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We’re beginning the seven-week series that many say put Tim Keller “on the map.” Even many of our Bibles show a lack of understanding of the famous parable often subtitled “The Prodigal Son.” The point of the parable was not just the Father receiving the repentant younger son when He returned, but how the older son refused to welcome him. He was behaving like the Pharisees, MURMURING against sinners, while blind to their own sin. I have done this series before, but I am being refreshed by it again — the same may be true of you! I think in time you will see yourself in both sons and see how great is the love of the Father for you.
But the Pharisees and teachers of the law muttered: This man welcomes sinners and eats with them. (Luke 15:1b)

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As we begin a new year, I want to thank all who have prayed for this ministry and supported it financially, as there are costs. I am very grateful. You are a blessing to me in many ways.
Sunday:
- How have you experienced the goodness of God this week? Any of these ways? (Answer to prayer, Scripture became radioactive, unusual timing or circumstances, sense of His presence…)
Monday: The Text – Luke 15:1-1
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!)
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners?
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering?
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
Read Luke 15:8-10
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today?
Tuesday: Meditating on Words and Images in Parables
Listen and read simultaneously — or listen and then read. Because God so anointed Keller as a preacher, don’t just read.
We’re starting a new series tonight, and we’re going to be looking at the parables that Jesus tells in Luke 15, and they all come from this opening couple of verses where the Pharisees are muttering. That’s a great word, isn’t it? I’m so glad somebody invented that word. You remember one of the riddles that Bilbo and Gollum tell each other in their deadly riddle game in the dark. One of the riddles is this: Voiceless it cries, wingless it flutters, toothless it bites, mouthless it mutters. Okay, class, what’s the answer? What is that? Voiceless it cries, wingless it flutters, toothless it bites, mouthless it mutters. It’s the wind! But the Pharisees mutter too. “Wait,” you said, “the wind?” “Yes, think about it, all right? It’ll come to you.” But the muttering of the Pharisees is actually what triggers these three great parables: the parable of the lost sheep, the parable of the lost coin, and the parable of the lost sons, the parable of the prodigal. And what we’re going to do is look at each of these over the next seven weeks, and here’s why. These are famous parables, and they’re well known to be showing us how God’s grace changes my life individually as an individual. But what I want to show us and discuss, and that’s one of the reasons why we want everybody in groups to be discussing this for the next seven weeks, if you’re not in a group, we say, please get in a beta group and do this. Is we want to examine how these parables show that the grace of God not only changes us individually, but forms us into a unique kind of human community. That the grace of God, the gospel, creates a completely unique and distinct kind of community, a community the world’s never seen. And we’re going to be looking every week at what the particular parables teach us about that.
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
Muttering is unkind and indirect. I’ve listened to some of the Jefferson Fisher podcasts on communicating in healthy ways. I need this as a recovering passive-aggressive woman. Fisher is helping me communicate more honestly, kindly, and also helping others see that they may be being passive-aggressive and unkind. If someone else hurts me with a sideways comment, instead of responding in kind, I might ask, “Could you say that again?” Or “What did you intend by saying that to me?”
8. What thoughts do you have on the above?
Now, when you’re trying to understand a parable, one of the best ways to do it is to, since it’s a metaphor, it’s an extended metaphor, is to meditate on the images. And so, let’s take a look at the sheep, the search itself, and the shepherd, and see what each one of those teaches us about how grace creates community.
First of all, the sheep. Now, when you and I hear that we are sheep, and He is the Shepherd, it just makes us feel warm, fuzzy, gauzy, you know, and we think of fluffy little lambs and, you know, green pastures and still waters. But you need to know that when the Bible calls Him the Great Shepherd and us sheep, it is a very important and very well-meant spiritual insult. It’s an insult.
Here are the words of a pastor who before he went into the ministry was a shepherd. Here’s what he says. He understands what it means. He says, “A sheep is a stupid animal. It loses its directions continually in a way that a cat or dog never does. And even when you find a lost sheep, the lost sheep rushes to and fro and will not follow you home. So, when you find it, you must seize it throw it to the ground, tie its forelegs and hind legs together, put it over your shoulders and carry it home. That’s the only way to save a lost sheep.”
