It’s the holiest week of the year, a time to contemplate Jesus’ sufferings for us. We will finish Reeve’s message and walk those final hours with Him to the cross. Life is getting harder, persecution increasing, and we need to absolutely know how deep His love is for us so we do not faint.
Beginning April 16th, I’m beginning a series that I needed, and is ministering to me, and I so hope you’ll join us. This quote by J. I. Packer inspired me:
If you want to judge a person’s relationship, find out what it means to him that God is his father.
J. I. Packer
The series is called: “Abba, Father.”
Each week I’ll draw from a classic book about relating to God as our “Abba, Father.” If you want to do this in a small group, each week there will be a word document to download. Homework will be fairly light but aimed at penetrating our hearts. We’ll be standing on the shoulders of people like J. I. Packer, Henri Nouwen, Brennan Manning, Tim Keller, and others. Scriptures will be illuminated and our hearts filled with confidence that we are indeed, so loved, despite the evil in this world increasing, as He said it would.
Holy Week and Resurrection Week are perfect ways to lead into this, showing us the depth and power of God’s love. Oh Lord, help us walk with You this Holy Week, remembering what You did out of love for us.
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God Hunt Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week?
Monday: Weep with Those Who Weep
Reeves began his sermon remembering having to preach right after learning his dad was dying and it was too far and too late to go to him. He said there are great truths from the gospel to give us hope, but there is a time to share them and a time simply to “be there.” Recently a dear friend is facing incredible suffering, but I blew it again. I so wanted to help her in her pain that I stuttered, pointed out a possible “silver lining,” and in so doing, poured vinegar on her wound.
2. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering?
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Why?
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter?
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering?
Tuesday: If God is Good, Why Do We Suffer?
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.”
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves?
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did?
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why?
Spy Wednesday
Some call this spy Wednesday because there was a spy among the disciples.
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why?
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying?
C. What happened when Jesus said “I AM HE?” Why, do you think?
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12
B. John 12:4-6
C. Luke 22:1-6
D. Psalm 41:9
7. To overcome sin, instead of trying harder, preach the gospel to yourself. You are Jesus’s familiar friend. Why would you betray Him with sin? Have you spoken this to your soul and has it helped? If not, how might you prepare to do so when you are tempted today?
Maundy Thursday
Maundy means “commandment’ referring to the “new commandment” Jesus gave at the Last Supper.
8. Read John 13:34. What is the new commandment?
9. Read 1 John 2:7-11
A. God has always told us to love one another, so what does John say in verse 7?
B. So why is it new according to verses 8-9?
C. Jesus gave this new commandment after washing the disciples’ feet. Point?
D. What startling comment does John make in 1 John 2:9-11?
10. This is such a tall command! How we fail to love our brother. How I fail! Take some time to confess your sins and ask God to change your heart here, either silently or write them for all to see.
Good Friday
Prepare your heart with this.
11. Jesus was on the cross from 9 to 3. During this time meditate on John 19. Share anything that becomes radioactive. Fast if you choose to do so and confess and turn from your sins.
Holy Saturday
12. Catholics celebrate this as the time Jesus descended into hell and preached. I do not believe this happened, though it is in some versions of the Apostle’s Creed. Or it may be what I believe to be a misinterpretation of 1 Peter 3:18-19. This is such a hard passage even Martin Luther said he didn’t know what it meant. I think it means that Christ preached through Noah but they didn’t listen and now their chances are over. Thoughts?
13. Read Matthew 27:62-67. Thoughts?
14. Why is it important that Christ truly died?
15. What is your take-a-way this Holy Week and why?
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God Hunt Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week?
I have been under the weather for 3 days now possibly from picking up a bug from our trip to Canada. I don’t think it is Covid based on my symptoms. Staying home for the most part of the week has helped me get much-needed rest and reflection. I am staying home today from church as I still have a cough. Thanking God for this time alone and feel led to pray for my husband/pastor and our church family.
Thankful to God for the new TGC series, “Front Row Seat: Encouragement for Pastor’s Wives”. I needed the exhortation and encouragement as my family faces changes in the seasons of life. Such is the love of God-He sends a gift that I sometimes cannot articulate but He knows I need. James 1:17 “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”
So good TGC is doing this! So, you are liking it? Glorious news that now all Redeemer sermons are free too!
Yes, I am liking it very much, Dee! And all of the Redeemer sermons are free! We are so blessed!
Bing, I recommended this series to my daughter in law. She is a new pastor’s wife.
Dawn, your daughter-in-law would love the series!
How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week? The mornings and the times during day when I’ve heard my spirit singing “Hallelujah, we are not alone. God really loves us.” also God’s presence when praying for Nashville.
Judy, I ache for the families of the Nashville shooting, too. Precious lives were taken and the shooter was killed as well. Senseless but that is what evil is.
I think Nashville is hitting us so hard as so close to home and seemed to be true persecution from a very sad woman. Unfathomable grief.
God Hunt Sunday:
1. How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week?
—I have mentioned that I am currently reading a 40 day devotional book by Ron Block who is a guitarist and songwriter who has traveled and played with Andrew Peterson for over 20 years. It is called “Abiding Dependence” and it has been a source of great encouragement to me. This week I have experienced the love of God through God’s Word and Ron Block’s words enlightening the truth of God’s words.
I have found my self battling negative thoughts. Coming from a variety of directions. I have felt as though the enemy has been dogging me with unkind thoughts and irritations. As well as unpleasant memories that trigger negative feelings. I really received encouragement from the devotional reading this morning and then to top it off my pastor/son’s message this morning started off with a reminder that each morning when we wake up we are facing a battle we cannot win. And as he developed his message from the book of Acts he reminded us that the Lord Jesus is battling for us. And as we surrender to his Kingship our victory is found in him.
— Reading Psalm 46 was deeply encouraging and these comments stood out to me from Ron Block as a message of God’s love for me.
“The author of Psalm 46 tells us God is our shelter and bold strength, abundantly present, ready to give aid when we’re in dire straits. For this reason, we will not allow ourselves to be full of dread or fear, or be overawed, even though the ground gives way beneath us and the mountains crumble into the sea. Let it drop. Abandon it. Let it alone. Relax. Be quiet and know that He is God. He will be uplifted among the nations. He will be uplifted in the whole earth. See reality as God sees it. The almost fantastical thing is this God is in you, in Christ, by the Holy Spirit. He is the light of the world. Whether we live from this God-life involves changing our perceptions. It involves our mindset. And that involves abiding dependence.”
Bev, this resonated with me “he reminded us that the Lord Jesus is battling for us. And as we surrender to his Kingship our victory is found in him.” Our victory is not dependent on us but on Jesus. I was struck by something similar to what Irene Sun said in the TGC Front Row Seat interviews of pastors’ wives. She said something to the effect that she prays that God will help her die to self. What a courageous but much-needed prayer for nowadays when the world wants us to seek ease instead of Jesus Christ. We have a perfect example in Him for one who died to self that many would live. “He left His throne in glory, knowing His destiny, was the lonely hill of Golgotha, There to lay down His life for me.
“The author of Psalm 46 tells us God is our shelter and bold strength, abundantly present, ready to give aid when we’re in dire straits. For this reason, we will not allow ourselves to be full of dread or fear, or be overawed, even though the ground gives way beneath us and the mountains crumble into the sea. Let it drop. Abandon it. Let it alone. Relax. Be quiet and know that He is God.” Mountains in my life are falling over into the sea. Let them crumble and fall. Let the earth give way beneath me. Abandon it. Relax. Be quiet and know that He is God. Thank you, Bev, and thank you, sweet Lord, for what you are teaching my friend, Bev, that she could comfort me with the same comfort she is receiving from You.
