How often have we determined on Jan 1 to lose weight, to exercise more, to be kinder, calmer, purer… but by mid-January , we are screaming:
I CAN’T DO IT!!!!!!!
Stop screaming and listen to what you’ve forgotten.
Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.
John 15:5
We can’t bear fruit on our own. We must put Him first, above our idols, and abide daily. The whole purpose of this blog is to help us, together, to do just that.
Thank you for praying for wisdom along with me. I feel led to do nine weeks with Paige on Daniel 1-7. I have an Easier Green Path, and a Harder Black Path. If you end up somewhere in the middle, that’s okay too. You’ll be abiding and you will bear fruit. Just stay with it!
Watch 10 to 15 minutes each weekday and share one thing that stood out to you. You may not finish the whole lecture, but you will still learn much and be blessed.
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Black, More Challenging Level.
Watch 15 minutes each weekday and answer the questions in black.
Weekends are for God Hunts and/or catching up.
But before we start Paige on January 10th, we’re going to abide by reviewing highlights from the last year. Reviewing helps cement His precious truths in our hearts.
Then, on Wednesday, Jan. 10th, start watching Paige. Everybody does green on Wednesdays! On Thursday, Jan. 11th, by 9 Central Time, you’ll get a reminder in your inbox that my black questions for the week are up.
But for the next ten days, let us ponder, as Mary, the mother of our Lord, did, what we’ve learned about our God in 2023. Together, we can help each other keep the one commandment that will help us truly bear fruit in 2024.
Sunday: New Year’s Eve, 2023
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why?
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black?
Monday: New Year’s Day, 2024
Early in 2023, we did a series on “Abba’s Child.” One portrait we considered, with the help of Henry Nouwan, was the Father in the story of the prodigal sons. (Read Luke 16:11-32.)
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024?
For me, I had a lightbulb moment for I’d always wondered if God backed away or ran toward me when I sinned. I see this Father doing both — allowing both sons to experience the pain of their choices, yet running for the younger son when he returned. I realized that even in allowing pain, He is running toward me, wanting me to come to my senses and repent. I pray that I will trust Him in hard times and be a quick and sincere repenter.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here.
Tuesday: Abba’s Child.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours?
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think?
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed?
Wednesday: Honoring Tim Keller
Tim Keller died on May 19th and we spent the summer doing the first six chapters of John with him. Because he has had such a big impact in all of our lives, I’d like you to ponder:
8. Is there a particular teaching from Keller that has profoundly impacted your life? If so, share what it is and why it impacted you.
For me there are so many, but here are a few:
- He has changed the way I preach and teach. I’m sad it came so late in life, but I am intent on glorifying the Lord and lifting Him up whenever I am given a chance to preach or teach. Keller almost always found a way to melt your heart with the gospel. One way of preaching is to go through a passage and then suggest ways to apply it. Keller was concerned listeners might never apply it unless their hearts had begun to melt during the teaching.
- He turned the light on for me with idolatry, helping me understand the sin beneath my sins.
- He’s helped me to better understand and pray Scripture, whether is the psalms, God’s prayer book, or any passage.
9. Tim and Kathy went to listen to some young gifted preachers. When they were leaving he asked Kathy what she thought. She commented on their giftedness but said they did not yet have “the weight of glory.” That’s a phrase Lewis used to describe God and those who particularly reflect Him. I so saw that in Keller, and how He did not want to be the one in the spotlight. What did you see that you admired about him? How could you be likewise? Pray for your heart.
Thursday: Lord of the Wine and Lord of the Whips
(Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented?
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple?
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how.
Friday: Jonah
This Fall we went through Jonah with Paige.
13. If you were with us, what was a key lesson that stood out to you? How could you apply it in 2024?
14. If you weren’t with us, here are a few of the key lessons that stood out to me that might also impact you:
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Jonah’s national identity was more important to him than his spiritual identity. (See how he put his nationality first in Jonah 1:8-9, and how he never told them his occupation!) Putting being a Hebrew first led to his hatred of the Ninevites and his disobedience. I see many Christians so obsessed with their political party that it distorts their life and attitude toward others who don’t share their view. My prayer for myself is to give grace to others and not put my hope in political leaders. What about you?
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Jonah seemed to realize he had a problem with idolatry, (Jonah 2:8) and yet we don’t see him breaking free. Where have you broken free or are breaking free from an idol that was hurting you? Where do you need prayer?
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Paige ended her lecture asking, “Did Jonah ever get it?” She said, as the Puritans used to do with new believers, “We’ll see.” Why should we not give new professing Christians too much responsibility?
Saturday/Sunday
15. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this week?
Monday: Thanksgiving Psalms
16. During November we prayed through various psalms, specifically: 46, 72, 106, and 42. Share some highlights that impacted you and then pray them into your heart.
Tuesday: Advent
17. During Advent we concentrated on the wonder of the Christmas story: the begats, the Word becoming Flesh, the many faces of the Christ of Christmas in the gospels, and Mary’s wonder. What do you remember in particular and why? How might you pray it into your heart?
Wednesday: Green Path
18. Paige begins Daniel today — if you are joining us, Wednesdays are always the green path. Listen to the first 15 minutes either sitting down or multi-tasking and share. I hope this link works:
https://www.westendcc.org/paige-brown-bible-study
This is what stood out to me and why:
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Sunday: New Year’s Eve, 2023
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why?
The peace and joy that comes through focusing on the real reason for Christmas. It always seems that Christmas is anti climatic but I have chosen to savor my Savior and reflect on His faithfulness to me and my family. He is Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father and Prince of Peace the whole year through and for that I am thankful!
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black?
The word abide and the verse you shared, John 15:5 was a WHOA moment for me and let me explain why. The last two weeks of December I have been trying to decide my one word for 2024 and I had written down about 15 words and just kept them before me and God in prayer. I had decided on a word but just didn’t feel it was quite right and this last week God led me to meditate and study John 15:1-14. Yesterday morning as I was making the bed I was praying once again about my one word and I had a light bulb moment because the word “abide” kept coming to my mind…a word I hadn’t even written down and I knew right then that was it. Imagine my surprise when I read your opening this morning Dee…God is amazing! I found this quote from James Montgomery Boice, regarding the meaning of the word “abide.” “It’s talking about the will, about the choices, the decisions we make. We must decide to do things which expose ourselves to Christ. Keep ourselves in contact with Him.” And as you said Dee, “we can’t bear fruit on our own…we must abide daily” in Jesus, His word and His love.
I do sense God is leading me to stay and Lord willing, I hope to take the green path. I was really excited when I heard Paige was doing Daniel as it’s one of my favorites!
Oh how I love it when the same Spirit says that same thing — great quote from Montgomery Boice too. Yay. And Yay you’ll be skiing the green with Paige!
Sharon,
Oh my goodness!!! I just read your post after I added my post. What a blessing to be led to the same word as you and for Dee to emphasize it in her opening today. I’m amazed and thank you for sharing the meaning as described by James Montgomery Boice. I too am excited to hear Paige’s teaching on Daniel. It has been a favorite book of mine as well. A couple of years ago I read Anne Graham Lotz’s book called “The Daniel Prayer”. I was really blessed by her teaching on Daniel’s example to us on praying.
How can this be, Sharon and Bev? God is so good! “Abide” is my word for the year, too! I have goosebumps here! I typed my answers for today’s questions before I read both of your responses! So cool! I had another word I had in mind but changed it as I explained in my comments. Just wow!
Sharon, what a great God moment, to have confirmation when you didn’t even think it was to be. So great your eyes and heart were open to His plan.
I love your “Whoa” moment, Sharon and the way the Holy Spirit spoke to your heart! You are abiding!! And what a great quote from James Montgomery Boice.
Not sure how I got under here for posting. I’m going to try and repost Wednesday’s questions again.
Sunday: New Year’s Eve, 2023
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why?
—I am thankful for this opportunity to come down to Texas and spend some extended time over the next two months with our son Chris & his wife Steph. And our three married grandchildren and the 6 great grandsons.
We are blessed to have our own space in a little two room casita. We have an incredible view to the east in the hill country and the morning sunrises have been glorious. All of which I am thankful for as we settle in for these weeks ahead.
But it is about relationships and between Steph and her mother whom Steph despises, two competitive grand daughters, a grand daughter in-law who fuels the fire in a passive/aggressive manner and a bunch of men who are doing a dance most of the time just to keep all these women happy 🥴
And they are a noisy bunch (which is hard for my husband).