Okay, let’s meditate on the meaning of this metaphor. I’m not kidding. There’s two things this teaches us. The Bible tried to tell us something about ourselves, about us. And the two things are, first of all, this teaches us that, like sheep, we need to be rescued. We constantly need to be rescued. Probably the favorite thing my wife and I do in our and have ever done our whole lives and do, is that if we get to Britain, we get out a book called Back Roads of Britain, and we drive, you know, into the most remote parts we can find. And one of the things you’ll see in those remote parts is sheep. And even us tourists can see something pretty interesting, and that is, when sheep see grass, no matter where it is, no matter how steep or how dangerous a spot, they just go for the grass. They go and start eating the grass, even though they go to a place that is impossible to climb down from. So, they go and they eat the grass till the grass is gone, and then they either have to be rescued or else they plunge to their death. And we actually saw this. There’s all these, you know, on these steep mountainsides, and they’re the sheep, you know, eating, and there they are, sometimes they’re eating and suddenly, and they fall down, fall to their death at the bottom of a cliff, you know, why? They’re sheep.
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application?
Sometimes when the minister or the priest gives you the bread in the Communion or the Lord’s Supper, the minister or the priest will say, “Feed on Him in your heart by faith.” Now that assumes that your soul is feeding on something. That means that you have taken the deepest hopes of your heart for happiness and security, and you’ve rested those hopes in something. It might be image, status, might be wealth, it might be family, it might be Mr. X or Ms. X falling in love with you. But whatever it is, if you are feeding your soul anywhere but at the hand of Jesus or at the feet of Jesus, our great shepherd, you’re like a sheep on a ledge. A perfect example of this would be this. Look, you’re dating somebody, Mr. X, Ms. X, okay? You’re dating somebody. And it’s one thing to date. It’s one thing to be in love. One thing to hope for is that the person marries you, that’s one thing. It’s another thing to feed your soul, that is to say, to rest your heart’s deepest hopes on that person and that relationship. To say, I know I’m somebody. I know I’m okay. I feel secure about the future. I know I’m valuable because this person loves me. Well, you know what that means? You’re like a sheep that have gone up to the place where the grass is going. If you break up, you won’t just be disappointed. It’ll be a spiritual, emotional plunge. You have no self left. You have no hope left. And the Bible says we’re all doing that. All we like sheep have gone astray. We have all turned to our own way. And therefore, all sheep need to be rescued.
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today?
Wednesday: Nothing In My Hand I Give
But not only that, the metaphor doesn’t just teach us that all sheep have to be rescued, but it also teaches us how thoroughly they need to be rescued. Remember what the man said, the shepherd said about sheep? If you find a lost sheep, your job’s not over, because the lost sheep won’t follow you home. The lost sheep will run all around, and you have to grab it and throw it down and tie it up and take it all the way home. See, if your dog is lost, your dog loses its way. Well, you find your dog, all right? And when the dog, it jumps up and then follows you home, or maybe once you’ve pointed in the right way it goes, all you need is to put it in the right direction, and it gets home itself. Not a sheep. Sheep’s not going to follow you home. Do you know what that means? A sheep can contribute nothing to its salvation.
The shepherd to rescue the sheep, unlike rescuing a dog or a cat, the shepherd to rescue a sheep has to take, basically has to walk it all the way home. The shepherd has to do everything for the sheep. The sheep, it’s not a cooperation between, like with a dog or a cat, that the shepherd does something and the animal does something. No, the shepherd has to go home for it. The shepherd has to put it on its shoulders and go all the way home. And what does this mean? You know what it means? In traditional language, this is saying that you, we human beings, are utterly lost in sin and can do nothing to contribute to our salvation and have to be saved sheerly by grace, not by cooperating, not by…
It would not have helped since we’re sheep. It would not have helped if God had sent just a great teacher who tells us how we should live. And gives us an inspirational picture of how we should live. And then we emulate Him and we try our best to live like Jesus. I can’t tell you how many times over the years I’ve had people say, I’ve asked people, what does it mean to be a Christian? He says, “It means trying very hard to live according to the example of Jesus.” So, you think you’re a dog or a cat, but you’re not. You’re a sheep. We’re not Fido. See? We’re sheep. A teacher wouldn’t have been enough.
A teacher wasn’t enough. We’ve had all kinds of teachers. There’s a place where Jesus says, I keep sending you sages and wise men, and you’ve killed them all. Sheep with teeth. We need a Savior. We need somebody who has to do everything that we should do, has to live the life we should have lived and die the death we should have died to bring us all the way home.
12. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point?
Now, in traditional language, we’re saying that everyone is utterly lost in sin. And I know how absolutely repugnant that doctrine, that biblical doctrine, that Christian teaching is to people, especially in a place like New York. And for 200 years in Western culture, the elites, the educated people, the intellectuals have all said that the Christian doctrine of original sin, that we are hopeless, that we are born sinful, that we cannot save ourselves in any way, that that is a repugnant doctrine. It’s been for 200 years since the Enlightenment. Enlightenment thinkers like Rousseau, for example, taught that human beings were, that children were born innocent. And that we just mess people up with education, we mess people up, the culture mess people up, but we’re essentially innocent and the idea of original sin is repugnant.