I like your son’s title for his message Bev. So often I hear people say God will not give us more than we can bear and I say: He does all the time so we will fall upon Him! We can’t bear it, but He can.
Thank you for this wonderful encouragement, Bev. I love the the title “Abiding Dependence” . I agree with Missy’s prayer: Thank you, Bev, and thank you, sweet Lord, for what you are teaching my friend, Bev, that she could comfort me with the same comfort she is receiving from You.
2. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering?
It’s the weak who are struggling that minister best to the weak and struggling. Even as Christ knew He is the resurrection and the life, He weeped at his friend’s graveside.
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Why?
Singing songs to someone who is suffering is like pouring vinegar poured on a cold wound or like someone who takes a garment away on a cold day. When someone gives you verses, or says, I’m so glad for your mom (or the one that passes away)! Without any type of comforting hug or word, or ear for a long while first, it makes you feel more alone than ever. I like the metaphor of the garment being taken away on a cold day. Weeping with those who weep is like putting a warm blanket over a friend who’s cold because they feel alone in their grief of losing someone. Singing songs or giving verses, or rejoicing that they are with the Lord right up front is like ripping that need for comfort away. It feels like the bond you had with that person that has now been ripped away doesn’t matter to the one pouring the vinegar on. So you feel unloved in the moment.
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter? That is so important! They aren’t trying to hurt, they are trying to help, and maybe they haven’t gone through this type of suffering, so to assume they don’t care feeds into the enemy who wants to divide. Plus it can plant a seed of bitterness.
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering?
Certainly not giving me verses whether it’s the loss of someone, or the loss of something not related to death, like a marriage. (IN THE PAST, I SKIPPED THE COMFORT AND GAVE VERSES TO MORE THAN ONE DEAR FRIEND WHO LOST A LOVED ONE). UGH!
I’ve learned there is a difference. When my mom died, I needed someone to just sit with me, maybe weeping with me, but just sitting with me, caring and listening, but active listening really helped.
When it was in regard to my marriage, I needed someone to validate and help me sort through my thoughts, and feelings because I was so confused. Whether I stayed or left meant tremendous pain. I was afraid I’d make the wrong decision for either way I would make God disappointed with me because if I left, I’d be running to comfort, and if I stayed that meant I didn’t trust Him enough to meet my needs if I left until my counselor said, “you can’t tie God’s hands whether you stay or leave and it certainly won’t make Him love you less. He will not abandon you.”. “Your needs weren’t getting met and his emotional harm toward you made it hard for you to meet his, and yet you didn’t choose to resolve it the way he did, so his choice is not your fault. Whether you leave or stay, you will teach your children about boundaries in relationships, and will show them what trusting God looks like.”
Oh, dear Rebecca! God has given you a wise counselor, in the midst of great pain. Thank you for opening your heart in such a meaningful way. Love this:
It’s the weak who are struggling that minister best to the weak and struggling. Even as Christ knew He is the resurrection and the life, He weeped at his friend’s graveside.
Rebecca,
Thank you for your transparency. So sorry for your pain and struggle. Patti is right. God has given you a wise counselor. Such good words and so true of our God.
“it certainly won’t make Him love you less. He will not abandon you.”
1. How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week?
I have seen Christ at work in my family this week. I am seeing their love and care shown towards both of us, as we all care for my husband, daily. I pray that I will demonstrate the love of Jesus, as I press into Him each day. Trust and “Abiding dependence” (thank you, Bev) are my prayer.
Let us all pray together for Patti and her family as her husband is so close to going home. Such a bittersweet time.
Thank you, dear Dee.
Dear Jesus, I thank You for Your gift to us; Yourself. Thank You for taking our sin upon You for us. Lord, let us sit shiva with our sister Patti. No words. Just being. So difficult. Amen. ♥️
Yes, we will.
Oh Patti, This is so hard, so painful. Lord Jesus wrap your blanket of comfort around Patti and her family as they are about to lose her dear husband. Thank you or surrounding her with family who is loving and caring for her and her husband. Such a gift. Help Patti to continue to press into you as she demonstrates your love to her husband and those around her. In your precious name, amen.
Thank you, sweet Rebecca.
Prayers for comfort and the right people surrounding you. May you know Gods peace every step
My dear sister, Patti! Do you have the help of hospice at this time? Praying for you at this most difficult time.
Patti, much love to you, dear friend.
1. How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week?
Yesterday, at Church, an elder asked my husband and me to serve communion. I haven’t done this before and was feeling anxious. Surprisingly, I truly enjoyed looking into each person’s eyes and just saying “good morning.” It was a beautiful thing; a blessing to me.
Love this, Laura. What a lovely blessing.
How very sweet, Laura!
2. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering?
We must be gentle. God could send angels or a “Superman” to help us, but ultimately we are better for the job because we are human, just like our friends and family are. They can relate to us. Jesus cried for his friend first.
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Why?
Taking away a coat when it is cold, or pouring vinegar on soda, is the same thing as singing cheerful songs to a suffering person. It doesn’t ease the pain. It doesn’t make one feel better. It is a useless endeavor.
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter?
I guess I have never analyzed this type of situation, or can’t remember when it has happened. The worst suffering, as I recall, has been when our kids went off the rails as teens. It was so difficult and we didn’t know what to do. Others didn’t either, so I don’t remember anyone actually offering “advice.” People have said, “I’m so sorry,” like when my mom died. If someone has said something insensitive, like, “at least she isn’t in pain anymore,” I just agree and move on. I don’t think I have been offended. I think they are trying to be kind.
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering?
I think having someone to listen is best for me.
“having someone listen is best for me.” So true.
1. How have you experienced the love of God or the risenness of Christ this week? I got to have my 2 youngest granddaughters all day Saturday and I marveled at how God has blessed us with 4 sons who are close to us and to one another, daughters-in-law who enjoy spending time with us and 9 grandchildren who we adore and who adore us . When my son’s were younger I mentally prepared for having grandkids that I might not see much of or be very close to just based on what I had observed in other peoples’ families. The daugher-in-law usually favors her parents and her family and that’s where all of the grandparent focus is. That has not been the case at all in our family and I only have God to thank for that!
I think that this was driven more home to me because my former long time co-worker has just lost her 2 year old grandchild to neglect and starvation by her son and his wife. Although she lives in the same town as them, she had not seen them or her grandchild since September.
It’s a tragic situation and I feel horrible for my former co-worker.
Dawn, How delightful to hear how God has blessed you with close family and the joy of your grandchildren. In today’s world that is no small thing and it’s a testimony to the graciousness of God in your life.
Wow, Dawn — what a testimony to the love in your family. So rare!
I am so happy to hear this for you! for i have 4 sons too! This gives me hope and encouragement!!
Oh, Dawn! You are so blessed by the closeness of your family. Family is so important.
What a blessing, Dawn! I always find such joy in seeing a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law have a beautiful loving relationship as it is more rare. I think a lot of it has to do with the mother-in-law so I commend you for being you.
2. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering? That it is insensitive to try to put a happy spin on what they are suffering, even if what you are saying is truth.
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Singing songs to a heavy heart is like taking a person’s coat when it is cold or pouring vinegar on a wound. Why? You are actually making their situation worse by being cheerful. It shows that you really don’t understand what they are going through and are trivializing it.
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter? Because mostly people are trying to make you feel better or help you. If they haven’t gone through it, they don’t have the experience to know what you are really going through.
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering? A friend who was just there and acknowledged my suffering with sympathy. Let me share the pain without trying to give advise or wisdom.
Monday: Weep with Those Who Weep
2. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering?