As I sit here thinking about it all I can be sad at what I see and the dysfunction of it all. But…I am smiling at the moment because it could all be fodder for a sit com of years past. Can you say “Dallas”. 😀
I am thankful that at this point in time we have good relationships with all of them and it feels like an opportunity to bring a neutral voice into their midst and have conversations to help point them to Jesus the One who brings peace into lives and changes things.
I’m also thankful for a church we have found to attend that is clearly teaching God’s Word and is actively sharing the Gospel.
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black?
—I was blessed and amazed by my sweet Father who orchestrates things so beautifully. For many years it has been my habit to choose a verse for the year but since I was so blessed by choosing a word for the year on the blog last year
I had decided this past week to also do that again and guess what it was?! ABIDE.
What an affirmation of that choice as I read the opening today.
I will definitely be staying with you and I will probably do a mix of black and green depending on timing and some travel plans while here in Texas.
Bev:
Oh may the Lord help you love well and wisely during this family circus! I believe He will use you. And glad, so glad, you will be with us on green and black!
I forgot to add that the verse I chose for the year 2024 is
1 John 4:16
”So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.“
Love this verse!Amen!
Bev, love the “neutral voice” you bring to your clan. And yeah, Sharon, you, and I chose the same word-ABIDE/ABIDING!! How about that, sisters?
That is so amazing that you all chose the same word!
That is amazing — and so good of God. Abide!
Bev, your view sounds amazing! So sweet that you have a place for reprieve and still be so close to your family…what a blessing. I will be praying for the relationships within your family and that you will be sensitive to His leading in what to say or not say.
May you be the peace in the middle of the chaos. You were to be there at a time like this. Hugs!
Relationships and family can be challenging. I pray that your husband will have peace in his heart, even through noise…happy noise, hopefully. 🙂 It is a blessing for your children and grandchildren to have parents like you grounded in Jesus. So thankful you have found good church to attend and have beautiful sunrises to remind you that His mercies are new each morning.
Sunday: New Year’s Eve, 2023
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why?
I am thankful for the peace I am experiencing amidst the myriad of things that have come to mind lately. I am particularly thankful for how the Lord has led both my husband and me to do the book of John for 2024; he, to do a series of messages this year and I to do John 3 and 4 “Encounters with Jesus” through the wordgo app. It is an app developed by people who have been using Bible Study Fellowship materials. Women have signed up for either a morning or evening time. I am excited about the interest being shown in studying the Bible.
Moreover, this Christmas break has given me a more reflective time than I ever had. The message of His birth and what it means to me just confirmed the word “Abide” for me. It is abiding in the One who loves me unconditionally.
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black?
I would like to stay and probably will go between the green and black path but more of the green. God has been faithful to provide the time so I can spend it here and be refreshed and encouraged. This is where I have learned to see, know, and love God more, so I plan to stay.
John 15:5 is a treasured verse for this year and my word for this year is “Abiding”. I need to grow more in this area of daily abiding in God and His Word.
So glad you will be with us, Bing! And sounds like a great app!
Bing, so glad you have experienced His peace this season and how exciting that both you and your husband have been led to be in John…would love to be a little mouse in your home so I could hear the conversations of what God is teaching each of you. 😜🐭
So sweet that you and Sharon picked the same word and that you and your are doing the book of John for 2024. How great is our God.
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why? We had our family get together on Friday There was laughter, everyone came except for 1 girlfriend, people seem to enjoy one another Why we’ve had get togethers where someone gets upset with another or comes upset I’m thankful God made it a pleasant and enjoyable time
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black? My word last year was abide. I have benefited from this blog. The study, insight and kindness I find here makes me look forward to it. I’m looking forward to the next study. I hope to do the black path even though seeing words most difficult as challenging and added to that it’s already a challenge for me to be in book of Daniel. There may be days I switch to green. Happy New Year, everyone! May God continue to bless our study of His ways and His word.
wow, Judy! You had “abide” last year and now there are at least 3 of us who will have that word for the year! Thankful you had an enjoyable and pleasant time with your family.
A pleasant time with family is a great answer to prayer.
Judy, so glad your family gathering went well! Happy New Year to you as well and praying that the Holy Spirit will give you and all of us clarity and teachable spirits as we go through Daniel.
So thankful you had a pleasant time with family. And how fun that you had the word “abide” last year! I always love your stories on this blog, Judy.
oh Dee. I’m always amazed at how the Spirit leads you, how teachable you are to listen, how He uses you to bless us because of it.
I am on my 3rd week of being sick so I have not been following well, but when I saw your “just one resolution” in my email I wanted to read. And now seeing this on ABIDE. Oh I love how He speaks to us what He longs for us to hear, and for me He says it just enough times and ways so I can get it! Just last night I was feeling the weight of my default mode of “trying so hard”–at everything in my life, and I was sensing God leading me out of that this next year. I came across an old Desiring God article by Jennie Allen, she said of John 15, “Jesus tells us to stop trying to be vines and learn to be branches. He’s the Vine, and we’re meant to live out of his abundance. It’s as if he says, ‘Listen, your work is to stick near me, abide in me, pray to me, soak in my words, be with me, and love me. All you need to be is a little, dependent branch; I will make you to bear fruit.’” And I walked away with this truth that all I need to do, is ABIDE. Depend on Him. Thank you for speaking that same truth here. Love you all!
I love this, Lizzy. “ “Jesus tells us to stop trying to be vines and learn to be branches. He’s the Vine, and we’re meant to live out of his abundance. It’s as if he says, ‘Listen, your work is to stick near me, abide in me, pray to me, soak in my words, be with me, and love me. All you need to be is a little, dependent branch; I will make you to bear fruit.’” I, too, want the fruit that comes from abiding in Jesus. And I hope you are recovering from what ails you.
Lizzy! Three weeks of being sick is terrible. I hope you are feeling better now. Yes, if we abide in Him then we will be safe. Love and hugs 😘.
Oh Lizzy – an Advent of being sick. Lord, please put your hand on Lizzy.
And I love that we should stop trying to be vines and be branches.
Dee, you said those words to me so many years ago, when I was struggling. Thank you for your faithfulness to our Father all these many years. Your faithful abiding and telling me that perhaps I needed to abide more in Him, has stayed with me forever.
Oh, Lizzy! How I pray that you will be better soon. I agree with Bing. I love those words you quoted from Jennie Allen. I so want to be a little dependent branch. I felt so empty at the end of this year and I know that is Jesus beckoning me to depend and abide.
Lizzy, your post so encouraged me with what you shared from Jennie Allen, in regards to abide…thank you so much! I’m so sorry that you have been sick for so long and I pray for God’s healing hand upon you.
Prayers for Steph’s healing and for wisdom and peace as you and your husband as you navigate and bring Christ’s light into their lives.
Lizzy, the Jennie Allen quote is a great reminder to be still and lean into our Father. Prayers that you will start feeling better soon.
Liked the Jennie Allen quote. Thank you, I copied it down. Good plan for the New Year. Prayers you feel well soon and that 2024 is a rich year of abiding.
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why?
I am thankful for my husband’s family. We spent the week with three of his 5 sisters. I have no one really, in my family, so I am glad he has such a crew!
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black?
I am scared about the new study; how intense it will be, however, I also know I will get so much from it too. I will stay, and try to complete the black version.
You have been so faithful Laura, and continue to be! And I have seen such growth.
Laura, I so appreciate your honesty…”I am scared about the new study: how intense it will be.” Me too! But as you said and I say with you, “I will get so much from it.” Praying for all us here.
I will join you in praying for all of us here, Sharon.
What a lovely blessing to be with your husband’s family!!
Amen, Laura! I always worry I won’t keep up, yet I agree that I will get so much from it too.
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024?
This father accepted his son back with no strings attached. May my husband and I be this way with our children. Especially the ones who are not walking with the Lord and seem to just take from us with no gratitude.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year.
He has kept me close when I have struggled with a very strong idol.
He has protected me at school with my students. I have nice kids who don’t have “issues” like what is plaguing our society right now (gender, suicide, etc.).
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here.
I think I am definitely a child of God. He told me I was His and He would always be my Father, when my earthly father was dying, so I expect Him to be there, loving me.
Oh Lord, help me remember that You love me, when the world is so large and unloving. Thank You for always being with me. I know I am never alone. Amen.
It fills me with joy to see how God has led us together with ABIDE! How I’ve grown to love each one of you.
My Christmas was an answer to prayer. My financial advisor told me I had a little wiggle room this year so I chose to take my youngest and her family and myself to visit Sally in Albany. We had such a sweet week together — the cousins are best friends and do so well together. Annie’s family had to spend Christmas in the Detroit airport, but that was the only big bump. Lots of tears when we parted but as my dad always used to say, “Isn’t it wonderful you are sad, wouldn’t it be terrible if you were glad?”