Now here’s the great irony. After 200 years, after two world wars, after global terrorism, after being so disillusioned with all of our leaders and all of our cultural institutions, everybody knows that the Enlightenment is wrong. Everybody knows that Rousseau was wrong. And yet our culture is actually in a kind of schizophrenic situation because it still says, oh, we don’t believe that awful stuff about sin. Christians say everybody’s a sinner. How awful, how repugnant, every so often. Some, you know, member of the intelligentsia comes out and says that. And they all know that Rousseau was wrong. It’s intriguing because of the facts.
So, Alan Jacobs has recently written a book on original sin and he quotes a critic, a secular critic named Randall Jerrell who says this, quote, “Most of us know now that Rousseau was wrong. That man, when you knock his chains off, set up the death camps. Soon we will know everything the 18th century didn’t know about human capacity for selfishness, greed, and violence.” And then Alan Jacobs goes on and he says, and by the way, this is his quote, his words, not mine. Alan Jacobs goes on and says, but now wait a minute, he says, “Modern culture says it has left behind Christianity’s repulsive doctrine of original sin. But it also says that it has left Rousseau’s naivete about human nature behind. So, where the hell are we?” I’m just reading the quote. He just said, All right. That was in the book. I just read it to you. And what he’s actually saying is, you, really can’t have your cake and eat it too. If you’re somebody who says, oh, this I can’t believe. You’re up there talking about original sin and about how every human being is so sinful. How negative. And yet, when a culture says, We don’t believe in original sin, the facts pull it back to seeing that it was right all along. Solzhenitsyn did not believe in original sin, then he got into the Gulag. Blaise Pascal, smarter than anybody else in this room, struggled with this doctrine of sin, and yet at one point in his pensées he says, “Nothing jolts us more rudely than this doctrine. And yet, but for this mystery, the most incomprehensible of all, we remain incomprehensible to ourselves.” So, if you are a New Yorker and you don’t believe that you’re hopelessly lost in sin, just give it time. Just give it time. So that’s what the sheep teaches us, that we are sinners and we have to be saved by sure grace.
13. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man? Have you observed this?
We know that the gospel saves us from the penalty of sin, but we may be slower to understand it can also save us from the power of sin. When God awakened me to my sinful habit of side-ways comments, to stop, I had to have faith that if I responded instead in a godly way, that I would experience the good fruit of submission, in myself, and perhaps also in my relationships.
14. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer? What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey?
Thursday: Grace Creates Real Community
This point is so obvious, yet I needed to be reminded. As we rid our hearts of sin, we become closer, a real loving family, whether it is our biological family, our church family, or right here!
Now, secondly, what’s the Search the Scriptures. Now, the context, very important, the context for all of these parables is verses 1 and 2. Jesus did not tell these parables just simply to say, well, I guess I’ll get up and lecture on sin and grace. He was responding something, and guess what he was responding to? Verse 1 and 2 says, Now the tax collectors and sinners were gathering around to hear him, but the Pharisees and teachers of the law muttered, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”
Now, in those days, in that ancient time, to invite somebody into your home to welcome someone and eat with them meant much more than it does now. Today, it’s a gesture of friendliness still. It is. I mean, it’s a friendly thing to do. But in those days, it meant an offer of friendship, and it was a way of saying, I want to be in community with you. And the Pharisees and the teachers of the law are absolutely dumbfounded. You know why? They see Jesus Christ seeking to build a faith community with these people in it. And here’s what they say. They say, “There’s never been a faith community with people like that in it.” Those people are excluded because, after all, a faith community is based on the idea that you are obeying God and that you are practicing God’s ways, and these people aren’t doing so they can’t be in the community. “There’s never been a community, a faith community,” they said, “including people like that. How can you do that?”
And therefore, it’s Jesus’ effort, His project, to create a new kind of community the world had never seen that brings up a huge objection. And in response, all of these parables. That’s the reason why for seven weeks we can take a look and see, what do these parables teach us? About how grace creates community. And see, Jesus, the one thing that comes up through these parables, especially these two, is this word joy. Joy. See how often it happens? It’s joy. Rejoice with me, I found my sheep. Rejoice with me, I found my coin. There is more joy in heaven over a sinner that repents. And what is Jesus saying? He says, by the way, isn’t it amazing that Jesus very casually can say, Listen, I’ve come from a community in heaven. I know exactly how things go up there. Pretty interesting. What an amazing kind of claim. And he says, I have come from a community. It’s the community in heaven that celebrates sinners saved by grace. It does not celebrate righteous people who don’t think they have anything to repent of. It celebrates sinners saved by grace. That’s the joy that motivates the heavenly community, and I’m creating a community like that here.