—Reeves says “So, if you would comfort believers in their trials, tell them about Jesus.” He makes the point it is about following Christ. Sharing his suffering to then share his glory. But it is out of our sharing his suffering we learn to be like Him and have a deep heartfelt compassion to come along side of others who are hurting and truly sympathize with their weakness out of our own weaknesses. He basically said people don’t need our strength and for us to be strong for them. But rather to be weak with them by hurting with them and for them in their pain. That’s what Jesus did. He cried with his friends even as he stood at the grave of his good friend Lazarus and cried deep gut level weeping along with them but yet he was the resurrection of that life. He didn’t march into the middle of their pain and immediately fix it. He showed how much he loved them and cared for them by sharing their grief.
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Why?
—To come to someone who is grieving and have a cheerful demeanor is like taking away their coat in cold weather. It would be a harsh thing to do. Leaving them feeling cold and hardened. Or it can have the affect of vinegar poured on soda which would make them be reactive and have explosive emotions against the cheerful person. The exhortation here is to be gentle as Reeves says.
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter?
—I think of the phrase “Consider the source” I think it is fair to say most people mean well. And in most cases they are clumsy in feeling the need to say something but not knowing what to say. Sadly many stay away from the grieving because they don’t know what to say. But occasionally you encounter someone who is just simply an insensitive person and that becomes a test of grace when you feel like soda with vinegar poured on you.
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering?
—Those friends with compassionate hearts who came and felt the wound in my heart with me. They didn’t come with any advice or answers but I knew how much they cared.
Tuesday: If God is Good, Why Do We Suffer?
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.”
—He said we need to know that the glory which is ours in Jesus is certain and secure. I can rejoice and have an inner joy in the truest sense in the midst of suffering because I have Jesus living in me by the power of the Holy Spirit and he brings his glory into my life. It isn’t just a future glory but is real right now because of him and what he did on the Cross to obtain glory.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves?
—Satan wants to remind us of our sins and failures attempting to convince us we are unworthy of any glory and because of that Christ will abandon us.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did?
—Yes, Sadly for many years I questioned and didn’t begin to understand God’s love for me. It was when God spoke to my heart and told me I was sinning because I doubted his love for me and at that time I confessed my sin (with tears) and He began to pour out his love into my life in tangible ways through a number of books and resources. On of those was attending a conference of Dee’s on her book “Idol Lies”. 😊
I am looking forward to the upcoming study “Abba Father”
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why?
—His last paragraph stood out to me because he just simply and powerfully points us back to Jesus. He reminds us of the tremendous hope that is ours in Jesus. He makes Jesus the focal point.
The last comment was:
“Friends, rejoice in your sufferings and share this hope. And in all the trials that you face, fix your eyes on him. Our forerunner who, but for the joy set before him endured the Cross. And is seated now, beckoning, at the right hand of the throne of God.”
I’m so glad you will be with us for “Abba, Father,” Bev — you add so much and I’m being ministered to as I read and prepare.
Bev, you are going through a LOT all at once, please continue to let us know how we can pray for you. Your pain must be searing deep!
Thank you Rebecca. I really appreciate your caring heart. My prayer is that I keep my focus on Jesus. I told a good friend in an email tonight that I am so grateful to know our Heavenly Father can be trusted. I was lamenting a bit about my Mom’s condition and I always leave the care home feeling a little sad. But I am reminded that even Mom’s life as it is now has a purpose in God’s sovereignty. I’m also glad not to be in a place of despair as life would be without Jesus. I never feel without hope because of Him.
Mom’s life, even now has a purpose in God’s sovereignty. Powerful!
oh Bev, yes I so get how it feels to leave the care home sad, and yet at the same time not be in despair because of our hope in Christ. I too loved this, for I struggled with mom’s suffering, but you are so right. “My mom’s life as it is now has a purpose in God’s sovereignty.”
Bev, I, too, have often doubted God’s love for me. That is powerful to realize what a sin that is against an all loving God. God help me to always remember this when tempted to that heinous sin.
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.”
We don’t stop at suffering for it’s short term ultimately. The joy we have in suffering is that glory is certain and secure for us and so it magnifies what lies ahead instead of magnifying our pain. The only way to get through suffering or endure a trial is that glory is certain. Christ won’t keep His riches to Himself for He is the head and we are His body.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves? satan will condemn us making us think we are too horrible a sinner for we fail miserably, and we are suffering so we should back away from God because He’s abandoned us.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did?
Yes. I overcame the lie with the truth that for the joy set before Christ, He endured the Cross. His joy was that He was going to have union with me and since my salvation isn’t dependent on me, but on everything He did for me on the cross, His Joy isn’t dependent on whether I fail or not either. I think because He’s Holy in everything He does, feels, and thinks, and it’s who He is, then the Joy He had knowing I would be His made it worth it for Him to go to the cross. That’s solid. That’s not going to change based on my failures. So if His Joy or delight in me isn’t going to change, and He said, no one can snatch me out of His hands, then how can I believe the lie that He will abandon me based on my failures? (I know this is scattered thinking, having a spacey time this morning, and in putting this together, but this just occurred to me!)
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why? That just as we are not afraid to enter our bed at night to go to sleep, we shouldn’t be afraid to die, for more certain than waking from our sleep is that when we die we will be with Him in Glory. His glory is secure! This thought is so encouraging for I’ve wondered if I will genuinely, upon my death bed glorify Him in truly not being afraid because my confidence is in what’s to come. I don’t know what it’s like to be in that place though I’ve seen it through my mom for I was there when she passed and I’ve never witnessed that process before. I’m not sure why this stood out yet, but I’m so happy that God is encouraging me this way, this morning. It makes facing today’s challenges a lot easier because my hope is in my future with Him in glory, and not on my circumstances today.
I especially appreciate your answer to C.
I first heard that from Paige Brown and it deeply impressed on my heart the fact that I was the joy set before Him. The reason He endured the Cross. Not at all spacey. It made sense to me. 😊
“The only way to get through suffering or endure a trial is that glory is certain.” Love this.
That’s the best truth to speak to your soul — for the joy set before Him (us!) He endured the cross…
2. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering?
The Lord ministers through those who have been humbled and through those who have suffered. I find this so true. They have the gift of understanding and compassion.
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Why?
It is like taking off a garment on a cold day or like vinegar on soda to sing a song to a troubled heart. It lacks empathy and true compassion.
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter?
Many friends really care, but they don’t know what to say and may seem insensitive. Sometimes, they want to avoid you because they feel clumsy or truly do not know what to say. I have felt that way in past years, but I have learned that to just show up and care and listen, for the suffering person is a help. Years ago, our pastor and his wife lost their youngest daughter, (14 years old) very suddenly. We were in a fairly big church and did not even know them that well, but we invited them over ….we had no idea what to say….we were kind of terrified (and clueless) even to do that. They sat and talked and shared ~ we realized after talking with them that very few people in the church had come to comfort them….it was a good lesson.
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering?
One who listens and loves. Just being present and available.
That’s quite a story about your pastor and his wife!
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.”
There is an importance in “going through” the suffering and not attempting to “skip over it”. I pray the 23rd Psalm almost daily. “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil for You are with me.” He will not abandon me and the perspective of suffering is small in the view of Eternity. This does not mean it is easy. He is in glory waiting for each of us.
I love John 10:27-28 “My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me; and I give eternal life to them, and they will never perish; and no one will snatch them out of My hand.” He is in glory now and we shall join Him. I cling to this verse.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves?
Your God has abandoned you. You are a failure without hope.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did?
I go to Abba Father and He is the true comforter. I am so looking forward to the study, Dee. So timely for me right now.
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why?
Fix your eyes upon Jesus. Want Him more than comfort. Cling to Him and He will give you His peace. Do not be afraid to die, for you will awake and rise to the Lamb, who is the radiant light of heaven.
