in her life for them to join her. I know He can, if hearts are open and willing.
I’m also excited to do Psalm 23, our Ladies Bible Study group did it a couple of summers ago.
Love this friendship story, Julie.
Such joy to see God is blessing your friendship and drawing your friend to Jesus through you, Julie.
What a wonderful blessing of friendship. Thanks for sharing!
Wonderful story about your new friend, Julie!
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances….this last week? It was a hard week. My sil had a stroke. I talked to her the next day. She was doing well, things were optimistic maybe 10 days in rehab, but she started to slur words towards end of our conversation, Her condition did worsen and when I talked with her yesterday she is not doing as well and rehab will be a much longer and harder journey. I was left with sorrow for her and for her family. Today in church we were asked to sit quietly and to think about God as Father. God’s Presence held me close to let me know He is near.
Love the pictures you attached. So glad Patti and Bing had time together. Also like the idea of singing each day before doing my lesson though it will be a challenge for me to sing after the first few words to the tune of Joyful, Joyful. I will still enjoy and not send any audio clips.
So funny, Judy, about not sending the audio clip of you singing! That made me laugh out loud and I’m so glad Dee doesn’t require that as part of our participation as I would bow out immediately!! Only my dogs heard me singing it twice tonight!!! On a more serious note, I’m so sorry about your sister-in-law. But I want to also sit and meditate on what it means to have God as my father. I usually try to do that each year but have found myself rushed and stressed through this day and haven’t taken the time to do so. I shall do it before I lay my head on my pillow tonight, for the thought is so very precious to me.
Miriam, I hope you found the time to meditate. I’m still blessed today.
Praying for your sister and you Judy. Sorrowful time, yet we do not grieve without hope.
I will pray for a good recovery for your sister in law, Judy. And I will join you in not sending audio of my singing! 🙂
Lord we lift up Judy’s sister in law and ask that you cover her with your healing touch. Fix any iniquities that are in her body and return her to your completeness Lord. Bring peace, comfort and strength to her and her family and provide wisdom to her medical team so they know how to treat her with a successful recovery. In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.
Judy, praying for you and your SIL. May God comfort both of you.
Thank you, ladies for the prayers.
Judy, praying for your sister-in-law, for complete recovery and healing, and comfort and strength for her journey ahead. I’m so sorry.
Oh, how timely this study of Psalm 1 is for me. I started a personal study of what the Bible defines as happiness, in stark contrast to how happiness is defined by the world. It’s been quite interesting and eye-opening so far. I love the simplicity of Psalm 1 and really like how you said it is a synopsis of the Scriptures and life itself. How helpful! I also like very much the metrical psalter rendering of the first 3 verses!
And how much I enjoyed seeing the photo of the lovely Bing and Patti! I’m so jealous as I would also LOVE to see these ladies in person one day!
One day, Miriam, if not here, then there, we will meet face to face.
Amen! One day we will all meet, face to face! It will be glorious!
Oh, Missy! One of these days! I so wish everyone was just a skip and a jump from me!
Dee! I love the Ode to Joy Psalm!!
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described?
Joyful, prosperous and sinner, wicked.
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
Follow, stand, or join.
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
I am prone to have no self-control at times. That would be sitting in sin, I believe.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
They are like trees, bearing fruit, never withering, and prosperous always.
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
They are like the chaff, scattered by the wind.
F. What is the outcome for each?
The Lord watches over the Godly. They are prosperous.
The wicked are condemned.
G. What strikes you for your life?
I’m probably a little of both, but I’m becoming more and more like the joyful person 😉.
I admire your faithfulness to the lessons, Laura! And honesty.
Hi, Laura! I love the Ode to Joy Psalm, too! Did you come up with a dance yet? (smile)
Oh Bing! That is good! I now have to do it (especially since I am DONE with school)!
Does that mean you actually retired, Laura? I sure hope so. I love to hear of people retiring as it spurs me on for hope of light at the end of this long work tunnel!
No Missy, I will actually retire in a couple more years. Looking very forward to it! Done with school for this year. I am working on a graduate course however that is kicking my behind. Although I have a masters degree, I am trying to earn extra credits, as my district pays us better when we do that.
Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances….this last week?
—Recently I set up a small room in my home as my own space with a small desk and comfortable chair. But I’d had to give it up to be used over the last few weeks by my son in-law to do his job for the 10 days he and my daughter and their boys were visiting us and then again while our youngest granddaughters stayed for a week. The room has a daybed with a trundle and the girls wanted to sleep close to my bedroom. So now this past week with a quiet house again I was able to retreat there in the early morning and I am finding it to be a place where I can experience the presence of God. Beginning the study on Psalms this past week was timely and refreshing to my soul in my own little corner of the world.
Love this way of singing Psalm 1.
Thanks for sharing it and leading us to use it in private worship this week.
Bless-ed is the one who does not walk within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
Ok Just wondering. As I started the Monday lesson and was reading the transcript I wasn’t being able to tie it to the first question (3 A) about our ancestors and us. So then I listened and find they are not lining up. The transcript starts talking about Psalm 1 as the gate keeper for the entire Bible and the book of Psalms. He talks about next sermon being from Psalm 1 and What does it mean to be planted. Then he goes on to tell about the guy who preached at his wedding using Psalm 1.
I assume that this transcript is perhaps later in the sermon?
EVERYONE! BEV ALERTED ME I HAD THE WRONG TRANSCRIPT UP — NOW THE CORRECT ONE IS UP. THANK YOU BEV AND SO SORRY FOR THE CONFUSION.
Not a problem. Frankly I admire your use of technology. I know enough to make me dangerous but stumble through quite a bit. My husband been dragging me along kind of kicking and screaming with all the technology changes on computers and cell phones over the years. It is his thing not mine. 🥴😊
Oh, I LOVE that you now have your own private little room where you meet with God!
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances….this last week
My oldest granddaughter has been training for a year to climb Mt. Rainier this summer. She had her most difficult “pre-climbing” trek, was in a snow storm. They slept in tents at a high elevation, but it was a very steep climb to do in a storm. I am so grateful that the Lord protected her and gave her the strength to get through it. She said she prayed a lot during the two days on the mountain. God is good.
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described?
The sinners and the righteous
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
The verbs are: walk, stand and sit.
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
Sadly, sin can look like a something enjoyable, but any sin in my life has always caused hurt and pain for others and/or for me. There is always a result for my choice. If I over indulge in sweets, I have to pay the price on the scale. If I am not careful with my words, I can crush another person.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
The one who is in the Word of God is like a tree firmly planted by the water. This one’s life yields fruits and withstands the storms that come against her, because she is close to the source, the everlasting water of life. She trusts the Lord, does His will, her life bears fruit. What she produces is spiritual fruit, relationships, building God’s kingdom. Spiritual fruit is eternal.
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
The wicked produce only what is useless “chaff” in God’s world, and they will not be able to withstand God’s judgment when it comes. Their lifestyle is self focused and does nothing useful for others; it builds nothing for the kingdom of God; it only breaks down and tears apart; this life becomes like ashes that blow away and disappear in the wind. What they produce will perish.
F. What is the outcome for each?
The blessed man has the promise of eternal life with God; the wicked shall perish.
G. What strikes you for your life?
I know I need to stay in His Word daily; I falter easily for there are many subtle temptations in this world and many voices telling us what we should think and do…especially for “self”. I think staying disciplined in a good routine helps me. And listening to things that are edifying.
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
We used to value our ancestors and ancient traditions, now we believe that humans and great technology can solve world problems.
B. What stands out and why?
Some things are better, we are safer and some slavery has been abolished. There are new people coming to know the Lord, though many people are satisfied to seek fame and fortune, leaving God totally out of the picture. We hide and fail to address problems that are based on relationships. There is so much loneliness, confusion and unhappiness everywhere. There is a lack of clarity of truth.
This is the most important time in history to turn our hearts toward the Word of God. It is our only place of rest in our current world.
Oh Patti, I would have been praying too on a mountain in a storm. YIKES!
And my daughter and I were praying a lot too! 🙂 So thankful!
Oh my. Thank you Lord.
So thankful to hear about your granddaughter being protected during the storm. God is good, indeed, Patti! When are they starting the climb?
Oh wow Patti! I am familiar with Mt. Rainer and have several nephews and a close friend who rock climb and mountain climb. One of my nephews had gotten a little older (late 30s) and a little heavier and did not train as well as he should have. He tried Mt. Ranier but passed out almost to the top. He tried to talk his brother and the other climbers to finish the climb and pick him up on the way down. They absolutely refused and all turned around and took him back down the mountain. A very humbling experience for him but a strong demonstration of love by his younger brother and his friends. You have a brave granddaughter. I admire mountain climbers. It is a very disciplined skill. Praise God for his care in the snow storm.
And I think your answer to question 2 section G is very insightful. My neighbor Christy is seeing a secular Psychologist and I realize she is being led down a path of self help thinking. I am trying to help her see her real need is to look to Jesus and his Word for the answers to her needs.
So glad your granddaughter is safe. Inspirational and brave to climb Mt Rainer, I got nervous at Willis tower when I was standing on the glass outset.
Patti! I am glad your grand made it! I have climbed Rainier a very long time ago. But, I was a stupid 24-ish young adult when I did it. I was with my boyfriend and he was an avid outdoorsman. He and I climbed and camped at Lake George. We climbed and saw a glacier. I can’t really remember it, but we never took a course! Granted, we were on trails, not grappling (is that actually a “thing?”). It was a lot of fun. Those were the days when I was not in tune with God. BUT, He was ALWAYS in tune with me. He had bigger plans for me. He has always protected me. Thank You Lord, Jesus. I love You ♥️.