15. Give an example from your life about how true repentance brought you closer to another person. Be specific.
Now, what is he saying? Well, let’s stand back for a second and ask the question, what’s a community? And one dictionary definition I came upon was, a community is a group of individuals who have been bonded into a body through an intense common experience. Now, some years ago, and by the way, the more intense an experience, the more strong the bond and the more strong the community. Some years ago, I remember I was talking to a man who was a Bosnian and he was living in New York City. And he said, interestingly enough, I guess it must have been an election year because he said, boy, an election year, you know, you Americans, the Democrats can’t stand the Republicans. Republicans think the Democrats are crazy. You’re just at each other’s throats. And he says, I’m a Democrat. I’m a strong Democrat. But when I meet a Bosnian here who’s a Republican, that’s totally inconsequential to our relationship. And I said, that’s interesting, why? And he says, well, because we’ve been through life and death. Even a Bosnian that I’ve never met before, I know that he has been through the same life and death experience. And that creates a bond that’s more important than whether you’re Democrat or Republican, whether you’re white collar or blue collar, anything else. Isn’t that interesting?
Now here’s what he’s saying. Everybody has got identity factors. Everybody’s got things about themselves. You’re male, you’re female, you’re a black, white, Asian, Hispanic, you’re a first generation immigrant, you’re a second generation immigrant. All these things are very, they have factors in who you understand yourself to be. You have made it into a good school. You have achieved this. You have all, there’s all part of your identity. And your identity is self-worth and self-image, what makes you distinctive, what makes you feel valuable. And these different factors are all there, but some are much more foundational than others. Some are closer to the foundation of who you are. And for example, this man mentioned that his son also values him. His son had grown up and had gone off to law school and was a lawyer in the city. And his son, even though his son certainly valued his being Bosnian as part of his identity, the fact was he’d never been through that life and death thing. You know, he was really, he was pretty much raised here, he’d never been through that life and death stuff. And as a result, he said he could see his son felt more oneness, a bond with, say, other white collar people than he did with other blue collar Bosnians. But, you know, the more intense an experience, the more intense the experience, the more all those, it goes beneath all the other factors. It transcends all the other factors. It’s the bond that makes all the other factors inconsequential.
Wow, is this ever relevant in our politically divided society that has invaded the church and caused dissension. It’s been good for me to watch some movies such as On the Basis of Sex (about Ruth Bader Ginsburg) and also Lilly (about Lilly Ledbetter) to see contributions that democrats made to treating women more justly, for I often “mutter” about the Democrats, though I am realizing that Republicans are truly behaving badly too. But even more importantly, as Keller will explain, is that my identity cannot be in politics. (When I was a little girl, some older girls asked me what religion I was, and when I said I was a Republican they became hysterical.)
16. What is Keller saying about how our identity affects community? Application for you?
You know how many buddy movies there have been? Buddy, you know what a buddy movie? It’s a movie about one or two or more people who doesn’t like each other. They’re different. They can’t stand each other. But then they go through some kind of life and death experience and on the other end, you know, they now have a bond thicker than blood, right?
In Ephesians chapter 2, Paul begins the chapter by saying, you, were dead in your trespasses and sins, and you’ve been made alive in Jesus Christ. For it is by grace you’ve been saved, and that not of yourselves, it’s a gift of God, not of works lest anyone should boast. And then at the end of the chapter, after saying, you,’ve been, you were dead and you’ve been raised to life through Jesus Christ, saved by sheer grace. At the end of the chapter it says, We’re all like living stones that are being fitted together to build a beautiful temple in which God’s Spirit will dwell.
17. What experience have true believers been through that should bond them together? Has this been true for you? Explain.
Now think about this metaphor. First of all, what this is saying is other religions, other religions say you’re saved by following the rules, observing the rituals, doing all the things you want to do, and then you reach the divine. In other words, all of the religions treat you like a dog or a cat. You need help. You need pointers, but then you’ll be fine. But the gospel is we’re sheep. The gospel is we can contribute nothing to our salvation. And the gospel, when the gospel dawns on you and you understand what Jesus what Christ has done for you. It’s like dying and being reborn. It’s not like adding something, it’s not like just getting a kind of shot in the arm. It’s not like it’s just not an inspiration, it’s a life-death experience.
Because when the gospel dawns on you, you begin to think things like this. You begin to say, I am feeding myself, I’m feeding my soul on things that are going to kill me. And I’m running away from my shepherd. But I’m not just infinitely lost, I’m infinitely loved, I’m infinitely valued. I’m His treasure. I’m one of His coins. I’m His treasure. He leaves His entire wealth, the 99, the flock, and goes off and gets me. I’m His treasure. See, these parables aren’t just saying I’m infinitely lost, but I’m infinitely valued. The Shepherd will do anything to bring me home. And He does do everything to bring me home. And it’s grace from first to last.