“Fix your eyes upon Jesus. Want Him more than comfort.” The cry of my heart is for this to be true. Sadly, it isn’t yet, but I long for Him to be my exceeding joy.
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.” That we need a longer perspective than our current circumstances. This life is temporary, but thanks to Jesus we have a glorious future ahead.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves? Foul sinner, what do you have to do with glory? Slink away because of your your failures. Glory is not for you. You’re suffering because He has abandoned you.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did? Past mistakes would keep coming to mind, I had to learn to say get behind me satan, Jesus paid for that sin for me at the cross.
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why? Be of good comfort, my brothers and sisters. Our Savior is certain. Glory is, superb. Glory captures more than heaven…..for the very center of heaven is the glory of the lamb, who is its radiant lamp. It’s easy for me to fall off the trap it’s my fault and I should have done things differently. These statements point me toward what is the utmost of importance. Him not me.
I read through your comments with tears, Judy. Satan is such a Liar against our beautiful Lord Jesus, and my heart weeps that I dare to believe his lies and doubt the love of my Lord who has never done anything but love me literally to death.
1. Read page 6 of Reeve’s transcript (above) through “Do it gently.” What do you learn about ministering to believers who are suffering?
Before we share the glory that comes from suffering, we need to share in the suffering of the other person. It may mean just sitting with them, not saying anything, and weeping with them.
3. Meditate on Proverbs 25:20.
A. What comparison is made? Why?
B. All of us have had hard things said to us in times of suffering. Why is it important to look at the heart of the supposed comforter?
Because we may have done the same given the situation; we must extend grace to those who may not have the language or action we think we deserve or even need. On the other hand, we should ask God to help us be bearers of comfort in ways that please Him. Dee, I was just reading a chapter of your book, “Jesus calls you beautiful”. In it, you mentioned an elderly Christian friend, named Joseph who, when insensitively responded to, “just smiled and served the first ball excellently.” Then you added” Joseph’s confidence in God’s love buffers man’s unkindness.” I realized this is not about a time of suffering but the principle of grace (because we are fully loved already) when applied is the same.
C. What has ministered to you most in times of suffering? Presence, hugs, little words if at all.
Thanks for reminding me of Joseph, Bing. He is such a dear and a model. He wears a superman shirt as a tongue in cheek nod at his frailty yet good humor.
Ooohhh… Joseph is my kind of guy in terms of humor. I like that! I may borrow that idea when I get to be up there in age.
“Joseph’s confidence in God’s love buffers man’s unkindness.” Now that is downright powerful and so needed in my life. I’m so glad you read that recently in Dee’s book and wrote it out here for us.
Tuesday: If God is Good, Why Do We Suffer?
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.”
Tell me the bad news first and then the good news.” (Smile) am so glad that suffering is not where we should finish. It is short-term; glory is certain and secure for the saints. Christ’s own will join him in his glory and; the head cannot have glory without the body. Christ will share His riches and status with His people.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves?
The enemy reminds us of our failures; that God has abandoned us because of our failures.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did?
Yes. The enemy often strikes at either low or high moments of my life. During low times, “I am a failure”; during high times, “It is not enough”. I think of many verses to overcome the lie.
While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8
Who for the joy (me/us!) before Him, endured the cross, scorned the shame… Hebrews 12:2
He rejoices over me with singing Zephaniah 3:17
He calls me beautiful! Song of songs
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why?
“I admit, I deserve death and well. What of it? Does this mean I shall be sentenced to eternal damnation? By no means, for I know One who has suffered and made satisfaction on my behalf. His name is Jesus Christ, the son of God, and where He is, there I shall be also.”
Jesus paid it all for me. I do not have to do anything yet I have everything in Him.
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.”
We will have glory as He has. The bridegroom will share the glory with His bride.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves?
You have no glory. He has abandoned you.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did?
I have had those times when I felt like God was very far away. I remembered times when He was there and helped me. It gave me hope that He would be close again one day.
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why?
John Bradford and his statement to a fellow condemned man, that tonight we will feast with the Lord. I have never thought of death in that manner. Wow.
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why?
Two things stand out. First, in the NLT it says that Judas was given a contingent of Roman soldiers to help him.
“The leading priests and Pharisees had given Judas a contingent of Roman soldiers and Temple guards to accompany him. Now with blazing torches, lanterns, and weapons, they arrived at the olive grove.”
John 18:3 NLT
Second, they all fell down when he spoke! I never noticed that before.
“As Jesus said “I Am he,” they all drew back and fell to the ground!”
John 18:6 NLT
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying?
It means He is God.
C. What happened when Jesus said “I AM HE?” Why, do you think?
They drew back and fell to the ground. They were astonished that He would state this knowing what would happen if He did.
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12
He was headed for destruction according to Jesus.
B. John 12:4-6
He cared about money more than people, and stole some from the disciples when he wanted it. He was their accountant.
C. Luke 25:1-6
Is this supposed to be Luke 22? It talks about him in this chapter, there isn’t a chapter 25.
Satan enters Judas. Ugh.
D. Psalm 41:9
He was a good friend of Jesus but he betrays and turns against Him.
7. To overcome sin, instead of trying harder, preach the gospel to yourself. You are Jesus’s familiar friend. Why would you betray Him with sin? Have you spoken this to your soul and has it helped? If not, how might you prepare to do so when you are tempted today?
I have tried this to a point. I have told myself that I don’t want to disappoint Him. But then again, I didn’t want to disappoint my mom either, and I did that. I think if I imagine being Judas (!) myself, wow! How horrible would that be for me? It isn’t pretty in the end.
You figured it out — Luke 22 — sorry about the typo. I fixed it for the others!
Laura, I envy your ability to be succinct with your answers. I am so darned wordy. 🥴
Oh Bev! My brevity comes from the hectic life I lead these days. I know how important it is to connect with my Lord everyday, so I do; all day long! I want to have more time but alas! I do what I can. I wish I could read and respond to each person. There are so many good thoughts. Summer is coming. That is a good time for me 😉.
Spy Wednesday
Some call this spy Wednesday because there was a spy among the disciples.
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why?
—Judas it would seem had a false sense of power by getting a group of soldiers and Jewish authorities together to go and get Jesus for the high priest and the Sanhedrin. He was looking to the strength of men to accomplish it. But that supposed strength of men was quickly diminished when Jesus spoke to them the reality of Who He was. Judas was truly a traitor in his heart when in light of his time and travels with Jesus he would have seen the power of God demonstrated in the Person of Christ many times. It was a ludicrous thing to think he could have any power over Jesus. That demonstrates the powerful lie of Satan having entered into his mind and thinking.
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying?
—He was God. The same God of the Old Testament who told Moses “I AM”. He was God Triune the three in One. The eternal God. Truly part of the Godhead. It made him powerfully prominent in his presence but yet He subdued himself in obedience to his Father.
C. What happened when Jesus said “I AM HE?” Why, do you think?
—Those soldiers and leaders who came to arrest Jesus fell back to the ground when He spoke. Including Judas because he was standing there with them. With man. It portrayed God’s power in Christ and that he truly was God. I find it interesting they had no power in His Presence but he instructed them and submitted to go with them. They had no power whatever with their weapons and their numbers.
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12
—Judas was “lost”
B. John 12:4-6
—Judas did not care about the poor as he made a pretense of being but was actually a thief stealing from the moneybag he was in charge of for Jesus and the disciples.
C. Luke 25:1-6
—must be a mistake on the reference here??
D. Psalm 41:9
“Even my close friend in whom I trusted, who ate my bread, has lifted his heel against me.”
Psalm 41:9 ESV
—This refers to Judas who was given the privilege of being close to Jesus as one of the chosen twelve disciples. He was trusted with the moneybag and participated in the intimacy of eating together but he turned against Jesus.
