In our last study on the fool, one of you asked:
“Since fools are so dangerous, why would we ignore the warning signs?”
I thought about the young woman who saw the warning signs weeks before the wedding
that she might, indeed, be marrying an abusive fool.
All the preparations had been made for this destination wedding.
It was too late to cancel:
the airplane reservations,
the dresses,
the flowers,
the banquet…
Her idols of comfort and approval rose up.
So she deceived herself, justifying
his temper tantrums,
his swearing,
and his abuse.
She kept silent and married him.
TO HER GREAT REGRET.
WHY DO WE IGNORE ANY OF THE WARNINGS OF PROVERBS?
It’s always a heart idol.
The sin beneath the sin that causes us to deceive ourselves
and sail into disaster.
THE SIN BENEATH THE SIN
This week, for example, we’ll study this proverb:
Our own Rebecca gave the illustration that her doctor wanted to put her on blood thinner because tests revealed she was clearly at risk for a stroke.
But her “comfort idol” balked and so her heart deceived her:
I’m too young, that could not happen to me.”
Her wise doctor persisted, giving her a case study of a woman just like
her who had had a devastating stroke.
By becoming alert to our heart idols, we can help ourselves
to be alert to our deceitful hearts, to our propensity to denial,
and to thereby heed the Word of God as Rebecca did.
So let us consider this week how heart idols affect our response to Proverbs. We must begin with a brief review of what Ezekiel calls “idols of the heart.” You cannot see heart idols, but you can see the bad fruit they produce. When anything bad comes out of your mouth or life, it is because you are looking to a heart idol to rescue you. Tim Keller has given three primary categories of heart idols which Leslie Vernick has diagrammed with this chart:
The Lord promises to be in control, to be our security and comfort, and to love us. But when we do not look to Him, do not run to Him, we run to something else to meet those soul needs. That is idolatry. And idols promise to rescue us but always lie. If this is new material for you, or if you need a review, please watch this short clip from David Powlison.
Sunday:
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
Monday-Wednesday Bible Study
Boasting and Idols of the Heart
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
Receiving praise is a tricky thing — for to diminish it can crush the encourager, and to say “to God be the glory” can sound off-putting too. What do you do?
3. Read Proverbs 27 in its entirety. Note anything that quickens you, and be alert to topics we’ve already studied, such as friendship and fools.
SILENT MORNINGS
PREPARE YOUR HEART WITH THIS:
I have always felt there is something sacred about the break of day — a time to be with the Lord and confess, praise, and meditate on His Word. Since idols cannot be removed but only replaced by the Lord, I feel this sacredness of the morning time with God should be honored by ourselves and by others. Ellen Davis has a penetrating commentary on Proverbs 27:14 which says: “Whoever blesses his neighbor with a loud voice, rising early in the morning, will be counted as cursing.” Davis writes: This is practical wisdom, humorously offered, for anyone who lives in lose proximity to others…from a college dorm to an Israelite village…Moreover it has a depth of dimension that goes beyond consideration for others’ sleep, and that has to do with the special quality of the morning’s silence. Many religious communities practice a rule of silence for the first few hours of the day.
4. What thoughts and applications do you have concerning the above?
5. What similarity do you see between Proverbs 27:14 and 15? What heart idol is beneath nagging, do you think? How could this be replaced by the Lord?
6. Read through Proverbs 28 and find, in particular, the warnings for heeding the Lord and not hardening our hearts and running instead, to our heart idols.
7. Read through Proverbs 28 again and find anything that quickens you and comment.
While the Parable on the Talents seems to fit here, I fear overloading you so I will stop.
Thursday-Friday Message
You have a choice. If the concept of Idols of the Heart is new to you, you must listen to this Keller classic.
If you have heard the above, I found this sermon from one of Keller’s mentors, Dick Lucas, delightful. He addresses many of the proverbs in this lesson.
8. Share your comments or notes from the above.
Saturday
9. What is your take-a-way and why?
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What stood out to you and why?
By becoming alert to our heart idols, we can help ourselves
to be alert to our deceitful hearts, to our propensity to denial,
and to thereby heed the Word of God as Rebecca did.
When anything bad comes out of your mouth or life, it is because you are looking to a heart idol to rescue you.
But when we do not look to Him, do not run to Him, we run to something else to meet those soul needs.
The three sentences above stood out to me. The illustration made by Leslie is very striking and I thought about printing a copy and using it as a grid of my reactions every time I feel a struggling in my soul and unsure of who I am really worshiping. The example you gave of the young woman who went through the wedding/marriage much to her regret gave me a shudder since I was in a similar situation long time ago. A wedding wasn’t planned yet for us but that was our intent. It took an act and mercy of God to pry me loose from that relationship and can not thank Him enough for rescuing me for what could have been a disastrous marriage. I call it His grace for me and my family.
Rebecca, thank you for your example.
Bing — you have a teachable heart!
Bing-you are living out Proverbs 27:12. :))
A word that stood out to me is “alert”. I need to be alert since our enemy, the Devil is always prowling and ready to “devour”.
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
The destination wedding stood out to me. I can see myself doing the same thing. I have a security idol that doesn’t come out very often, but can every once in a while.
Also, the proverb stood out…..the prudent hides from danger, but the “simple” goes on and suffers. I’m pretty sure I am simple at times!
Ah yes — I regret my “simple” times.
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
In both situations, you are talking about yourself; boasting, or patting yourself on the back. In the first, we are reminded that things can turn around on you fairly quickly.
That great question in the beginning stood out to me, and such a perfect answer with the wedding example and idolatry.
I think the first thing to see is as Dee said in Idol Lies and I will quote, “our souls are not clear ponds they are dark churning waters. Our idols are hidden beneath like jagged rocks that can cut us to pieces… or like a tumor or malignancy that can grow.” I see many of you here see this inside and don’t trust your own hearts because of it and don’t want to be deceived. I saw this in Bing’s post last week and this morning too-you all so encourage me for I don’t see this many teachable hearts in one place very often!
Amen. We are blessed as Rebecca said with a unique sisterhood.
We are blessed indeed!
