Love him!? Really, Lord?
Yes, our God, in complete contrast to the gods of other religions commands us:
“love your enemies.”
We are looking at the hard sayings of Jesus with the help of Tim Keller. Often, these have been hard sayings because they have been misunderstood, and that misunderstanding has been spread.
For me, the most illuminating part of Keller’s sermon was discovering what Jesus meant when he tells us to “turn the other cheek?”
Malcom X, who believed that revolution could not happen without violence, felt Jesus was saying that when physically violated, the black man should just lay down and take it. He disagreed with that, saying:
Keller makes it very clear that is not what Jesus is saying.
First of all, Keller makes a good case that a slap on a cheek is not so much an act of physical violence, but an insult. If this was primarily a physical attack, that is not the part of the body you would choose if you really wanted to hurt someone.
A slap on the cheek is an insult to your honor.
And how are we to react? He says Jesus says to be both tough and tender. We’ll look at the context of “love your enemies” from Luke’s version of the Sermon on the Mount, and we’ll look at Micah 6:8 which could be seen as the Sermon on the Mount in a nutshell:
We are to love both justice and mercy. When “slapped” we should not react as the world does with venom or violence, but with truth and gentleness.
My favorite example in the whole sermon was when Keller described overhearing an adult woman talking to her father on the telephone. She was quiet for a moment while, it becomes apparent, that her dad had been speaking to her abusively, “slapping her.”
This is how she responded.
“Dad, I cannot allow you to talk that way to me or to Mom. I’ve told you this before, therefore, I’m going to have to hang up on you, right in the middle of your sentence. But I care for you and I love you so I will call you back later.”
Then she quietly hung up.
Keller says that Jesus is saying: “There has to be a spirit in my followers that is very different from what is normal to the human heart.”
What is that spirit? What does it really mean to turn the other cheek?
Before you begin, please pray for God to show you and all of us His truth through His Word, through Keller’s sermon, and through one another. Also, pray we will know how to apply it to our particular life circumstances.
Here is the sermon — it is from Luke 6:20-36, not Matthew, as the text below this link says:
https://podcast.gospelinlife.com/e/loving-your-enemies-1628193104/
I was so moved by our own Missy’s testimony last week, how often the church has not welcomed her children. Unconcerned for justice! I am excited in future weeks to tell you more of her story. She is living a Micah 6:8 life — and I want us to know more for she is right here with us, and I’m so honored. She’s an example of what Jesus is teaching this week too: we need to be both tough and tender.
Here is a picture of her with just a few of the children she’s taken under her wing, something she has done all her life.
God Hunt Sunday
- How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you?
- For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in?
Monday: The Text – Part I.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here.
B. How is He warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate?
C. How might you apply this to your life now?
Tuesday: The Text Part 2.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react?
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused?
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past?
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage?
Wednesday: Part 1 of the Sermon: No Venom
7. Listen to the 1st part of the sermon up until Keller says that the followers of Jesus “speak up to injustice without any venom.” On the regular sermon it was at the end of minute 16. Then answer:
A. What particularly stood out to you and why?
B. In Abolition of Man, C. S. Lewis said this sets Christianity apart from other religions. How so?
C. How does Micah 6:8 put these commands from The Sermon on The Mount succinctly?
D. Read Job 29:12-14 and describe how Job lived with both toughness and tenderness.
E. How did Jesus respond to insults with both justice and gentleness?
F. How did Paul?
Thursday: Part II of Sermon: Two Normal Reactions to Insults
8. Listen to the two ways, beginning around minute 17 to minute 29 when he says, “I want a relationship here, I’m turning the other cheek.”
A. What is the passive response? How have you done that in the face of insult or injustice?
B. What is the vindictive response? How have you done that?
C. What is the combined response?
If you are familiar with John Gottman’s marriage counseling, you will know that the most reliable predictor of divorce is what he calls “stonewalling.” You are seething inside, your heart rate if off the charts, but you absolutely have given up and are completely quiet on the outside.
9. Christians should behave so differently.
A. What did you learn about a wise response from the conversation Keller heard from the woman on the phone? How did she give her dad a chance to start over on a new footing?
B. Is there a way you could apply this in your personal relationships? What might be a scenario?
C. Why is it not loving to be passive and refuse to rock the boat?
D. Why is forgiving not a wimpy way out, but healthy and loving?
10. Imagine a scenario that has or truly could happen in your life when you speak out against injustice but simultaneously show the person you really care for them.
Friday: Walk Humbly With Your God
11. Listen to the end.
A. What are the problems of not showing mercy, not forgiving.
B. He gives an example of admirable men and women from the Middle Ages. What did he say?
12. The key is to walk humbly with God. How does Keller explain this from Luke?
13. How does Keller bring in the abrasive point that the Bible calls us enemies of God?
14. What else stands out to you?
Saturday:
15. What is your take-a-way and why?
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1. How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you?
I had a particularly hard day Friday and lamented but also asked a friend to pray for me. God answered pretty clearly and while the sting was still there the humility shown was palatable.
2. For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in? That we still have the freedom to worship and attract others to Christ, and that we are still a very generous country and especially so among believers. My eyes have been opened working in the current ministry I’m in regarding how generous believers are in talent, time, and financially. David Green, the founder of Hobby Lobby and Bill High, the founder of The Signatry where I work, often speak together at conventions. David Green is a believer and wrote a book about generosity and wow, does he live it! I hear he is a very humble man who doesn’t like to talk about Hobby Lobby’s success. I so love that. Sorry, rabbit trailed! 🙂
I’m also thankful that we are still free and not ruled by a tyrannical leader or government though I think that could happen given enough time. I’m also seeing more and more believers embracing the secular social “norms” and that is heartbreaking. Sorry! I’m supposed to be giving thanks! Okay so I can see a way to give thanks. I think our light will shine brighter in a nation growing darker and colder but we have to love Christ more and put on our armor daily.
I’m so sorry for the pain you experienced this week.
Such an exciting ministry you work for, Rebecca.
You made me smile when you said, “Sorry, I’m supposed to be giving thanks.”
I, too, am so grieved about more and more Christians embracing the social norms and not evidencing any difference in our lives because we have Christ. We are becoming very unsavory salt.
I see many Christians in my circle who are confused about how to respond in a loving way to those choosing to live outside biblical guidelines. Some do not know how to discern and speak truth in love, mostly because they do not know the truth with clarity as they ought. It is so imperative that we continue to proclaim the truth and help others know how to do so in a loving fashion which does not compromise the truth. I see those confused asking how to be loving when speaking the truth, because the truth can be painful BUT will ultimately set them free!!
I also want to comment that I CAN’T WAIT to hear Missy’s story!!! I had no idea she’s taken in so many beautiful souls for so long and she is truly walking the walk taking up her cross. It’s hard, but I also see His joy in her as she delights in those precious souls God’s given her to love on.
Amen, Rebecca!! I know a tiny bit of Missy’s story, but I look forward to hearing more! What a pure and precious heart she has for Jesus. Missy truly follows our lesson last week! A true Disciple of Jesus, whose commitment is selfless and unconditional! What an inspiration!
Totally agree Rebecca! I know just a bit, but only about foreign children. I had no idea that Missy “adopted” kids here too. What a beautiful picture of the hands and feet of Christ!
I’m looking forward to Missy’s testimony as well. My daughter began fostering in 2019. I’ll be honest, it’s something that has challenged my heart. She is about to close on adoption of a sibling. My husband and I have adopted her brother and my daughter has her sister. This is a journey I never expected for myself and it’s only through God’s plan and leading that I now am mother to a child the same age as my grandchildren. I can say that our family is privileged to grow in the way that God has stretched our hearts for these precious children.
That is a beautiful story, Chris, and I would like to hear more about how God led you in this path and is continuing to lead you. Adoption certainly is not for the faint of heart!
Amen, Missy! I look forward to hearing your testimony. You are a beautiful woman of God and you live out your faith every minute!
Oh, Chris! What an amazing journey you and your family are on. This takes my breath away. I love this huge commitment of love for your entire family. I agree with Missy and Rebecca! Hearts on fire for Jesus!
I have to say you all humble me! What a magnificent place Dee’s blog is to experience His Spirit in you – so much wisdom from hearts on fire.
AMEN, Rebecca!
God Hunt Sunday
How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you?