7. To overcome sin, instead of trying harder, preach the gospel to yourself. You are Jesus’s familiar friend. Why would you betray Him with sin? Have you spoken this to your soul and has it helped? If not, how might you prepare to do so when you are tempted today?
—very good question Why would I betray Him by sinning? It would seem in my flesh it is my nature to sin and all sin is against my Lord. Earlier in Psalm 41 the writer says “O Lord, be gracious to me; heal me, for I have sinned against you!”
That acknowledges my need as a sinner. The need to be healed. But the answer is in the graciousness of God in that he has provided the healing for me in the Gospel. So I need daily to be reminded of the Gospel of Christ. And Yes it helps. Staying focused on Him and being reminded often through the day can be of great value. I think of scripture that I have memorized which can affect and keep my thinking on track in the thick of life. Also music can serve my soul well during the day by the influence of its messages and soothing ways. Just to be mindful of the fact He is always present with me. Spending time in his Word and meditating are important ways of preparing for the day. It reminds me He always loving and always accepting of me. He is truly a good good Father.
—I just saw the actual reference is Luke 22:1-6 in answer to C above.
I would say that in light of the other scriptures that Judas already was living in a habit of sinning. Satan didn’t enter him and all of a sudden he was bad because he was under the influence of Satan. He was open to Satan’s influence because of his sinful heart which resulted in his sinning. Just like Cain God told him “Sin is always crouching at the door” the verse says “You will be accepted if you do what is right. But if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. But you must subdue it and be its master.”Genesis 4:7 NLT
There is a strong lesson here in that I have choices to make about sin. I don’t have to let it in the door. I can keep that door closed and in doing so I can overcome it. Maybe to take it a step further I need to see Jesus as the door between me and sin.
Good reminders from Bev:
music can serve my soul well during the day by the influence of its messages and soothing ways. Just to be mindful of the fact He is always present with me. Spending time in his Word and meditating are important ways of preparing for the day. It reminds me He always loving and always accepting of me. He is truly a good good Father.
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why?
When Jesus said, I am He (I am, meaning He is God) the first time the pharisees and guards drew back and fell to the ground. I’m curious that if they don’t believe He is God and that He is a blasphemer why did they fall to the ground?
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying? Jesus saying I Am meant He is God.
C. What happened when Jesus said “I AM HE?” Why, do you think? Oh, this is what stood out! I’m not sure why they fell to the ground if they didn’t believe Him.
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12 – He was the one doomed to destruction.
B. John 12:4-6 He was a thief. He made it look like he cared about the poor and when in reality he could care less.
C. Luke 22:1-6 Satan entered Judas and he went to connive with the pharisees on how he could betray Jesus.
D. Psalm 41:9 He acted like he was Jesus’ friend, and then betrayed him.
7. To overcome sin, instead of trying harder, preach the gospel to yourself. You are Jesus’s familiar friend. Why would you betray Him with sin? Have you spoken this to your soul and has it helped? If not, how might you prepare to do so when you are tempted today? oooh… this is a great question. I must ask God to help me and show me the dark area where I will be convicted by His Spirit and yet try to justify it. Help me to turn.
Spy Wednesday
Some call this spy Wednesday because there was a spy among the disciples.
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why?
Judas knew the comings and goings of Jesus for the most part. This insinuates that there was premeditation on his part to betray Jesus. It was just a matter of time. The other thing that struck me is that he came with a band of men from the religious leaders and Pharisees and they carried torches and weapons and lanterns. And when Jesus said, “I am He”, they went backward and fell to the ground.
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying?
He never changes. He is I am yesterday, today, and forever.
C. What happened when Jesus said, “I AM HE?” Why, do you think?
And when Jesus said, “I am He”, they went backward and fell to the ground.
He is perhaps saying that He is the authority and gave us readers a glimpse of Philippians 2. One day, those who have not acknowledged him as Lord would bow their knees. I wonder if Judas fell backward as well.
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12 He is called the son of destruction.
B. John 12:4-6 he was a thief and used to help himself to the money bag.
C. Luke 25:1-6 Satan entered Judas with his consent.
D. Psalm 41:9 the one in whom I trusted and eat of my bread has lifted up his heel against me
7. To overcome sin, instead of trying harder, preach the gospel to yourself. You are Jesus’s familiar friend. Why would you betray Him with sin? Have you spoken this to your soul and has it helped? If not, how might you prepare to do so when you are tempted today?
I hadn’t thought of this before. Jesus died for me; why then would I betray Him by sinning? I reflected on my day today and thought of moments when I was tempted to get angry at somebody. If I thought of the gospel, I would be reminded that Christ died for that person as He did for me. If that person is a Christian, then I would have shown love to a dear sister or brother. If that person is not a Christian, God can use the godly response to draw him/her to Him. not sure if I am making sense here.
You are making sense! 🙂
Bing – great example of thinking of the Gospel in the moment you are tempted to sin. It made total sense to me and helped me on this question!
Maundy means “commandment’ referring to the “new commandment” Jesus gave at the Last Supper.
8. Read John 13:34. What is the new commandment? To love one another as Jesus has loved us.
9. Read 1 John 2:7-11
A. God has always told us to love one another, so what does John say in verse 7? That he is not writing a new commandment but one that has been around since the beginning of the world.
B. So why is it new according to verses 8-9? Because Jesus is come and embodies Holy Love and prior to Him coming, man could love in a human love kind of way, but was unable to sincerely love and have compassion for his enemies, or love those who have sinned against him, for this kind of love only comes from God. So one of the signs we may not know Christ, or if we are in a desert season is if we walk in hatred toward a brother or sister. We should be deeply concerned for them if they are offensive toward us or others for something is wrong inside and could take them deeper into a desert and eventually destroy them.
C. Jesus gave this new commandment after washing the disciples’ feet. Point? I’m not sure I’m on track, but it makes sense that washing feet was considered lowly So to me Jesus being God washing the disciples feet was an example of how we are to love other believers. Not judging or criticizing them with their quirks, or sin nature struggles, but loving them while being concerned deeply for their soul. All of us who are believers are white as snow because Jesus righteousness covers us, but our feet are still dirty. We still have our dirty feet that Jesus is cleaning daily, and so like He shows us deep mercy in our sanctification, we should extend to one another that same mercy, and also be willing to enter into their struggles and lovingly pray for them and help them. OH OH OH how I have struggled with this.
D. What startling comment does John make in 1 John 2:9-11? That if anyone hates a brother or sister they are walking in darkness and stumble, for darkness has blinded them.
Definitely on track!
Maundy Thursday
Maundy means “commandment’ referring to the “new commandment” Jesus gave at the Last Supper.
8. Read John 13:34. What is the new commandment?
—“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” John 13:34
9. Read 1 John 2:7-11
A. God has always told us to love one another, so what does John say in verse 7?
—to love one another is an old commandment that we have had from the beginning clear back to Moses.
B. So why is it new according to verses 8-9?
—It has to do with our relationship to the Lord. When we are in fellowship with God, walking in the light, we also walk in love. We now have the light of Christ living in us and he dispels the old darkness. But if we say we are in the light and still hate our fellow believers it is not true but rather we are still in darkness and the new commandment is not being practiced.
C. Jesus gave this new commandment after washing the disciples’ feet. Point?
—He practiced loving humility toward them as a perfect example to us of showing love to others. Putting others first in a sacrificial and practical way demonstrates true love.
D. What startling comment does John make in 1 John 2:9-11?
—A person cannot claim being in the light which is walking in fellowship with the Lord who is light and He is love and at the same time be hating their brothers (fellow believers). That is living a lie and actually that person is stumbling around in the dark with blinded eyes.