Now, when a Christian has the gospel dawn on you like that, do you know what that does? That blows your old identity out of the water, because every other identity factor gives you a joy. Every other identity factor gives you a joy.
Let’s just say, what if your foundational identity factor is, I have gone to an Ivy League school. Or I have raised a great family, all my kids are just fine. Or I am a moral and very, very, very Bible believing person. All of those identity factors bring a joy, don’t they? But in every case, sure, look, I’ve achieved, look what I’ve done. You get a joy from doing it or being it, and that’s what makes you feel good about yourself, right? But it’s a joy that automatically makes you feel superior to the people who don’t have that factor. You automatically feel better than the people who didn’t make it into the school. Why? Because that’s why you feel good, because you did. You automatically feel better than the people whose families are a mess. You automatically feel better than people who aren’t living good, strong moral lives. Automatically. You get a joy, but it’s a joy that excludes tax collectors and sinners. It excludes moral failures. It excludes all kinds of people.
And this is now the reason, do you see, why Jesus Christ is able to start to create a community that the world has never seen before. Because if the new joy you get is a joy over being saved by grace, if the joy is I’m infinitely lost and I’ve been saved by sheer grace and I’m infinitely loved and valued, that’s a joy that can’t make you feel superior to the people outside. That’s a joy that creates an absolutely new kind of community the world’s never seen. Because on the one hand, it’s a community that, first of all, keeps you from looking down your nose at the people outside, but secondly, creates a bond unlike any other bond with the people inside, the other people who have experienced the life and death of repentance and faith in the experience of grace in the gospel. That’s the reason why Paul, at the beginning of chapter 2, he can say, you know, we’ve died and risen with Christ through grace. And at the end, he could say, we’re like living stones being fit together into a beautiful temple.
18. Why is it that if your identity is in something other than being a child of God, it brings stress and sorrow?
19. Are you growing in having your primary identity in Christ? Or do you need prayer?
Friday: The Bond That Cements
You know where he gets that idea? If you go back to 1 Kings 6, we learn something about how Solomon’s temple, the temple of God, was built. At the quarry, the masons worked very hard on the blocks. They took stones and they chiseled and they hammered and they made them perfectly so perfectly that when they were brought to the building site, the temple went up in silence. There was no hammer, there were no chisels, there was no need for mortar. Why? Because at the quarry, they had been so perfectly formed that when they came together, they fit. They fit perfectly. And this is Paul’s way of saying, if you’ve been to the quarry, if you’ve been through the life and death, experience of grace then when you meet another Christian, you fit. There’s a bond. You’ve been through life and death. It doesn’t matter whether you’re Democrat or Republican. It doesn’t matter whether you’re white or black. It doesn’t matter whether you’re male or female. It doesn’t matter whether you’re old or young. And I’m an old white guy from America. You put me with a 17-year-old African woman from the rural areas who’s a mother of four. Give us 15 minutes to go to talking about Jesus and we will know that bond. You know how that works if you’re a Christian.
Or maybe you don’t. You say, “Well, gee, I think I’m a Christian, but I don’t feel that way.” Because when I see these people, you know, these people with other political party, they say they’re Christians, these people of other race, they say, but I don’t sound like, then maybe you haven’t been to the quarry. Maybe you’re a cultural Christian. Maybe you haven’t experienced the life and death of a new birth.
David Martin Lloyd Jones used to say it like this: “You’re a Christian first and you’re white, black, Asian or Hispanic second. You’re a Christian first and you’re from Africa or China or Germany or Alabama second.”
And when you meet somebody else who’s been through that same life and death experience of the gospel, a person of a different race, a person of a different profession, a person of a different class, and you all the kind of person who all your life you’ve been told by others in your race, your class, your profession not to trust those kinds of people, when you a Christian find another Christian from one of those kinds of groups, because all of those barriers are knocked down by Jesus Christ and your brother and your sister.
20. What illustration from the above stands out to you and why?
21. Share a time when you bonded with a “stranger” upon discovering your bond in Christ.
Now, let’s conclude. When Jesus Christ says, I’m the shepherd, he’s making an astounding claim because, you know, shepherds totally control the life of their sheep. Jesus, the shepherds aren’t consultants to sheep. Shepherds don’t get to sheep together once a month to give them some data points on how to eat, you know. Sheep are absolutely dependent on shepherds for absolutely every part of their lives. And when Jesus says, I am the shepherd, which is clearly what he’s saying here, then he’s saying, Give yourself to me completely.