I shared a couple of weeks ago how my close friend and her husband attended a “wedding” for their gay son and his partner on Father’s Day. I met with several women from our church at the church building to pray for them at the time of the ceremony and a number of others in our church family like my husband were praying at home or wherever they were. Then last Wednesday evening our small group met spontaneously and everyone was available to come. Our friends shared their story of being at the rehearsal and feeling absolutely alone. And the day of the ceremony and reception was extremely difficult to face. They say it was the hardest thing they have done in their lives. Leading up to that weekend they felt almost like they were hearing nothing from God. He seemed silent. On that weekend they began to get timely text from their church family and close friends at moments when it seemed excruciatingly hard to bear. But God showed up in answer to much prayer for them and they realized He was truly there for them and they felt his presence in significant ways. The dad of this young man was asked to pray at the reception before the meal. He is not an eloquent speaker and he didn’t have any notes but God seemed to give him words and out of love for his son he expressed himself briefly and graciously to the people assembled there and prayed. As a result of that time after time people came up to my friend and her husband and expressed their appreciation for his words. In that time of deep hurt for them the light and love of Christ shone through. A number of the gay community members came up to them and were impressed by the love they had shown to their son because they knew these parents are opposed to the gay lifestyle. But several opened their hearts to them and told how they had been rejected by their parents, families and churches. These friends came off the most difficult weekend of their lives seeing that God had showed up for them and they had their eyes opened to the gay community and it’s pain. The saw the deep heart needs of these people for Jesus and feel a new responsibility to reach out and minister in love. It was a powerful evening for our group who has held them up in prayer to hear what they had to share. My friend feels she sees now more clearly how the church often rejects gays and fails to reach out in love to a very hurting group of individuals. As I listened to her share I kept thinking of Miriam and her story last week of how the church has mostly held her ragamuffin kids at arms length or even out right rejected them. So it is with gays from many churches that proclaim the Gospel. It would seem many churches want to keep things nice and tidy. But the truth is ministry is very messy because it is about being hands on to a sick and dying world that needs the healing that Christ can bring to hearts and lives. My son says a church should be a hospital not a museum. I have been greatly encouraged by individuals in my own church who welcome the ragamuffin, the down and out and the gay community. I recognize some of our people still have much to learn but I pray that examples of Gods grace will continue to surface and influence more and more believers to do the right thing where this lost and dying and sinful world is concerned. I really look forward to hearing more of Miriam’s story.
I see so much wisdom in this from Bev. It is such a hard decision on whether to go to your child’s gay wedding — I think I would go just to maintain the relationship — but oh, so hard. I like the analogy with Missy’s kids. This is what Bev wrote:
My friend feels she sees now more clearly how the church often rejects gays and fails to reach out in love to a very hurting group of individuals. As I listened to her share I kept thinking of Miriam and her story last week of how the church has mostly held her ragamuffin kids at arms length or even out right rejected them. So it is with gays from many churches that proclaim the Gospel. I
Bev, what a blessing to hear about your friends’ testimony. A few friends of my daughter are gay, and I have found them to be the most caring toward my daughter. It is so complicated and I continue to pray for insight, a Jesus kind of love to give to them when I see them.
Thank you for writing this here, Bev. I have a dear friend who is grappling with her married daughter suddenly leaving her husband and 3 children and taking up with another woman. She is so very sad and devastated and wondering how to love her daughter and even “the other woman.” This was a beautiful testimony and I will share it with her. Sounds like it goes right along with our hard saying this week in a certain way.
It is so hard to find the balance between being loving and appearing to approve a lifestyle choice. I read something recently that said “Jesus didn’t eat with tax collectors and sinners to affirm them and make them feel loved and included, but to call them to repentance.” We need to be in continual prayer for wisdom.
Dawn — that is such helpful wisdom.
Yes Dawn! The bit you read is so important. The problem I have with the wedding attendance is that it appears to those who don’t know you that you are in agreement with the event. Those who know you will know the truth. We are witnesses to all. So, I would most likely not attend, but my child would still know how much I love him/her; that wouldn’t change. My not being at the wedding would be to uphold my faith. I am placing God above my kid. Isn’t that what we are supposed to do?
Laura, I appreciate your frank and honest answers. Your black and white perspective is like my oldest daughter who I have learned much from because we are so different. One point I would like to make for you is that my friends who attended their sons “wedding” made a strong statement to people who did not know them because those people were well aware that my friends oppose their sons lifestyle and and would definitely have been considered homophobic. The fact that they came and showed love to their son and acceptance toward his partner for them as worthy of their love is what reflected Christ to those other hurting gays and unsaved family members. Frankly they couldn’t believe my friends were actually there. They expect rejection. Their going spoke loudly to their son because he knows clearly how much they don’t agree or support his choices. And he had made it plain to all his friends. But it was only out of obedience to Jesus that they went. They really did not want to be there. It was deeply painful and as she said they dropped their eyes a lot.
Your question . “I am placing God above my kid. Isn’t that what we are supposed to do?” Really makes me back up and ponder. That is a deep and thoughtful question to ask. Perhaps it comes back to Dawn’s comment “We need to be in continual prayer for wisdom.” And in praying some will be led to go and represent Jesus and others will be led to not attend.
I see how the events went down now. I guess until I am in the situation, I really don’t have a valid comment. I’m just thinking out loud now. It really burns me up though, because the news media would have us believe that half the country is gay, when in reality it is less than 5%. Full disclosure here, our youngest thinks he is gay. When he was 18 he blurted it out. I told him he was not, and that I would never believe that he was. Over time I have told him the story of the life of my father, a musician. Our country has demoted men to either being athletes or gay, no in between. Dad was not athletic, nor was he gay. He was what we used to call a “renaissance” man. He knows that we love him, but we will not agree with him on this point. I have also intimated to him that if he ever chose to get “married” that I would not be able to attend. Of all my kids I think he is the most miserable and unhappy one. It saddens me that his choice has made his life so unbearable. But, I think this is how it is for most gays; they are searching for something, and if they would just look deep inside they would realize it is what God left inside of them at birth, himself.
Laura,
I believe I had your exact response to this situation at one time. I felt standing for my faith was demonstrated by not attending a particular function and still hold that position in some cases. What I’m hearing from Bev brings to mind Paul’s call to us to be all things to all people. The fact that the intimate attendees knew the heart of the parents towards the lifestyle chosen, yet showed love and were backed up by prayer is so key. Jesus was in many places and with many people who were considered unacceptable for Christians to associate with. It is a fine balance to show love and yet not compromise truth. It took courage to attend the ‘wedding’ AND stand for their faith. The two seem impossible and yet it seems God made a way for this particular case. I will be praying for your son and the relationship between you. I have sat under preaching from a pastor who, though same sex attracted, has chosen a celibate life. It is clear to me that no one chooses to be same sex attracted but how to live with that must be like hell on earth. My heart breaks for those who must choose to never have a companion in this life and to always feel the shame of their own body daily tempting them to sin. God calls each of us to turn from sin and has shown me that my own sins where I lack in kindness, gentleness and self control are just as great as those of the homosexual who acts on their temptation and even greater if I do not repent. I so appreciate your desire to be bold for your faith and so appreciate the struggle of knowing how to handle these difficult situations with our loved ones. May God lead each one of us so we know the best approach in standing for our faith, while yet living out the gospel.
Well said Chris. Lots to ponder. So hard.
Dawn, I agree with the comment that Jesus went to sinners with the offer of repentance as he does with all of us actually but I do feel he first went with a deep love for them in their need and they felt it from him. The very fact that he even associated with publicans and sinners set him apart from the religious hierarchy of the day. I also so agree with your comment “We need to be in continual prayer for wisdom.” And some times God’s wisdom takes us into places we would rather not go. I really appreciate your thoughts.
Bev, I agree. Jesus came first in total love for those that were considered the outcasts of society and the openly sinning and through that love people repented.
Dawn, I struggle with that balance, and I would not know what I would do. Thanks for your comment.
This conversation is my God hunt for this week for sure. It speaks of the chorus: “Surely, the presence of the Lord is in the place” right here, representing amazing Christian woman from across this country.
Thank you for sharing this, Bev. I love all of these very thoughtful and honest responses. What a blessing to be part of this blog and see Jesus in each one of you so clearly. We live at a very “upside down” time in history and it is so complicated, yet so important to show God’s real love for each other. As Dawn mentioned, we need to be in continual prayer for wisdom. I know it had to be so heartbreaking for your friends, Bev, yet they showed deep love for their son and his partner…like Missy’s experience with the ragamuffin kids.
My prayer is: Please Lord, help me to see with the eyes of Jesus, and respond with the heart of Jesus to all of your children. Help me to follow Your Word and love others to Jesus.
Bev, this is so, so powerful, what you have shared about your friends. I believe that though it was incredibly difficult and painful for them to attend the wedding, that they did the right thing. The fact that many from the gay community were so impressed by the love shown and opened up their hearts about their experiences of rejection, testifies to this. I believe that I would have attended if it were my child, because if you lose the relationship, you lose the opportunity to ever speak into their life, and love speaks louder than rejection. And this is so true: “But the truth is ministry is very messy because it is about being hands on to a sick and dying world that needs the healing that Christ can bring to hearts and lives. My soon says a church should be a hospital not a museum.”
God Hunt Sunday
For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in?
I can thank God for the privilege of being born into a time when my country was a place of resilience after two long hard world wars and patriotism had depth of meaning. It was a time that there was a true appreciation for our freedoms and God was still given place in in the life of our country. It formed deep roots in my life and the lives of my siblings. Our grandmother who had sent brothers and sons off to war made a strong impression on us as to the high cost of freedom. Even yesterday in my very small home town as the color guard started the 4th of July weekend parade and three teenage girls sang the Star Spangled Banner I had tears in my eyes. I feel I understand something my children and grandchildren will never know. It’s a heritage I do not take for granted now in a time where it has all changed. But I am not lamenting the past. God has new fronts for us to face and as a believer I now truly understand what personal freedom is and Jesus has to be foremost.
God Hunt Sunday
How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you?