10. This is such a tall command! How we fail to love our brother. How I fail! Take some time to confess your sins and ask God to change your heart here, either silently or write them for all to see.
Jesus, I come to you with thanksgiving and praise for being the true light that is shining and dispelling the darkness in my life. God please forbid that I continue to live in anyway that I am stumbling around in the dark because I fail or refuse to practice love for the family of God. For my brothers and sisters in Christ. Forgive me for the hardness of heart I have had toward some. You know who they are. Soften my heart with the warmth of your love which you have extended to all. Forgive my stubborn heart and its prideful desire to be right.
Oh precious Lord I am so grateful for the Cross. God, thank you for sending us your only Son to die for our sin. Thank you Jesus for your willing obedience come and lay down your own life and save me from my sin. Holy Spirit I thank you that by your divine power I have been given everything I need for a godly life through my knowledge of You God, Who called me by your own glory and goodness.
I desire to grow in the grace and knowledge of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ so that your love is poured out in my heart and life so that all glory be given to You. I confess I need you desperately in my utter weakness to practice grace but I look to You and ask for my weakness to be filled up with your strength and for your light to shine into and through my life. Love through me as only You can.
I pray in the strong name of Jesus.
Amen
Just a couple of thoughts but not definite answers. Rebecca you wondered about why the Pharisees and guards fell to the ground if the didn’t believe Jesus was God and they thought of him as a blasphemer. I think it wasn’t a matter of them needing to believe Who he was but it was because there is great power in the name of God. They were actually standing in the presence of God Almighty and when He voiced Who he really was it was a situation where no human being can stand in His presence. So Bing as I pondered that passage I too wondered about Judas and I think yes Judas fell back to his knees as well because the verse says he was standing with them. But I’m amazed in light of all that scenario and that Jesus even did a miracle healing the ear of the servant that Peter cut off with his sword but then Jesus moved ahead resolutely and submitted to them and let them bind his hands (handcuff him so to speak) and then take him away. He went willingly to the Cross. It is all so unbelievable what He did but it is all true.
Love this explanation from Bev of the soldiers falling down: no human being can stand in His presence.
Keller guesses 200 men
Josephus guesses 400
I think there were 50 in each regent.
Thanks Bev! That makes sense, and it’s amazing!
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why?Jesus knowing all that was going to happen to Him went out and asked who is it that you want. The bravery and courage of the innocent Jesus asking the question whi do you want. Jesus Surrendered every day every tine no matter the cost.
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying? Yes this what God told Moses to tell the Israelites if they askedwho sent Moses to say I AM has sent me to you.
C. What happened when Jesus said “I AM HE?” Why, do you think?the soldiers fell down The power of Gos struck them.
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12 no one is lost except the one doomed for destruction so that scripture will be fulfilled
B. John 12:4-6 he was a thief who objected to oil being poured on Jesus because money could be used for poor who he cared nothing about
C. Luke 25:1-6 satan entered Judas and the Judas went to chief priest to offer up jesus
D. Psalm 41:9 even my close frien with when I shared bread has betrayed me
8. Read John 13:34. What is the new commandment? Love one another. As I have loved you, you must love one another.
9. Read 1 John 2:7-11
A. God has always told us to love one another, so what does John say in verse 7? The old command is th message you have heard.
B. So why is it new according to verses 8-9? It points out that hating your brother or sister leaves you in darkness instead of being in the light.
C. Jesus gave this new commandment after washing the disciples’ feet. Point? The humbling oneself to do serve them. He was at head of table that evening yet he took pff his outer cloak and wrapped around His feet and washed Judas, the Betrayer’s feet showing the depth we are called to serve others.
D. What startling comment does John make in 1 John 2:9-11?Brothers and sisters who hate another brother or sister don’t know where they are going because the darkness has blinded them.
10. This is such a tall command! How we fail to love our brother. How I fail! Take some time to confess your sins and ask God to change your heart here, either silently or write them for all to see. Lord, You know how resentment can enter my mind when someone asks me to help them and I think the person is not looking at my viewpoint that I may have other things also to do. Forgive me and help me remember to serve in love and to remove the plank in my own eye.
Good specific prayer, Judy.
11. Jesus was on the cross from 9 to 3. During this time meditate on John 19. Share anything that becomes radioactive. Fast if you choose to do so and confess and turn from your sins.
Verses 8 – 11 became radioactive. This put me in awe of and comforted by God’s sovereignty, and the passion of His pursuit of us. The way Pilate kept pushing back in regard to crucifying Jesus and yet finally relented, is a picture of God’s supreme power but also a picture of His passion for us.
God is all knowing, but He also has emotions. Even though Jesus knew the Joy set before Him, it had to have been horrendous to know He is going to not only be separated from God but under His wrath. Jesus is Holy and the Trinity is One. So being willing to be torn away like that so He could have sinners like us, who took part in spitting on Him and mocking Him puts me in awe. Reminds me of loving our enemies as Jesus loved and pursued us when we were His enemy.
I am in awe, and this morning God is showing me I can’t love the hard people in my life unless I soak the gospel in deeper, daily, remembering how Christ died for those who spat upon him, those like me!! There is only one hard person in my life right now, but I’m so glad God is merciful and understanding of my pain and the reason why it’s hard for me.
How I love our dear Rebecca’s heart:
I am in awe, and this morning God is showing me I can’t love the hard people in my life unless I soak the gospel in deeper, daily, remembering how Christ died for those who spat upon him, those like me!! There is only one hard person in my life right now, but I’m so glad God is merciful and understanding of my pain and the reason why it’s hard for me.
4. Finish reading Reeves’ transcript.
A. What do you learn from his paragraph that begins: “But suffering is not where we should finish this morning.” That His glory will be shared with us. Just as a head without a body or a bridegroom without a bride is incomplete, so we are meant to be with Him.
B. What does Satan whisper to us in our suffering according to Reeves? That we are no good and Christ has abandoned us.
C. Has this happened to you? How did you overcome the lie, if you did? It has happened to me. I spoke to my soul much the same as Luther did and even when I was met with a rebuttal from Satan of how are you sure you are His then? Maybe you are one of the goats and not a sheep, one of the weeds and not the grain and you don’t even realize it. I have to remind myself that the fact that I am concerned about it is a good indication that I am on the right track. I can only trust in Him and His redeeming work on the cross.
D. What stood out to you from Reeve’s closing and why? ” Make him more glorious to us, so precious that we want him more than comfort…” Comfort is one of my idols. I need to look at my times of suffering as a gift to seek Him and His glory more.
So good:
I have to remind myself that the fact that I am concerned about it is a good indication that I am on the right track. I can only trust in Him and His redeeming work on the cross.
I’m watching The Two Thieves by Dallas Jenkins on Pureflix. So good! It’s only 26 minutes long. https://app.pureflix.com/videos/504496678700/two-thieves
If you don’t have Pureflix you can watch it on YouTube https://youtu.be/Io8b9aJiOY0
Thanks Rebecca and Dawn!
Maundy Thursday
Maundy means “commandment’ referring to the “new commandment” Jesus gave at the Last Supper.
8. Read John 13:34. What is the new commandment?
That we love one another as Christ has loved us.
9. Read 1 John 2:7-11
A. God has always told us to love one another, so what does John say in verse 7?
The old kind of love is refreshed and invigorated by the love of Christ. Perhaps akin to 2 Corinthians 5:17 If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things are passed away, behold old things are new. I thought of Andrew Peterson’s song “ the power of a great affection” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_dtBVvMmHnY
B. So why is it new according to verses 8-9?
2 Corinthians 5:14 For Christ’s love compels us… He has shed light and truth on the meaning of loving one another. It is no longer loving others because of some altruistic motivation or to make us feel good about ourselves but because His truth and light have penetrated our hearts and we ought to love as He has loved us.