What a week of blessings, Dee! Praising God for His goodness!
So glad you had a great visit with your family Dee.
Yesterday at church, at the end of the service, we were told to come up and take a stone and write a verse or word on it to think about all year. I took a stone, but have yet to write anything on it, but what I’m feeling is that I need to lay it at His feet. I need to give up control, where I should not be holding on to it. I will be waiting for His presence in my heart.
Thank you, Dee, for all you do for us. The time and energy you put into these studies. What a great family I have here.
Julie, I love that idea of a stone with a verse or word to think about all year. Thanks for sharing!
So glad to hear you were able to go see Sally and her family as well as Annie and hers! God is so good.
Oh Dee, you are so loved too and I’m so glad you were able to spend Christmas with your daughters and their families,
Thank you all!
Dee, love that quote from your dad! With our sons and our 3 grandsons and our 2 lovely daughters in law living far away, when they come here or we go there, I am overjoyed. When they leave; it can even be a few days later and I will burst into tears out of nowhere. That’s a good way to think about it.
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why?
I am thankful that God sent His Son, that those who believe in Him may have eternal life. I am been praying to truly behold that profound truth in the way I live each day. Last week, I was invited to coffee twice and a wedding reception (from a wedding that took place in Michigan last summer) by former students that my husband and I knew and mentored at school. I heard sweet things about how the students and parents love Ron’s legacy with his students. It has really helped my grief to see how my husband became closer to God in all ways, even as he aged and became ill. I was nervous attending the reception, as it has been almost 5 years since we retired. And yet, I talked to so many former colleagues that we both had worked with; it was so comforting and encouraging for me. How I thank the Lord for these lovely and unexpected times that God brings to my days that help my heart to heal.
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black?
I love John 15:5. It has been a key verse in my life and life changing for me. I want to truly abide more and more. The older I get and the more I study the Bible, the more I realize that I can do nothing without being in His will, abiding in Him only, and staying connected to Him, the vine. From Him, I have life; In Him, I have His will directing my ways. In Him, I can do things for His kingdom that I can not do myself, for He leads me in the path that will glorify His Name. I pray that I can let go of me more every day and be abiding in Him more each day. I sense God leading me to stay and I want to take the black path~ going deeper into His Word.
I am also taking this week to review all the questions and answers from last week, as I was not able to participate. It was a great lesson and I want to start my year reviewing it.
What a kiss from the King Patti, to be invited to coffee and a wedding reception where you heard of the impact Ron had in the lives of his students…wonderful!
Patti, how comforting your posts is to me. How we hesitate to go or do something but in the end, God is always there. Love that.
Patty, continue to pray for your comfort
Wonderful news from you, Patti! So glad you are being ministered to by others.
Patti — such an affirmation on the impact you and Ronnie had on their lives. And yay — staying – -doing black!
Thank you all for your prayers now and this past year. They have meant so much to me and really carried me through sorrow. I love you all dear sisters in Christ.
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why? I’m thankful for the time spent with our youngest, Jacob and with all four of our boys on Christmas day! The time spend with them prompted me to reflect on my life, since being married, regarding our four boys. Thinking about the time they were born up until now. How they’ve grown to be such gracious men, embodying deep empathy for others, kindness, consideration, and all so very generous with everything God’s given them. They are all on their own journey to know Christ and God’s hand is all over it, and He has his timing and knows their hearts way better than I do, and even better than they do. So He’s got this, and I’m thankful for that!
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black? I love the green and black options! I’m not sure which one I’ll take yet. I want to try both at first and see how God leads me! I’ve spent way too much energy on my marriage the past four years and I think it has become an idol. I’ve spent valuable time researching and reading books about what I’m going through, and lamenting which has drawn me closer to God, and also we have been going through the Psalms at church. All that to say, I have lost much needed time spent with the Lord in scripture, and so I need to hear Him there and need this study.
Rebecca, I love your insight and reflection on your four boys. To trust that God’s “got this,” reminds me of my own children. I’ve got to entrust them into His hands and pray the foundation they were given as children will help them in choosing to live for Christ. Thanks for sharing.
What a comfort for you and a great reminder for us that God’s got this!
Beautiful words from the heart of the godly mom your are Rebecca. Trusting God. I pray that you are able to do the study.
I love your whole post, Rebecca. And yes, He’s got this! And be so good to have you with us on either slope!
Monday: New Year’s Day, 2024
Early in 2023, we did a series on “Abba’s Child.” One portrait we considered, with the help of Henry Nouwan, was the Father in the story of the prodigal sons. (Read Luke 16:11-32.)
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024?
At the time we studied the parable I also read Tim Keller’s book “The Prodigal God”. Then on several occasions this past year my son has preached about the prodigal son so I have richly been blessed with a much greater understanding of the dynamics of the story and how radical it was for the father in the story to respond to the wayward son with such absolute and complete grace. And throwing all decorum aside He ran to him. Culturally the father’s actions went completely against all that would have been expected. Jesus is giving us amazing insight into the Father heart of God.
I feel my lesson from this is to look at my own heart toward others and the need I have to respond in a Christlike manner to those who offend me. To have a forgiving heart. To show kindness and respect when I feel they don’t deserve it. To have a heart that remembers I didn’t deserve it either. But God came rushing and gave all for me.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year.
—I would say primarily in how He has settled my heart by clearly showing me his love for and his constant presence with my 99 year old mother. My heart was struggling a year ago with her condition and her situation of being completely incapacitated and a longing for Him to take her home to himself. But as my sister and I prayed together He has given both of us a peace about Mom. And then as the year commenced we saw the sweet love the staff was demonstrating towards Mom in their care for her. He showed us she was where He wanted her to be and that He was very close to her in her every need Even just her sweet smile has ministered to them and we know that is because of Jesus.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God?
—I am so grateful to live everyday day in the light of God’s love for me as his child. I was a long time coming to that place because for many years I felt more like an orphan but my Heavenly Father lovingly dispelled that.
Pray for your heart here.
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God my gracious Father,
I am so grateful to be called your child and to be a joint heir with Jesus who came to earth in flesh and lived among us demonstrating perfectly your heart towards us. I desire this year that my heart be conformed to your image and that I might live out in experience being able by the power of the Holy Spirit to effectively love others. To have a heart that doesn’t just love its own but loves the unloveable like you do. I don’t want to have a hard heart that only serves self. As I have come to know and to believe the love that You have for me I desire to abide in love and abide in You living in the promise that You will abide in me. May all honor and glory go to Jesus.
I’m just going to add here how I blessed I have been to just read back through all the comments so far. To see the threads of what God is doing in our lives separately and together amazes me. What a faithful God we serve!
Amen, Bev. God is working in all of our lives. It gives me such good chills. I so love this that you wrote: To have a heart that remembers I didn’t deserve it either. But God came rushing and gave all for me.
Love how the Word has helped you trust Him with your 99 year old mother.
Bev and Bing, wow!! As I read you both also chose the word abide and Dee opened up with it in her blog, I felt such joy and confirmation! I look forward to see and hear how Jesus (The Vine) abides in us and we (the branches) abide in Him. When I think of that, I think of the verse from Song of Solomon, “I am my Beloved’s and my Beloved’s is mine;” ~ 6:3. ❤️😊
Monday: New Year’s Day, 2024
Early in 2023, we did a series on “Abba’s Child.” One portrait we considered, with the help of Henry Nouwan, was the Father in the story of the prodigal sons. (Read Luke 15:11-32.)
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024?
That he was so welcoming and willing to forgiven his son that left home and wasted his inheritance in wild living.
That I too will be welcoming and be willing to forgive others as my Father is to me.
For me, I had a lightbulb moment for I’d always wondered if God backed away or ran toward me when I sinned. I see this Father doing both — allowing both sons to experience the pain of their choices, yet running for the younger son when he returned. I realized that even in allowing pain, He is running toward me, wanting me to come to my senses and repent. I pray that I will trust Him in hard times and be a quick and sincere repenter.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
A child of God for I have experienced His great love in so many ways unconditionally.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year.
Through the ups and downs of life, He never changes, He never fails and He’s always there to pick me up.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here.
There are days I live like an orphan, feeling like, how does God put up with me? But I also know in my heart of hearts He does forgive and His arms are always open.
Sharon — I love your application of being forgiving and welcoming like the Father.
Sunday: New Year’s Eve, 2023
1. As you reflect just on this last week between Christmas and today, what are you particularly thankful for and why? – I have found I’m content with just being with ME and I’m thankful God has brought peace to me by that. I’m not saying that family and friends are not part of my life, but I was ok with it being just me and my husband. I’ve heard from others that ask what we did say oh that sounds wonderful. I didn’t have to deal with chaos, arguing or complaining, but was able to just enjoy the things I love to do, read (Hidden Christmas), craft and watch a little TV.