Thank you all for your loving posts! This was is last “Pre trek” and it was on El Dorado, which is on Mt. Baker. I think she is brave and she is learning to trust God this year, which is so good to see!
Monday: The Text
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described? – The righteous and the wicked
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1? – ‘does not walk’, ‘stand in the way’, ‘sit in the seat’
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present. – When I was a new believer, I would read books or watch movies that were way too explicit in sexual content and I really didn’t think too much about it. But know I get very uncomfortable about both of them.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God) – He is like a tree planted by streams of water who yields fruit and leaves down wither.
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked? -They are like chaff that the wind blows away.
F. What is the outcome for each? – Those who stand with the Lord will prosper and those who don’t will not be able to stand through the judgement and wrath of God.
G. What strikes you for your life? – I am not a confrontational person so I do not want to ever have to stand in the wrath of God. I want my life to strive toward righteousness and prosper
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us? – Our ancestors were happier than we are in today’s world. We have things that make our lives easier, but I think it just brings more problems, more stress wanting the next best thing that we can’t afford to have. They had a much simpler life, though it was hard work, but they enjoyed each other because they didn’t have ‘things’ to try and make them happy. Fellowship was important to our ancestors.
B. What stands out and why? – Technology has come in to our lives to make things easier, but I think the stress levels have risen. We have more stress to try and make money to afford the next newest invention before anyone else. My husband and I watch on YouTube a channel called Celebrating Appalachia and I love the life they have. They garden and produce their own food as much as possible. Their daughters live right there with them across the stream and so does their granny. It brings me back to a place where we sat out with the neighbors and made ice cream and just had slower pace of fun that was ‘free’. We choose to put ourselves in a fast paced life or an enjoyable life where we can sit and see what God has created around us.
“Fellowship was important to our ancestors.” I see even in my lifetime how fellowship, the kind of getting together like I knew as a child has changed drastically. Socializing was a lot simpler for us in those days.
Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances….this last week?
Sing the following song to the tune of Ode to Joy (Joyful, Joyful, We Adore You.) This is from A Metrical Psalter by Julie and Timothy Tennent. I hope you sing it daily! We are loving doing this in our church. I think you can have memorized by the end of the week!
Bless-ed is the one who does not walk within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
Answer to prayer: Getting back into the circadian rhythm without much trouble for Ruth and me after our trip to the Philippines.
Experiencing the joy of the Lord in seeing people I love at our first Bible Study on James last Wednesday.
Experiencing the presence of God while I was working in my garden. Feeling the clumps of dirt in my hands, smelling basil and rosemary thanking Him for making my plants grow while I was away.
I love the Metrical Psalter, Dee! Thank you!
Bing so glad getting back home has gone well. And feeling clumps of dirt in your hands sounds like my sweet daughter in-law. I was just at her house and she was out in the garden pulling weeds and had dirt on her hands doing something she absolutely loves. 😊
Love your answers to prayer, Bing!! God is so good!! So sweet: Experiencing the presence of God while I was working in my garden. Feeling the clumps of dirt in my hands, smelling basil and rosemary thanking Him for making my plants grow while I was away.
SUNDAY
▪ How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances…this last week?
Over the weekend, I sensed God giving me an answer to prayer – or at least another breadcrumb on the journey He has me on. It was an answer I didn’t want to hear. But God also spoke to me about the story of the widow in Ezekiel who had very little flour left for herself and her son, and Ezekiel asked her to make him a cake and I imagine her response was like, “Out of WHAT??” But turns out, she had just enough. Over and over again. And then I thought of the verse in 2 Corinthians 12 where Paul asks for God to remove the thorn and God says no, but that His grace is enough, and His power is made perfect in Paul’s weakness. I’ve been dealing with things that I wish would end, feeling like I don’t have enough to give to them anymore. I keep waking up to the same day, but I also keep waking up to more grace, just enough for that day. Lamentations 3 is an encouragement as well. The struggles bring me a gift of God’s sustenance and grace. Daily.
I love the song for Psalm 1. Thanks, Dee.
Ali, I love this: I keep waking up to the same day, but I also keep waking up to more grace, just enough for that day.
Yes Ali, most of life is very daily and sometimes not easily so. But there is no end to God’s grace for each day.
So good, Ali!
Oh, I love your entire post, Ali! It reminds of an interview I heard about the making of “The Chosen” and the olive oil press. How the third pressing is the hardest, yet it brought the best oil. I relate to your post, in that this past year, I have had a time of great pressing in my life, and yet God is there, He has a purpose and His daily grace sustains me. Thank you for sharing this and these great verses. Psalm 1 is truly powerful.
Oh how I love the Chosen. Thank you for that reminder.
Ali I can sense your struggles and love how God is always there for you in a greater abundance each morning.
Monday: The Text
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described?
—The righteous person and the wicked person.
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
—Walking, Standing and Sitting.
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
—When I think of life in my past there are more than I like to remember but one was sitting at a friend’s table drinking coffee and participating in gossip. It makes me feel sick inside today to think of it.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
—One of being like a tree planted by a stream of water that is fruitful and has abundant healthy leaves.
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
—They are like dried up bits of chaff that blow away easily with the wind.
F. What is the outcome for each?
—In the coming time of judgement the wicked will not be able to remain and stand in the place where the righteous are with God. The righteous are known by God. But the wicked will perish and be gone.
G. What strikes you for your life?
—Being counted as one of the righteous is an unbelievable privilege. I know I can claim that because of Jesus and Jesus alone. He took my sin to the Cross and died for me so that when I put my faith in Him I received his righteousness and it became my own. He covered my sin with his blood and I stand righteous before a Holy God who is now my Father only because of the righteousness of Jesus. It’s the Gospel and it’s amazing.
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
—Ancient Traditions were valued as well as having respect for the older generations.
The ancients thought wisdom was accumulated over the ages.
The modern age is characterized by scorn of things in the past. Keller said an unparalleled scorn. In the modern mindset human reason and empirical investigation are considered the way to getting truth. The attitude is that they have all the tools now to be able to solve the present and mysteries of life.
B. What stands out and why?
—The fact that modern man is not any happier in spite of their supposed “progress”. Today there is more self-pity, boredom, meaninglessness and despair compared to the journals and diaries written by our ancestors.
Love your answer to G Bev.
agree, loved your answer to G, Bev. what a beautiful gift we have in Jesus!
A. What are the two kinds of people described? The righteous and the wicked.
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1? Walk in the advice of the wicked, stand in the pathway with sinners, sit in the company of mockers
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present. Sometimes in a small group of people it’s tempting to get drawn into gossip or even ask questions that encourage it.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God) like a tree planted beside flowing streams, that bears its fruit in season.
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked? chaff that the wind blows away.
F. What is the outcome for each? Righteous prosper, wicked come to ruin.
G. What strikes you for your life? I want the Lord watching over my life.
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us? Ancestors worked hard, had fewer conveniences, not technology, less safe, and yet their diaries and journals indicate little self-pity, boredom or despair. Though we have more educational opportunities, advances in social justice there is no evidence we are happier..
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
Our ancestors believed that the traditions, elderly and former generations were to be valued. Not so much for modern peoples.
B. What stands out and why?
We have been told that through the modern,“enlightenment” age that we would become a better society. We would have the answers to questions and mysteries of life.
He says we can make a case for our ancestors being happier than we are today.
We don’t have the answers to many questions, and we aren’t as happy as our ancestors! Wow. You would think in this technological age that we could overcome some of that. I wish we treated the elderly as they should be treated, with reverence.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
I think I am probably, underneath it all, a happy person. I am blessed for sure. I don’t long for things others have. I have a roof over my head, clothes and food, and my good husband. There is meaning to my life. I am trying to tell many about God so they know about eternity. I so wish I had more self-control though. When I stay away from my idols I am much more happy for sure!
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
Blessed, fulfilled, satisfied.
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
They are the most cynical.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
Christians know that happiness is possible. We keep our eyes on Jesus. He gave Himself for us. The answer is always Jesus. We meditate on that. Our lives are eternal. We can be surrounded by filth and still be happy because of Him. There is hope.
8. What else stands out to you from this section?
Keller’s description of Shakespearean plays! He’s so funny. “Or is life more like Hamlet, with everybody dying disappointed in the last scene?”
“… but when you stand in the presence of Hamlet or Macbeth, you know you’re standing in the presence of a much more profound mirror of what things are like.”
I am thinking of Keller and his brood (wife, son, friend) playing car karaoke! What a silly thing, but so sweet at the same time. That is happiness. I wish I had a family that was whimsical like that.
Oh Laura — I would think you could with your musical talent! Though I know it is about the heart too.
Tuesday: What Does the Bible Tell Us About Happiness?
Listen or read Tuesday’s section.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
—I can honestly say yes I am and I credit it directly to my relationship with the Lord. I have lived long enough to see that the world does not have a spirit of joy in spite of all its ways. You only get temporary happiness at best. It does not last or satisfy the soul. True delight is found in the words and ways of God.
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
— It means joyful, fulfilled, satisfied.