Now, that’s not easy. And we modern people don’t like the idea of losing control, but here’s why you should do it. On Passover, Israelites celebrate Passover, Jews celebrate Passover, to commemorate the time back in Egypt when God led them out by every family slaying a lamb, putting the blood on their doorpost, eating the lamb, and by taking shelter under the blood of the lamb, the angel of death passed them over. And every year from that time, they remember the salvation through the shed blood of the lamb by having a Passover night. But the night before Jesus Christ died, He had Passover with His disciples. And it was the weirdest Passover anybody had ever seen. Because at every Passover meal you have bread and you have wine and you have a lamb, you know? Bread, the wine, and the main course. But you read Matthew, Mark, Luke, and you’ll see there’s the bread, of course. There’s the wine, of course. But there’s no mention of a lamb on the table. Why not? There was no lamb on the table because the Lamb of God was at the table. Jesus Christ is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world, and all the other lambs were just pointing to that. And here’s why you can trust Jesus. Jesus is saying, I am the one shepherd you can trust. I’m the one person you can put yourself in my hands and you can trust. Why? Because I’m the one shepherd who became a sheep, became a lamb to save you. That’s how I brought you home.
Now, please trust your shepherd by committing to one another. Because let me just close like this. What we’re learning here is if you believe in the gospel, that belief creates a unique kind of community, and it’s our job to realize that community in our midst. In two ways tonight and then we’re done.
First of all, I want you to commit yourself to building a community that is filled with beautiful, unified difference. And if you are a person who comes here and you look around, for example, I’ve heard this for years. Even back when we started the church and my wife and I were 38, we’ve always been the oldest people in the church, always been the oldest. And so often I would meet somebody else my age and they’d all say, Well, you know, I don’t know about coming to Redeemer. Well, well, everybody’s, well, you know, what they’re really saying, everybody’s slimmer because we’re older, we’re fat. Everybody’s, you know, prettier because we’re older and we’re bald. I mean, you know, and there was a place at a certain point, well, you know, everybody was single. Everybody was white in the beginning. Everybody was young in the beginning. How boring. And so much, it’s not what the Bible says we’re supposed to be. And these other identity factors are important, and yet if you’re a Christian and you come in and you say, I don’t see my kind of people around, well, then please stay because we need you. We need you to become what we’re supposed to be. Maybe you need us to become what the Bible says the church can be, a place of beautiful, unified difference.
But secondly, it’s also a place where sinners are free to admit that they’re sinners. Dietrich Bonhoeffer says, only, see, Bonhoeffer says, every other community is based on performance, living up to certain things, and therefore you’re never allowed to be a sinner, you’re never allowed to admit failure. It’s like evolution, you know, when one member of the herd starts to go limp, we just eat it. Yeah, that’s it. But the Christian community’s got to be different, and Bonhoeffer said, In James chapter, he’s commenting on James chapter 5 verse 16 where it says, Confess your faults to one another and heal each other. And he says this, he says, Religiosity and morality permits no one to be a sinner. Everyone must conceal his sin from him or herself and from others. But it’s the grace of the gospel which is so hard for the religious to understand. The grace of the gospel confronts us with the truth and says, you, are a sinner. You are a great desperate sinner, now come as the sinner you are to God who loves you. He doesn’t want anything from you. He doesn’t want to sacrifice a work. He wants you alone. This message is liberation through truth. The mask you have to wear before everyone else will do you no good before Him or before your brothers and sisters. Confess your sins to one another. Get the freedom of being sinners before one another. Confess your sins to each other, accept one another, and be healed.
And you know what he’s really saying? Isn’t that interesting? He says, if you become, by the gospel, a member of Jesus’ flock, you become a person who’s so gentle and kind and patient with other people who sin, of course, because your self-image is based on you being a sinner saved by grace. And yet, when it says, Confess your sins to each other and heal each other and love each other and care for each other. What it’s really saying, it’s not just talking about a community of sheep, it’s also talking about a community of shepherds. We’re supposed to confess to each other and heal each other. We’re all shepherds. Now, how did that happen? The answer is we can go from being witless, selfish sheep to being shepherds to each other because our great Shepherd, Jesus Christ, turned himself into a helpless sheep, a lamb, and died for us. Commit yourself to building a community based on grace.
Let’s pray. Thank you, Father, for giving us this great invitation, a community in which we can be sinners. We can say, I’m a great big sinner, and have others around us love us, care for us, pick us up, hold us accountable, but never give up on us. And we thank you, we’re also a community of grace where we can all be sinners, but also a community of grace where we can learn from each other, where we can have a bond with each other that goes past all the other things that divide people, whether it’s race, whether it’s class, whether it’s generation, whether it’s nationality. And I pray, Lord, you would make us increasingly a community of grace because of what your Son did for us. It’s in Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
22. Tests of real communty
- Do you feel free to admit you are a sinner at church? Here?