I saw God at work in my life by the staying hand of the Holy Spirit. I was in a situation where I could have easily felt slighted (and presumably normal from a human point of view). It happened over the course of 4 days; waiting on God was hard, but I saw His hand in guiding me to obey His word-everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to be angry…James 1:19. Since it has affected a few people, it could have possibly caused a rift. I am grateful for the Spirit’s promptings.
I am looking forward to hearing more about Missy’s story. And I love the picture of her and her kids. Her life has been a great testimony of perseverance and grace and obedience to the Scripture regarding the essence of the gospel- “Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke?Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter—when you see the naked, to clothe them, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood? Isaiah 58:6-8
2. For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in?
I came to the U.S. in 1988, lived here for almost 2 years, and went back to the Philippines with my husband being staff with The Navigators. When our daughter turned 2 in 1993, we left for the U.S. to stay here for good and to be near my husband’s family. In 1995, I became a US citizen.
I often remembered one of the questions the American Consul asked me during the interview. “Why do you want to be an American citizen?” I told him that I believed I have skills I can use to contribute to the good of society here and will use my nursing training to do so. He seemed to be pleased with that answer because he smiled and nodded at me and signed my papers.
Truly, America has given me opportunities that I would have never dreamed of. I am thankful for the freedoms we have here, opportunities to make an honest living with hard work and to lead a quiet life without fears that other people from other countries suffer from. It is with much gratitude that I give thanks to God. “He determines the times set for them and the exact places where they should live…” Acts 17:26, 27
You have been such a great asset and blessing to America, dear Bing! Thank you also for reminding us of James 1:19. I need to hang that on my mirror as I so often don’t obey that admonition.
Loved your answer as well when becoming a citizen.
A delight to hear your story and your appreciation of being an American citizen. You are an example of how it should be and your testimony for Christ shines through. It’s a joy to have you as one of us. An American citizen and a fellow believer. 😊
What a beautiful story, Bing. You are a wonderful example of a woman who gives so much to so many. I love that you thought first of the gifts you could bring to your new country! You did not mention what you expected to get, but what you could give. That so describes who you are: a child of God, who desires to put others first and share the good news of Jesus in words and deeds. You are a blessing to the world and I am so happy that you chose to become an American citizen. I am so blessed to know you.
Bing, thank you for sharing some of your story about becoming an American citizen! It’s so “you” that you replied that you wanted to contribute to the good of society and would use your skills to do so, instead of listing what citizenship would do for you!
1. How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you?
I am pressing in to Him in many ways. I need Him badly right now. He is keeping me close as well. Thank You Lord for not leaving me in my pain.
2. For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in?
I am thankful for our founding fathers. They were brilliant men! They were brave and willing to lose it all. Wow.
I am thankful for the Supreme Court, which has had several lucid moments in the past 2 weeks! Roe v Wade, the 2nd amendment, etc.
Happy 4th of July to all! The day when the Declaration of Independence was adopted and two prominent founding fathers died (Adams and Jefferson, in 1826).
Sunday
1. How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you?
Today is our 46th Anniversary and I am so thankful for a Godly husband who has loved me and his family well. We have been praying for God to show us a ministry we could do together and got a confirmation in where God is leading us…it was one of those things where I immediately said that’s a “God Hunt!” We serve an amazing God.
2. For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in?
Living in a 3rd world country as a child I know just how fortunate we are here in America. I am thankful for all the freedoms we have, the abundance of food in grocery stores, elaborate homes, and the list goes on. I had a father who gave 20 years of his life in military service, fighting in WWII and the Korean War and am thankful for all those who fought and those who died for our freedom. Yes, our country isn’t perfect but I appreciate this question to remind me all I can be thankful for!
I want to know about the ministry you and Jim have been led to!
Happy belated anniversary! 46 years! Wow. July 3 was my moms birthday. It has always been a good day to celebrate! I hope it was for you ♥️.
Thank you so much Laura…it was a good day!
Happy anniversary belated, Sharon! And the confirmation of where God is leading you as a couple is surely a big God hunt!
Thank you Bing!
Happy Anniversary to you and your husband, Sharon! I am so excited for the ministry that God is bringing into your lives!
Yes, we are so so blessed to live in this country, with the abundance we have. How I thank God for all those who fought and died that we may have this freedom. How I pray that our youth will come to appreciate all that they have!
Thank you Patti!
How did God show up in your life in this last week? He showed up in all of the times this week where circumstances would have normally caused me to be frustrated and angry, instead I threw away the script and just went with the flow of what was going on. It was much easier and less stressful because no matter how horrible I thought that it was going to turn out, it never did. How did you see His risenness in you? My daughter-in-law and I were discussing how this week’s sermon at our church lined up with what each of us were studying in our bible studies. It had to do with discipleship. It was definitely God confirming the message.
For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in? There is so much to give thanks for so I will only focus on one. I’m thankful that we are able to gather together as a church without fear of being persecuted or imprisoned our beliefs. While we may be ridiculed for it, we aren’t being tortured for our faith.
I am so thankful for my risen Lord who is still risen even when I act as though He is not! I had a house flood over 3 months ago and have had extensive repairs since that time. So much has gone wrong in the repairs, including 3 more floodings due to faulty repair work. I’ve been so quick to get angry and disgusted with the myriad of problems while working a job and tending to my children. It seems it would be so much less stressful if I only had a husband. And my grown son whom I raised for 20 years has gone AWOL with his new girlfriend. Oh, the bitterness that has welled up and taken residence in my innermost being. I was exhausted and struggling to get my incorrigible adopted son into bed Friday night around midnight when he raced into my room and breathlessly, with his thick accent, told me to get downstairs immediately. “Big problem, Mom!!!!” My brand new floors which had finally been laid, were spongy and soggy with water pouring out from the new dishwasher under the flooring. The appliance guy had not hooked it up properly. Much mopping with towels ensued and I was finally able to figure out how to disconnect the plumbing under the sink to stop the river. But what about all that water trapped under the flooring? It’s a holiday weekend and I had no idea what to do next. I’ve been screaming a lot lately, and I wanted to scream some more. Instead, this time, I quieted my heart before God and fell to my knees beside my bed. “I know I’m not suffering like the Ukrainians, Lord, but I’m downright exhausted!” I told Him sincerely wanted to pass a test for once in my life. I wanted to learn to trust Him with what He has allowed in my life. The verse came to me, “They looked for a city, whose builder and maker is God.” I reveled in the joy that awaits the child of God in my new home built by God Himself, where I won’t need constant repairs, and I won’t be responsible for them anyway! Oh, hallelujah!! So now you see why my story here is embarrassing and humbling. I’m no example of a Christ-like daughter. I’m full of failures and faithlessness and complaining and even bitterness at times. But I’m so thankful that the risen Lord is still teaching a recalcitrant daughter like me, and seeking still to conform me to His beautiful image. I really need this week’s hard saying as I’m so prone to turn the other cheek, yet hold onto bitterness. I want to learn to turn the other cheek while loving my Lord and the offender.
Oh my, Miriam. Oh my.
Father, I thank You for dear Missy. I don’t know why she is so literally flooded with trouble, but I thank You for her heart and model to us all, and do ask for You to strengthen her and make your presence so palpable. I would love it too if You might show her some fruit from her years of service. Might it be in turning Travis back to You?
In Jesus Name I pray.
Oh Miriam, I so agree with Dee’s prayer for you. My heart hurts for you as I read about your troubles and frustrations. But I also identify with the fleshly battle to scream, get angry and let bitterness take up root. Those reactions are what I would call normal to this life and I have done them all too. But for God who does the supernatural by the power of his Holy Spirit. He forgives quickly and completely and brings peace to our souls after we quiet down and listen to Him. Such a hopeful verse he gave you. We need to be encouraged and hear of the far better things to come. Praying for your wayward son. I under stand.
Thank you so much, Bev! I love your insights in your posts!
Missy, it’s time like these that I wish there wasn’t over a 2 hour distance between us…would be there in a heartbeat! I can so relate to a flooded home as that has happened to us 4 times! I’m so glad your son became aware of the problem… I know that doesn’t make it easier, but it could of been much worse! You were in my prayers all through the night and only God could of quieted your heart, glad that He did❤️
First of all, Sharon, happy anniversary!! I love hearing about your sweet marriage and your childhood in Africa and can’t wait to hear what God has called you both to! And 2 hours is not far at all, considering how far most of the other ladies are from us!! Maybe we can meet up some day in the not too distant future! Thank you so much for your prayers and for caring about us.
Missy, thank you! I would love to meet up some day as it really isn’t that far.
Oh my goodness Miriam. What hard times these past months have brought you, but you jumped to the realization of just WHOSE you are and fell into his arms for guidance. May all of us be able to do that in those trying times.
I just love this imagery, Julie, of falling into His arms, so embracing and comforting and quieting. I need to do it more often for sure.
Missy, I can so relate to the house challenges! I live in constant construction (or so it seems). I will pray for peace for you. He is in charge. Good for you to go to the King in prayer. He is good and will have the most blessed place for us when we meet with Him.
By the way, I go through your area (I think) at least once a year. Aren’t you in Virginia? I have met up with Jackie from Maryland a few times. Would love to meet you in person too!
Oh, I would so much love to meet up with you, Laura! Please let me know when you’re coming through again. And my heart skipped a beat when you mentioned going to the King in prayer. Oh what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear all because we do not carry everything to God in prayer. And we’re going to THE King, nonetheless!!!