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
Reviewing the David Powlison video. It reminds me of when I saw it the first time. Recognizing and getting rid of idols sounded simple to me, but I have found that it is not. As it has been said our hearts are idol making factories and it is something that I will need to keep working on my whole earthly life.
I agree Dawn–our efficiency at making idols is far more complex that it first seemed, and the process of identifying and releasing them, a life-long process–so thankful for the Spirit’s help in identifying and God’s grace-filled love given IN the process, despite how broken I am!
Hi ladies!
Since I am participating in Dee’s newest in-person study, I expect my opportunities for posting will be very limited. But, I wanted to express how enjoyable this has been and thank all of you for your insights and encouragement.
Much love,
Amy
We understand! You are welcome here anytime, dear Amy.
I am glad you joined us Amy, I hope you will visit when time allows, may God richly bless your face to face study 🙂 How I wish we could study face to face!
Thanks Chris, we are doing Idol Lies – it’s only the second chapter, and already God has richly blessed me!! I wish we could all meet in person too, I would give each of you a giant bear hug. 😉
Hugs to you, Amy. Would love to be doing a face to face with Idol Lies!
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
Arrogance, pride.
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
Desire for approval
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
What I try to remind myself, and am teaching my kids, is that we really have no right to boast because God is the one who created us—with a strong mind, or athletic capability—so He really deserves the praise. But I also think it is a constant giving over of my heart desire to God, asking Him to break me of desiring man’s approval, reminding myself just how much He really loves me, regardless of how I perform. It’s a struggle–used to be much harder for me especially in my first Church job, I longed for the Pastor’s approval. But God has been gracious to open my eyes to my tendency, and to turn me back to Him now when I feel that lure. When I do go to Him with it, I’m convicted and humbled by my desire for praise when I KNOW there is nothing praiseworthy in me at all except Christ in me.
Also, man’s praise is fleeting, and flawed. Boasting to others just leads to jealousy and gross competition. But still, it just doesn’t make sense, because we are not the Source of our intelligence or gifted-ness, and anything we accomplish is a demonstration of His grace.
My mind just went to Be Thou My Vision: “Riches I heed not, nor man’s empty praise, Thou mine inheritance, now and always, Thou and Thou only, first in my heart, High King of Heaven, my treasure Thou art.”
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?
Boasting is putting oneself above others, really putting myself on the throne which is God’s alone. It IS idolatry, and not a form of love—in many ways, it is the opposite.
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
“A man is tested by his praise”—we reveal our hearts by how we respond to praise—do we take the glory in, or point eyes to Him.
My tendency is to be overly rejecting of praise and self-deprecating to the point that I’ve seen it make the giver feel discouraged. Always hard for me to receive, but that itself is some form of pride. The less I focus on myself at all–even to be embarrassed by the praise, the more sincerely I can acknowledge that God is the One who did whatever it was through me—and simply say “I prayed, and I am thankful, humbled, He blessed!”
Sometimes I’m in situations where something I’ve done is being noticed or praised, but I’m not acknowledged as the one who did it—and I see those as opportunities to keep my mouth shut, to grow in this area of humility. I can see it as from Him, for I know He knows! But He has allowed me to be covered up, and He uses it to strengthen my reliance on Him alone for approval. Not sure that made any sense beyond myself and God 😉 but oh well, He’s really the reason I answer any of this anyway!
Lizzy — get ready — cause I have to praise you. I know that the Spirit of God has worked in your heart, but you have allowed Him to do that. You are such a model of desiring Him and how responding to Him makes you even softer of heart, and richer soil for the fruit of His Spirit to grow. I am so thankful you are here for you bless each one of us.
Well Dee, that’s a boomerang praise (think I just made that up!), God has used you, your example, your mentoring–more than any other person in my life. You show us what it looks like to call on Him as your Husband–in dependence and in love. You show us real, vulnerable humility, and model speaking truth covered with grace. I am daily thankful He so graciously decided to lead me to this teaching, and so thankful for the work He has done in you. You are also the in-the-flesh example to me that if we ARE that soft play dough in His hands, He will never waste our pain, and i doesn’t make us hardened and bitter–but soft, mold-able, able to have His imprint on us, Beauty.
Oh — how do I respond to this? I thought, if you knew me truly…and yet I thank you for what you do see and anything is because of His grace.
This whole exchange made me weepy…you do bless us all Lizzy and Dee, words fail me, you do pour yourself out as an offering, you lead us so well. Your ministry has made such a difference in my life. I love you both so dearly and I am so grateful to God for binding us together!
Chris-me too! I got teary eyed…His love modeled by both of them here. 🙂
once again I feel like you are in my heart! I love the exchange with you and Dee. such a beautiful community we have here 🙂
“Sometimes I’m in situations where something I’ve done is being noticed or praised, but I’m not acknowledged as the one who did it—and I see those as opportunities to keep my mouth shut, to grow in this area of humility.” -this is hard! my approval idol has reared it’s ugly head a time or two with this! At the same time, you are right, it is an opportunity for true humility. We really don’t need the “credit” for an idea or thought or whatever, because it is all about Him anyway. In all of this, I’m so glad that He understands that we are operating from a place of brokenness (when we follow our idols) and He continues to love us and offer us a better way. Definitely don’t want to be content to live for the idols, but so glad that He understands our places of brokenness which send us running to them….it’s that knowledge of His deep love for us that makes us want to drop all those stupid idols we try to juggle and cling to Him alone.
Mary–hanging on to this today! “so glad that He understands our places of brokenness which send us running to them….it’s that knowledge of His deep love for us that makes us want to drop all those stupid idols we try to juggle and cling to Him alone.”
I notice how you always point back to the grace He showers us with, the love He has for us–so thankful for you dear sister~
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
The example of the destination wedding and ignoring the warning signs-feeling like it’s too late to cancel, to back out, that it would be too embarrasing…that a person would be willing to join themselves with another, for life, when they know in their gut something is wrong…that shows the POWER of our idols over us! But in the same way, the next part about why do we ignore any of the warnings of Proverbs, and from there, what is at the root when I disobey what I know the Word of God tells me to do? Why do I ignore the promptings of the Holy Spirit? Recently, I have really been battling the desire to withdraw and isolate myself from others, even when I know that it is not good for man/woman to be alone, that God wants us in community, that He designed us that way. I know there are heart idols operating beneath the surface. So this review of idolatry is timely, and I always need it!