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
—People of the world think if you are good enough, smart enough, hardworking enough then happiness will be a natural result but those who seemingly have made it are actually the most cynical people.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
—The secret of happiness is found in people who understand what the Bible says that happiness is possible in a relationship with God and with Jesus as our Savior.
8. What else stands out to you from this section?
—His comments that “if you read the psychology books and the urban planning books and the sociology books and even the biochemistry books and the political science books, do you know what they’re really about? Oh, they have big words. They have paradigms. They’re all about the problem: we’re not happy.”
As I mentioned in a post yesterday my friend and neighbor Christy is seeking answers from Psychologists and Psychiatrists. Which are all directing her toward self help philosophies. I see how she is so focused on herself and just wanting to be happy and wanting to feel good. The rubber is starting to meet the road in our relationship because I talk a lot about Jesus and that he is the answer to all her needs and the needs of her family. I think she is a bit bored of hearing that even though she knows it is true.
None of you really know the dynamics of my personality which has been toned down considerably since my younger years by the Lord. I have tended towards being dogmatic and offended some in my family. But at 75 years of age I am not going to be quiet about Jesus when I see clearly He is the answer. Pray for me as I seek to minister to Christy. I wonder some if she really knows Jesus or just likes the idea of Him and that he can make her “feel” better. He knows and I trust Him to work in her life. I’m going to try and start a Bible study with her on John. It just seems like a good place to start.
Bev, you will be blessed and used by God for your friend Christy to see the truth. I will be praying that He uses you mightily and I know that he is already. Christy is blessed to have you on her side to bring her closer to Christ.
I join Julie in praying for God to bless and direct you, Bev. Christy sound like a sweet person and the world has so many “worldly” answers to happiness. Life on this planet is not easy and I love that you are showing her it is about relationship with Jesus not about a temporary fix. She is blessed to have a loving friend like you.
Bev, I think we may be similar in our way of communicating with others 😉. I am learning to listen more than speak these days. Is Christy a younger person? I find The Chosen a non-“threatening” wonderful way to bring people (especially younger ones) to want to learn more about Jesus. I am praying 🙏🙏🙏.
Tuesday: What Does the Bible Tell Us About Happiness?
Listen or read Tuesday’s section.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you? – I think for the most part I am fundamentally happy, but I struggle at times when I see so much sickness and hurt around me. I don’t try to let that get me down and away from being happy, but it definitely makes me turn to Him more and ask WHY. But as I sit on my back porch, or walk around my home, I’m happy with where God has me at this time in my life. It’s sometimes hard to be away from family, but God has place new ‘family’ in my life where I’m at. And most of all, I’m grateful and happy HE CHOSE ME.
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm? – Here it means blessed, joyful, fulfilled and satisfied. Love this meaning and I think I would add content.
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy? – The world thinks those who have abundance, who have a lot of stuff and are successful are happy and those who aren’t just screwed up their lives.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain. – Happiness is possible, it depends on what we seek after. Who or what are we putting as first in our life. From this Psalm and hearing the different meanings for blessed, makes me want to change my perspective on this life. I can choose to be happy, or I can choose to let the world suck me in and destroy my emotions. But in order for me to choose happy, I need to be focusing on my relationship with God getting stronger. He will be the only constant in my life that can make me happy all the time, and I need to make Him first so he continues to walk beside me.
8. What else stands out to you from this section? – The unrealistic thought that life will be a Hallmark movie, that it will be all roses. It won’t be. We need to be realistic in knowing that it won’t but how we choose to get through the Hamlet times will make the difference in our life. I really feel I have grown to the point of being happy with what God has provided me and where God has me placed right now. Earlier in my walk, I would say that I needed to make things happen and be like others to be happy, but that is not the case and I’m seeing that now in a much brighter light.
“most of all, I’m grateful and happy HE CHOSE ME.” Oh yes Julie, and what an impact that can have on our choices.
Monday
Read Psalm 1:
▪ What are the two kinds of people described?
1) The people who walk, stand and sit with the wicked and the sinners; 2) The people whose delight is in the law of the Lord, the godly
▪ What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
1) Walk; 2) Stand; 3) Sit
▪ Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
It is presently in my life. My example is escaping/running from challenges in my life that will not let up no matter what. I’m exhausted trying to “do the right thing.” So I escape, I run. I go through the motions of my life but it’s all so unfulfilling and draining. My only joy in my days are the moments when I mentally remove myself from the reality and escape. But I feel badly that I find no joy in my family/life responsibilities. I feel like an actor, an imposter.
▪ What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
They are like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither
▪ What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
They are like chaff that the wind blows away.
▪ What is the outcome for each?
The righteous – whatever they do prospers. The wicked – won’t stand in the judgment or in the assembly of the righteous.
▪ What strikes you for your life?
Where I’m planted is fixed and solid, even though the weather (the circumstances) is constantly changing. Also, where do I choose to walk, to stand, to sit? That will determine whether I am rooted in nourishing soil, or weakened chaff blown away by wind.
▪ Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
▪ What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
They had less safety, freedom, comforts, and conveniences, but they were likely more happy than we are.
▪ What stands out and why?
Keller’s statement that what makes us happy or unhappy is profoundly cosmic, spiritual, and have been unchanged for millenia. I’m struck by how life can be so cyclical, but what gets us out of that cycle is choosing to look beyond it and focus on something else. That there is a foundation, a safe place, outside of whatever is going on. Our foundation is outside of it. Sometimes when I’m really overwhelmed, I tell myself “You are the mountain, not the clouds” and imagine myself like a mountain with the “clouds” of circumstance moving past me. It helps me find my footing. Hearing the reminder that happiness is not the goal but a byproduct of being rooted in Jesus, helps me take the pressure off of trying to control the elements. Which I often try to do, because I’m always trying to make my environment safe, comfortable, and peaceful. But control is an illusion.
I can so relate to this; very true of me too, Ali! Hearing the reminder that happiness is not the goal but a byproduct of being rooted in Jesus, helps me take the pressure off of trying to control the elements. Which I often try to do, because I’m always trying to make my environment safe, comfortable, and peaceful. But control is an illusion.
Ali, I don’t feel that I have a complete enough understanding of what’s going on in your life to have the right to speak into it but want you to know that I read your post, and I hear your pain. You say you are exhausted and drained and find your only escape is by mentally removing yourself from the reality. It sounds like you are in a very hard place right now. I can relate to the trying to escape mentally. My situation was different from yours, I am sure, but I used to escape my unhappiness and disappointment by slipping into daydreaming and fantasizing. Then, I heard a talk by a woman who said something that stuck with me. She said, “God is a God of reality, and He will meet you in reality.”
Susan,
I have the same issue that you described. It began in childhood when I was powerless to change the circumstances I was raised in. It has continued on and off and had become increasingly problematic due to circumstances that my younger unhealed self ignorantly committed to, that I’m still in. Circumstances that have been really difficult to get any distance from, and I am feeling the wear and tear from it. So my reality has become the enemy. Four years ago I hit a new low and nearly took my own life because of it all, but then put myself in therapy with a great therapist who helped me process my past and find some footing, along with all the ways in which God has helped me. God walked with me back through my past, and now it seems God is walking me through addressing the present, in which those circumstances and difficult relationships make for some difficult days for me.
Susan, I want to tell you that over the past couple of weeks, I have “received” (meaning, it seems God has sent them my way) three statements, coming at me in random places (1 & 2 from the same source). I am not a person who normally says (out loud) that God spoke to me but I have suspected and wondered, keeping it to myself. I can be skeptical. But when the same thing comes up again and again, I notice. Here are the three statements:
1. “Reality is where God lives.” (Andy Squyres. He is a lyrical poet/musician and writes some beautiful songs. Saw him in concert last month.)
2. “Reality is where the mercy of God flows.” (Andy Squyres)
3. “Evil loves nothing more than for us to use our imaginations to live someplace else, and in another time than the one we actually occupy, because it knows that the moment we decide we’re going to live in the real world where we actually are, this is where God is. And this is where God can act.” (Curt Thompson. He’s an author, doctor, therapist, neuroscientist, and has a podcast I love called “Being Known”)
And then today, I see your comment in which you said, “God is a God of reality, and He will meet you in reality.” Totally unexpected, and rushed at me like a freight train in the best of ways. Because I’ve been sensing God calling me to join Him in my reality, that He’s waiting for me to join Him in it and stay, so He can act. Join God in reality versus protect myself in isolation? Actually not the easiest decision for me to make, after the years (YEARS!) of me praying to God every day to help, rescue, change things, etc. But I want to be with God. So I have to trust Him. This is what’s been going through my mind the past few days. And then I see your comment. Boom. Not a coincidence, in my opinion. Thank you for your words, your encouragement. God used you to help me sense His presence in all this and I’m really grateful.
WOW Ali – this is really powerful. I have heard of Curt Thompson through him being a guest on a podcast I had listened to. The quote I mentioned, I heard years ago on the radio, from a talk given by Luci Swindoll, the sister of pastor Chuck Swindoll. I have to tell you that the third quote you mentioned above really struck me. There was a time in which I was so unhappy in my marriage that I was escaping into fantasizing all the time, until God brought me to a place where I was totally miserable, and when I got on my knees and asked Him, “Why can’t I just be happy like I was a couple of years ago?” He answered me with a question (in my mind), “And what were you so happy about?” That’s when I realized what I had been doing, and the sin I was steeped in. Yet even for a while, I rationalized, as in okay, so I know the snake is poisonous, I will just be more careful with it. I didn’t want to totally give it up. It took a while and God removed a certain person from my life.