Yes! I will be in touch 😉
Missy, your perseverance and faithfulness to look to God amidst your hardships always speak to me. Indeed, you encourage me to do the same.
Missy! I can see how you are feeling overwhelmed! You give and give and then the floods come~ not once, but over and over! So hard to quiet your heart before the Father, as you are dealing with such stress. Praise Him that He brought you His Word.
Lord, I feel so overwhelmed for precious Missy. She has given her all in service to You, for her children, for your children and so many. How I pray that you will bring relief and encouragement to her. I pray that you will bring some reliable workers to solve her household problems. Please draw her sons and daughter to you, dear Father. You are our all and we depend on you every minute. Thank you for your love for this beautiful sister in Christ. Give her grace and help her to breathe; give Missy your peace that is beyond all our understanding. We ask you to keep her in your care. In Jesus’ name we pray.
Oh Missy, I think I would’ve lost my mind at that point, with the dishwasher flooding under brand new floors. That you kept it together – wow. And you are an example of a Christ-like daughter in so many ways; we all can become disheartened when faced with so many piles upon piles of difficult trials and even devolve into complaining and feeling bitter. But, I see you always turn around and back to God, seeking to trust again in the midst of the pain. I will pray for some qualified and expert help to get your house back in order and to solve these plumbing and water problems, and for peace for you and your children.
Thanks for being real, Missy.
God Hunt Sunday
1. How did God show up in your life in this last week? How did you see His risenness in you? – This past week two of our grandsons were here visiting, they are cousins ages 9 and 8. Our 9 year old goes to bed early and gets up early but each morning while he was here, he would come into our room, touch my arm, since I was still sleeping and say “good morning grandma” what a sweet jester that warmed my heart. This grandson is in a tough situation for a 9 year old but he still had the love of Christ in his heart.
2. For what can you give thanks to God for concerning our country — or whatever country you live in? – I’ve always thanked the Lord that we can freely worship Him without any harm to us when we do. What a blessing it is to have His Word given to us freely with so many bibles available and so many podcasts and sermons that we can just open up and read or listen to any day of the night. We don’t have to hide His Word under a bushel, it’s ours to enjoy and use. Thank you Lord!
What a sweet grandson story!
Julie, that is such a sweet story of your grandson. Aren’t they the best? Boys at those ages. I just love them ♥️♥️
Julie, what a sweet story of your grandson. Thanks for sharing moments that I am sure you will treasure.
What a precious grandson. So so sweet.
Monday: The Text – Part I.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here. – He is encouraging them and reminding them that though they feel they lack in areas they will have the kingdom of God always, that they will never go hungry in spirit because they have Him always with them, they may be facing some kind of sorrow in their lives but in eternity with the Lord there will be no more tears, and when men hate them, the love of Christ will be with them and they will have His peace in their hearts.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23? – We are not to let what others say bother us, we know who our true Father is and what blessings we have in Him. No one else can provide that to us so we should give them grace as they most likely do not know the Lord and do not have his love in their hearts. Like Jesus said on the cross “Father forgive them for they no not what they do”
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here. – He is speaking against having plenty but not being generous with the luxuries, money and food, they have been given. And when they cherish in their hearts all the good that people say to them, all of that will be gone once in eternity as the reward they take on earth is all they will have.
B. How is He warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate? – He repeatedly is telling them to put other’s hardships in their hearts and help them where they can. To not just think of the abundance they have and hold it all for themselves but to give as they can and where the need is.
C. How might you apply this to your life now? – I need to be sensitive to those who may not have all I have and ask the Lord to guide me as to what he wants me to do. to be discerning to Him so I give where he feels the need is and not give where it is comfortable for me.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here.
He is telling them that those who are poor (in spirit), hunger (for knowledge), and are sad, will be blessed. He also tells them that when they are mocked and evil is done to them, for believing in Christ, to rejoice, for there will be exceptional blessings in the end. He reminds them that their ancestors were also mocked, so they are not alone.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
The reward will go to the ones mocked, not the mockers.
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here.
Jesus is saying that those who are well off, “fat cats,” and longing for nothing will have sorrow.
B. How is He warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate?
By pointing out that they have everything they need, but there are others who do not. By letting go of their wealth and giving to others, they will be rewarded in heaven.
C. How might you apply this to your life now?
Definitely think of ways to help those in need. The kids and I are going to sponsor a child with Compassion International. Our family gives to our church which has many missionaries. I want to give to a former NFL players mission in Miami, Florida (Jack something?). I like to give to needs in our own country because we have so many who struggle even though we have so much money. I think it’s like when we give to other countries….do the people actually receive the money, or is it the corrupt governments getting it? My husband has given to Teen Challenge and is continuing that. We are way too blessed right now and really need to support others. Sometimes it is hard to just “find the time” to sit down and get it done! I know it’s an excuse and I know we need to be more intentional. Time just flies for me these days.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react?
We want to retaliate as soon as the event occurs; to lash back at the person.
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused?
We need to remember that God will be the final judge. The person will be dealt with by Him.
I am having a hard time teaching this to Grace. She can tend to be mean (pushing and hitting) when she doesn’t get her way. We focus on the fruits of the spirit. I hope it’s just a phase…
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past?
If someone does something wrong to me, allow it, even if it’s occurs more than once. Be kind when others are not.
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage?
Again, know what is right and do it without expectation. Our focus is on the great reward of heaven, from God. It is what He expects of us, no less.
Monday: The Text – Part I.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here. He knows they will struggle with their flesh and it’s evident He has compassion because instead of demanding, He is tender and encouraging.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
Not to worry about justice for me for that is taken care of via the cross but rather to be concerned for the justice that they will experience should they continue to reject Christ.
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here. Don’t fall to the temptation to put your trust in the comfort of temporal things of this earth for by doing that you will forget about those who are needy. Those who are mourning or are sorrowful, and you will become self-centered living for yourself unconcerned for the justice of others.
C. How might you apply this to your life now? I need to think less about other’s sin for that is a symptom of the emptiness inside without Christ. I should start thinking about how this world and satan will eat them alive eternally and ultimately they will face God’s justice if they don’t give their lives to Christ.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react? My heart would naturally steer away from anyone who rejects me for my protection and my heart would want to enact justice myself! Yet Jesus tells us to do the opposite and we can’t unless we have His Holy Spirit inside.
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused? Well, that’s just man and what man falsely accuses me of doesn’t matter for God knows the truth and He is just and I am in Him and He’s in me, so I’m safe in His justice. I desire to grow to the point that I will have more compassion on them than hatred for they will face the ultimate justice in the end.
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past? That we should be kind at all costs to us, and no matter how badly someone hurts us we are to love them back. Now though, I see it differently. That there are boundaries with evil treatment for it is unjust to be treated bad so being able to be harsh yet with love can really only be done via His Spirit inside empowering me to do that, and if I focus on justice instead of desiring revenge, then I’ll experience His joy in the process instead of my flesh and anger.
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage? If someone is treating me unfairly, or unjust I am to do good to them, that doesn’t mean excusing the behavior, but it means treating them with the respect they didn’t treat me with. So that means having to keep a distance in some cases, but yet doing good at the same time. So for example, instead of joining in on gossip about how mean this person is, I don’t join in rather I find things about this person to like or to try to understand as to why this person is this way, and I do so with God’s wisdom. I also ask Him to help me seize moments to show this person His love because I’m focused not on the injury they caused me for ultimately if they choose to reject Christ they will face God’s wrath which is worse than anything they can do to me. What can man do to me? I have Jesus righteousness clothing me and therefore won’t face God’s wrath so I shouldn’t worry about facing man’s wrath.
I loved Keller example of the woman on the phone for drawing boundaries!
Dee, me too! It really made me think more about my situation.
Monday: The Text – Part I.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here.
—First depending on what version you read it basically says in verse 20 he lifted up his eyes on his disciples or looked at them. It would seem to me the connotation is that it was a loving kind of look.
I had to do some research to refresh my memory on what the word blessed means.
“Blessed speaks of our inner state of well-being, the prosperity of our souls in Christ. Blessedness comes from unhindered fellowship with God the Father through our Lord Jesus. To be blessed is to experience the full impact of God’s presence in our lives now and for all eternity.”
In considering this definition it would seem Jesus was saying to his disciples in spite of what is going on in your lives, no matter what your situation or the treatment you receive from others you are blessed on my account and with my presence. What he has for them will be in exchange for what they have now.
The kingdom of God for poverty.
Satisfaction for hunger.
Joy for sorrow.
Rejoicing and reward for ridicule.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
—When it comes because of Jesus we don’t have to let it steal our joy because we can count on the fact that it will be made right in heaven.
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here.
—Woe is the opposite of being blessed.
It is described as grievous distress, affliction, or trouble. It almost sounds like a curse.
B. How is He warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate?
—To live satisfied by and be content with the things of this world and to have the praise of men will ultimately bring misery of heart and mind. That is being consumed with self and a total lack of concern for others.
C. How might you apply this to your life now?
—It challenges me to live with a measure of caution considering just how comfortable my life really is. I dare not lose focus of the needs around me and what Jesus would require of me to reflect his great and loving heart for others.
So good from Bev:
—When it comes because of Jesus we don’t have to let it steal our joy because we can count on the fact that it will be made right in heaven.