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
They are both examples of boasting. The first is boasting about “tomorrow”, or what things you will be doing in the future. The second involves praising yourself. They are both ways of being centered on self: self-centered, self-absorbed, self-importance, self-glorification.
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
I would say it is approval/affirmation.
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
We talked about the sermon on the Mount in the first week of our Proverbs study. The religious way versus the gospel way. Jesus gave examples of two ways to pray, give, and fast. He kept saying that the Father knows what you do in secret and will reward you, and that is so much better than seeking the praises of men. So this is one truth that could help fight this temptation; to know that my heavenly Father sees and that He is delighted with me and pleased with me, and to see whatever I did as a special “secret” between me and Him.
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?
I think in Paul’s love chapter, the name of Jesus can be substituted every time for love. “Jesus is patient, Jesus is kind. Jesus does not envy, Jesus does not boast…” Jesus was and is the ultimate example of love. His love is sacrificial and giving and He never put Himself first. He is our example of how to love. Boasting puts me first and happens when I want the spotlight on myself, when I should want the spotlight to be on God.
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
“The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but man is tested by the praise he receives.” I don’t know much about the properties of gold and silver, but I’m thinking that the crucible and furnace, with their intense heat, are things that refine and purify the silver and the gold. So if a person receives a lot of praise, the praise is like that heat…applying some pressure, so to speak…it tests us and can refine us if we are humble and respond the right way. It can be an opportunity for us to be refined and shaped and to come forth like gold…or, if we respond selfishly, it can ruin us.
Susan–love this ” to know that my heavenly Father sees and that He is delighted with me and pleased with me, and to see whatever I did as a special “secret” between me and Him.”
I loved your answer to C Susan!
Receiving praise is a tricky thing – for to diminish it can crush the encourager, and to say “to God be the glory” can sound off-putting, too. What do you do?
Sometimes, just saying a simple “thank you – you are so kind” is enough. Or, to say something like “Thank you for noticing…this doesn’t come naturally to me and I like to think that what you’re seeing in me is God’s work in me.”
Susan — so many great points. I love substituting the name Jesus for love in the Sermon on the Mount. And to help us see how deceitful and strong our idols are. Thank you, dear one.
1. what stood out to you from above and why?
I cringed to read the wedding story…it seemed like a snowball rolling down a hill, picking up more snow with each justification, and when finally reaching the bottom was a boulder of devastation. When I take it out of the wedding context, I can see the similarity in other life situations…trying SO hard to make something right that isn’t meant to be. One hopeful, yet poor, justification leading to another, and another…until having gone so far one can’t see how truly far out of whack they are. And then to add the idols of approval and acceptance…yikes! A vicious cycle indeed…
The sin beneath the sin…the iceberg picture. A wonderful representation of what lies below, underneath the tip of sin.
2. A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
Thinking more of one’s self than one should…in v. 1 thinking that the future is his/her’s to know and control; v. 2 thinking of one’s self in a conceitful manner.
Wow Nanci–your snowball picture! Made me smile at first and then cringe with you! You make a good point “trying SO hard to make something right that isn’t meant to be” and then “…until having gone so far one can’t see” made me think of how when we give ourselves over to our idols, our thinking becomes faulty, our minds far from God’s truth and wisdom–that snowball as you said, becomes so destructive!
Yes, Nanci…I think you can take that wedding example and apply it to other situations in life.
It is a snowball. Somewhere there is a proverb (but can I find it) that says something like “When plans are pleasant, it is hard to turn back…”
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
Control/Affirmation Approval idols. 🙂 They both are putting the cart before the horse because they don’t trust God’s control and they both want man’s approval via putting the cart before the horse.
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
Approval-affirmation
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
Jesus is my life-not them-He took God’s disapproval so that I could have His approval forever. Also God says in Matthew 6 I believe..to give in secret..There is scripture where God says to pray in secret also-not to put on a show to show others how spiritual we are.
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?
Boasting is pointing to self for self gain-that is self centered. Jesus lived out what Love looks like. He pointed to God not Himself in everything-He came as a servant to serve, not to be served. Boasting is serving oneself over others. Jesus went to the cross to die for us and on the Cross he still pointed to God not Himself. The hellish part was not His pain although I think it was horrifically painful, but the hellish part was when God turned His face from Jesus-that is Jesus Loving God so much that was more crushing than the physical pain of dying and God loved us so much He was willing to turn His face from Jesus so that He would never have to with us. Amazing love.
Love has nothing to do with boasting-Jesus and God so depict that in their sacrifice for us-God coming down in flesh-Jesus lifting God up the whole time and sacrificing Himself for us and in obedience to God-His dignity, everything for us. Love is sacrifice, totally not with any pride or boasting.
Rebecca–your whole answer to “D” is highlight-able to me! SO FULL OF TRUTH!
Amen!
And I have to say this quick for I have to get ready for work..I am REALLY convicted/encouraged by question 2- when the approval idol rears its head-which is daily- to turn from it-when I am tempted to boast, or obey it rather than God-just meditating on God’s sacrificial love for me is enough to help me turn today. Oh my.
Ok, Mary just reminded me of this, wanted to share it, so beautiful this morning! –Twila Paris, Be Thou My Vision
https://youtu.be/TJASCu6-pX0
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
The bride who went ahead in spite of her concerns, how often we as women believe we can change people we love, just by loving them, the desire to control.
I have been this woman in different ways with different people.
I loved seeing David Powlison! He feels like a dear, kind, friend to me. I love is gentle way of leading us to truth.
My thoughts and emotions, anxiety, complaining, even internally, escaping into food or entertainment or anger, are clues that I am worshipping things I have tied myself to, rather than worshipping the One True God.
Ouch Ouch…talk about a dog returning to its vomit 🙁
Like a dear kind friend. Yes. And how I see Jesus in him!
1. What stood out to you from the above and why? “Desires that become demands.” “When anything bad comes out of your mouth of life, it is because you are looking to a heart idol to rescue you.”