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful ways in which God is reaching out to you! It sure sounds like He is on the move in your life.
Monday: The Text
Bless-ed is the one who does not walk within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described?
The one who delights is in the law of the Lord and the one who walks with the wicked, sinners, and mockers.
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
Walk, stand, and sit
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
Realizing that I have been comfortable with entertaining a grudge against someone because of the hurt they caused me. That I have not taken the step toward unconditional love.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
Like a tree planted by streams of water
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
Like chaff that the wind blows away
F. What is the outcome for each?
For the one who delights in the law, will be fruitful in season and will prosper
For the other, destruction.
G. What strikes you for your life?
I want to be fruitful for the Lord, prosper in my spirit, and spend more time meditating on God’s Word.
3. Listen and/or read the introduction. (You can do it simultaneously!)
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
Our ancestors: most cultures put a lot of stock in their ancient traditions and also put a lot of value on their former and previous generations, and even their older folk because for many, many years all cultures believed wisdom was something that was accumulated over the ages. Therefore, they cherished their ancient traditions.
Us: “Human reason and empirical investigation, that will get us the truth. Now we have the tools with which we will really be able to solve the problems and mysteries of life.”
B. What stands out and why?
We are not in any way happier than our ancestors with all the modern stuff we now have. With technology comes scams and hacks which can send us into mistrust, more stress, suspiciousness, and unhappiness. I think of the book of Ecclesiastes. All of these strivings are meaningless unless we find meaning in who we are in Christ.
I love singing the Ode to Joy Psalm!
Oh, Bing! I love your answer to B. So true about technology! I have been thinking of Ecclesiastes too, as I have read/listened to Keller!
Love this: I think of the book of Ecclesiastes. All of these strivings are meaningless unless we find meaning in who we are in Christ.I love singing the Ode to Joy Psalm!
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you? I think that I am. Though grieving I know I can read the Bible and His comfort will come. Working on the Bible studies in this blog also helps. It also allows me to be grateful for His many blessings and the many good things He has done and is doing in my life.
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm? Blessed
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy? If I’m good, smart, or hardworking enough, happiness is natural.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain. Our delight is in the Lord and that is where are thoughts should dwell. Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable to the Lord.
8. What else stands out to you from this section? That people end up seeing happiness as unachievable. It’s a sad condition for people.
“Though grieving I know I can read the Bible and His comfort will come.” Judy what a fundamental truth. Looking to God’s Word is so critical to our lives as our source of comfort. Praying for you comfort in your grief.
Amen to this Judy. Praying for you, Judy. I feel exactly the same way. Though grieving I know I can read the Bible and His comfort will come. Working on the Bible studies in this blog also helps. It also allows me to be grateful for His many blessings and the many good things He has done and is doing in my life.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
I am basically a happy person. I desire to be grateful to our Mighty God. I desire to follow Him, (even though I mess up a lot) even though I know that it might not make me “happy”, it will help me to be a more joyful person in spite of circumstances. The kind of happiness the world seeks seems more inclined to things that make you “feel” good in a temporary way.
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
Blessed ~ means joyful
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
People who appear to the world to be successful, well to do, attractive, smart etc….are often cynical.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
It is not about what we have or attain, what lofty goals we reach in our career or our income. Happiness, feeling blessed and joyful are truly based on the ways I see God and the world He has created. It is really about how you see what your life and your purpose here on earth. It is not always about how we “feel”, as feelings can be like a roller coaster. It is not always about our circumstances, because they are everchanging, but more about our desire to be what God wants us to be for His kingdom. I see this in how we spend our time, what we read, meditate on and what we think about. So much of how we think about God and our commitment to Him, is what we become and how we relate to others in the world.
8. What else stands out to you from this section?
I love this question and the discussion! This is a subject that I have discussed with my children so often over the years! “I just want to be happy”…..has been a recurring phrase in discussions with my children and grandchildren. I have always felt that loving and trusting God, being consistently in His Word, helps us to understand how blessed we are and it is what enables us to love others. Spending time with other Christians is always iron sharpening iron.
Such good thoughtful answers, Patti. Love your response to 7.
Patti, yes, your answer to #7 is very insightful. Happiness can’t be based on how we feel at any given time, and it can’t be based on our circumstances as they always change. Nor will earthly successes bring us happiness forever.
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
The tree is rooted in the Earth. It was put there by someone else, not by us. It always has access to the water, in every season. What’s more, it is rooted in something besides itself. We have this rooted-ness as well. We can tap into it at all times, in every season. Happiness is not based on circumstances.
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
We can tap into God at any time. The tree is juxtaposed in that it has dry seasons and fruitful seasons.
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
Joy comes from being stimulated by affliction. However, we have to draw down into our roots (Him) more during the times of drought to rise above the pain. This is a person who has fundamental joy. Not a superficial joy. We have to draw closer to Him in these times.
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point?
I guess on the outside he showed weathering and sorrow, but on the inside he could see joy underneath? I have not read the book myself. Keller says happiness is not circumstantial but rather deep within and a part of us.
13. What else stands out and why?
He made me think about how some (myself included) should not say that “…everything will be ok…” and have this false, sense of good outcome to their situation. For a Christian, we know the bad times will come and somehow we will prevail in the end. We must wait, be patient, and be cognizant of how He moves in our lives. It is not an easy process.
I have a colleague who is not really a believer in God, but more into “karma” and such. She is SO emotional and struggles throughout the school year due to the high pressure of our job. I have been there as a believer. Teaching can consume you. I have said to her, “It will be okay.” She gets SO mad at me when I say that! I am thinking, as a Christian, that I know it is going to be hard but the outcome will come, eventually, and things will be worked out (one way or another) because God has the plan. I’m not sure I am making sense here. I have thought recently that I shouldn’t encourage her anymore since it doesn’t seem to help. Or, should I say something like, “I know it’s hard right now, but it will work itself out eventually?” Tough situation.
She probably is just looking for empathy and not a solution –and that might help your relationship get stronger since she’s got a wall about the truth now.
Wednesday: Why do so few people have happiness?
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
—A tree planted by the riverbank is different because even though it’s circumstances change by being subject to the seasons its roots have access to a constant source of water that keeps it green and alive even in winter or very dry summer. So it is with the godly person rooted in the Lord who is his source of life even in the hard and dry times of life.
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
—As Christians we are planted and rooted in something, rather in SomeOne who is from the outside into us and has become part of us. We are rooted into God. As partakers of the divine nature that is where we draw our happiness from.
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
—There are the seasons when the tree is not always fruitful, not blossoming, not always bearing fruit and not always green and wonderful but it is in those times it sends it roots down deeper into the waters and has access to it’s source of life. That is where there is power and strength to endure circumstances that are hard. It is fundamental and not superficial just relying on its circumstances.
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point?
—When he first looked at his face he saw only the lines of care and sorrow; but as he looked more he understood there was actually a great joy underneath that care and sorrow. So it is that our happiness is not based on circumstances or by controlling our environment but we do control our allegiances. Happiness is possible and it is a fundamental not superficial happiness.
13. What else stands out and why?
—“Happiness is based on what you are, not on your circumstances. If you seek it in your circumstances, you will always be unhappy. Back and forth. Manic. “
Such a true statement and easily observed all around us. We live in a manic world but how grateful I am for the water Jesus gives us. I think of the Samaritan woman and what Jesus said to her.
“but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” John 4:14
Love your answers, Bev. Truth. And John 4:14 is such a great reminder of who our source of joy is.
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain. A tree has seasons and in only one will it bear fruit or productive, but it’s planted by water. We will have barren times but if planted near living water we will bear fruit in due season.
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature? We have our roots in God and all Jesus has done for us. We lean on God for the direction in our life. We have the flow of Holy Spirit into our lives.
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that? That our roots still have access to a constant and unremitting flow stream of water. Our happiness isn’t based on circumstances, but under us and inside us. In hard times we learn we have to put our roots deeper into God.
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf..
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
Happiness is not based on what happens to us, but it is based on having the root system to be sustained through the painful times of life. It brings a different outlook and a power; an understanding that is deeper and was not there before. It does not mean you don’t hurt or grieve and experience great heaviness. It is a deep permanent joy, that is rooted in God and it is permanent because it’s source is God. His hand upholds us in the dry seasons and times of sorrow.
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
Happiness is when something is planted into us. We are rooted into God. We draw from something outside of us, not within ourselves.
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
During the dry seasons and droughts, we may not produce fruit, yet we put our roots down into Him deeper than before.
Succinct from Patti: Happiness is not based on what happens to us, but it is based on having the root system to be sustained through the painful times of life.
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12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point?
At first Pippin saw only care and sorrow, yet as he looked closer he saw underneath a mirth and joy. It is always there, it is a way of living with hope and trust in our Father in heaven.
13. What else stands out and why?
It is not about accumulating a fan club or seeking happiness. It is about have the joy as part of you, being fed by the Holy Spirit and God’s Word. Seeking happiness is futile; Joy is received by feeding our souls through a relationship with Jesus.
Thursday: Happiness Can Never Be Found Directly
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness?
—He said “Seek happiness or seek righteousness. Which should you? If you seek righteousness more than happiness you’ll get both. If you seek happiness more than righteousness you’ll get neither.”
Happiness never precedes righteousness. Rather it comes as a result of it.
15. What verses support this?
—Matt 6:33. “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
And Jeremiah 17:7 & 8 “Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord.