2. What thoughts would you like to share on my opening and the plan going forward? Do you sense God leading you to stay with us? If so, what path will you take: green or black? – I am excited to hear another of Paige’s series and excited for the plans you have come up with. My hope is to do the black run, but I now feel more at peace about doing it knowing I can do the easy ran when needed. Paige has so much information and it’s a blessing Dee, that you can bring it deeper with your questions. Thank you for being an obedient servant of God.
Julie I totally understand the contentment of “just being with me.” So glad it brought you peace and a time to do the things you so enjoy.
Did you love Hidden Christmas, Julie?
I am not finished with it yet but have gotten a new take on Christmas and what it truly means. I’m going to pass the book along to a friend who is a newer, seeking Christian that asks a lot of questions that make me see she wants to learn.
I understand being content with alone time. It gives time to savor God’s Word, and wonderful books, like Hidden Christmas. So lovely that you had a peace filled Christmas, Julie.
Monday: New Year’s Day, 2024
Early in 2023, we did a series on “Abba’s Child.” One portrait we considered, with the help of Henry Nouwan, was the Father in the story of the prodigal sons. (Read Luke 16:11-32.) – I think this reading should be chapter 15?
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024? – It’s kind of funny for me to being go back to this parable. My older son, who many of you have prayed for, doesn’t reach out very much and I sometimes find things out about him from my Mom. But, at Christmas I called him to see how he and his son, Logan were doing, and he said he would call me back. When Logan called me back, we talked for a bit, but then Kyle started texting while I was talking to Logan and he told me to download Snapchat so I can video call Logan…well it’s been Kyle, my prodigal, calling and reaching out more than Logan. Who knew that was all I needed to be able to talk and see my son, LOL. But like the father in the Prodigal Son parable, I can see just how much he loves his son, like I love mine. We have to give them their space, like Jesus does for us, but be willing and ready to have open arms when they come running back or start communicating again.
Lord, what I’ve learned this time from reading this again, is that I need to never cut someone off, keep my distance maybe, but have the door ready to be opened again, if that person chooses to come through. I need to be able to forgive and forget and start from fresh, knowing that person has realized what has happened. Help me Lord to do that this year. Help me to not hold grudges, but to pray and reach out so the path becomes less between us.
For me, I had a lightbulb moment for I’d always wondered if God backed away or ran toward me when I sinned. I see this Father doing both — allowing both sons to experience the pain of their choices, yet running for the younger son when he returned. I realized that even in allowing pain, He is running toward me, wanting me to come to my senses and repent. I pray that I will trust Him in hard times and be a quick and sincere repenter. – Oh wow Dee, I just said some of the same things above.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does. – Oh I never thought of this before. But I guess at times I may act like an orphan until I’m done with my pity party of why something is happening, but I know I’m a child of God and that he loves me with everything he has. That his silence, or what I think of as his silence, is really his love in helping me see and grow in the hard times.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year. – I see His tender love in the things he stops from happening or those he allows. One thing this year was not allowing a ‘cute’, older car purchase. Well, he let the purchase go through, but once it did, I did not feel peace in my spirit and he stepped in and didn’t let the car run but one day, LOL. The car was towed back, and we started all over again. Needless to say, he saved me from a bad decision. The other is how he shows me love in the decision to move away from family and friends. It’s been 2 1/2 years now since we moved, but there was hurt and opposition from family, but He has taken me in his arms and allowed peace to come. Things just fell and are still falling in place since we moved. I know it’s Him because there is peace.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here. – I guess I answered this one above in question 4.
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024? The father had already given the disrespectful son his share of inheritance, embarrassing his father. Then after son ran off and squandered it, the son repented and tail between legs went back home The father’s loving response was to run to meet his son. The picture shows both the father’s hands on him in tenderness with a gentle forgiving look on his face. How great the Father’s love that we may be called children of God. God has already given us His Son. When we looked at Philippians 2 a few weeks ago, vs 5 stood out to me in your relationship with others have the mindset of Christ. Sometimes when helping others I may have some mental grumbling. That certainly doesn’t represent Christ mindset. I know I have forgiveness, but I need to serve with the love and compassion of Christ.
For me, I had a lightbulb moment for I’d always wondered if God backed away or ran toward me when I sinned. I see this Father doing both — allowing both sons to experience the pain of their choices, yet running for the younger son when he returned. I realized that even in allowing pain, He is running toward me, wanting me to come to my senses and repent. I pray that I will trust Him in hard times and be a quick and sincere repenter.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year. He poured out His blessing in May when we had a memorial service for my mom. We all had to travel from other states and it all went well and it honored my mom even though she had been adamant that there was to be nothing. It was particularly a blessing because of our ages and physical distance between sibs I don’t know when we will see each other again. My son and dil and granddaughters are active and connected to a church.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here. I’d like to think I live daily as a child of God. I can start the day well but sometimes slip up. Thank God for His mercy Father, help me take closer steps to You and remain close to You in every moment Let me represent You well drawing others closer to You. In Jesus name.
Love hearing about the blessing of the Memorial Service, Judy.
Monday: New Year’s Day, 2024
Early in 2023, we did a series on “Abba’s Child.” One portrait we considered, with the help of Henry Nouwan, was the Father in the story of the prodigal sons. (Read Luke 16:11-32.)
1. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024?
There seems to be a certainty that the son will come back. The Father was prepared for the homecoming of His son. He was always waiting for the 2 prodigals to come back to Him, the one who left and the other who stayed. I have always felt I have been both sons but God, the Father, always welcomed me back. I am praying that I will always remember I have a Father who loves me and is always waiting for me. I heard this song and understood why it was written (although no actual addiction for me) “Walker revealed that the song was about a friend of his who was struggling with addiction, and explained that he wrote it for his “family and [his] friends to let them know that [they] can talk about it.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDuyXkfmlnY
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year.
He saw me through a difficult year of waiting for our program’s approval and the weight of feeling responsible for its delay. I have continued to learn not to feed my idol of approval. But to seek God’s approval. As a friend has told me, I have an audience of One.
My mother’s heart has been sensitive to the ups and downs of my relationship with my daughter, Ruth. But God’s tender love kept reminding me of who we both are, and I needed to let go of control and let God have His way in both of us.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here.
Sometimes it can be a struggle to live as a child of God. My default mode is to be works-oriented but I am happy to say that god is letting me grow in my knowledge of who I am in Him. And it is okay for me to ask Him for what I desire leaving them to do what He deems best.
Great growth in both Ruth and your perspective, Bing.
Early in 2023, we did a series on “Abba’s Child.” One portrait we considered, with the help of Henry Nouwen, was the Father in the story of the prodigal sons. (Read Luke 16:11-32.)
3. What stood out to you about this Father? How might you use this information to pray for your heart in 2024? The Father’s heart toward his son is like the heart of God, who desires repentance from us when we sin. I pray that I may walk closer to the Father this year, that I will be abiding in His care and that I will trust in Him, even when I cannot see or imagine the future. I pray that He will make me aware when my thoughts are sinful, so that I will quickly and sincerely repent and stay close to Him daily. Love the word Abide. I think Abide and Hope are my words for 2024.
For me, I had a lightbulb moment for I’d always wondered if God backed away or ran toward me when I sinned. I see this Father doing both — allowing both sons to experience the pain of their choices, yet running for the younger son when he returned. I realized that even in allowing pain, He is running toward me, wanting me to come to my senses and repent. I pray that I will trust Him in hard times and be a quick and sincere repenter.
4. We considered Jack Miller’s question: “Do you live like an orphan or a child of God?” An orphan does not expect love whereas a child of God does.
I try to live like a child because I know that perfect love is from our Father. I know He is there even when I fail. I sometimes cling to things that He may desire to take from me for His reasons. One of Corrie ten Boom’s quotes is: “The safest place to be is in the center of God’s will.” That is where I want to abide.
A. Share at least two ways you have seen God’s tender love to you this year.
God has been with me daily through this most difficult year of my life. Every single day, there has been something ~small or large~ a phone call, a message, a card, a kind stranger, a dream, a sweet Godwink….that reminds me without a doubt that God is in charge.
B. Do you think you live daily as an orphan or as a child of God? Pray for your heart here.
Lord, give me a heart that is able to let go to the things of this earth that I cling to for security. Heal my heart and fill my loneliness with ways I can better serve You and Your kingdom. I tend to hold onto things that may be keeping me from being closer to You. Direct me in the path that You know will best Glorify You. I want to be the clay and I want You to be the potter. Sometimes that hurts, but help me to be in Your will in all ways.