There is so much more peace when I trust in Him to guide my path than when I demand my path be maintained by those who encounter me (or by myself). There is a reason for my sin, and while I know I will never be fully sanctified this side of heaven, this cannot be an excuse to merely throw up my hands and say, “Ah well! I tried but I am sinful and it will always be there so it will just have to be that way.” No. These sins (especially the frequent visitors) are red flags not necessarily to just stop, though yes, we should, but to change course! To take the always-there fork in the road to gaze on Him. Just as my sin has reason so does my growth: His grace. The beauty of Christ, the kindness of God that woos and loves over and over and over again that softens my heart and brings me to repentance to trust Him. Even if only till “the next time” when I can take the fork in the road again.
As I type I see that my approval idol can be so deceiving that it will trick me into thinking that condemning myself is godly and then lure toward works-based Grace, but no growth is found here, only frustration and further condemnation.
What a great reminder. I am grateful for the refresher study this week.
“to change course” 🙂
Yes & amen!
Jill,
Love how you said this: To take the always-there fork in the road to gaze on Him. Just as my sin has reason so does my growth: His grace.
Thank you.
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common? Confidence in self, pride, and the desire for recognition
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath? Approval of man
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
I try to remember to speak this to myself when I recognize this in me.
“For who sees anything different in you? What do you have that you did not receive? If then you received it, why do you boast as if you did not receive it?”
God has given us our abilities, when we see excellence in anyone in should inspire worship, we ought to glorify Him and not exalt or envy each other or ourselves.
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
The story of the bride who went on with the wedding despite seeing the warnings, much to her regret. Having just gone through a wedding with my daughter in the last month, I could really relate to this bride’s dilemma. Not that I think my daughter was making a mistake, I do not. However, we came to a point where we were discussing what on earth we would do if some big family health situation presented itself at the time of the wedding (we were most worried about my husband). There is a point where you already have thousands of dollars invested (and non-refundable), and it would be soooo difficult to ditch the plans. We were actually pushed like that somewhat by our nephew’s death during the week preceding the wedding. He died on a Tuesday night, and the funeral was on Friday morning — the wedding rehearsal was on Friday night. You can’t get much closer than that. It was hard for everyone in the family to switch from sadness to celebration, but actually most managed to do that. I realize that is not exactly the same thing as going ahead with a wedding when either the bride or the groom know deep in their heart that it is wrong. The coordinator at the country club where Wendy and Thomas held their reception told us a story of another situation. The bride in that situation learned at the last minute that her intended had cheated on her in multiple ways. The wedding did not go on, but the bride’s family all assembled for the reception and had one big party, as the venue and the food had all been paid for.
I agreed with Chris’ evaluation of David Powlison. I sensed his kind and gentle ways. I have not been familiar with him before now, but it made me wish I could meet him in person.
We had a similar situation, Deanna when my son got married. My mother in law passed away 4 days before the wedding. We left from her funeral directly to the wedding rehearsal and dinner. It’s something that I never want to experience again.
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
Both behaviors are due to feeling as though we are in control instead of God being in control and seeking the approval of man instead of God. We boast as if we can deliver the goods (we can’t), and we boast about ourselves hoping to increase approval by others.
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
Approval. We think that if we tell someone about some honor we have received or some accomplishment we have made that they will think more highly of us.
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
If we were seeking God’s approval instead of the approval of other humans, we would see things from God’s perspective and know that those paltry items we were thinking of bragging about aren’t even the most important things anymore. We would also know that God approves of us because of what He has done in our lives; He approves because Christ’s sacrifice makes us acceptable to Him. It isn’t anything that we have done at all.
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?
When I am boasting my focus is on me and my glory, not God and His glory or on the people who I am with.
I can’t consider others as better than myself while at the same time wishing they would notice how great I am!
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
Reminding myself (speaking to my soul) that the Lord could not love me more and He could not love me less; He is forever faithful, always providing for me. His “stamp of approval” is on me via the righteousness of Jesus; He sacrificed to bring me home. All that I am and all that I have is a gift from His hand… If God approves of me, than what more is needed? Snap out of it, Nanci! (oh, this just reminded me of the “Stop it” video from a few weeks ago…:) )
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?.
I googled “boasting”…boasting is defined as “talk with excessive pride and self-satisfaction about one’s achievements, possessions, or abilities.” Synonyms of boasting include bragging, gloating, showing off… Yuck! Love is not about “self” or “pride”; love is about “us” and “other,” about self-sacrifice, giving/receiving.
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
That praise tries us, revealing what is in our souls.
The Amplified Bible 21
“As the refining pot for silver and the furnace for gold [bring forth all the impurities of the metal], so let a man be in his trial of praise [ridding himself of all that is base or insincere; for a man is judged by what he praises and of what he boasts].”
The Message
21”The purity of silver and gold is tested
by putting them in the fire;
The purity of human hearts is tested
by giving them a little fame.”
That brought to mind ‘let he who boasts boast in the Lord’
1 Corinthians 27-31
“But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.”
2 Corinthians 10 17-18
“Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.” For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends.
Jeremiah 9:24 ESV
“but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.”
Searching out these verses on boasting led me to an article by John Piper, God hates our pride in part because it separates us from Him, the source of our greatest joy, here is a link to the article:
http://www.desiringgod.org/messages/let-him-who-boasts-boast-in-the-lord
Receiving praise is a tricky thing — for to diminish it can crush the encourager, and to say “to God be the glory” can sound off-putting too. What do you do? This is hard, I look forward to seeing everyone else answers.
I struggle with knowing how to deal with compliments. How do I rightly reflect the glory back to God when someone praises me? There have been times when the context of the remark allowed time to do this well, but often times things like that are said when there isn’t time to speak truth about me and that any good thing they see isn’t what comes naturally for me but change brought by the Spirit of God. If I do it quickly I am afraid it sounds like false humility.
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
I believe the hidden idol is approval.
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
All you need is to keep focused on what God desires of you; he is the only one who needs to approve of your actions.
D. In Paul’s famous love chapter, it says, “Love does not boast.” Why not, do you think?
I looked up the word boast and it said, “to speak with exaggeration and excessive pride about oneself.” Then, I looked up pride:
1.
a high or inordinate opinion of one’s own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority, whether as cherished in the mind or as displayed in bearing, conduct, etc.