Tuesday: The Text Part 2.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react? – For me it is so hard for me to give and show love to those who hurt me. I have to get to the point where I realize that forgiveness is needed to give me peace in my spirit and to remember that Jesus did the same for me.
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused? – The inner peace will only come when God’s Word is filling up more of my heart and mind. I cannot have this peace on my own. When I remember to turn to the Lord when falsely accused, I know that he will take care of whatever was done to me and justice will come.
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past? – I’ve thought this verse to mean, don’t fight back. Let them say and do what they will, most likely they do not have the Lord with them if they are treating me wrong and they think nothing of their actions.
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage? – We are to treat our enemies the same way that we treat those we love and care about. There should be no difference in our actions to anyone. We should act the same toward everyone we meet.
Julie, I thought that too. Don’t fight back. So this has been helpful — indeed, we shouldn’t “fight” back but we can respond with truth spoken in love.
Yes, we should not fight back, however speaking love can sometimes be received as being “holier than thou.” Such a slippery slope!
definitely a slippery slope and reactions can be mixed.
Tuesday: The Text Part 2.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react?
—The natural bent is self protection of our self interests. And hate and revenge quickly surface in in the heart when someone offends us and smears our character.
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused?
—I think it is only possible by the power of the Holy Spirit. I have more than once asked the Lord why as a believer I react so badly in situations where I am hurt or offended. I have told Him I want to have a heart that reacts spontaneously in the right way with a right attitude. But I most often find myself having to back up and out of the wrong attitude of heart. Frankly that kind of frustrates me. By knowing what his instructions are I’d like to think I am a “better” Christian than that. Shows me I’m not and it cannot be done in the flesh.
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past?
—I had to my do a little research to remind myself of the context of the meaning as to what it meant to the Jewish culture of that day because I knew it wasn’t just a matter of taking a physical slap and setting yourself up for another slap on the other side of your face. Maybe Keller will get into this?
One commentator relayed the practice used by the Roman soldiers of slapping someone to demean them.
In “On Turning the Other Cheek (and How It Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means),” Corey Far explained that a slap on the right cheek meant the soldier backhanded the Jews, which was a far more demeaning slap. “It was degrading,” he said. “It was what you gave to an inferior or a slave.” To not break down emotionally and simply turn the other cheek meant that the soldier couldn’t slap you again on the right cheek, and, Farr said, “he can’t slap you with his left hand, because that is unclean for both of you.” The soldier’s only option was to slap with the palm of his hand, and “this was not the way to slap a slave. This was reserved for equals.” Thus, in giving the other cheek, the degraded person asserted his humanity in a brave countermove — a humble response.
—I find it interesting he referred to it as a humble response. The point was to not fight back and I think Jesus was promoting as much as is possible to live in peace with others and not avenge themselves.
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage?
—By practicing generosity and mercy regardless of who it is and especially to someone who may be our enemy. To do so reflects God’s heart for people. He is a God of great mercy.
I so identify with your last paragraph. I recently watched an atheist at pickleball react so much more kindly to an obstreperous person than comes naturally for me. Conviction!
Just jumping in here now as this is another full week for me and I’m processing/juggling a lot…but I had to stop and just tell Missy how much your example ministers to me. I can only imagine how He smiles at you, aches with you in your true hard trials, but smiles on you as His daughter. He has entrusted you with much and you have been so faithful. And I love this that you said above “I’m full of failures and faithlessness and complaining and even bitterness at times. But I’m so thankful that the risen Lord is still teaching a recalcitrant daughter like me, and seeking still to conform me to His beautiful image.”
Thank you for your vulnerability, your humility, your servant’s heart-you are beautiful to know, shining of Him.
Oh, Lizzy! You are the one who is an example to me!
Amen to Lizzy’s comment to you Missy.
Amen to Lizzy, too! dear Missy!
Monday
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here.
He speaks of blessing over the poor-the Kingdom of God is theirs, the hungry-they’ll be satisfied, those who weep-in due time they’ll laugh, when people hate, exclude, mock and curse you as evil because you follow Me-be happy, jump for joy because a reward awaits you & the ancient prophets were treated the same way.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
I’m not sure I see that we’re to have a concern for justice as Christ will take care of that as well as our honor.
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here.
Sorrow awaits those who are rich-you have your happiness now, those who are fat & prosperous-an awful time of hunger awaits you, those who laugh now-it will turn to mourning, those who are praised by the crowds-their ancestors also praised false prophets.
B. How is He warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate?
I guess I’m not understanding what is meant by a concern for justice in this context? 🤷♀️
C. How might you apply this to your life now?
I’m hoping Keller’s sermon will bring more understanding to all this as I’m totally lost!!
I’m not sure it will, Sharon. I find Matthew’s version of the Sermon on the Mount a bit clearer, but for me, I think it is other scriptures that lend light on this like Paul’s words in Timothy about exhorting the rich, which we are, to share with the poor, to not trust in their riches — so I am thinking these rich are not doing that, not caring about injustice at all.
Wednesday: Part 1 of the Sermon: No Venom
7. Listen to the 1st part of the sermon up until Keller says that the followers of Jesus “speak up to injustice without any venom.” On the regular sermon it was at the end of minute 16. Then answer:
A. What particularly stood out to you and why?
—In relating Job’s life as a godly man in Chapter 29 and talking about having a passion for justice Keller identifies the disenfranchised of the world that are listed in that passage.
The poor,
The fatherless ,
The dying,
Widows,
Single mothers ,
The stranger or immigrant,
Examples of people with no clout. But the Old Testament law said no matter what your status there should be respect for you as a human being made in the image of God.
I was reminded of Miriam and her example of passion for justice and how she has and is living that out.
B. In Abolition of Man, C. S. Lewis said this sets Christianity apart from other religions. How so?
—Lewis put together a list of the common ethical principles that most great religions share as a common ground on moral ethical teaching but you will not find anything like what Jesus taught to love your enemies and turn the other cheek.
C. How does Micah 6:8 put these commands from The Sermon on The Mount succinctly?
—It speaks to the balance needed to live as God requires of us in that we are to do (practice) justice and at the same time to love kindness (have a steadfast love). To do them together.
D. Read Job 29:12-14 and describe how Job lived with both toughness and tenderness.
—He took up the cause of those who as I said “had no clout” and he helped relive their suffering but he also obtained justice for them by coming against the ones who abused them.
E. How did Jesus respond to insults with both justice and gentleness?
—When he was being insulted and mistreated on the way to the Cross but he in no way retaliated or defended himself except when injustice was being applied then he spoke up and identified it as such. But without venom or hate of any kind toward his abusers. And interestingly he could have destroyed them by the very word of his own mouth. But for his kindness.
F. How did Paul?
—Paul was arrested and beaten by the Roman Authorities and when the opportunity came he spoke up as a Roman citizen and stood against the injustice of what they were doing.
Monday: The Text – Part I.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here.
Jesus addressed all considered “scum” of the world then: the poor, the hungry, weeping/mourning, and those being excluded and insulted because of Him.
He talked about their reward in heaven.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
Jesus is saying that these are the people that he considered blessed. Do we associate with and stand up for them? Jesus wants us to!
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to His disciples here.
He pronounced woe to those who are rich and well-fed and are laughing now and are “popular” according to the world’s standard.
B. How is He warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate?
By contrasting the future of the less fortunate compared to the “fortunate ones” who are receiving their dues here on earth-there is no reward awaiting them.
C. How might you apply this to your life now?
I am praying for God to show me how to minister to one particular lady in our community who is in an abusive relationship and who thinks she has nowhere to go.
Tuesday: The Text Part 2.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react?
It is hard to love and do good to our enemies. We withhold doing so for them. We often think we will be like doormats if we let people take advantage of us.
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused?
To look at the example of Jesus. He will take care of us.
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past?
I think I have gone from a passive response to a vindictive response in the past.
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage?
Love and do good even to those who are not loving or good.
Do not expect to be repaid. Do not expect to get anything back when you lend something to somebody. Be merciful.
Would this be a cross-reference to Proverbs 25:21-22 about heaping burning coals on someone’s head?
May the Lord give you wisdom with this woman, Bing.
Oh Bing so hard sometimes to get understanding across to those who are scared and in pain. Praying for you.
Praying for you as you minister to the lady in your community. So many who are abused are afraid to report it.
3. Read Luke 6:20-23
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking tenderly to His disciples here.
He is encouraging them amidst their very real-life trials and discouragements, addressing their poverty, hunger, sadness, social exclusion, and being mocked and hated by others because of their identification with Jesus. He is assuring them that God sees and is concerned for them.
B. Keller says we are not to react to insults with a concern for our own honor but with a concern for justice. How do you see that in verses 22-23?
Jesus says that a great reward awaits you in heaven, when you are hated, excluded, cursed, and mocked in this life, because you are His. He reminds them that the ancient prophets also were treated in that way. God is a God of justice, and He will reward those who are His. He will judge those who are not His own, and we can entrust that to Him.
4. Read Luke 6:24-26
A. List some ways Jesus is speaking roughly to his disciples here.
Is Jesus speaking to his disciples here (Peter, James John….)? He is promising that sorrows await “you who are rich…satisfied…prosperous…praised by the crowds…laughing carelessly here and now. Jesus says that awful hunger, mourning, sorrow, and unhappiness awaits them. It sounds like most of us could be in this group, as we in America are likely more prosperous and do not experience hunger and the hardships that many in the world do.