Safest place to be is in God’s will. So good.
Love your answers Patti, so much peace is felt in them.
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours?
Simon was concerned that she, a sinner, was touching the so called prophet.
She was only concerned of the care of Jesus.
I used to care about how I looked when it came to awkward situations (my children mostly). Then I realized it wasn’t about me. Now I only care that I do my best to show God’s love to others no matter the situation. Sometimes it is hard.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think?
I am not sure that I do now. I try not to, but reality is painful sometimes and you don’t want others to really know what is going on inside because then they might hurt for you too. It’s the “Fine” when someone asks you how you are doing. Are we really fine? If we truly say what is on our mind then are we complaining? I get what you are saying about trusting in God; we don’t have to put on a face, and I believe that to be true. It’s just drawing others into the reality doesn’t seem too loving to them either.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed?
Well Dee, it’s only been 1 day! Just kidding…God has answered many small prayers over the course of the year, but not much in the way of my family dynamics. That tells me we might be moving in the wrong direction in our choices with our children. We might need to rethink this.
He has moved my life in a very large way over the past couple of months. My entire life has changed. Thank You Lord.
Your last answer made me smile. You are right — I forgot this would fall on Jan 2!
Oh Laura, I like this…God has answered many small prayers over the course of the year, but not much in the way of my family dynamics. That tells me we might be moving in the wrong direction in our choices with our children. We might need to rethink this. Hmm…I’m thinking now myself.
Tuesday: Abba’s Child.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern?
—I would seem to me it was appearances. To him it looked bad to have contact with the sinful woman.
What was the woman’s?
—to have contact with Jesus and to worship Him.
What is yours?
—To be like the woman in response to Jesus.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God?
—I try not to. A mask hinders any reflection of Christ coming from my life to a hurting world.
If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think?
—Through the study of God’s Word and daily time spent with Him I have come to appreciate and bask in the reality of His deep love for me. He has become my security as my loving Father and he is the only One who truly knows my heart. No one else is able to do that so it is futile to live for the praise and approval of others.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed?
—I feel like last year was one of solid growth for me personally from being in a consistent habit of studying God’s Word and more times of prayer. Although I still struggle in my prayer life to focus. My mind wanders horribly but I have found it helpful to write down my prayers. And to write them based on scripture.
God has answered many prayers on many fronts and I am in awe of Him for that. I feel I am more careful in my requests and to spend more time in praise.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours? Simon’s greatest concern was about Jesus, and showing Him love and hospitality~ it was about how he, Simon, appeared to others. He put on a good performance, but his heart was only concerned with his own image. The woman had desired to change who she was~ she was a sinner, but her love and care of Jesus, showed her repentant heart filled with love for who He was. I pray that I will stay in the hand of God, that I will be able to grieve, yet press into to Him alone for my comfort and hope. That I can keep my eyes on the Cross. Psalm 91:1 “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High Will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.” I love John Wesley’s Covenant prayer in Hidden Christmas and the quote from 2 Corinthians 4:16-18.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? I pray that I let go of my idol of “approval” because it can draw me away from my focus on God and trusting Him. I am only God’s child because of His redemption, not anything I have done or trying to be perfect, because that is something I will never achieve. If my life can be pleasing to Him, I can live in His light and not the darkness of self.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed? I have seen His risenness in the faith of my daughters and my grandchildren. Through this difficult year, they are pressing into Jesus. It has lifted my heart and been a beautiful time of Risenness, sharing and growth. Through this pain, Jesus is filling our hearts with His light as we walk with Him. My oldest daughter, who has never found a church she likes, loves our church and pastor. I know I have mentioned it before, but it is life changing for her! Praising God!
oops…typo….Simon’s greatest concern was NOT about Jesus.
Since “Abide” is my word for the year I especially appreciated this verse you shared as one comforting to you.
Psalm 91:1 “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High Will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.”
Blessed to hear how your oldest daughter who couldn’t find a church has found yours to be a blessing in her life. We are praying our son and his wife will find a church that can minister to them in their needs.
Will pray with you for your son and his wife to find a church, Bev.
Tuesday: Abba’s Child.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours? – Simon was always concerned about who was around Jesus. He put up a wall and couldn’t clearly see the reasons behind Jesus’ actions. The woman was grateful that she was forgiven and wanted to show Jesus her appreciation. She knew what she had done in the past was wrong, but Jesus could see her heart. My concern is that I may be like Simon and jump to conclusions about someone and start to judge from the outside without knowing what their heart is truly saying.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? – I don’t wear a mask and only wore one when I needed to go into a place that required it, but if no one was around me I would pull it down. I think everyone should have an opinion about whatever it is, and I should listen, but that doesn’t mean I will agree with what they think. Like my husband who listens to various videos and gets all caught up in the chaos to the point he starts getting made, I don’t do that. I don’t really care about the latest You Tube videos that only bring anger and resentment, I want to see this world come back together as one body, a world under what God thinks and commands. I want to see the videos where people are helping each other and not thinking they have more rights than I do. I always say ‘God is in control’.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed? – I have seen my locking thumb bending again, YAY!!! I have seen my best friend be healed from stage 3 ovarian cancer, double YAY!!!! Thank you Jesus! With answered prayer I can feel a deeper trust and faith that God will handle what I’m asking him to do or whatever situation that I’m in. In the case of my friend, I saw such peace and trust in God while she was going through it all and how she was able to have a great outlook of her journey no matter what way it ended. The forgiveness she had toward the doctor who missed the diagnosis and how she realized he is human was what amazing. I was not happy that he missed it but she was not afraid to bring down and make me realize that he is only human. God is all around if we can step back and take the time to look for Him. He will help us if we give it to him to handle. We have to let go of everything and ask Him to hold it for us.
Love your friend’s attitude toward her doctor.
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours? Simon judged Jesus for allowing a sinful woman to touch him. Woman was there to worship her Savior. I would like to adore and draw near to my King and Savior every day
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? At times I wear a mask I trust God but I sometimes respond I’m fine to people or say circumstances are fine because people are busy and have their own stuff to deal with. Also i have friends that could overwhelm me with advice. Sometimes I just need God and His peace not a lot of other voices
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed? My husband had been very angry and depressed from October through early December. He is mentally doing better. He isn’t seeking Jesus yet, but he has listened when I’ve talked to him about God. He hasn’t complained about my radio selections when I drive him to appointments. I’ve laid out a daily devotional. He hasn’t read it but he hasn’t stuffed it in a drawer or thrown it out. I’m hopeful this is the year he surrenders all his attitudes to God and starts a relationship with Him. One of my daily prayers for self is that I overflow with the fruit of the Spirit. God has filled me with joy. I can’t explain it. The days are gray here but I sense the goodness of God. I dont deserve it and cant explain it, but He overwhelms me with His love.
Sounds like small steps toward God for your husband. I will be praying he sees what you have and wants it for himself.
I join Julie in praying for your husband, Judy. Praying for his heart to open to the joy and goodness of God that you find in your life. God’s love for us makes such a huge difference.
Amen to praying your husband’s heart will move toward Jesus.
Tuesday: Abba’s Child.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? That if Jesus really was a prophet, He should know that a sinful woman was touching Him. What was the woman’s? Being at the feet of Jesus. What is yours? I’m a sinner in need of Jesus.
6. Do you wear a mask? I do around certain people. If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? Maybe it’s lacking. If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? That is something to ponder. Not really sure I’m following this line of questioning. I really don’t care what they think of me but I do care what they think about Jesus.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed?
I have seen a softening of my sister’s heart but not enough to make a change, so I continue to pray.
I pray with you for your sister!
Sharon, I will continue to pray for your sister, too.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? That everything is done properly and that everything looks good on the surface. What was the woman’s? That she shows her unabashed gratitude to her Savior. What is yours? Probably being too churchy for the non saved people in my life and being too worldly for the saved ones.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? Sometimes I do especially at work. If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? I know that I need to only do what God wants me to do. My focus should be on nothing else, but pleasing Him.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed? I have had a greater sense of peace with the growing realization of God’s complete love of me, no matter how great a failure I am.
That’s a huge answer to prayer, Dawn. And so glad you will be with us and do the black starting next week!
Love this, Dawn. I know that I need to only do what God wants me to do. My focus should be on nothing else, but pleasing Him.
I plan on taking the black path in the upcoming study.
8. Is there a particular teaching from Keller that has profoundly impacted your life? If so, share what it is and why it impacted you.