The word that stood out to me was superiority. I don’t think God really wants us to behave with any of these characteristics. They are all pretty negative terms. It places us above others.
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
Acrucible is an “apparatus” that you use to put metal in and heat. A furnace is a source of heat to melt metals. Most of the time gold would be more precious than silver, however it isn’t always the case. Regardless, they are both refined to make beautiful objects. They have to be cast over and over to become the objects of desire. I once heard a story about this called The Refiners Touch …
http://www.clarion-call.org/extras/malachi.htm
I tried to cut and paste but it didn’t work….please go to this link and read! It is enlightening 🙂
Finally, I’m not sure about whether the last line in 27:21 means the man is tested by the praise he is given (how he responds) or the praise he gives himself? But, if it means that he is tested and is at the stage of refining (like in the story), then he won’t be boasting about himself anymore. If he is still spewing words of how good he is, then he isn’t at the “pure” stage; he isn’t in the image of God yet.
Laura, I was just reading Proverbs 27 in The Message translation, and verse 21 is translated like this: “The purity of silver and gold is tested by putting them in the fire; the purity of human hearts is tested by giving them a little fame.” This seems to tie-in to your last sentence, that if he is still boasting about himself, he’s not at the “pure” stage yet…
Now I’m going to go to the link you gave and read The Refiners Touch!
Oh, Laura, The Refiners Touch is wonderful…
“She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there in front of the fire the whole time the silver was being refined. The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. For if the silver was left even a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed. The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, “How do you know when the silver is fully refined?” He smiled at her and answered, “Oh, that’s the easy part — when I see my image reflected in it.””
Thanks Laura, that He has his eye on us the whole time we are in the fire, that will say with me.
Laura–this is beautiful. I saw Chris’ reply and then Nanci’s quote from your article and had to read it myself–tears. A keeper for sure. “he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire”. I LOVE how He uses nature or truths of things like refining silver–to reinforce to us His truth as He has told us, He will never leave us, and my favorite Isaiah 43, verse 2: “when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you”–because He is always with us.
You also reminded me of an old favorite Young Life song–“Refiner’s fire, my heart’s one desire, is to be holy–set apart for You my Master, ready to do Your will…“
Lizzy, I just realized! Yesterday’s chronological bible reading was from Daniel when the three brothers (?) were put into the fire and God saved them! Too cool 🙂
Laura–so cool! And even more–I’m really impressed AND convicted that you’ve kept up with the chronological reading! ;0
3. Read Proverbs 27 in its entirety. Note anything that quickens you, and be alert to topics we’ve already studied, such as friendship and fools.
Pertaining to fools, Proverbs 27:3 says that carrying an incredibly heavy load is nothing compared to the burden of putting up with a fool. I can relate to how being in the company of a fool is truly wearisome and makes you feel weighed down.
Proverbs 27:22 says that it is impossible to remove the fool’s folly from him, even if you could grind him like grain with a pestle. I take this to indicate that it is impossible for a fool to be changed by others; his only hope is that God will change him.
Proverbs 27:5 says that it’s better to openly reprimand someone than to not express love. This reminds me that I need to speak words of blessing, love, and appreciation to those in my life.
Proverbs 27:6 says that wounds from a friend can be trusted. A true friend can tell you the truth about yourself, and when you know that your friend truly sees you, both the good and the bad, and loves you just the same, you can accept her words, knowing that the intent behind them is to help you grow, not to hurt you.
4. What thoughts and applications do you have concerning the above?
There really is something different about the silence of the morning; for some reason, every sound I might make in the house seems magnified when it’s very early…things like flushing the toilet, turning on the faucet, starting the washer…in fact, I got up today at 4:45 and came quietly downstairs…I know my daughter and husband need to sleep some more so I try to be especially quiet! I remember one morning a while back when I was downstairs in the family room, which is below my bedroom. I often read the Bible out loud, or pray out loud, and I didn’t think I was being loud, but when my husband got up, he asked me who I had been talking to!
Davis’ words, “Moreover it has a depth of dimension that goes beyond consideration for others’ sleep, and that has to do with the special quality of the morning’s silence” – I do agree, there is something about the early morning silence that is special…hard to pin it down as to the quality or essence of it, but I sense it is a gift from Him as “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights…” It is a time that seems to promote reflection, to be alone with one’s thoughts, to be alone and undistracted with Him…however, I have felt clearly, at times, the enemy’s early morning attacks on my mind, to want to have my early waking thoughts filled with fear, dread, and hopelessness.
I actually love that your husband heard you talking to the Lord!
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
Praise is a test and tells much about a person in seeing who is praising and what is being praised and how praise is received by the one being praised (i.e., humbly or vainly).
I ran out of time yesterday and was unable to answer part two of this question, which actually was good because it was something I pondered at different times throughout my day…
Receiving praise is a tricky thing …What do you do?
I try to be mindful of the praise and who is giving the praise, additionally I try to be aware if there might be a motive behind it being offered, such as schmoozing or quid pro quo. I don’t think there is a “cookie cutter” approach for responding to praise, sometimes a smile or a “thank you,” other times and in the right company, it might be appropriate to give thanksgiving to the Lord for the blessings bestowed. Mindfulness and being gracious are keys for me in my responding to praise. Although I do confess that being an introvert, it is difficult at time to accept praise, and then being a human, sometimes pride tries to infiltrate.
I remember doing a book study/review on a book that spoke about the “gift” given in receiving. I will always remember the point made that to not be gracious in receiving can come off as a rebuff to the giver.
E. What else do you learn about this topic from Proverbs 27:21?
That we are tried by temptations and trials-God uses them to transform us as He does the temptations that come when we are praised.
Receiving praise is a tricky thing — for to diminish it can crush theencourager, and to say “to God be the glory” can sound off-putting too.What do you do? I asked someone this question a few years ago and her response was to just kindly smile and say “thank you”, or perhaps if they are face to face you could touch their arm and say thank you. 🙂 I have also said, “I so appreciate your encouragement, thank you.” 🙂
I love the “I so appreciate your encouragement.” And touching their arm!