B. How is he warning them to be concerned for justice for the less fortunate?
While Jesus isn’t giving instructions, per say, in this passage, to give, it is implied that if you are a person who has material wealth and possessions, social status, and the ability to laugh at life, then you had better not be self-contained and self-satisfied. It kind of reminds me of the man who had so much, he was just going to build bigger storage barns for his stuff, and God called him a fool. It is implied here to be aware of those who are hungry, unhappy, poor, afflicted, burdened, sorrowful, and ignored by society, and to do something within your means to help.
C. How might you apply this to your life right now?
I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately. It is easy to write a check and donate, as we already do, to our local homeless shelter to help provide meals for the homeless, to donate to help the people in Ukraine, for example. But I know that I live separated from those who are the neediest. I live in a suburban neighborhood where we are all mostly the same, racially and economically. What does it really cost me to donate money? Last week, when I learned that my next-door neighbor had a heart attack, I made up a care package with foods and took flowers to her, but that wasn’t a far trip, being only next door. A couple of years ago, I read a book called The Myth of the American Dream, and it was eye-opening for me. And a hard read as it made me do some soul-searching. It’s one thing to go in, volunteer your time and/or money, and then go home. It’s another to really invest yourself in the life of another, or in the lives of a group of people. A few years ago, my then high school-age daughter volunteered in a program one summer with her school in one of the poorest neighborhoods in Akron and one with a very high crime rate. There were a few streets the students were told not to go down. There were parents chaperoning small groups of students, and my daughter said she had never known such poverty existed. The ministry with which they were serving was started by a man and his wife who voluntarily moved into this neighborhood and raised their children there. He was so well-respected in the community that their home and yard was kind of a safe haven for the kids and no one bothered them. I ask myself, would I be willing to move into a poor neighborhood where I could likely be a victim of crime? Would I have been willing to have put my kids into an undesirable public school system?
Your last question is penetrating! That would be so hard — but perhaps that is what it means to “hate your family.” A quandary for certain. This is what Missy has faced, I’m sure, with her adopted kids.
Oh wow, this just brought light to that part of the verse. Hmm hard questions for sure.
7. Listen to the 1st part of the sermon up until Keller says that the followers of Jesus “speak up to injustice without any venom.” On the regular sermon it was at the end of minute 16. Then answer:
A. What particularly stood out to you and why?
I thought it was poignant when TK says that many have been mislead by this passage. That there should be no retaliation to mistreatment and we should still have police to protect the citizens. Jesus is passionate for justice but doesn’t believe that injustice should be allowed. No one should be beaten or stolen from and be allowed to get away with it. TK says that in the middle of Jesus’ trial he is struck, which is illegal. He calls the court out on allowing that injustice. Very interesting to me! I think of the cities and people who believe that we should “defund” the police. How absurd! I also am pained to see those injured and even murdered on the streets of NYC and nothing is happening to them. They are “arrested” and then let go because of a crazy law that says they don’t have to post bail anymore. It is not right. The good citizens are being attacked with no justice. I can’t believe this is happening in America. So terrible.
B. In Abolition of Man, C. S. Lewis said this sets Christianity apart from other religions. How so?
Jesus was radical! All religions have the basic same laws. Don’t murder, don’t steal, take care of others, have mercy on others. He said to love our enemies.
C. How does Micah 6:8 put these commands from The Sermon on The Mount succinctly?
“No, O people, the Lord has told you what is good, and this is what he requires of you: to do what is right, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.”
Micah 6:8 NLT
D. Read Job 29:12-14 and describe how Job lived with both toughness and tenderness.
I can see the tenderness to others but I only see the toughness in the footnotes of the amplified Bible. It says that he was self-righteous and not humble toward God. What am I missing here?
I’d say your footnotes are missing it for God certainly vindicated him in the end and knew Job’s heart. Yet it is certainly true Job was imperfect and perhaps did need some humbling. Just my thoughts!
Well, I know I’m a bit dull headed sometimes while reading the Bible, but nothing in the NLT, NIV, and the ESV lead me to understand that Job was tough, only tender toward these groups of which he speaks. Can anyone explain a verse that means he was tough on these people?
Oh, I misunderstood you, Laura. I thought you were trusting in the footnotes and you were not.
But, perhaps the toughness can be seen in fighting for the widow, for they were victims of injustice. Same with orphans. Righteousness and judgment were his robe (verse 14)
Wednesday: Part 1 of the Sermon: No Venom
7. Listen to the 1st part of the sermon up until Keller says that the followers of Jesus “speak up to injustice without any venom.” On the regular sermon it was at the end of minute 16. Then answer:
A. What particularly stood out to you and why? – Most religions share the ethical common ground. But Jesus breaks through all the common principals of morality. It looks like Jesus is saying to let people walk all over you, but it is the balance of the godly life. There is a balance between the tough and the tender. Do justice, love kindness. There is a balance that has to remain balanced, or all will fall apart. A godly person is actively concerned with justice. Those that don’t have clout don’t get all the protection of the law, but there has to be respect to who they are as a child of God. God created us in His Image and there is a sacredness and deserves justice. Do justice but love kindness-looks like it is inconsistent. Some think we should never stop someone doing wrong. It can’t be what Jesus means. He would be forbidding armies and police. Jesus knew his trial was to lead him to death. He protested like Paul at his trial. But Jesus is saying that a slap on the cheek is an insult, not an assault of physical safety but an attack on our honor. There has to be a spirit in his followers that is different than others.
B. In Abolition of Man, C. S. Lewis said this sets Christianity apart from other religions. How so? – he put together the dow (I think that is what he was saying) the common ethical principles, the common laws that all religions put together, but you won’t find what Jesus has spoken about loving your enemies in them.
C. How does Micah 6:8 put these commands from The Sermon on The Mount succinctly? – That we need to act justly and love mercy and walk humbly with our God.
D. Read Job 29:12-14 and describe how Job lived with both toughness and tenderness. – Job was going through a huge trial, but knew when to help others in need despite what was happening to him. He never forgot what it meant to live justly and walk humbly with the Lord.
E. How did Jesus respond to insults with both justice and gentleness? – Jesus rebuked those who needed correction but showed love and kindness to those who were in need. He knew his trial was leading him to his death.
F. How did Paul? – Paul protested against those who were falsely accusing him and pointed out the injustice to him as a Roman citizen.
Thursday: Part II of Sermon: Two Normal Reactions to Insults
8. Listen to the two ways, beginning around minute 17 to minute 29 when he says, “I want a relationship here, I’m turning the other cheek.”
A. What is the passive response?
—The passive response will not confront or rebuke but allows the slapping to continue.
How have you done that in the face of insult or injustice?
—There have been occasions when I have taken the verbal hit but been burning up inside.
B. What is the vindictive response? How have you done that?
—The vindictive response hits back. There have been times I have immediately lashed out verbally with unkindness and a defensive heart.
—These responses have primarily happened in my marriage with my husband but keep in mind I have been married 55 years next month so there is a lot of history of living together between us. And we were two very young kids (both 18) when we got married. We did a lot of interaction very badly over the years but for the grace of God who brought good counsel and teaching from his Word into our lives and marriage.
C. What is the combined response?
The combined response is to be passive on the outside but seething on the inside.
9. Christians should behave so differently.
A. What did you learn about a wise response from the conversation Keller heard from the woman on the phone?
—She immediately took control of the situation by confronting her father about what he was saying.
How did she give her dad a chance to start over on a new footing?
—She gave him time to think about it.
B. Is there a way you could apply this in your personal relationships? What might be a scenario?
—A couple of months ago when my daughter vented her feelings and said some pretty hurtful things to me in her trying to straighten me out I was left with the problem of determining not to defend myself and not striking back with my own words but then managing my own heart’s response to her. A couple of times I challenged comments by her because they were not truth but in her mind and out of her own insecurities were spoken and needed correction. As we have gone forward from that place we have sought to love one another better. At times it still feels a little tenuous but this teaching is so good for me to consider how I can continue and apply how to let it affect my responses to to her. The enemy would love to have destroyed our relationship but for the grace of God who hears her prayers and mine. Thankfully she is a believer who wants God’s will for her life.
C. Why is it not loving to be passive and refuse to rock the boat?
—It buries the problem and if not dealt with the boat will get blown up!
D. Why is forgiving not a wimpy way out, but healthy and loving?
—Forgiveness is the practice of kindness and there is great power to diffuse responses in the midst of hard feelings. It can take the anger out of me and the other person as well.
Praying for you with your daughter, Bev. So painful.
E. How did Jesus respond to insults with both justice and gentleness?
He asked a question. Why do you break the law by striking me? He made the point but didn’t lash out at all.
F. How did Paul?
He asked Caesar for a trial, as anyone else would be given.
8. Listen to the two ways, beginning around minute 17 to minute 29 when he says, “I want a relationship here, I’m turning the other cheek.”
A. What is the passive response? How have you done that in the face of insult or injustice?
No rocking the boat. Favor continuity instead of change.