I think his “religiosity” vs. “spirituality” comparison has impacted me most. I always thought we had to check the boxes, even though I’m not Catholic, to belong. He has made it more for me. To know Jesus! I love this.
Here’s a copy of the t-chart:
https://www.courageouschristianfather.com/religion-vs-the-gospel-by-tim-keller/
That has impacted so many — thanks for mentioning that, Laura.
Thank you for sharing that link, Laura. Love that chart!
Wednesday: Honoring Tim Keller
8. Is there a particular teaching from Keller that has profoundly impacted your life? If so, share what it is and why it impacted you.
—I kind of hate to choose one (so much is so rich) but last year I read and I deeply appreciated his little book “The Prodigal God”.
He brought out how the definition of the word prodigal as an adjective actually describes and should be instead applied to God our Father.
wastefully or recklessly extravagant:
giving or yielding profusely; very generous; lavish
lavishly abundant; profuse
I have not and will never read and view Jesus’s parable of what we call “the prodigal son” in the same way as I did before. It profoundly enlarged my view of God as my Father. It deeply reinforced my perspective of the deep love of God for me and for all his children. His “prodigal”love.
9. What did you see that you admired about him?
—His incredible wisdom in handling and teaching the Word of God. He had deep intelligence and a thorough knowledge of God’s Word but an ability to translate the truths of scripture down to where we live and apply it to our hearts and lives.
How could you be likewise? Pray for your heart.
—This is not a self deprecating comment but I could never presume to be like Keller in his incredible abilities in his giftedness to teach. Frankly I am not a teacher and have no giftedness in that regard but I do want to have a desire for God’s Word and the power it has to change my life. Keller always whet my appetite for more of God’s Word. I pray for a hungry heart.
Paradigm changer for me and many!
8. Is there a particular teaching from Keller that has profoundly impacted your life? If so, share what it is and why it impacted you.
Tim Keller had so many gifts, but most of all I think the way he approached his audience is one of the things about him that so impacted my life. Every book, sermon or devotion that he has written or spoke, turns our hearts toward Jesus.
The first book I read by Keller was The Reason for God. In this book, he writes about the meaning of sin and how it is not just breaking rules and doing bad things, but the making of good things into ultimate things. and how identity apart from God is unstable. (Idols) This is just one book.
In the Prodigal God, Keller demonstrates how “we all in a way using God and others to get power and control for ourselves.” He shows us how wrong we are trying to hard to do it ourselves. We need to be humble, we cannot do it ourselves. We must rely on God daily. The first step to receiving grace is to know we need it. (Abide)
And in Hidden Christmas. Jesus is our ultimate Hope. (Faith)
For me there are so many, but here are a few:
He has changed the way I preach and teach. I’m sad it came so late in life, but I am intent on glorifying the Lord and lifting Him up whenever I am given a chance to preach or teach. Keller almost always found a way to melt your heart with the gospel. One way of preaching is to go through a passage and then suggest ways to apply it. Keller was concerned listeners might never apply it unless their hearts had begun to melt during the teaching.
He turned the light on for me with idolatry, helping me understand the sin beneath my sins.
He’s helped me to better understand and pray Scripture, whether is the psalms, God’s prayer book, or any passage.
9. Tim and Kathy went to listen to some young gifted preachers. When they were leaving he asked Kathy what she thought. She commented on their giftedness but said they did not yet have “the weight of glory.” That’s a phrase Lewis used to describe God and those who particularly reflect Him. I so saw that in Keller, and how He did not want to be the one in the spotlight. What did you see that you admired about him? How could you be likewise? Pray for your heart.
Humility is what I saw most of all in Tim Keller. He did have “the weight of glory” even as his health diminished. In reading his biography, I could see how he never was interested in being in the spotlight. He loved speaking to others, even in college, in small groups….just discussing the Bible. I so see his humility and wisdom, as a man who want all attention directed to Jesus.
I love Tim and Kathy Keller’s devotional books, as well. God’s Wisdom for Navigating Life ~ in the book of proverbs. Jesus is wisdom itself. ” We don’t need a book of specific rules for situations…instead I hear you calling me to grow into a wise person who discerns what to do.” from Keller’s prayer for January 1.
Sooooo true: Every book, sermon or devotion that he has written or spoke, turns our hearts toward Jesus.
5. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours? Simon’s concern was with what it “looked like” to have a prophet allowing a sinner to even be near him. The reason he thinks this is because he lives for “appearances” himself. I think maybe most pharisees’ greatest concern was appearances rather than to love God and a way to show it is by abiding in Him.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? I can wear a mask, yet He’s so patient with me! He uses the deeper valleys in life to help me let go of the mask and keep me from putting it on. I can easily wear a mask to default to people pleasing rather than resting in God’s love. For example, In the past three or four months I’ve battled making a very important life changing decision. When I people please regarding this decision, it tells me that I’m running to my approval idol and not resting in God’s approval. It’s like I’m afraid to make other people in my church unhappy with me, and afraid of their judgment of me behind my back. They aren’t in my shoes so they will never see the whole scope of what I’ve been through, and I’m making myself feel stuck.
Resting in God’s love: I am more confident in His love since being on Dee’s blog starting way back in 2010! 🙂 I think our study in The Song of Songs impacted me deeply for I was introduced to the heart of scripture-to what God’s love truly looks like contrasted with my idols that were exposed in Dee’s book Idol Lies. Talk about two great back to back studies! Even in the moments I feel dark and unlovely, and want to hide from Him instead of pressing in, He longs to hear my voice, and He’s covered me in His love and righteousness, and His Holy Spirit is living inside me to comfort and to help me. What love!
I’m growing even stronger lately via reading Leslie Vernick’s book. I’m reading it again for I need to soak in the truths she shares. It’s amazing what lies we believe about God’s love! Like the institution of marriage is more important to God than a spouse who is getting emotionally, psychologically, and or physically abused. I don’t believe God would want a woman or a man to stay under that if the abuser isn’t truly willing to change. The more I rest in His love, the more confident in His love I get, the more I see He’s for me, and the more courage I have to take the next step.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed? God comforting a dear friend and his family who I’ve known for 30 years, who’s wife died suddenly last June. She was an amazing, godly, and wise friend to me and to everyone she knew. She loved so well. God is their strength and I see how He has provided abundantly for them via their needs but also emotionally through the body of Christ who’s been there for them through thick and thin.
(This is Rebecca D.) 🙂
I think I know what decision you need to make, and I so support you if I’m right! 🙂
Rebecca, I so agree with you about Dee’s studies: Song of Songs and Idol Lies. I was not on the blog at that time, but both those books have changed my life and the lives of friends and family members. So thankful for your humble heart for Jesus, dear Dee. Praying with you for your decisions, Rebecca, that you will continue to rest in His love and sense His presence in all that you do.
What did you see that you admired about him? How could you be likewise? Pray for your heart.
I like how he was so confident about his faith. He exuded that to non-believers, but he wasn’t arrogant. I want to be that way.
Dear Lord, You are an amazing part of my life! I can’t imagine my life without You. Thank you for loving me. Thank You for saving me. Help me show You to others freely, without reservation. Why wouldn’t they want eternal life? Help me meet them where they are, in their life, right now. Amen.
9. Tim and Kathy went to listen to some young gifted preachers. When they were leaving he asked Kathy what she thought. She commented on their giftedness but said they did not yet have “the weight of glory.” That’s a phrase Lewis used to describe God and those who particularly reflect Him. I so saw that in Keller, and how He did not want to be the one in the spotlight. What did you see that you admired about him? How could you be likewise? Pray for your heart. I always feel I can trust what he said and that he had thoroughly researched what he was teaching. I could be thorough in my reading searching for clarity and not just skipping what I don’t understand. Lord, forgive me for the shortcuts I like to take. Your word is too important to not search out what I don’t understand. Help me be more of a Berean and a ponderer of Your word.
Tuesday: Abba’s Child.
We spent several weeks with Brennan Manning and his book Abba’s Child. He talked about living with a mask, as the Pharisees did, for the praise of others, or transparently, as one who can because he is confident of God’s love. (Read Luke 7:36-49)
1. What was Simon’s greatest concern? What was the woman’s? What is yours?
Simon’s greatest concern was all about reputation. The woman’s was how to honor Jesus. Mine is that Jesus would be pleased with me instead of seeking others’ approval.
6. Do you wear a mask? If so, what does that tell you about your trust in God? If you are confident in God’s love, how might that help you care less about what others think? Sometimes I find myself putting up a front depending on who I am talking to. This reveals to me that I have insecurities about myself and can be self-conscious. I am beginning to be comfortable in my skin and the unconditional love of God is helping me get past my insecurities.