I am new here…I hope it is ok if I just jump in?! I had read Dee’s book Idol Lies and that is how I discovered the online study…
1. The example of the destination wedding stood out to me because I, too, have deceived myself in the past and continued on into something despite the warning signs.
2. A) Boasting about tomorrow means you see yourself in control of future events. Praising yourself means you see yourself as the one responsible for your own goodness. Both put self in first place and leave God out of the picture. B) The need for approval and praise from others. C) It would help me to see that God’s approval is enough and has already been gained through my relationship with Jesus. There is no more I need to prove- I can just be still…be quiet. 🙂 D) I think love does not boast because love is secure… When secure, then one is free to respond to the needs of others, to love others, and not focus on self. E) I think the praise of another helps to expose our hearts- to test the purity of our hearts- if we are seeking approval or feeling “puffed up” etc…
3) I may be misunderstanding this verse, but Proverbs 27:7 made me think about the destination wedding and how she went on with the marriage. She was hungry, so even the bitterness of being treated that way by her fiancee was not enough for her to stop- the bitter thing was in a way “sweet” to her hungry heart.
4) I definitely see sacredness in the early morning. It is my favorite time of day. I feel like my heart is more quiet in the morning (in general) and I find it esier to be still. One thing I do see causing a problem for me in this area is my smartphone though! I loved that song- thank you so much for sharing it Dee. I loved the verse “He fills my broken heart with songs”. Such a beautiful picture…
Elizabeth — welcome! I am so sorry I was pokey to affirm you — sometimes I forget to look to see if there are new people waiting — so I pray you see this. I already love your heart and am so glad you are here. Loved your rflections on boasting and praising yourself.
Thank you everyone for the warm welcome! 🙂 I am excited to join the group and get to know everyone. I couldn’t figure out what had happened to the comment! Lol 🙂 So, happy this has all worked out!
Elizabeth–welcome! So glad to have you here with us~
Thank you Lizzy 🙂
Welcome Elizabeth, you’ve come to a wonderful group, I hope you will continue with us.
Thank you Chris- it sure seems like a wonderful group! Thankful I found Dee’s online study blog!
Welcome Elizabeth! Glad to have you.
Thank you Cyndi! 🙂
2. Read Proverbs 27:1-2.
A. What do these two bad behaviors have in common?
Boasting and praising one’s self centers on “I” (pride).
B. When you are tempted to let someone know about an accomplishment or honor, what heart idol lurks beneath?
Approval, affirmation and appreciation
C. How could replacing that heart idol with the truth of God’s approval of you help you remain quiet?
God is my enabler and the giver of gifts. Anything I have and do and be is by His grace. There should be no room for pride; just gratitude for the undeserved grace. (the letter “I” is in the center of the word pride)
I have an audience of one as a friend once told me. His applause and smile is my reward. I think of the example of Katie Davis, author of Kisses from Katie. She exemplifies a life totally devoted to God’s approval.
I love this Bing “...no room for pride; just gratitude for the undeserved grace“, and love Katie’s example too~
Receiving praise is a tricky thing — for to diminish it can crush the encourager, and to say “to God be the glory” can sound off-putting too. What do you do?
I used to be embarrassed when someone praised me for something and I would not know what to say and would stumble over words that basically said “no, I don’t deserve the praise.” My mom taught me (after many years) to just say, “thank you,” and leave it at that. It’s what I have done for years now.
3. Read Proverbs 27 in its entirety. Note anything that quickens you, and be alert to topics we’ve already studied, such as friendship and fools.
These two verses caught my attention:
“As in water face reflects face, so the heart of man reflects the man.”
Proverbs 27:19 ESV
Since I teach about reflection in my courses, I found this one interesting.
“A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike; to restrain her is to restrain the wind or to grasp oil in one’s right hand.”
Proverbs 27:15-16 ESV
I think this his one says it all about nagging. It really gets you nowhere.
Laura, your mom was a wise and gracious woman! The phrase, “My mom taught me…” just caught my attention as I read your post!
🙂
4. What thoughts and applications do you have concerning the above?
Since I’m not a morning person at all, this one is difficult for me. I like to ease into my day, so I have to get up early to do that. I struggle waking up and don’t look forward to it. We start school at 7:10 (an ungodly hour!). It is painful. God and I try to meet throughout the day (a sprinkling of Him) instead. I do try to get up and do something with Him in the morning, but I’m not to keen to be awake and end up running late…
You had me fooled about being a morning person because you’re always here very early!
I know! the blog sets my morning right…I have to be at work at 7:10 so I need time to wake up 🙂
5. What similarity do you see between Proverbs 27:14 and 15? What heart idol is beneath nagging, do you think? How could lthis be replaced by the Lord?
I think both verses 14 and 15 have to do with the way in which we approach another person, and both show a lack of sensitivity or consideration. To “loudly bless” someone early in the morning is to show no consideration for their feelings and your “blessing” will be taken as cursing. The nagging wife also uses her words to try to propel the other person into action and is also provoking to irritation. I believe the heart idol is power/control; that by my constant nagging I will get the other person to do what I want them to do.
The Lord can replace this idol when I pray to Him and ask Him for what I want; as I pray, He may show me that I need to let go of what I want, or, I can trust Him to be in control. I recently heard a wonderful example of this. I know a very godly, older Christian woman who has a passion to teach other women. She and her husband had changed churches a few years ago, and unfortunately, she was given no opportunity to teach women in this new church. After their pastor moved away, she still felt an overwhelming desire to teach women again. Instead of talking to her husband about moving to another church, she began to pray about it and said nothing to him. After several months, her husband began to feel like they maybe should visit their former church, which had a new pastor, and they did, and he loved the preaching, and the decision was made to return there, and now she is co-leading a Bible study this Fall (in fact, I am in her class!). Her heart’s desire is, and I know because she says this and lives it out, is to be pleasing to God in everything. She did not attempt to control or manipulate her husband into changing churches but she let God be in control.