- Does your church reflect the community in which you live or is it mostly made up of upper class, or white, or aged?
- Are you able to give grace to challenging sheep?
Saturday:
23. What is your take-a-way this week and why?
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This feels very timely in holding my own heart and attitude in check.
Welcome, Danielle! I feel the same way as you do.
Danielle — so glad you will join us. Tell us a little about yourself!
Welcome Danielle! This is a perfect place to hold hearts and attitudes..❤️
Welcome! You will be blessed here. Dee is a gem 😉.
Welcome Danielle! I think we all can relate to holding hearts and attitudes in check. You will be a blessing to all.
Welcome Danielle,
Dee leads us well with the study here on this blog. At this time it is rich with strong biblical teaching by Tim Keller and thoughtful input. Hope you can join us.
Welcome Danielle!
Sunday:
How have you experienced the goodness of God this week? Any of these ways? (Answer to prayer, Scripture became radioactive, unusual timing or circumstances, sense of His presence…)
I realize my answer here will be long, but know that I am safe here to share, even though I will be long-winded.
First of all, Dee, I would like to thank you for your past years of leading our blog studies and for what is to come this year. I do remember the nuggets of wisdom and conviction I earned the first time we went through this study on the prodigal son. And reading Keller’s book Prodigal God, which was my first book of his to read, as recommended by a new friend that year. Once again, my heart welled up thinking of how I have been both the young son and the older son, the latter persona of which I still struggle these days. I hope to experience a fresh wind of the Spirit to bring confidence that even as I struggle with being the “older son”, I am still loved. And that God will not forsake me nor leave me; He will complete what He has started in me.
God is good. This past week, I was surprised to receive a call from my former employer, who asked if I could return to work this semester at the Institute from which I retired last spring. My natural man wanted to say, No. Last year was hard in the classroom, and I did not want to go back to that stress. But talk about timing-this request came on the heels of praying for my decision on what to commit to. I have been memorizing Colossians 1 and struck by the following verses as part of Paul’s prayer: “we continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of His will according to the wisdom and understanding the Spirit gives, so that you may walk worthy of the Lord, pleasing Him in every way, bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God being strengthened with all power according to His might so that you may have great endurance and patience…
So much of me cries out for personal comfort, a desire to distance myself from people so I and my loved ones won’t get hurt, I am too old (hah!), I have other interests I want to pursue, etc., etc. Despite all these excuses I came up with, God has given me peace about saying yes. Things are falling into place. A trusted friend gave wise counsel, and my husband said, “Go for it,” after a long conversation. I love Philippians 4:7, and the peace of God that passes all understanding (yep, I really don’t understand why this is happening) shall guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. The story of Mary’s submission from last week helped me realize that, come what may, may I honestly say, “May it be according to your Word.”
And I was glad my boss agreed to just a once-a-week commitment and the option of using Zoom if I can’t make it to the classroom that week. I am their last resort, and school starts tomorrow! One other verse that came to mind was from Exodus 33:15: “Then Moses said to him, ‘If your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from here.” Yes, Lord, only with your presence.
Wow, Bing. Sounds like God is working! How exciting and how great an opportunity to trust Him. Praying for your new job and may the Lord be with you.
Bing, you are a brave woman!! Back in the classroom after retiring. Wow. I will pray. I start back tomorrow too. Slow and steady for me! It will be like riding a bike for us “oldies!” Take care.
Oh my, Bing — postponed retirement — your husband’s encouragement, your faith!
Until your comment I had forgotten we had done Prodigal God in the past. Oh my. But it is years later and this time I have the text. How do our old-timers feel?
Dee, As one of the old-timers I am excited and delighted to return to the Prodigal God. It was so eye opening to the deeper truths found in the story of the Prodigal Son and as is the case with God’s Word there is always new richness to be found no matter how much we go back to it. And Keller teaches us so well. 😊
Thanks, Bev!
Dee, I believe God has led you to this study. I am always up for a Keller study and can go back to any of them and learn new things and be reminded of old ones. I would like it very much if we stay with it. It must have been quite a while ago when we did it. And I love that we have the text for us to use. I am looking forward to the rich input from the ladies here. and, of course, ruminate over your questions.
Thank you to all the encouraging words for my “new” job! My eyes are still fuzzy due to a difference in lens, but I hope I can comment here once in a while. Pardon me for typos and errors.
From John Piper…”Don’t ever begrudge a small group, a family devotion, a Bible reading, a sermon, that is a sheer reminder of what you already know, because God has things in those old, familiar truths that you never saw yet, things to change in you that haven’t been changed yet.”
God has a purpose in leading you Dee to do this study and I look forward to it!