“He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.”
Verse 8 is like reading Psalm 1 giving the same metaphor of being like a tree planted by a stream of water. And from that good things result.
16. Does your life support this?
—Yes without a doubt. My personal happiness and joy in life has always been the result of seeking God first. When I try to orchestrate my life in a way that is designed to satisfy myself disappointment is inevitable. I’ve said it here before “Expectations are planned disappointments”
But when I let God lead me and I seek Him and his ways I always find satisfaction in my soul. He has never failed to meet me in my deepest needs. Or for that matter I have observed that to be true in all the believers I know who have a commitment to walk with God and make his ways first in their lives.
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain.
—They either come to Him on the basis of recognizing that they owe everything to God but he owes them nothing. Or they come with the thinking He owes them their happiness. That is their priority and they want to use Him to get it.
I have seen in the believers I know who truly understand their salvation and what it cost God the Father and Jesus our Savior to redeem our souls a contentment and peace that is satisfying to their hearts and minds. They are settled and truly happy about it. But in those who are always looking for something to satisfy themselves apart from knowing God more intimately are restless and far less happy.
18. What else stands out and why?
—Keller said “Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither. Happiness is a byproduct. Happiness is possible.”
We often want Happiness to be a priority when as he said it is a byproduct. But the beauty is that it is possible.
Bev, you answer to 16. is powerful. “Expectations are planned disappointments” But when I let God lead me and I seek Him and his ways I always find satisfaction in my soul. He has never failed to meet me in my deepest needs. ( I need to be cautious not to step on that slippery slope)
Tuesday: What Does the Bible Tell Us About Happiness?
Listen or read Tuesday’s section.
▪ Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
“Fundamentally happy” is difficult to define. So I’m not sure I can say I’m fundamentally happy. I know God is with me. I know that when this life ends I’ll be with God. I’m caring for a parent who hasn’t been a good parent to me. And I’m in a challenging relationship. And my adult children have some challenges I have never been able to fix for them. I spend my days fulfilling obligations but not filling up my own tank at all. And all that bleeds into my atmosphere, all the time. So no, not happy with my circumstances. But some day, I will be. I think the insight of Psalm 1 is just that. I need to keep close to God. And some day, the pain and struggle will be gone and I will be with Jesus.
▪ What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
What version are you reading? I can make comparisons of the words used, but I don’t see how it’s tied to being happy other than being secure and safe in God’s hands and living out of that instead responding to circumstances.
▪ What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
That happiness is natural, and unhappy people screwed up and that’s why they aren’t happy.
▪ This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
I don’t know if it’s the kind of day I’m having or what, but this is a difficult statement to respond to. Happiness is possible, yes, but honestly on some days hearing that sounds more like, “Sure I can read just fine by candlelight.” Maybe I’m having an experience like Yancey did, in which some psalms are so dissonant and hard to hear that he avoided them. I can appreciate that true, unflinching happiness unaffected by circumstances is possible. But honestly, how many of us can say that we’ve been happy in difficult circumstances? Isn’t that why we have the Psalms? Maybe this one is just not the one for me today.
Wednesday: Why do so few people have happiness?
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain. – We are not always going to have peace and be happy, but if we are rooted in God’s Word, we can draw from it when we aren’t to find the happiness and peace only Christ can give. Our emotions are going to be tested in this life, but how we perceive our circumstances will make the difference on if we find the unspeakable joy from God.
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature? – When we became believers, God’s Word and his ways were planted in us. The Word of God was taken from the outside, it was taken as just a book and put in us, as new life. A new way of handling our circumstances and a new way to see things is in us.
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that? – When we are in a ‘drought’ season of life, we can pull from God the strength we need to keep going. We cling to Him even more. We don’t have to show we are happy all the time in times of trouble. That’s being false. We don’t have to pretend, we just need to seek Him, absorb His Word and be replenished in time. We will grow closer to Him in our times of troubles and he will always be there for us.
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point? – I don’t remember or see in the transcript anything on this in this section.
13. What else stands out and why? – Perspective seems to be my word this week. I’ve seen things pop up on how we choose to look at things. That is part of being a true Christian. We will have sorrow, grief and pain. We will have troubled times, but we can’t stay there. I need to seek Him first so he can take me through it. There are lessons to learn in every season that can help me the next time, and possibly help someone else. We were created with emotions that will come out, but the unbelievable joy and happiness can only come from me being rooted in His Word.
I did not see it in the transcript either, Julie. He just referred to a book or play, when he was speaking about Shakespeare plays….. and he has alluded to Tolkien and C.S. Lewis so often, I made the assumption it was from Lord of the Rings, because of the characters mentioned.
Wednesday: Why do so few people have happiness?
▪ Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
I can truly appreciate his exposition on the metaphor. It is so true. The tree goes through seasons, and it’s not always enjoyable, not always “fair winds and following seas.” But its roots are down deep in the soil of the riverbank and therefore never wanting for the nutrition it needs to keep going.
▪ What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
To be rooted in Jesus, his love, security, and identity, no matter what comes. And personally, it helps me to know that my roots in Jesus go deeper than any other undesirable “roots” that may have made their way into my mind, my soul, my psyche, my life.
▪ What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
The roots grow even deeper down and “draw harder” on God. I know this experience intimately. This has been the last four years for me.
▪ What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point?
I’m not a LOTR fan at all. I googled this question, and still don’t understand, other than the fact that Pippin is very young and Gandalf sometimes lashed out at Pippin. I’ll have to read others’ responses on this. I have a block when it comes to LOTR.
Your last response made me smile. Keller was such a fan he says he never stops reading LOTR! Here’s the quote which I love — maybe it will make a LOTR fan. 🙂
Yet in the wizard’s face he saw at first only lines of care and sorrow; though as he looked more intently he perceived that under all there was a great joy: a fountain of mirth enough to set a kingdom laughing, were it to gush forth.”
It reminds me of J. B. Phillips paraphrase “We know sorrow but underneath is an inextinguishable joy.”
Oh I do like that. Also, I had to smile myself when I saw your reference to J. B. Phillips. I love his version of the New Testament.
Best paraphrase in my opinion!
Tuesday: What Does the Bible Tell Us About Happiness?
Bless-ed is the one who does not walk within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in following what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law, he meditates both in the day and in the night.
Listen or read Tuesday’s section.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
I believe I am a fundamentally happy person. Some days when I am not happy, I can usually pinpoint it to not feeling well or hearing about some sad or devastating news. The Lord is good to remind me of His sovereignty and his care.
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
Blessed!
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
People who are good enough, smart enough, hardworking, have money and fame, and are on the top.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
Happiness is possible if we do what the psalmist says: to meditate on God’s law. God’s law gives us a clearer picture of our circumstances from God’s vantage point of view. We know that He is the ultimate King over all and that every knee will bow and every tongue confess that Jesus is Lord of all! Happiness is not based on circumstances but on knowing who God is and how He showed His love to us through the gift of his son. ” He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things? And that includes our blessedness or our happiness! Romans 8:32
8. What else stands out to you from this section?
The blood of Jesus whispers peace within. And we know this peace through His Word.
Love this: the blood of Jesus whispers peace within.
Thursday: Happiness Can Never Be Found Directly
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness? – Happiness can’t be found directly. When we learn to grow more in righteousness, we will become happy. We have to be seeking after something more, to find the happiness from God that we want.
15. What verses support this? – Jeremiah 17:7 – But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. Also I think the beatitudes say it as well.
16. Does your life support this? – I do think my life is getting there more and more. When things come up that are against the feeling I want to be having, I can feel myself get anxious or confused as to why, but I’ve seen that it makes me cry out in a more bold way to Christ for answers. And I usually end up saying something like Lord, you are the almighty, the Great Physician and can do the impossible. We believe and trust that you will.
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain. – Some come to seek God at the negotiating table and will follow him IF…Others come to him to serve Him knowing that by doing that, other things will follow. Happiness, joy, love, all unconditional things that God provides to those who truly seek and follow Him.
18. What else stands out and why? – It opens my eyes to really see and ask God to give me the wisdom I need each and every day. I don’t just want to read the Bible and check the box. I want to find the blessings he has provided to me. I don’t ever want to put God at the negotiations table. I want to live my life knowing that no matter what comes my way, God is in control and circumstances will be resolved in the way he knows it should and I will have what I need to get through them each time because I’m planted in Him.
Thursday: Happiness Can Never Be Found Directly
▪ What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness?
Happiness is a byproduct of seeking something other than happiness. If you pursue happiness more than righteousness you’ll get neither. If you pursue righteousness more than happiness you’ll get both.
▪ What verses support this?
Matt 6:33, “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need.”
Psalm 63:8 (MSG) “I hold onto You for dear life, and You hold me steady as a post.”
Ephesians 5:8-9 “For once you were full of darkness, but now you have light from the Lord. So live as people of Light! For this light within you produces only what is good and right and true.”
▪ Does your life support this?
Honestly, I don’t know. I’m not one who connects physical blessings to right living. I’ve seen too much tragedy happen to good people. I know I have everything I need. Even though sometimes it sure doesn’t feel like it.
▪ What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain.
1. “I owe you everything, you owe me nothing.”
2. “I’m going to come to you, but then you owe me a lot.”