C. Jesus gave this new commandment after washing the disciples’ feet. Point?
He is giving us an example. Love is service to others done in humility and in imitation of our Older brother.
Today, we had a 7-hour clinical day, and being in the nursing home for almost 8 hours reminded me of why I do what I do. I love these elderly people and to see some of them suffer so makes me cry inside. I want them healed and taken care of. A scene between Jesus and little James has ministered to me in a special way. The actor who plays little James has a limp and Dallas incorporated that into his character. I felt Little James’ pain when he asked Jesus why Jesus hasn’t healed him. The scenario went on and at the finish, Jesus reminded him, “James, you will be healed, it is just a matter of time.” Meanwhile, Jesus wants us to love others in the midst of our suffering.
D. What startling comment does John make in 1 John 2:9-11?
If we have hate for our brother or sister, we are not walking in His light even though we may claim to be. I was thinking, too, that if love is foremost in my heart, then I cannot hate a brother or sister.
10. This is such a tall command! How we fail to love our brother. How I fail! Take some time to confess your sins and ask God to change your heart here, either silently or write them for all to see.
Daily I fail to love my brother or sister, O Lord, But you still love me.
Change my heart O God, Make it ever true, Change my heart O God, may I be like you.
It is so good you do do what you do, Bing. How you must minister with your great heart.
8. Read John 13:34. What is the new commandment?
We are to love each other.
9. Read 1 John 2:7-11
A. God has always told us to love one another, so what does John say in verse 7?
He reiterates that we are to love one another.
B. So why is it new according to verses 8-9?
Jesus taught us anew; to live in the light, not the darkness.
C. Jesus gave this new commandment after washing the disciples’ feet. Point?
Dear Jesus acted as a servant to the disciples by washing their feet. He was showing us how to live in the light, not the darkness.
D. What startling comment does John make in 1 John 2:9-11?
If we hate a fellow believer then we are living in darkness.
5. Read John 18:1-6
A. What stands out to you from this passage and why? Verse 4. Jesus knew all that was going to happen to Him. it’s one thing to plunge forward when you don’t know what to expect, but it is totally different when you know that there is pain, torture and death ahead.
B. Here again, as often in John, Jesus says “I AM” — do you remember the significance of this saying? That is the name of Himself that God gave to Moses.
C. What happened when Jesus said “I AM HE?” Why, do you think? The soldiers fell to the ground. They we overcome with the presence of God.
6. So often in Christian movies, Judas is made sympathetic, but Scripture does not. What do you learn about this “spy” from the following?
A. John 17:12 He is called the son of destruction.
B. John 12:4-6 He was only concerned about how much money can be given to “God”.
C. Luke 22:1-6 Satan used Judas
D. Psalm 41:9 Judas’ betrayal was prophesied years before.
7. To overcome sin, instead of trying harder, preach the gospel to yourself. You are Jesus’s familiar friend. Why would you betray Him with sin? Have you spoken this to your soul and has it helped? If not, how might you prepare to do so when you are tempted today? I always ask myself Matthew 15:25 For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?
Good question to ask ourselves!
Holy Saturday
12. Catholics celebrate this as the time Jesus descended into hell and preached. I do not believe this happened, though it is in some versions of the Apostle’s Creed. Or it may be what I believe to be a misinterpretation of 1 Peter 3:18-19. This is such a hard passage even Martin Luther said he didn’t know what it meant. I think it means that Christ preached through Noah but they didn’t listen and now their chances are over. Thoughts?
—Interesting thoughts for discussion. One of my go to resources is Warren Weirsbe.
His assessment of the context of the passage was pretty lengthy but he acknowledged a couple of ideas. Weirsbe says “Some suggest that Christ gave the dead in hell a second chance to be saved, but this is contrary to what is taught in the rest of the Bible.”
—So that agrees with what Dee says. I would agree to.
This is what Weirsbe gave as a possible explanation for 1 Peter 3: 18-19 that says “For Christ also suffered once for sins, the just for the unjust, that He might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh but made alive by the Spirit,”
I find it an interesting and plausible answer from scripture.
“One good explanation, however, is that the “spirits in prison” are the fallen angels of Gen 6 who consorted with the daughters of men, “going after strange flesh” as Jude 6-7 explains it.
The word “prison” in 3:19 refers to the place of judgment mentioned in 2 Peter 2:4, “chains of darkness.” It was this violation of God’s order that helped bring on the Flood, which explains why Peter mentions Noah. Note too that Peter’s theme is the subjection of angels to Christ (v. 22). These fallen angels were not subject to Him, and therefore they were judged.
Between His death and resurrection, Christ visited these angels in prison and announced His victory over Satan. The word “preached” in 3:19 means “to announce” and not “to preach the Gospel.” Jesus announced their doom and His victory over all angels and authorities. It is likely that at this time Christ “led captivity captive” (Eph. 4:8), rescued godly souls dwelling in Hades (see Luke 16:19-31), and took them to heaven. There is not one hint here of anybody having a second chance to be saved after death.”
—All good food for thought.
13. Read Matthew 27:62-67. Thoughts?
—I found it interesting Pilate put it back on the Jews to guard the tomb. This is speculation on my part but it would seem to me God directed him to do that so when Jesus did rise from the tomb it was their own people who experienced the happenings of the Resurrection. They couldn’t blame the Romans. 😊
But that is a side note to the fact they were obviously stirred up and edgy about it all and trying to control all the circumstances surrounding Jesus death. But none of it mattered. God could not be stopped. The ultimate power of the Universe was at work!
14. Why is it important that Christ truly died?
—It was the only way for Him to defeat Death itself. Death by shedding his life blood was the required payment for sin. Life is in the blood. There was no other substitute or way for it to be accomplished. He gave his life to gain life. By entering into death he took control of it because he was the perfect payment for the sin of humanity. And he had to be human to do it. It is all very amazing what Jesus did.
15. What is your take-a-way this Holy Week and why?
—oh my! It has been a powerful week. I love Easter. I always have loved Resurrection Sunday. But it is only in recent years that I have taken the time to slow down and reflect seriously about Holy Week and what my Lord went through to obtain my salvation. It was good to take time this week and consider suffering and it’s impact and what our responses should be to those who are suffering. The suffering of Christ was as deep as it gets so he truly is the ultimate comforter to sufferers.
I appreciated the teaching from the sermon by Michael Reeves.
I come away this week with a deeper appreciation of God as my Father and Jesus as my Savior.
And tomorrow we get to celebrate!! Celebrate the Resurrection and our wonderful living hope of new life in Christ.
Happy Easter!!
I was glad for your Wierbe comment. We discussed this at our little home church and one of our new Christians thought that was what is meant. I blurted out “OH NO!” and regretted coming on so strong, for it scared him. But indeed, it is a heretical interpretation I believe.
Great song!! Sunday is coming! https://youtu.be/TbDTXuuTpO4
Love the song by Phil Wickham, Rebecca! “Friday is good because Sunday’s coming!
Good Friday
Prepare your heart with this.
11. Jesus was on the cross from 9 to 3. During this time meditate on John 19. Share anything that becomes radioactive. Fast if you choose to do so and confess and turn from your sins.
This verse: Now it was the day of Preparation, and the next day was to be a special Sabbath. Because the Jewish leaders did not want the bodies left on the crosses during the Sabbath, they asked Pilate to have the legs broken and the bodies were taken down.
The Pharisees and religious leaders were most consumed with traditions of the Day of Preparation and did not hesitate about ordering the legs of the ones crucified be broken (they do not want the bodies hanging on the cross on Sabbath, a high day for Pharisees to do no work). It will only be inconvenient, unnecessary, and above all a break of Sabbath law for them to wait. They only saw the rigid law while despising the lawgiver.