7. Manning talked about experiencing the risenness of Christ in our lives. How have you experienced the risenness of Christ this year — for example, what answers to prayer have you seen, what changes in your heart or in the hearts of those for whom you have prayed?
God has changed my heart toward a more loving and accepting attitude toward others. In the past, I often thought of my efforts because of my genuine interest and caring for the other person. But God always has a better way. I am learning to let Him do the work in the lives of those I love or encounter daily rather than “intervene” or manipulate, He has shown me the sin of pride beneath the many sins I have.
That’s a lesson I had to learn to Bing, and still do — but really has not only set me free, but much more effective in seeing change I so long to see.
Dee, I am seeing change in my daughter’s life lately and it has nothing to do with my maneuverings! All praises to God!
Wednesday: Honoring Tim Keller
Tim Keller died on May 19th and we spent the summer doing the first six chapters of John with him. Because he has had such a big impact in all of our lives, I’d like you to ponder:
8. Is there a particular teaching from Keller that has profoundly impacted your life? If so, share what it is and why it impacted you.
Always point others to Jesus as the source of all things that can fulfill us. He had a way of taking Scripture and letting me see a different point of view and I appreciated that from him. His marriage to Kathy was a real blessing. He has such a loving way of honoring her in public. For such a man of intelligence and popularity, I find that very endearing and warm. I love the man who is not afraid of his wife’s wit and intelligence and shows deference to her in many quiet ways. A man who is not threatened by, but instead, supportive of his wife’s skills and strengths.
For me there are so many, but here are a few:
He has changed the way I preach and teach. I’m sad it came so late in life, but I am intent on glorifying the Lord and lifting Him up whenever I am given a chance to preach or teach. Keller almost always found a way to melt your heart with the gospel. One way of preaching is to go through a passage and then suggest ways to apply it. Keller was concerned listeners might never apply it unless their hearts had begun to melt during the teaching.
He turned the light on for me with idolatry, helping me understand the sin beneath my sins.
He’s helped me to better understand and pray Scripture, whether is the psalms, God’s prayer book, or any passage.
9. Tim and Kathy went to listen to some young gifted preachers. When they were leaving he asked Kathy what she thought. She commented on their giftedness but said they did not yet have “the weight of glory.” That’s a phrase Lewis used to describe God and those who particularly reflect Him. I so saw that in Keller, and how He did not want to be the one in the spotlight. What did you see that you admired about him? How could you be likewise? Pray for your heart.
I admire his unique ways of pointing others to Jesus whenever he speaks. I would like to be the same. Father God, thank you for the gift of Tim Keller in my life. May I not pursue the world’s limelight but ABIDE in you so that you are reflected in me.
Love that you pointed out how he honored his wife.
Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented?
I may have to cheat for some help on these questions!
Wasn’t it the cleansing of our inside to be perfect, like Him?
After reviewing the blog posts from our study, I see that the miracle is meant to refer to Jesus’ death. The water turning to wine does represent perfection, and how we change as we know Him better. It also happened at a wedding. Jesus is our bridegroom and we are the bride. The old covenant was being replaced by a new one. No more rules, only love. No more washing away, rather being cleansed by Him. However it also is a reference to His death; how He gave Himself for us. The blood. The ultimate sacrifice for the ultimate sinner.
Good kind of cheating! 🙂
Thursday: Lord of the Wine and Lord of the Whips
(Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented?
—The water represented the old religious way of cleansing where the wine represented the new cleansing by the blood of Jesus which would set man free. If I remember right the wine represented joy because the new had come and the old was passing away.
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple?
—Hmmm? No not really or at least not specifically. Both were about cleansing of sin.
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how.
—The bridegroom experience for me personally was fairly positive considering I married a fallen human being (like myself) and we both brought our flesh into the experience. But young as we were my husband was loving, caring and a gentleman. Jesus as the Bridegroom raises it to a whole other level because He is perfect in his love and care and has washed me clean from my sin by his own sacrifice so the beauty of having a relationship with Him exceeds everything else. I went back in my notes and found what I wrote about Jesus as the Bridegroom at the Marriage Supper of the Lamb from that section on Lord of the Wine.
“I am beginning to understand just as my relationship to Him in this life on earth is personal that at the Marriage Supper of the Lamb (Jesus) when He as the Bridegroom will come to each of us and personally embrace us. Wiping away all tears and celebrating with each of us. I will actually get to experience one on one, literally face to face with Him. He will tell me he loves me and I will know and be known. I can’t explain how deeply that thought touches my heart.”
Wednesday
The influence that Tim Keller had/having in my life is the importance of the gospel. Being raised in a Christian home, that was taken for granted. It became more about rules over relationship…yes, legalism. The other thing I really liked about Keller is his easiness to read books outside of the “Christian” realm…that was a big no, no as it could have a negative influence. I found his insight to these kinds of books (philosophy, atheistic etc.) that he brought to his sermons so eye opening in how he used different quotes to make a good argument for the gospel. That all being said I also know he was just a man and I can almost hear him saying in all genuineness, “don’t honor me, honor the One I serve…Jesus Christ.
Sharon, This is such a perfect statement on Tim Keller, his writing and his focus, never on himself, but always pointing to Jesus.
I love this Sharon! How interesting. At Covenant Seminary my favorite professor, and most beloved, made a huge point that all wisdom comes from God, even if it comes through the mouth of Balaam’s ass or Cyrus and that there is great richness in many “secular” writings.
Thursday: Lord of the Wine and Lord of the Whips
(Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented?
The wine reminded Jesus of His death…how it would take His dying to bring spiritual cleansing.
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple?
Both pointed to the cross and His authority in both situations. What was going on at the temple reminded Jesus that He would be the ultimate sacrifice and how the people were treating animal sacrifices so flippantly, with no regard to the true meaning…would His dying on the cross be regarded the same way? Do I regard what He did for me flippantly?
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how.
It is still a process for me, but it is where my focus needs to be. He loves me so much and what He did for me I need to keep before me in all circumstances, even those I don’t understand.
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented? No, not for certain. It was a sign that no longer would faith be based on ritual. The new had come God was now with them in the person of Jesus Christ. He was no longer distant requiring only a priest to go behind a curtain with a sacrifice Jesus was the new wine that wouldn’t fit in old wine skins
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple? The cleansing of old ways
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how. I haven’t thought of this in a bit, but He is the one who loves me unconditionally, delights in me, has compassion towards me, who sees me and understands my struggles. This helps me be aware that I can lay things before Him.. my need for forgiveness of my sins, my cares, my concerns, my beliefs that I foolishly hang onto that don’t line up with His Word.
Beautiful, Judy.
Judy, this is so good: God was now with them in the person of Jesus Christ. He was no longer distant requiring only a priest to go behind a curtain with a sacrifice Jesus was the new wine that wouldn’t fit in old wine skins .
(Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented?
It was Jesus’ first miracle and it revealed His glory; He shows us who He came to be and what He came to do. Jesus is thinking of the water turning to wine, as His blood that He came to give to save our souls and it is not His time yet. His history will end with another feast, the wedding supper of our Bridegroom, Jesus and His blood is the price He will pay to invite us to the ultimate wedding party. He desires to be the Bridegroom to the people who give themselves to Him, as the bride gives herself to her husband. The only way Jesus can produce wine for His wedding or unite with His bride is through the hour of His death on the cross. The cup of joy He is giving to the wedding guests reminds Him of the cup of sorrow that He must drink for us.
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple?
The miracle of the wedding~ Jesus was quiet ~ He was the Greatest “party maker” in History.
The miracle of the Temple~ Jesus was dramatic~ He was the Greatest “party pooper” in History.
In both miracle, Jesus is showing us His Authority: who He is; what He does; what He brings. When Jesus comes into our lives, He will, at times, fill our table with a feast and at other times, He will turn our table over and spill everything on the ground, before He give us a reason. Our response needs to always be Obedience, without His explanation, because of Who He Is. (I kind of feel I am at that table right now.) 🙂
In both cases, Jesus is showing us His authority. In the temple, it is much more clear. When He showed up, the people instinctively knew He had the right to do it.
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how.
I don’t understand exactly what God wants me to do next. I am just getting through grief, one day at a time. I don’t know what He has for my future, but I do know that He has the right to do it, He has a plan, and I need to obey. I love Him with all my heart and all glory goes to Him alone.
Loved you remembering party maker and party pooper.
It is wise for you to work on getting through grief before making big decisions!
I listen to your good advice. Thank you for your godly wisdom. This is one reason the word “Abide” is becoming more meaningful to me daily.