We were “bashed” by our daughter and her husband, on FB, and they tagged really the entire community; our church, the school district, the town hall, etc. It was pretty vile stuff they were saying about us. We did nothing. What were we supposed to do? It would have been bad either way. It was painful. We held our heads up high and went to church. Our church held us up. literally and figuratively.
B. What is the vindictive response? How have you done that?
The person who is struck strikes back. They want the person to feel as they did.
I guess the best example of this is when our second oldest was an out of control teen who left our house for 5 days without telling us where he was. I was scared and mad. When he got back (he said nonchalantly, “I was just in Maine with my friends.”) we applied to the court and had him put under house arrest for 6 months. He was 16. It was an ugly time for our family.
C. What is the combined response?
You are actively composed on the inside but telling the truth on the outside.
If you are familiar with John Gottman’s marriage counseling, you will know that the most reliable predictor of divorce is what he calls “stonewalling.” You are seething inside, your heart rate if off the charts, but you absolutely have given up and are completely quiet on the outside.
9. Christians should behave so differently.
A. What did you learn about a wise response from the conversation Keller heard from the woman on the phone? How did she give her dad a chance to start over on a new footing?
The woman told her dad she would be hanging up and would call back later. He did not have the right to speak to her that way. By allowing some “thought time,” she was giving him the chance to change his response.
B. Is there a way you could apply this in your personal relationships? What might be a scenario?
When someone in my house begins to not see “eye to eye,” with me, I can say, “I am walking away and will come back when everyone is calmer.”
Or, what I did with my youngest. He knows exactly where I stand with the gay thing. But he also knows how much I love him.
C. Why is it not loving to be passive and refuse to rock the boat?
Because it’s not honest. Anger can build up and then blow at a certain time. This has happened in our family recently when a family member, who had held their feelings in for 10 years, finally let it out. It has caused a huge rift in our extended family 😟.
D. Why is forgiving not a wimpy way out, but healthy and loving?
Because there are second chances for all! It is a good thing. It is an offering to rebuild the relationship.
My heart aches for you and what your daughter and her husband did to you on FB, Laura. It is heartbreaking when someone abuses their parent, especially publicly. Your friends who know you, know the truth of your good character. This behavior usually backfires on the one who acts with vengeance. Sadly for them, they cannot put the toothpaste back in the tube.
It was many years ago, and as the old saying goes, “time heals all wounds.” These two actually live with us now. We realize the importance of the kids knowing someone younger than us. All our family members are old like us! We want them to have someone to turn to in a time of need. They have our other children as well. Basically these are two people who need much love and have mental issues.
7. Listen to the 1st part of the sermon up until Keller says that the followers of Jesus “speak up to injustice without any venom.” On the regular sermon it was at the end of minute 16. Then answer:
A. What particularly stood out to you and why?
The godly life~ the God-like life: Do justice, love kindness. Tough and Tender; Courageous and Sweet; Outer activism and Inner peace. Justice for the oppressed. Love your enemies and pray for them.
B. In Abolition of Man, C. S. Lewis said this sets Christianity apart from other religions. How so?
The Common laws of human conduct are the principles of most religions: against crime and killing; promote truth. In no religion, other than Christianity, will you find: Love your enemies and those who persecute you. Pray for your enemies. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, turn to him the other cheek also.
C. How does Micah 6:8 put these commands from The Sermon on The Mount succinctly?
Do justice, love kindness and walk humbly with God.
D. Read Job 29:12-14 and describe how Job lived with both toughness and tenderness.
Job helped the oppressed; the poor, the orphan, the helpless, the widow, and he was clothed in righteousness and justice.
E. How did Jesus respond to insults with both justice and gentleness?
Woe to those who do not do justice; oppressors and the comfortable; Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. The spirit in His followers has to be different from what is normal in the human heart. This spirit is concerned with truth and justice, but of no concern for your image, saving face and your ego.
F. How did Paul?
When Paul was imprisoned as a Roman citizen without a trial, his rights were violated and he appealed to Caesar.
8. Listen to the two ways, beginning around minute 17 to minute 29 when he says, “I want a relationship here, I’m turning the other cheek.”
A. What is the passive response? How have you done that in the face of insult or injustice?
I tend to take the passive response. That is not necessarily a good thing, I know. I could never be an attorney….I am not good at comebacks or even defending myself. I get crushed. Sometimes, giving things time can make issues easier to discuss. People usually cool off once they have verbally vented. Sometimes, I even feel guilty when what is being said is false….did I do that? say that? think that? My first attempt is to apologize, if what is being said has any truth at all….words, especially texts, can so easily be misunderstood. I am not good at conflict…
B. What is the vindictive response? How have you done that?
Sometimes I can feel angry inside and I pray constantly that I will not nurture a bad seed into a great weed. Getting even is never a good idea on any level. Even the thought of someone deserves something because he or she was ornery is not a good seed to plant in one’s head or heart. I love Tim Keller’s book on self forgetfulness. I wish I had that book when my children were young. It is so important to separate my feelings about the “slap” from my feelings about the person. I love the person, but not the behavior.
C. What is the combined response?
Explode after too much or be passive on the outside and seething on the inside. I have done this in the past….it is really unhealthy….it hurts all parties, especially the one who seethes. It is hard to forgive when you allow your heart to harden.
If you are familiar with John Gottman’s marriage counseling, you will know that the most reliable predictor of divorce is what he calls “stonewalling.” You are seething inside, your heart rate if off the charts, but you absolutely have given up and are completely quiet on the outside.
9. Christians should behave so differently.
I love this: To be a follower of Christ, one has to have a spirit that is very different from what is normal in the human heart. This is the spirit concerned with justice and of no concern for your image, saving face or for your ego. Christ’s followers are interested in the Spirit of Justice , but they go about it without the slightest vindictiveness, vengefulness or spite.
A. What did you learn about a wise response from the conversation Keller heard from the woman on the phone? How did she give her dad a chance to start over on a new footing?
It was the perfect response!
B. Is there a way you could apply this in your personal relationships? What might be a scenario?
This is such a good way to put a relationship on a new footing. I really needed to hear this sermon. It is so so good!
C. Why is it not loving to be passive and refuse to rock the boat?
Being passive does not improve the relationship. It does not put the relationship on “restart” or a new footing. Taking control of the situation, as the woman did with her father, is such a good way to keep in loving, yet give change a chance.
D. Why is forgiving not a wimpy way out, but healthy and loving?
Forgiveness is an immediate “reboot” of a relationship. I tell my kids that if it happened before today, it is good to not bring it up again. Once something is resolved, bury it at the bottom of the sea. Move forward, starting today.
10. Imagine a scenario that has or truly could happen in your life when you speak out against injustice but simultaneously show the person you really care for them.
When our daughter was defending a behavior in a confrontation with her brother. I encouraged her to apologize, even if she did not feel that she had done something wrong. We all tend to view arguments from two entirely different perspectives and with two strong willed people, who both want to be right, the battle can wage on for years. Apologizing, forgiving and agreeing to move on, is the only way to heal confrontations. It is a choice. This is what I love about:
Do justice; love kindness; walk humbly with God.
This popped up on my screen today: AGAPE: The highest form of love, selfless, sacrificial, unconditional, persists, no matter the circumstances. Always giving and devotes total commitment to the the highest and the best.
Patti — I too think this will be my take-a-way from this sermon:
I love this: To be a follower of Christ, one has to have a spirit that is very different from what is normal in the human heart. This is the spirit concerned with justice and of no concern for your image, saving face or for your ego. Christ’s followers are interested in the Spirit of Justice , but they go about it without the slightest vindictiveness, vengefulness or spite.
5. Read Luke 6:27-31
A. How are the commands in verses 27-28 completely contrary to the way the human heart would normally react?
Jesus tells us how to treat our enemies – those who hate us, hurt us, curse us, demands things from us. He says to love them, do good to them, pray for their happiness, turn the other cheek, and offer above and beyond what is asked of you without thought of repayment. The human heart normally reacts by putting up walls, being defensive, getting angry and lashing out, paying the person who hurt you back by doing or saying something hurtful in return, and withholding from them.
B. How is it that the Christian should be able to have an inner peace when falsely accused?
The believer should rely upon God’s approval, not another person’s. God always knows the truth about everything, and He knows when we have been falsely accused and His opinion of us is not swayed by false information.
C. How have you interpreted Luke 6:29 in the past?
I have never interpreted it as meaning we are to allow another person to physically hurt or abuse us. It does not mean that a Christian is not allowed to defend herself against a physical attack. For example, a wife who “turns the other cheek” when her husband is physically abusive is only enabling him to sin against her without any consequences.
6. Read Luke 6:32-36. What are some of the ways we can overcome evil with good according to this passage?
We can choose to love those who have hurt us and to do good to them. We can lend money to those who have no ability to repay us. Jesus encourages us to be compassionate like God is compassionate. This is my opinion: “Love” here doesn’t mean we have to have loving feelings towards someone who has hurt us. It means that we can choose to help someone with our time, talents, or money, if we can do so safely. That does not mean, for example, to continue to lend money to a family member say who is manipulating you for money and they have an addiction. A wife who has been abused needs to separate from her husband for her own safety. She can choose to forgive him, but trust is something that must be earned.
Love this truth, Susan: The believer should rely upon God’s approval, not another person’s. God always knows the truth about everything, and He knows when we have been falsely accused and His opinion of us is not swayed by false information.