I struggle with this one. I had a rough childhood. At the time I became a Christian, I practically sprinted to God – for help, protection, support. So if I’m being honest, I have spent much of my life unknowingly living like #2. I didn’t recognize that at the time. I see it now. But living like #1 can be difficult for me. I’m sorry if that’s wrong. It’s just the truth.
Those two ways Keller talks about reminds me of two phrases reportedly written on the walls of a concentration camp:
1. 1. “I believe in the sun even when it is not shining. I believe in love even when I cannot feel it. I believe in God even when He is silent.”
2. 2. “If there is a God, he will have to beg for my forgiveness.”
Anyone with a pulse is going to have some kind of an instinct to question God when bad things happen.
This is so true, Ali…Anyone with a pulse is going to have some kind of an instinct to question God when bad things happen. There is much that happens that is so so hard to understand.
Wednesday: Why do so few people have happiness?
9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
He said Happiness is fundamental, not superficial. Happiness is the tree that bears fruit in season. The fruit is born in season. In some seasons we will have dry spells, and cold winters, not always looking wonderful but planted by the riverbank, so its roots have constant access to water. If I am rooted in Christ, I will always be fruitful in season and can expect dry and cold times in my spiritual life, but never spiritually dead. My circumstances may change, but my happiness is not altered by them because my source of happiness is Christ and not my circumstances.
“real happiness is found under you, inside you, where your roots are; what I draw from the inside not from the outside. A Christian is someone who has been planted and rooted into something beside him or herself.”
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
I did not plant myself; God did. “Something has been planted from the outside into us. Something has become part of us. We are rooted into God.”
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
“you are in deep joy even though you are in absolutely deep distress. How could that be? The tree, because it’s going through a season of dryness, has to pull out of the bottom even more. The tree, because it’s going through dryness, has to put its roots even deeper down and draw even harder on it. Anyone in this room who has ever actually gotten this fundamental happiness knows that is exactly what happens. I tell you that you don’t know what it’s like to rejoice in the Lord unless you’re suffering. There is something about the drought and about the fruitlessness of your life that makes you, if you’re a Christian, put your roots down into him in a way you didn’t before… Happiness is not based on circumstances. It’s not brought about by controlling your environment but by controlling your allegiances. This text teaches us there is a happiness that is possible. There is a happiness that is fundamental, not superficial. It’s based on what you are, not on your circumstances. If you seek it in your circumstances, you will always be unhappy. Back and forth. Manic.”
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf. Point?
I love this: “… in [his] face he saw at first only lines of care and sorrow; though as he looked … he perceived that under all there was a great joy: a fountain of mirth enough to set a kingdom laughing, were it to gush forth.”
Drought and fruitlessness cause us to put our roots deeper down and draw even harder. My husband has advised me not to water my tomato plants even though they may look dry so their roots can go down deeper seeking water from the bottom.
13. What else stands out and why?
Happiness is not based on circumstances. It’s not brought about by controlling your environment but by controlling your allegiances. My allegiance is to God and His Word. And nothing, or no circumstances can separate me from His love.
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness? That you will never be happy seeking happiness, but if you seek righteousness happiness is a biproduct.
15. What verses support this? Verses 1-3 They speak of being blessed by delighting in the law of the Lord. Then go on to say he’ll be like a tree planted by water, bears fruit, and leaves don’t wither. Whatever he does prospers.
16. Does your life support this? I can’t say that whatever I do prospers. I make mistakes, but I understand that I’m blessed and God though His graciousness allows me to see fruit.
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain. We either want God for God or we are seeking Him for happiness. They come with the thought of bing rewarded because of their doing things for God. Unfortunately the He owes me attitude develops and when hard times come , they are discouraged and blame God for not rewarding them for their good behavior. I probably have heard people’s comments along those lines, but can’t think of a specific at the moment and I probably didn’t respond properly to give them light and truth.
I have thought about your analogy of the tomato plants all afternoon. I love it. Thank you for sharing that.
1. How have you experienced the presence of God, the joy of the Lord, an answer to prayer, or unusual circumstances this last week?
I am so late getting started this week!! I was going to run an errand this morning but thought NO, I want to come here more than anything. I loved when I saw we are going to do Psalm 1 this week! It’s the only Psalm I have memorized, and I really like it. It’s short, but deep. Love love love seeing Bing and Patti together, and Bing’s daughter and their friends!
So, last Sunday, I picked up my friend Margie on my way to church because right now, she’s not allowed to drive. I planned on leaving at exactly 9:15, but made it out the door at 9:12. I got to her apartment, and she was waiting outside. As I was driving to exit the lot, a van with a man in it waved at us and at first, I just thought he must live there and knows my friend. So I continued on to the exit to the parking lot, but then took a second look and saw him just sitting there in his van. So I backed up a bit and rolled my window down, and he rolled his window down. He said he was lost and was trying to find Firestone Community Learning Center because his church was meeting there this morning. He was from Cleveland. Well, that’s where I went to high school, and I was trying to figure out how to tell him, but then I said just follow me and I’ll get you there. So he did, and when we got there, he got out of his van and said thank you and then said what an answer to prayer! After our church service, I said to Margie that I kept thinking about how our path and this man’s path just intersected at just the right time, and how God arranged that. It also made me happy that I was the answer to someone’s prayer!
This is such a great “Godwink”, Susan! Thank you for sharing!
Love that we topped that errand, Susan! 🙂 And what a great story!
Friday: Happiness is Something You Choose
▪ What does Keller say about the 3 verbs in verse 1 of Psalm 1?
How we move, how we think, where we sit…reveals a lot about us. I was struck by how he said, “Where you sit is where you belong.” Which I think points to my choices.
▪ What does it mean to be subject to seasons yet to have roots?
The roots are down deep in the ground and unmoved by the changing weather as long as they have access to the water that continues to feed them.
▪ Who owns you? Who calls the tunes in your life? Ask Him.
My fear owns me.
▪ Do you know how to “play the gospel?” What does he mean?
I think it means do you know how to live out of the gospel, how to live by the gospel, and how to live through the gospel. So that the gospel owns you instead of whatever else it is that threatens to own you.
▪ Why are Christians happier and sadder at the same time?
Happier because joy goes beyond and outside of circumstances. Sadder because it makes them more sensitive because you feel the pain of the world more.
Such thoughtful answers, Ali! So true that we feel the pain of the world more.
2. Read Psalm 1:
A. What are the two kinds of people described?
The blessed man: he delights in the law of the Lord and thinks about it day and night. He is alive, like a well-watered tree that draws from a stream of water, and he bears fruit in every season. God keeps watch over him.
The wicked: in contrast, the wicked man is spiritually dead, like chaff that is dry as dust and is blown away (I always picture a mere “puff” to chaff in the palm of my hand and it’s gone!) In the end, he will perish.
B. What are the three progressive verbs describing the wicked in verse 1?
I have always thought it interesting that these verbs show a backwards progression. First, you are walking (starting to listen to ungodly counsel), then you are standing (perhaps starting to consider the ways of sinners, their pleasures and things they enjoy as appealing and maybe you start to do it too), and then you are sitting (in the seat of mockers – now you’ve grown comfortable where you are). You are not moving forward in the spiritual life, you are going backwards.
C. Paul Tripp says “sitting” is simply resting comfortably in sin. Give an example either from your past or present.
Rather than delving into my past, before I was a Christian, I will say that when I feel “justified” in treating someone poorly (criticizing them to their face, or not saying anything but seething inside and thinking unkind thoughts about them, or feeling resentful towards them, or judgmental for their behavior) I am resting comfortably because I feel I have the “right” to feel this way towards them. After all, look what they said or did, or how they tried to come in and take control of the situation! And then I see my own idol of control.
D. What metaphor is used to describe the one who delights in the law of the Lord day and night? (Law simply means the Word of God)
The metaphor of a living, breathing, healthy and flourishing tree that is planted near a source of water. I imagine the deep and extensive roots of the tree drawing on the water deep under the ground, and it keeps the tree healthy and it’s full of leaves in the summer. It’s not withered with dead branches.
E. What metaphor is used to describe the wicked?
Dead, dry, useless chaff. With a puff of air, it’s blown away.
F. What is the outcome for each?
The wicked will not be able to withstand God’s judgment and will not be present in heaven among those declared righteous by God. They will perish.
The righteous will be assembled together and will be able to make it through the judgment.
G. What strikes you for your life?
The image of the stream of water. Living Water, the Holy Spirit. God is the Source of all that “waters” me in every way. His life courses through my veins, and I take Him wherever I go and into every relationship and person I meet. Without Him, I would shrivel and die. It’s just such a rich metaphor that you can think endlessly upon. I also have Jeremiah 17:7 written in my Bible next to this psalm. It says, “But blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in Him. He will be like a tree planted by the water, that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when the heat comes, its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.”
Paul Tripp said something similar about sitting in the seat of mockers — very comfortable in your sin.
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness?
He says to seek righteousness first and you will get happiness “thrown in,” as a byproduct!
15. What verses support this?
The Beatitudes; “Blessed is he who….” It never says “seeks happiness.”
Matthew 6 says,
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”
Matthew 6:33 NLT
Jeremiah 17 says,
““But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence.”