4. What thoughts and applications do you have concerning the above?
I love the quiet of the morning, there is a sacredness in my sitting with the Lord in study, devotion, reading at this time of the day. I like that my day begins with the Lord. I am a morning person and find that my energy level is high at this time of the day and my ability to comprehend is much better. I purposely get up early to enjoy this time with the Lord; if for some reason I don’t get this time, something is noticeably missing from my day.
As I went to get another cup of coffee, it came to mind that my mother is a “night owl.” My mom’s time with the Lord is spent in the evening, the quiet of the evening hours when everyone had gone to bed. This would be similar to the silence of the morning. If my mother didn’t have this time in the evening, I’m not sure that she would sleep as soundly…something would definitely be missing.
4. What thoughts and applications do you have concerning the above?
Love the idea of a rule of silence the first few hours, even the first few minutes! I do find that when I do a lot of speaking in the morning, before any reading—I really do have less fruitful conversation. Even if I can squeeze in a psalm before any conversation, I’m in a much better place.
5. What similarity do you see between Proverbs 27:14 and 15? What heart idol is beneath nagging, do you think? How could this be replaced by the Lord?
I’m thinking Prov. 27:14 should have my picture next to it. I’m not naturally a morning person. But life has forced me into one, so now I do get up early, but I am not “social” in the morning—I like it very, very quiet, and I don’t like to talk, though I try to at least smile! The similarity I see is that both assume what they have to say is of upmost importance—it is worthy of a loud wakening and a constant nagging. I see control. Better for me to pray and release the matter to the Lord’s more-capable perfect care.
5. What similarity do you see between Proverbs 27:14 and 15?
Both seem to be self-focused…the blessing said loudly in v. 14 is really directed to self, said loudly so another notices…it is akin to schmoozing in my mind, and nagging is rooted in want for self. In reality, in both texts there is little concern for the other.
What heart idol is beneath nagging, do you think?
Control comes through loud and clear.
Nanci — I agree, but would love to have you elaborate on why control comes through loud and clear as the heart idol beneath nagging.
Sorry…I ran out of time this morning; I try to get into the shower at 6 a.m. to begin getting ready for work.
To elaborate… The person who nags has their idea of how something should be or be done and nagging continually presses the issue that it should be their way or the way they recommend. The nagger continues battering away with nagging until their wants, ideas, recommendations, etc. are complied with (or realize they have absolutely no chance). I thought for a bit that another possibility might be comfort, but then in thinking about comfort (i.e., the need to have things one’s own way for comfort purposes), it is really in effect control at root.
Excellent!
3. Read Proverbs 27 in its entirety. Note anything that quickens you, and be alert to topics we’ve already studied, such as friendship and fools.
Verse 19: As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart. This stood out because I am learning to be careful letting anyone in until I have had time to observe how they live. I know no one is perfect and we are all in seasons in our walk-but since we don’t know if someone truly knows Jesus unless we see fruit-and even then it could be fake fruit-it is wise to observe their life first before letting them in close. What I look for in close friends is not someone who has arrived, and I have learned over the years that just because someone has great ‘Bible knowlege’ and goes to my ‘Bible church’ isn’t necessarily full of His Love-and may not even know Him for all I know, but I have learned to look for a while at their life first and get to know them slowly before I let them in…Someone who is broken like me but honest about it. Someone who I have observed is humble, teachable, and has His mark of love inside. How they speak of others, are they prone to gossip? Etc..Someone who desires Grace from me and extends it to me and others as well. I see this in new believers and mature believers as well.
2/A Pride and insecurity…oxymoron I know!
B. for me it is affirmation.
C-E I wish I knew 🙂 Trusting that “Gods got this” and knowing that it is all HIM, really knowing it at a heart level helps a lot. I just say thank you and sometimes share how it was all HIM. I really don’t ask for praise very much except from my poor husband. when he walks in the house im always waiting for him to praise the meal, or that the house is clean or that the kids homework is all done, he is usually to tired to notice so then I start in….”did you notice how nice the house looks, I cleaned it for 4 hours today”, I hope you like dinner, i worked really hard on it” etc. then the compliment doesnt do what I want it to anyway.
Working for God and not mans approval is hard stuff 🙁
What stuck out to me the most is that my boss (the head minister for ACT) chose this prov. to cover this week….I wonder if I am supposed to hear something in it!
the problem is that I have been discouraged all week, not having anything to boast about so im confused. Our worship sun. night was poorly attended, the Bible study that I spend all summer writing and praying over had 2 people show up to it, my back has been out all week and I am not dealing well with the pain, we had to cancel retreat this weekend because of a mystery illness that landed our head pastor in the ICU last week, Paul is struggling with his diabeties….its just been one of those weeks. wondering what God is trying to say.
A man is tested by the praise he receives. maybe i am being protected, perhaps God knows that right now my heart can not handle success.
A sweet friendship refreshes the soul…I miss the kind of friendships I had when my kids were little. We would all get together and laugh and complain and share our struggles with our kids. Friendship is a lot of work! It is so hard to find people who who are not afraid of my “all on the table” personality. The college girls I spend time with seem to be ok with it, but women my age think im nuts….
oh Cyndi!, how I wish I could come over right now and bring you a huge bouquet of those giant, vibrant (you-in-flower-form) sunflowers. And a huge hug. I am so so sorry. Writing you down to keep you in my prayers–you have such a full load. It does seem you have the enemy after you, for he knows your heart for the Lord–listen to Dee’s wisdom, let the lies be silenced. You are a GIFT–to Paul, your kids, your ministry–to us, and a fragrant offering to Him. Love you dear sister~
me too Lizzy! me too. would love to sit on the deck and watch the kids play and talk all day.
Cyndi, YOU ARE A GIFT TO ANYONE YOU COME IN CONTACT WITH! And that isn’t fluff-it is true. I can tell via how you are here and via your f.b. 🙂 I have admired you from afar for years. I love your honesty-your ‘all on the table’ honesty, your love and care for your family and the teens you open your home to. YOU are so hospitable! I also see how the enemy wants to discourage you. You are a beautiful woman and I am SO glad you are yourself in front of those women. You may not see this but i am sure deep down they admire your free spirit-I DO. Your posts are refreshing for you aren’t phony one iota and if I lived closer to you I would want to hang out with you!! I tend to gravitate toward winsome women like you-who are themselves and honest!
you are very kind Rebecca! I would love to hang out with you as well! wish we were all a lot closer! really hoping we get to have weekend retreat at some point!