And this: trust is something that must be earned.
Thursday: Part II of Sermon: Two Normal Reactions to Insults
8. Listen to the two ways, beginning around minute 17 to minute 29 when he says, “I want a relationship here, I’m turning the other cheek.”
A. What is the passive response? How have you done that in the face of insult or injustice? – When you are mistreated how do you respond; this one keeps the same cheek available so they can keep hitting it. They let the bad treatment keep coming, we don’t rebuke or confront the behavior. We will just take the abuse. We don’t want to rock the boat. I let this happen when I don’t stand up to those that oppose the ways of the Lord. I stay silent and by staying silent I’m sinning just like they are.
B. What is the vindictive response? How have you done that? – this response hits us on the cheek but you strike back, we get vindictive and pay them back. We make them feel bad like they have made us feel. I will point the finger back at them and put the blame on them or point out what they have done that was wrong to make me feel better about my anger toward them.
C. What is the combined response? – some of us do both, we may do it in stages, we hold back for a very long time and then we just explode. We may do both of these at the same time and that makes us a danger. None of these responses are valid and lead to the misery in today’s world.
If you are familiar with John Gottman’s marriage counseling, you will know that the most reliable predictor of divorce is what he calls “stonewalling.” You are seething inside, your heart rate is off the charts, but you absolutely have given up and are completely quiet on the outside. – Oh this is so me. I get very quiet and don’t say a word, especially to my husband. I give him the silent treatment and pretty much just say to him ‘fine, I’m not saying anything anymore.’ This is so not good and allows the enemy to get in to our relationship and make it a rocky terrain.
9. Christians should behave so differently. – we should be opposed and telling the truth on the outside and have peace on the inside and show love. We need to have justice and kindness which allows the relationship to be real.
A. What did you learn about a wise response from the conversation Keller heard from the woman on the phone? How did she give her dad a chance to start over on a new footing? – She told her dad how she felt and what she would not accept from him and what she expected from him or she would hang up on him. This is a natural response and takes strength to turn the other cheek and gives the opportunity to start over with the relationship. It gives the person a chance to kiss the other cheek. She put everything out on the table so he was not blindsided if she hung up. She gave him a chance to think about what she said and allowed him to make the changes needed to have a good relationship with her.
B. Is there a way you could apply this in your personal relationships? What might be a scenario? – I’ve done this with my older son, Kyle. When he got out of the service he was very angry, part from the treatment he got and from old wounds that built up from the divorce. When he would start yelling at me, I would tell him to stop or I’m hanging up. I would never just hand up, I would always say, ‘ok you can stop yelling since it’s not my fault, or I’m hanging up’ most times I would have to say ok, I’m hanging up now call me when you can talk calmly, good bye.
C. Why is it not loving to be passive and refuse to rock the boat? – This is not a courageous approach. It makes the relationship superficial. To get to the height of a true relationship you need to go through the chaos of telling the truth. We can’t let them keep doing wrong, we need to show that we care about justice at the same time of wanting a relationship. If we continue to let them do wrong and we just ignore it, we are creating a monster and they will go along in life thinking they will never be wrong or have anyone oppose their thinking. They will not learn how to compromise and think in a different way about something.
D. Why is forgiving not a wimpy way out, but healthy and loving? – We need to get in touch with our anger and to really win we need to forgive. We need to show that we oppose the treatment by showing our care and concern toward them. It will make them realize they can’t just do what they want to people and not have consequences to deal with later on.
10. Imagine a scenario that has or truly could happen in your life when you speak out against injustice but simultaneously show the person you really care for them. – In today’s world there are so many circumstances that can come up now. Abortion, Gender issues, gun control, the list is endless really. We need to dig deep in to The Word and find out what God says about the issues and always direct them back to the bible. It’s not an easy thing to do at all especially if the person who you are discussing the issue with is not a Christian. This is something I need to really get better at, defending my view from what the Bible says and to not be passive about it, but show in a loving and caring way why I believe as I do. Our church broke away from expository preaching in June and had a week-long series on these topics. The book they had us read is Confronting Christianity, 12 Hard Questions for the World’s Largest Religion by Rebeca McLaughlin. It has some good points in the book, but was deep in parts so I need to go back and reread it at a slower pace to absorb what really was being said. I want so badly to not offend others viewpoints but at the same time direct them to the Truth.
Friday: Walk Humbly With Your God
11. Listen to the end.
A. What are the problems of not showing mercy, not forgiving.
—If you don’t forgive your enemy you give into injustice. They have control over you. Until you forgive the mistreatment has won.
There can never be a meaningful relationship.
Be valiant for justice and kindness.
B. He gives an example of admirable men and women from the Middle Ages. What did he say?
—An ideal that was not sexually stereotyped. Men and women had both the characteristics of justice and kindness.
12. The key is to walk humbly with God. How does Keller explain this from Luke?
—We need Godly balanced behaviors.
Jesus knew how hard it was.
Keller said “A new attitude toward the self based on the new relationship with God is the source for this tough tender balance of Godly life.”
It is the nature of God to be kind to the wicked and ungrateful.
We are an adopted enemy. An adopted child who was once an enemy.
If we practice verse 35 “Then you will be sons of the Most High”
“Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”
13. How does Keller bring in the abrasive point that the Bible calls us enemies of God?
—Many think they have never been an enemy of God. Anyone who thinks that is not a Christian. A Christian discovers that he was really an enemy of God. We use God and then are angry when he doesn’t come through. We want to control God.
A Christian is someone who has broken through the repression. It is totally by grace. Jesus died for his enemies. Me included.
14. What else stands out to you?
—We only find the power to do justice and practice kindness because of the Cross. Because we have a merciful God. It only happens when we know God is our Father.
The enemy description is such a good wake-up call to our depravity. You bring that out well, Bev.
10. Imagine a scenario that has or truly could happen in your life when you speak out against injustice but simultaneously show the person you really care for them.
My colleague (and friend) have very different ideas about abortion. She believes we should allow it, and I say we should not. She is agnostic. She knows exactly how I feel and I try to limit conversations about the topic because it can be so volatile. She knows that I care about her and she has been with me through the hardest times with our daughter. She sees our upside down-ness with Sarah; how we should (by the world’s standard) do nothing to help her after everything we have been through. I can try to have the conversation about abortion without the anger next time the subject comes up.
That’s good, Laura. Is your friend a believer? I think often until that happens the peripheral issues aren’t going to go anywhere. God has to change their heart with His Spirit.
Laura and Dee, just chiming in here as this week has been extra busy with church activities. I am also spending a few days with our daughter and enjoying a laid-back time with her in Kansas City.
My daughter and I have a few differing opinions about such things as abortion, etc. Thank you, Dee, for reminding me that only God can change her heart with His Spirit. We had a conversation yesterday about something else. I tried to stay in silent commune with God while we talked so I do not get frustrated with her and with myself for not knowing how to respond during our conversation. Tough and tender according to Keller! I sure can use help in this area.
Good practice Bing! These young ones are so misdirected these days, aren’t they? I will pray for our kids.
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11. Listen to the end.
A. What are the problems of not showing mercy, not forgiving.
You are under the control of the person who has wronged you. You always think about that person; it never ends.
B. He gives an example of admirable men and women from the Middle Ages. What did he say?
Both the men and the women had the strength of a knight and the tenderness of a lady.
12. The key is to walk humbly with God. How does Keller explain this from Luke?
It seems impossible! Jesus knew how hard it was when He said it. He gives us the second balance (do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with God), out of which the first one flows. You have a new attitude towards yourself, based on your new relationship with God. God’s nature is to be good to the wicked and ungrateful. You are wicked and ungrateful. You are adopted by grace.
13. How does Keller bring in the abrasive point that the Bible calls us enemies of God?
A Christian is someone who says they are religious and moral. I’m a good person! But when God doesn’t give me what I want I get so mad. You use God. We are trying to control Him. We are expecting Him to come through for us. As long as we are getting what we want we are okay with Him, otherwise we aren’t. We must admit we have been an enemy of God. Jesus did justice and was kind as well. We are an adopted enemy. When we realize this then we are growing as a Christian. Jesus did justice and loved kindness all at once! This gives us a fire in our hearts. We can get the fire to grow by remembering how He has helped us in the past.
Saturday
My takeaway:
From Keller “speak up to injustice without any venom.”
I appreciate the balance that comes out of this teaching on turning the other cheek. To do justice but love kindness. In my relationship with Him it is possible to mesh both together. The no venom aspect of having a heart like God’s that is kind and merciful to my enemy. And being reminded I was an enemy of God at one time but he loved me and addressed justice on the Cross so that I might experience his mercy and kindness bringing salvation to my life.
Saturday:
15. What is your take-a-way and why?
a. Sinful heart responses of which I have been guilty: passive response, vindictive response, and or a combination of both. They never have brought about the righteousness of God. Jesus calls us to do the opposite, namely, to actively oppose injustice but to be peaceful inside. I am hoping to be more reflective of my responses in the future, to be willing to see the other person’s point of view, to stand on God’s truth, and to respond in love.
b. That I have been once an enemy of God but that in His kindness and grace, I am now His friend. I have been where others are still. Help me, Lord, to be tough but tender. And to be in a prayerful spirit instead of in a defensive mode when relating to others with differing opinions.