Jeremiah 17:7 NLT
16. Does your life support this?
This all makes me think, “what is happiness?” Have I ever really been happy? When have in been happy? Am I happy now? I know what being sad is; when things go wrong and I am feeling defeated. What Keller suggests is that life (circumstances) does not make us happy (or sad), rather righteousness makes us happy. But what about the times when a child is compliant, or graduates from high school, or wins the competition, or I lose 10 pounds (in theory!). Those are “happy” times. I feel happy. I realize these are those superficial times, not the deep seated happiness to which he refers. These events are those that come and go. I suppose I am happy. I know I am content. Life brings its troubles and somehow I manage through. The deep seated happiness is there, I think. I really don’t think about my happiness much. I think more about the hard, depressing, sad stuff more! It reminds me of the times in school when we send the email home about the “bad” child. I try to send an email about the “good” kid(s) at least once a year. Why do I focus on the sad when I could focus on the happy instead?
I think in the past I have been the one who chases happiness. I do not think that is who I am anymore. I seek my Lord, and He provides all of it. ♥️
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain.
The two ways are. “I owe you everything and you owe me nothing,” or “I’m going to come to you but then you owe me a lot.”
Yes, I have seen this. I have been this person. Ugh. I am the first person now. God owes me nothing. I was the second person years ago. I’m ashamed to admit it. I remember actually saying once, gulp, “…God owes me…” I don’t remember the conversation but I remember that part.
18. What else stands out and why?
“If you make a happy marriage your number one priority, you will never have it. If you make your number one priority a successful career, you’ll never have it because you will be killed by the anxiety.”
I believe that I have done this in my life. The career thing. I think my children lost out because of it too. Makes me (superficially!) sad. It took my teens going crazy and me getting cancer to change my ways and seek something else. I found Him in the mess of my life. I’m grateful for that. Thank You Lord. ♥️
Love this Laura! Love that you are always transparent and share your heart. I found Him in the mess of my life. I’m grateful for that. Thank You Lord. ♥️
Love this from Laura:
I think in the past I have been the one who chases happiness. I do not think that is who I am anymore. I seek my Lord, and He provides all of it. ♥️
Laura, I love your very real and honest post here, in your answers to 16-18. I think what you show here is that this is all a “learning curve”. I also have been grappling with, how does one really even define happiness? What is it exactly? Sure, those moments when our child graduates produce a feeling of happiness in us, and it should, as we celebrate with them! And it is hard to not think about the things in our lives or in this world that are depressing and sad. I think we all could say, too, that we have been chasers of happiness. Then one day, we get a glimpse of that deep-seated happiness that’s not dependent upon our circumstances. We start to understand. It comes with maturity. And – I think God is patient with us, knowing that we have to get there and it takes time.
Laura, I love your answer to number 16. It makes me think a bit deeper of why I focus so much on when the dry seasons come and forget about the times when God has brought me through them and my ‘deep happiness’ came from it. Hmm.
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness?
If you seek happiness not righteousness, you’ll get neither. If you seek righteousness, you’ll get both.
15. What verses support this?
Matthew 6:33
Jeremiah 17: 7-8
16. Does your life support this?
I think this is on of the most difficult life lessons. I don’t think I have always had my priorities in the right order. I was a seeker of happiness and peace. I did not want to live in fear. Sometimes we have to hit bottom, to totally rely on God. I have become more and more trusting in Jesus as I have become older. Having my husband become ill and watching him melt away for two years, has been a time of deep sorrow, yet a time of realizing fully, that God created him and God created me; we both realized that we had to completely surrender everything to Him. It has been scary and hard and I don’t know if I will ever completely get there. But, I truly know that it is the only path to living this life well. I have to say each day : “I owe You everything and You owe me nothing. ” I have to have my hand open for Him to give and to take away, which is scary and hard. I pray for the strength to do this every day and He is faithful.
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain.
There is one that is interested in Christianity and will “test” it out to see “what can God do for me?”
There is another who is committed to deeply loving God and following His Word. This one says” I owe God everything and He owes me nothing.”
I we truly believe in God, we know that He is totally in charge of our lives and that our perspective will determine how successfully we navigate our time here. His knows if our commitment is sincere or just “user friendly”.
We cannot assume that we can fool God, for He knows us to the core; He created me; He knows my heart and my motives. I have to be the “real deal” to Him, because He already knows me better than I know myself.
18. What else stands out and why?
This Psalm and Keller’s message both so excellent. (he is never trite! )
Read please from Patti:
Sometimes we have to hit bottom, to totally rely on God. I have become more and more trusting in Jesus as I have become older. Having my husband become ill and watching him melt away for two years, has been a time of deep sorrow, yet a time of realizing fully, that God created him and God created me; we both realized that we had to completely surrender everything to Him. It has been scary and hard and I don’t know if I will ever completely get there. But, I truly know that it is the only path to living this life well. I have to say each day : “I owe You everything and You owe me nothing. ” I have to have my hand open for Him to give and to take away, which is scary and hard. I pray for the strength to do this every day and He is faithful.
WOW! What a great reminder to give him our all so he can give us back what He knows we need.
Patti, I am glad Dee called attention to your post. When I read your answer to 16, I know it isn’t just an “answer” to a question, but rather you are telling us the very real and hard and painful path you have walked on yourself, and what you have learned. And that it’s a daily choosing how to walk. Thank you for sharing, Patti.
Thank you for your post Patti. I specifically appreciate this part:
“…Sometimes we have to hit bottom, to totally rely on God. I have become more and more trusting in Jesus as I have become older.”
Thursday: Happiness Can Never Be Found Directly
Bless-ed is the one who does not walk within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in foll’wing what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
14. What advice does Keller give about seeking righteousness versus happiness?
Seek righteousness more than happiness and you will get both.
15. What verses support this?
Matthew 6 Seeking God first and his righteousness and all other things shall be added to you, including happiness.
Jeremiah 17 You trust something else (man and other idols) other than God, so you are unhappy.
16. Does your life support this?
I am learning to seek God first and not let my circumstances be the source of my happiness.
17. What two ways do people come to God? Have you seen this? Explain.
There are only two ways to come to God. You can come to God on the basis of saying, “I owe you everything; you owe me nothing,” or you can come on the basis of saying, “I’m going to come to you, but then you owe me a lot.”
Yes, I have seen this in others and me as well. Being in the ministry has placed me in times of being tempted to think that God owes me. I may not say it out loud but the thought is there. I often have to remind myself of what Jesus has done for me. My heart is brought to humility as I think of how a great God could love a sinner such as me. Psalm 8 is a beautiful passage to recite during these times. Psalm 8
18. What else stands out and why?
God cannot be bribed. He does not owe me anything. I owe everything to Him.
And this one stood out for me, too for Thursday’s questions:
“As long as the non-negotiable is the happiness, you’ll never get it. It has to be a byproduct of making something else non-negotiable. It has to work that way.”
Friday: Happiness is Something You Choose
Bless-ed is the one who does not wal within the wicked way,
Nor stand in the path of sinners, or sit where the scoffers stay.
But he takes delight in following what the LORD’s law says is right,
on that law he meditates both in the day and in the night.
19. What does Keller say about the 3 verbs in verse 1 of Psalm 1?
Walk- your intellect
Stand- your behavior
Sit -where you belong
20. What does it mean to be subject to seasons yet to have roots?
I will have ups and downs in life but my happiness should not be based on the “ups” only. During the “downs”, I can still seek righteousness and experience happiness knowing God is in control. And if am well rooted in God, I can either go down deep into the waters of His joy or deeper still if needed no matter what my circumstances are.
21. Who owns you? Who calls the tunes in your life? Ask Him.
Wow-this! “What piper are you really dancing to? Who calls the tunes in your life? What owns you? What do you belong to? What are the fundamental allegiances of your life (the things you listen to, the things you walk in, the things you sit in)?”
I go back to my idols of approval and control. I am learning to let go and to let God be my ONLY audience and controller of my life.
22. Do you know how to “play the gospel?” What does he mean?
I am unsure if I understood this question correctly: He means you know the law of the lord so much that it is the song of your heart day in and day out. It becomes the very breath that you take each day. Listening to it and singing?
23. Why are Christians happier and sadder at the same time?
We are happier because we have Jesus and the hope of eternity He gives, and we are sadder because we feel more like Jesus toward the pains, ills, and evils of this world.
“See! the streams of living waters Springing from eternal love Well supply thy sons and daughters And all fear of want remove Who can faint while such a river Ever flows their thirst t’assuage? Grace, which like the Lord, the giver Never fails from age to age.”
24. Pray verses 1-3 (the song) for yourself — and for one other person.
Lord, I pray for Richard and myself that we will not walk, stand, and sit within the wicked way. That we will not “bite” the lures of this world. Rather, both of us will love your Word and meditate on it daily. And doing it with delight in our hearts and not as an obligation. Help us to make you number 1 in our lives, to seek your kingdom first and your righteousness. Help us see the happiness that comes as a byproduct of doing these things. Keep us rooted in you through your powerful Word.
Love your entire post, Bing. Beautiful prayers.
3. Listen and/or read the introduction.
A. What contrast does he make between our ancestors and us?
Our ancestors believed that wisdom was accumulated, and they valued the elderly and cherished their ancient traditions. In our modern society, “ancient” is scorned. Our modern, enlightened world values human reason and science in solving our problems. Though our ancestors had a shorter lifespan, no health insurance, few economic choices, no vacations – can we say that we are happier than they were? If you were to read their journals, would you see so much self-pity, despair, or boredom?
B. What stands out and why?
The Bible has always said that what makes you happy is spiritual (in nature) and is unchanging. It has nothing to do, really, with urban planning or all the modern technologies we have today. Those things can make for a more comfortable life, and sure, they can bring a sense of happiness, but they really are not the source. However, we/I sometimes get fooled into thinking, if only I had (fill in the blank) then I would be happier.