Cyndi, I read the many issues you are dealing with…indeed discouraging and debilitating (back going out, Paul’s diabetes issues, Pastor mystery illness). Yet, I find it incredibly cool (and encouraging) that by “happen-chance” the same proverb is being studied in both places. I too wonder what the Lord has in store for you. God bless you, Cyndi…may He lift you out of the discouragement, may He bring you and yours peace, health, and courage.
thank you for your encouragement. I have indeed been lifted out of my discouragement!
Cyndi, what a week you’ve had! I’d love to get together with you and all the other gals here and we could all “laugh and complain and share our struggles…” I will pray that your back will heal and for Paul’s health and that you will be encouraged, not discouraged!
you are so sweet Susan! thank you for your prayers! I covet them so! one day we will all get together! we are going to have one big party on heaven when we all get there 🙂
Oh Cyndi — a discouraging week for sure, and sounds like the enemy was doing his very best to discourage you. You are dear, you are winsome, and I don’t want you believing any of his lies!
thank you for your reminder…this is the enemy at work.
4. What thoughts and applications do you have concerning the above?
I can hear God better in the silence of the morning and He sets my mind on Him first and honestly I find myself in confession and repentance A LOT-and need more of Cyndi in me-to be more honest before Him and not hide from Him but hide IN HIM..This means honest confession and repentance trusting in His finished work on the cross morning by morning..and what joy it is to know I can be naked in front of Him but not forsaken by Him ever!! :))) To me the morning is beautiful because in the sunrise I see Lamentations 3: NEW MORNING..NEW MERCIES..NEW BEGINNING for this broken but beloved daughter.. YEAH! I need new mornings with Him and this past month since school started I have been distracted in the mornings and have missed my morning time with Him..but He is faithful and this morning I was able to start my morning habit again of getting up at 4 am to meet with Him.. so grateful for His faithfulness and his mercies being new.
Rebecca, just as the early morning sky brightens and the beautiful sun rises, I also think of those verses from Lamentations…
But in my mind I keep returning to something,something that gives me hope —22 that the grace of Adonai is not exhausted,that his compassion has not ended.23 [On the contrary,] they are new every morning!How great your faithfulness!24 “Adonai is all I have,” I say;“therefore I will put my hope in him.
YES SUSAN….His unending Grace and compassion-Therefore I will put my hope in Him AND NOT IN MAN, or my idols.You SO extended that for me and encouraged me this morning even more. thank you.
Pray for me as I work on Proverbs 31 please for two weeks from now.
I will write it down to pray for you, Dee…I am looking forward to see how He will lead you in this! (P.S. I have never liked Proverbs 31 – makes me feel so inferior to this woman!)
I too will add this to my prayer list, Dee.
Yes Dee-will put that down! WOW…excited you are going to work on it-can’t wait to hear how He leads you through it for I know it will be illuminating to us. I am with Susan!
i will be praying Dee
6. Read through Proverbs 28 and find, in particular, the warnings for heeding the Lord and not hardening our hearts and running instead, to our heart idols.
Proverbs 28:5 says that those who do evil don’t understand what is right, but those who seek the Lord understand it fully. If I am seeking Him and in His Word, He will give me understanding to do what is right.
Proverbs 28:7 says that a discerning son (or daughter) listens to instruction. When I read God’s Word, I need to have my heart open to His instruction.
Proverbs 28:9 says if anyone turns a deaf ear to my instruction, even their prayers are detestable. This is a warning to me, that I may be not willing to do what God says I should do, yet pray to Him as if my heart is right, when in reality, there is something I’m not willing to deal with that has come between us.
Proverbs 28:13 says that a person who conceals his sins will not prosper, but the one who confesses and renouces his sins finds mercy.
Proverbs 28:14 says that a person is blessed when he has a proper fear of the Lord, but whoever hardens his heart falls into trouble. This tells me that, just like in the first chapter of PRoverbs it says that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, having a proper fear/respect/awe of the Lord will keep my heart soft, and I’ll be less likely to run to an idol instead of running to Him. This makes it clear that idolatry is hardening my heart against the Lord.
Proverbs 28:26 says that if I trust in myself, I am a fool, but if I walk in wisdom, I am kept safe. If I want to walk in wisdom, then I need to be listening to God.
5. What similarity do you see between Proverbs 27:14 and 15? What heart idol is beneath nagging, do you think? How could this be replaced by the Lord?
Both proverbs are concerned with self. What do I need to fulfill my needs? I think it’s our control idol that is the uneed lying cause. Although proverbs 14 seems innocent enough; praising the neighbor….is it truly because the praise is deserved or is it to make me feel good about myself? Also, it’s LOUD. That’s disrupting to the morning quiet time.
proverbs 15 speaks of nagging; again about me getting something for someone else.
To replace, we could pray for our neighbors and situations that lend themselves to nagging.
This is something new that I am doing in the mornings and evenings..I am praying Psalm 5 in the morning and Psalm 4 at night-I thought this related to our study. This morning He helped me view the evil as idols with satan behind them and it helped me-he also encouraged me so with the Gospel:
Listen to my words, Lord, consider my lament. Hear my cry for help, my King and my God, for to you I pray.
In the morning, Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait expectantly. For you are not a God who is pleased with wickedness; with you, evil people are not welcome. The arrogant cannot stand in your presence.You hate all who do wrong; you destroy those who tell lies.The bloodthirsty and deceitful you, Lord, detest. But I, by your great love, can come into your house;in reverence I bow down toward your holy temple.
Lead me, Lord, in your righteousness because of my enemies— make your way straight before me. Not a word from their mouth can be trusted; their heart is filled with malice.Their throat is an open grave; with their tongues they tell lies. Declare them guilty, O God! Let their intrigues be their downfall.Banish them for their many sins, for they have rebelled against you. But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy.Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you.
Surely, Lord, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield.
Incredible, Rebecca, love the highlights…thanks for sharing your discipline with psalm 4 and 5; it is really such a good and simple, yet RICH, idea. Your post enriched my morning…thank you.