Patti, I love the remembrance of Jesus as a “party maker at the wedding and a “party pooper” at the temple. I have thoughts similar to those phrases-“He is raining on my parade”. I have learned that He might be but it is because He wanted me to get out of that “parade” and He has something better for me!
Such a good point, Bing! He wants me to get out of that “parade”, He has a better idea!
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple?
It reflects another cleansing of the people. They were admonished by Jesus for holding a market in the temple. He says for them to tear it down and He would raise it in three days. This is a reference to His being raised in three days. The water to wine is also a reference to His death.
Sharon said it well in our blog study:
” Jesus knew His purpose in coming was to die on the cross for our sins and in doing so provided the blood/wine for the ultimate wedding as the Bridegroom to His bride, us/the church at His second coming.”
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented? The transition from the Old Testament to the New. The old being rituals and laws. The new being his shed blood. I hope that I remembered correctly.
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple? In both cases, Jesus was getting rid of the old way of doing things.
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? Individually, it can sometimes be a hard concept for me to think of myself as his bride. Being one in a collective church group is easier to imagine.
Dawn — do you notice in the Song of Songs of how sometimes it is individual “You are altogether beautiful, my love — there is no flaw in you” and sometimes corporate “You are as beautiful as an army with banners”
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how.
I’m not too comfortable with thinking about Him being my bridegroom. I felt that way about the SOS when we studied it. It’s so personal! I’m better thinking of myself as His child 🤷🏻♀️.
Sounds like you and Dawn share that feeling. Perhaps that is why He gives us several metaphors to grasp His love.
Thursday: Lord of the Wine and Lord of the Whips
(Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented? – I didn’t do the study but what I found was this…the 6 jars, 6 being the biblical number for man and of imperfection. And changing the water into wine showed the power of Jesus over everything and that without His authority nothing can change.
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple? – Looking forward to what was said.
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how. – It helps me a great deal, because I know, just as I fail others with love and they will fail me, Jesus will never stop loving me. I have his unconditional love forever. So helpful for me to know that I can always count on the one who calls me His.
Friday: Jonah
This Fall we went through Jonah with Paige.
13. If you were with us, what was a key lesson that stood out to you? How could you apply it in 2024? – Wasn’t there for this.
14. If you weren’t with us, here are a few of the key lessons that stood out to me that might also impact you:
Jonah’s national identity was more important to him than his spiritual identity. (See how he put his nationality first in Jonah 1:8-9, and how he never told them his occupation!) Putting being a Hebrew first led to his hatred of the Ninevites and his disobedience. I see many Christians so obsessed with their political party that it distorts their life and attitude toward others who don’t share their view. My prayer for myself is to give grace to others and not put my hope in political leaders. What about you? – I know I will never always have the same opinion as anyone else, and that’s ok. I should always respect what others think, and sometimes I don’t, but I don’t dislike anyone because of how they believe, or I think and hope I don’t. I pray for God to help me see people as he sees them and to help me love them as they are.
Jonah seemed to realize he had a problem with idolatry, (Jonah 2:8) and yet we don’t see him breaking free. Where have you broken free or are breaking free from an idol that was hurting you? Where do you need prayer? – I need to break away from my controlling attitude and accept people for who they are. This is my biggest issue and it is straining to me.
Paige ended her lecture asking, “Did Jonah ever get it?” She said, as the Puritans used to do with new believers, “We’ll see.” Why should we not give new professing Christians too much responsibility? – I think until you see fruit in new professing Christians, things given to them should be minimal and it would also give them a chance to be able grow their relationship without having to worry about other things on their schedule.
13. If you were with us, what was a key lesson that stood out to you? How could you apply it in 2024? That I can want justice and God’s wrath for other people and grace for myself. That I need to be careful of my attitude and the lens through which I view other people.
14. If you weren’t with us, here are a few of the key lessons that stood out to me that might also impact you:
Jonah’s national identity was more important to him than his spiritual identity. (See how he put his nationality first in Jonah 1:8-9, and how he never told them his occupation!) Putting being a Hebrew first led to his hatred of the Ninevites and his disobedience. I see many Christians so obsessed with their political party that it distorts their life and attitude toward others who don’t share their view. My prayer for myself is to give grace to others and not put my hope in political leaders. What about you? Good point. This is an election year and I kind of dread the ugliness that could develop, but my trust is to be in God.
Jonah seemed to realize he had a problem with idolatry, (Jonah 2:8) and yet we don’t see him breaking free. Where have you broken free or are breaking free from an idol that was hurting you? Where do you need prayer? Unfortunately it’s a self idol. I can help or say something and mentally take credit for it, but it wasn’t me. If it s the right thing to do or say, it was the Holy Spirit in me I need to make things about God and what He’s doing and not what “I” did.
Paige ended her lecture asking, “Did Jonah ever get it?” She said, as the Puritans used to do with new believers, “We’ll see.” Why should we not give new professing Christians too much responsibility? Because the doing can overwhelm them. They need time to grow in their faith, study the Bible, pray and reflect.
I think it is good to prepare ourselves for what we might say in an election year that would be pleasing to God.
13. If you were with us, what was a key lesson that stood out to you? How could you apply it in 2024?
The story of Jonah is one of Jonah totally rejecting God. He says he loves God but then when God requires him to do something he says NO! He runs 2500 miles away compared to 600 miles to get to Nineveh!
The other thing that I recall is the story of brothers who were buried under rubble in St Louis (tears again 😢). They found the younger one. They asked where his brother was and he said, “I’m standing on his shoulders.” Ugh. Jesus substituted himself for us. We are standing on Jesus’ shoulders.
Lastly, Jonah is a book of love of EVERYONE. God wants us all! It was so funny to me when she pointed out that even the sailors were trying to understand and know “Jonah’s God.”
I can love others better. I can try to understand those who are different than me. God wants all of us.
Thursday: Lord of the Wine and Lord of the Whips
(Review John 2:1-22)
10. Do you remember what the sign of turning the water in the ceremonial jars used for hand-washing into wine represented?
It is not just about the miracle but rather about there is now a new way of cleansing; not ceremonial but through the washing by the blood of Jesus shed on the cross. Old things have passed away and new things have come.
11. Do you remember how Keller connected this first miracle or sign with the clearing of the temple?
No, I don’t remember. A new way of doing things, of worship, of coming to him?
12. How well do you relate to Jesus as your Bridegroom? If this has helped you, explain how.
Not as well as I want to. I often forget that aside from Him being my Savior, He is my bridegroom, too. It is a challenge at times to get past the romantic type of love associated with being a bride to my Savior. But I know that in my deepest and loneliest moments, I feel His loving arms around me, though more as a Father/child relationship than anything else.
Friday: Jonah
This Fall we went through Jonah with Paige.
13. If you were with us, what was a key lesson that stood out to you? How could you apply it in 2024?
God does not show favorites and this verse reminds me of His great love and patience with us “The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead, he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” 2 Peter 3:9
To be more loving and accepting of others is what I hope for me to be in 2024.
14. If you weren’t with us, here are a few of the key lessons that stood out to me that might also impact you:
Jonah’s national identity was more important to him than his spiritual identity. (See how he put his nationality first in Jonah 1:8-9, and how he never told them his occupation!) Putting being a Hebrew first led to his hatred of the Ninevites and his disobedience. I see many Christians so obsessed with their political party that it distorts their life and attitude toward others who don’t share their view. My prayer for myself is to give grace to others and not put my hope in political leaders. What about you?
I see that too, Dee, even among brothers and sisters in Christ. I often think of that lecture that I listened to. The speaker (or maybe somebody else) coined the term, “Intellectual hospitality”-not to necessarily agree with the other person’s point of view but to be willing to listen to others regardless of their race, background, or status. I should not have spiritual superiority over others as it is level ground for all at the foot of the cross.
Jonah seemed to realize he had a problem with idolatry, (Jonah 2:8) and yet we don’t see him breaking free. Where have you broken free or are breaking free from an idol that was hurting you? Where do you need prayer?
I believe God is helping me move away from my idol of approval and control. I still may struggle with it but speaking the truth to my soul is helping me break away from it. Praise God!
Paige ended her lecture asking, “Did Jonah ever get it?” She said, as the Puritans used to do with new believers, “We’ll see.” Why should we not give new professing Christians too much responsibility?
We need to give them time to “mature” and understand the will of God for their lives. And perhaps, for them to avoid having a superiority complex. But we must come alongside them and be like Priscilla and Aquila to Apollos. (Acts 18:24-28)
I needed to be reminded of intellectual hospitality as I have been invited to lunch to someone’s home who disagrees strongly with me on some things. Believers in my church whom I love. So thanks, Bing.
Loved reading your posts. Still praying about my word.