4. Are you a fundamentally happy person? If not, what insight might this psalm give you?
This is a very tough question. I can have my times of feeling sad, down/depressed, lonely. Those times, when they happen, (and it’s not a thing of the past) don’t stem from a lack of some material thing, but the root of it is most of the time a feeling of a lack of connection. I think that is important because God has made us, wired us, for connection to Himself, and to others. If I have not been giving attention to my prayer life, or God’s Word, or spending time with Him, I feel that lack of connection. And, when I am missing my grown children; one who lives in another state and one who lives in another country, and my grandchildren, and people that I love who have died, or when I am even around people so I’m not alone but there’s no one there with whom I have a deep connection to, I can still feel disconnected and lonely and unhappy. As far as happiness being related to outward circumstances, it will be a state that I move in and out of. There is another place though, and I like to think of it kind of like a “secret garden” (like in The Song of Songs where the bride and her lover are in the vineyard together), or the place that Henri Nouwen describes as “home” but it is hidden inside; it is the place where God dwells within and we leave home like the prodigal son looking everywhere for pleasure and happiness when what we really need to do is to come home. That is the only place that remains the same, and I need to nurture it, and I can go there and always be satisfied. I think that is what this Psalm tells us.
5. What does the word happiness mean in this psalm?
The word “blessed” in verse 1 means “joyful, filled, satisfied”. Some translations do use the word “happy”.
6. What does Keller say is typical of people the world thinks should be happy?
Our society tends to think that if you’re good enough, work hard enough, save your money, are smart enough, then you’ll be happy. If you’re not, it’s because you screwed up.
7. This psalm shows us happiness is possible. Explain.
This psalm (and the Bible) shows us that in this world, it is possible to be a fundamentally and consistently happy person. That happiness is neither unachievable nor natural. The happiness offered to us by God is a fundamental, not a superficial, happiness.
8. What else stands out to you from this section?
That we all start out in life believing that happiness is natural. He used the examples also of Much Ado About Nothing and Hamlet/MacBeth. Which best describes life? MacBeth and Hamlet. The deepest thinkers understand this. Keller described four types of people: those who think happiness is natural, those who think happiness if unachievable, those who are too busy to notice how tragic and dangerous life is until happens to us, and those who understand what the Bible says, which is that happiness is possible. I can certainly relate to the being too busy to notice until the tragedy struck our family, when my nephew died of a drug overdose.
I remember how that shook your family. I do imagine your grief was a comfort to your sister (was it your sister who was his mother) When Steve was dying and heard me weeping he said it comforted him.
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9. Keller gives the metaphor of the tree planted by the water to explain that happiness is not superficial, not based on circumstances. Explain.
The tree pictured in this psalm is subject to seasons and feels them. It’s not always lush and green. It goes through hot summers and dry, cold winters. Yet it is not like other trees because it’s been planted on the riverbank and its roots have access to water at all times, even during times of drought. Keller said that we make the mistake of trying to find happiness in our circumstances, in the externals, and as that applies to this metaphor, it would be as if the tree always depended upon rain. He said that real happiness is found “under you, inside of you, where your roots are”. Happiness never consists in what happens to you, but in what you are. We have to ask ourselves, are we dependent upon what happens to us on the outside, or where we’re planted, what’s on the inside?
10. What does it mean to be planted, to be partakers of the divine nature?
It’s another way to explain the new birth. “We are made partakers of a divine nature” means that something’s been planted from the outside, into us. Something has become part of us. We have been “planted in”. (Trees can’t plant themselves) After we are planted in, we receive a power and an understanding that we didn’t have before, and that is what we must draw upon. That is where the happiness lies.
11. What does he say about dry seasons and droughts? What good things come from that?
These things affect the tree, and it doesn’t always bear fruit. Yet, it’s leaf doesn’t wither. He references 1 Peter 1:6, which talks about rejoicing simultaneously while being in great distress. Two present tenses. Here’s the tree in a drought, hurting, grieved in a sense, yet its roots are sustaining it. (I liked how he talked about that this is not going through grief with a smile and a praise God – that is brainwashing and it’s not healthy) Keller said that the tree, because it’s going through extreme dryness, must pull even more deeply from the ground. It must put its roots down even deeper. He even said that you don’t really know how to rejoice in the Lord unless you are suffering the fruitlessness of your life; it makes you put your roots down into Him like never before.
12. What did Pippin, in Lord of the Rings, see in Gandalf? Point?
Underneath the care and sorrow on his face was a fountain of mirth, enough to set a kingdom laughing it were to gush forth. The point is that happiness is not based on circumstances, or brought about by controlling your environment, but by controlling your allegiance.
13. What else stands out and why?
That last part hit me about controlling your environment versus controlling your allegiance. Oh, how I think that if I could just control my environment or be behind the scenes controlling what others do (like trying to subtly control the relationships that my adult children have with each other, or even with me, by trying to be “helpful” and making suggestions or saying things like ‘why don’t you ever keep in touch with your brother’). I do it in so many ways, wanting to control things so that I get the outcome I think will be best for me and everyone else, so we all can be happy.
I am also thinking of some recent teaching I’ve gotten by listening to Leslie Vernick on her FB Lives, in which she talks about our internal and our external. She says that if we are dependent upon everything in our external world being okay so that we are okay, well – good luck with that. I admit, it’s a hard thing to learn, and an easy thing to keep slipping into.
Susan, I always love your thoughtful responses. And your honesty. And this: “There is another place though, and I like to think of it kind of like a “secret garden” (like in The Song of Songs where the bride and her lover are in the vineyard together), or the place that Henri Nouwen describes as “home” but it is hidden inside; it is the place where God dwells within and we leave home like the prodigal son looking everywhere for pleasure and happiness when what we really need to do is to come home. That is the only place that remains the same, and I need to nurture it, and I can go there and always be satisfied. I think that is what this Psalm tells us.”
And this as well: Keller said that the tree, because it’s going through extreme dryness, must pull even more deeply from the ground. It must put its roots down even deeper. He even said that you don’t really know how to rejoice in the Lord unless you are suffering the fruitlessness of your life; it makes you put your roots down into Him like never before.
You may consider being a writer or a speaker. (Smile-I don’t know how to put an emoji here)
Amen to Bing, Susan!! Such a great post!!
Friday: Happiness is Something You Choose
19. What does Keller say about the 3 verbs in verse 1 of Psalm 1? – The verbs are walk, stand and sit. We have to choose who we are walking with, who we are standing with and where and who we sit with. That determines how happiness comes in our life. We have to find who/what ‘owns’ us.
20. What does it mean to be subject to seasons yet to have roots? – God wants us to be happy, but seasons will come where we are not. But if we are rooted in Him during these times, and we should be rooted in Him all the time, he will be there to walk us through that season and still find our joy and happiness because we have put our roots in His Word and not in a person or thing.
21. Who owns you? Who calls the tunes in your life? Ask Him. – I would love to say that Jesus owns me all the time, but I can feel doubt creep in. But after hearing Friday’s section, maybe it’s ok for doubt to creep in as long as I turn to His Word and stay rooted in Him to pull me out.
22. Do you know how to “play the gospel?” What does he mean? – I become stronger every day. I believe he is saying that to play the gospel we need to know what it says. We need to practice day after day to really know it. Just like my husband, who plays the guitar, if he doesn’t practice every day, he messes up when he plays. So to get it right, to know what God has promised me, I need to get in to His Word every day and read, read and re-read it. It will be the only way I can use it (play it) in my dry seasons.
23. Why are Christians happier and sadder at the same time? – Because we know who owns us and where are roots are planted. We can despair and be honest about the struggles we have and not pretend everything is all roses all the time. Our consolation is His Law.
24. Pray verses 1-3 (the song) for yourself — and for one other person. – Blessed our my friends fighting cancer who do not walk in the counsel of the wicked, or stand in the way of sinners, or sit in the seat of mockers. But their delight is in the law of the Lord and their meditations that come daily will keep them rooted in the stream of your life water and their faith will not wither but all will prosper in them. Help me Lord to be there with them as I walk along the stream with them. Provide the life water we all need to not wither in this dry season of life. In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.
Beautiful prayer, Julie. Also love your answer to 22 and your husband’s practicing!! great analogy!
Julie, your answer to the “playing the gospel” question helped me understand the phrase! Thanks!
25. How might you apply this psalm to our study this summer? I didn’t get it memorized even through the repetition. Fortunately I had already memorized Jeremiah 17:7. So the application for me is where am I going to be planted and it’s not to be with the evil or wicked or mockers, Because sarcasm sometimes make me chuckle, I need to be careful I don’t let it take root in me and cause mockery,
26. What is your take-a-way? Why? My take away is how beautiful life can be with God even though it will be hard. My focus and trust needs to be on God.
Saturday:
Sing the song without looking at it.
25. How might you apply this psalm to our study this summer?
26. What is your take-a-way? Why?
Happiness is possible to the one who meditates on God’s law. The word of the Law is perfect. It is based not on our fluctuating circumstances but on the faithfulness of God. It is the by-product of seeking righteousness. It is a choice, it is rehearsing the beauties of the gospel daily.
I do not have to search for happiness too far away. It is available for me in the pages of God’s Word. I praise God that it is available in written form. May it be hidden in my heart as well.