All prophecies concerning the Messiah were fulfilled in Christ. He was already dead when the soldiers came to him to break his legs. But they pierced His side. The details of Jesus’ death were in line with all prophecies. God was still very much in control. Jesus is the true Passover Lamb.
Holy Saturday
12. Catholics celebrate this as the time Jesus descended into hell and preached. I do not believe this happened, though it is in some versions of the Apostle’s Creed. Or it may be what I believe to be a misinterpretation of 1 Peter 3:18-19. This is such a hard passage even Martin Luther said he didn’t know what it meant. I think it means that Christ preached through Noah but they didn’t listen and now their chances are over. Thoughts?
This passage was hard for me as well. I looked up a TGC article and found this:
tinyurl.com/5n7bdx83 does I Peter teach Jesus preached in hell?
13. Read Matthew 27:62-67. Thoughts?
There is no doubt that measures were taken to secure Jesus’ tomb. A seal, a guard, and a very heavy stone. I was interested in what kind of stone sealed Jesus’ stone and found out that it might have been a cork-shaped stone rather than the disk-shaped one that I thought of. Either way, it must be rolled away to open it. The stone could be 1-2 tons and can be rolled by 2 people. There was only 1 angel seated by the entrance when the women came. We know the 11 disciples were scattered. There was only 1 guard.
“make it secure until the third day,” I think this is very comical. They saw with their eyes that Jesus died. Even if the disciples stole the body, can they make Jesus come alive? Up to the end, the Pharisees and religious leaders were focused on destroying any evidence of Jesus’ life. The enemy had shackled their hearts.
14. Why is it important that Christ truly died?
He fulfilled all requirements of God for the salvation of those who believe in Him through His death and resurrection.
15. What is your take-a-way this Holy Week and why?
I believe that Jesus lived, died, and was raised from the dead after 3 days. And that He is now at the right hand of the throne of God interceding for His brothers and sisters. He came in humility ushering a new kingdom riding a donkey and will come again and will be riding on the horse of victory. We can enter now into His suffering fully knowing we will share in His glory fully when He returns.
I was deeply touched by this commentary from Crossway’s new study Bible, “ESV Church History Study Bible:
” Matthew 27:39-42
In order to prove himself to be the Son of God, it was necessary that Jesus should hang on the cross. And now those wicked men affirm that the Redeemer will not be recognized as the Son of God unless he comes down from the cross and thus disobey the command of his Father and, leaving incomplete the expiation of sins, divest himself of the office that God had assigned to him. But let us learn from it to confirm our faith by considering that the Son of God determined to remain nailed to the cross for the sake of our salvation until he had endured most cruel torments of the flesh, and dreadful anguish of soul, and even death itself. —John Calvin, Commentary on a Harmony of the Gospels
Such words pierced his very heart, hurting him more than all his other sufferings. Still, he suffered all this with patience. He wept over his enemies because they would have no part in the great benefit to be derived from his death—yea, he prayed for their sin. And in the face of this, we are ready to snarl and growl over the least trifle when asked to yield even a little to our neighbor. Here you see how far we are still from Christ. It is indeed necessary to suffer with Christ if we would enter with him into glory. —Martin Luther, “Sixth Sunday after Trinity, 1523”
The Lord, knowing the snares of his adversaries, remained on the cross that he may destroy the devil. —Jerome, Commentary on Matthew “
12. Catholics celebrate this as the time Jesus descended into hell and preached. I do not believe this happened, though it is in some versions of the Apostle’s Creed. Or it may be what I believe to be a misinterpretation of 1 Peter 3:18-19. This is such a hard passage even Martin Luther said he didn’t know what it meant. I think it means that Christ preached through Noah but they didn’t listen and now their chances are over. Thoughts? I don’t think Jesus went to hell because there would be no point. Hades not hell from a previous study but the gospel wasn’t given to them.
13. Read Matthew 27:62-67. Thoughts? How important to know that the body wasn’t stolen. His body was in the tomb and protected by not His followers but His opposers. Scoffers couldn’t say His body was stolen.
14. Why is it important that Christ truly died? The fulfillment of prophecy of Isaiah 53. He was pierced for our transgressions, He was crushed for our iniquities, upon Him was the chastisement that brought us peace and with His wounds we are healed…….because He poured out His soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors, yet He bore the sin of many and makes intercession for the transgressors. God had required a blood sacrifice for sin and the animal sacrifices were never enough because we humans keep sinning. Jesus then became the sacrificial lamb and paid for all time the cost of our sin.
15. What is your take-a-way this Holy Week and why? My take a way is the magnitude of Jesus remaining sinless the last week of His life. Blindfolded, scorned, beaten, betrayed, alone, humiliated, crucified, separated from His Father. He had healed so many and brought light to the area. The response of so many was hatred and fear so deep they wanted Him dead. Yet he never responded in self defense or anger or spewed back what was given to Him. How blessed I am He would do this for me. In my petty sufferings He needs to be my focus so that my response is like Christ’s and not like me.
12. Catholics celebrate this as the time Jesus descended into hell and preached. I do not believe this happened, though it is in some versions of the Apostle’s Creed. Or it may be what I believe to be a misinterpretation of 1 Peter 3:18-19. This is such a hard passage even Martin Luther said he didn’t know what it meant. I think it means that Christ preached through Noah but they didn’t listen and now their chances are over. Thoughts? If Martin Luther couldn’t figure it out, I don’t think that I’ll even attempt it. This was a pretty good article about the possible interpretations. https://www.gotquestions.org/spirits-in-prison.html
I think that there are purposely some passages that we cannot definitively figure out. It’s a reminder that God’s ways and thoughts are far beyond our comprehension. Otherwise we would imagine ourselves to have Him all figured out. We are like newborn babies in comparison to God. Newborns don’t know anything about the world, language, cause and affect, actions and consequences. They don’t even know that their hands are part of their body and sometimes scratch themselves. God trying to explain everything to us would be like trying to explain Einstein’s theory of relativity to an infant.
13. Read Matthew 27:62-67. Thoughts? My bible didn’t have a verse 67 . The Romans and the Pharisees did everything that they could to ensure that there was no false “rising from the dead”. Actually all it did was make His rising more credible.
14. Why is it important that Christ truly died? He couldn’t have risen from the dead if He wasn’t truly dead.
15. What is your take-a-way this Holy Week and why? Nothing that we suffer here on earth compares to what He suffered for us.
12. Catholics celebrate this as the time Jesus descended into hell and preached. I do not believe this happened, though it is in some versions of the Apostle’s Creed. Or it may be what I believe to be a misinterpretation of 1 Peter 3:18-19. This is such a hard passage even Martin Luther said he didn’t know what it meant. I think it means that Christ preached through Noah but they didn’t listen and now their chances are over. Thoughts?
My husband and I had very interesting discussions around this topic all day. He grew up Catholic and says that they believe there is a place (Hades) where souls are waiting to be judged. It is in between heaven and hell. I remember saying the apostles creed in the Methodist church, which doesn’t refer to “descended into hell,” where the Catholic apostles creed does say that. I read several translations of the Bible of this verse and they all refer to Him speaking to the souls in “prison.” I’m not sure about any of this, but then again, I don’t decipher the Bible well either.
13. Read Matthew 27:62-67. Thoughts?
I think it’s interesting that the Pharisees are still troubled about Jesus. He is affecting them even after His death.
14. Why is it important that Christ truly died?
To know that He truly rose!
15. What is your take-a-way this Holy Week and why?
I am a sinner. I cannot do anything to get to heaven. It is all Him and His sacrifice for me. Thank You Lord! Thank You!
I also will continue to ponder how Jesus loved Judas even though he betrayed Him