I like that quote Sharon. We need to remember that God’s word is alive and active. Yes, we can always learn something new.
I am excited for all God is doing in your life, dear Bing. I love the scriptures you quoted, filled with your trust in God and His Word. And your husband’s encouragement is great! I pray that your eyes are healing and that you will be blessed by your commitment.
Prayers for you and Laura, as you head back to the classroom.
Dee, I love that you are doing The Prodigal God!
I’m so glad, Patti.
Wow! Bing, So fascinating to see this new thing God has chosen to do in your life in taking you back into the classroom. It just sounds good for you at this time of life because without a doubt you still have much to offer in your field of study. Upon his retirement my husband started a small company do accounting work and payroll for churches and ministries. So for the past ten years it has served him well in using his personal skills and the expertise he has in church law to help churches be financially responsible and function better. It has been a source of some extra income and a real satisfaction to him in being productive with his time in a very satisfying way.
You have a wealth of experience and knowledge to offer and are still able to use it with a good purpose. You are wise to set your boundaries to what feels doable for you. I pray God will richly bless you in going back.
Bev, I want to comment on your thoughts here in reference to your husband doing his work with churches after retirement. I, too, am very appreciative of the opportunity to use my skills and knowledge of the MO state requirements for this program. It will be extra income for us to use for God’s glory. Tell your hubby that his example has touched my life even if we have not met! Such is our testimony when we walk with the Lord in light of His Word, as the song goes. Trust and obey!
Sunday:
How have you experienced the goodness of God this week? Any of these ways? (Answer to prayer, Scripture became radioactive, unusual timing or circumstances, sense of His presence…) Hmmm. I am still thinking this through, but church is my short answer. I am feeling more and more that I see such growth in our church and in our family since joining. Our previous church was slowly dying and this new one is growing more and more. We visited a friend’s church last Sunday and it had the dying signs of our previous church. These same friends came to our church this week. I’m curious to see what the Lord does. More and more I want to think eternally and have meaningful conversations.
I struggle with the “dying” church syndrome, myself. We have had some “staples” leave our church. I miss them, but I don’t have the same complaints they did. I focus on the people being the church, not the pastor or the music, etc. We have new people showing up and I find that exciting too.
I started a Bible plan to read the entire Bible in one year through YouVersion. I am excited and have learned so much already! I can’t believe some of it and my mind is swirling with info. It has made me dig deeper in my study too. It’s called “The Bible Recap.” I will be immersing myself in God’s word this year! I’m hoping this helps me with my bad habit challenge…
Good for you, Laura. That’s a lot, and I know it will bless you.
Laura,
I just finished reading through the the whole Bible in 2025 using Paul David Tripp’s Everyday Gospel as my guide. What a blessing it was to be in God’s Word everyday taking in truth and learning more. You will be blessed for this good effort.
What a blessing to find a church, growing in the Lord, Chris!
1. How have you experienced the goodness of God this week? Any of these ways? (Answer to prayer, Scripture became radioactive, unusual timing or circumstances, sense of His presence…)
I have felt His presence in helping me to overcome a very bad habit. I did falter yesterday, but He is near. I have also watched a friend, who is in dire straits right now, be blessed beyond measure. She prayed and kept the faith and has now been rewarded. I am so thrilled for her family!
Good report!
Oh, Laura! I am so happy for you! Reading the Bible in a year is such a wonderful challenge! I got half way through last year and I learned so much!
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!)
He is speaking to tax collectors and “notorious sinners.”
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners?
The Pharisees were the teachers of scripture and the law so of course if they were following the law and knew the scriptures then they were more perfect than others. They were puffed up.
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering?
To me, muttering is talking under your breath negatively. Complaining. The Pharisees were complaining about Jesus.
Sunday:
How have you experienced the goodness of God this week? Any of these ways? (Answer to prayer, Scripture became radioactive, unusual timing or circumstances, sense of His presence…)
—For over 30 years I have chosen a scripture for the year to memorize and meditate on as a regular encouragement from the Lord. This year I have decided to make thankfulness my focus and the the verses I have chosen are Colossians 2:6-7 NLT
“And now, just as you accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord, you must continue to follow him. Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.”
Earlier in this week a quote by Hudson Taylor encouraged my heart and the phrase “instead of failure, quiet victories within; stood out to me.
“Christ liveth in me. And how great the difference—instead of bondage, liberty; instead of failure, quiet victories within; instead of fear and weakness, a restful sense of sufficiency in Another.” —Hudson Taylor
Thank you for sharing these great scriptures and quotes, Bev. Love the Hudson Taylor quote.
1. How have you experienced the goodness of God this week? Any of these ways? (Answer to prayer, Scripture became radioactive, unusual timing or circumstances, sense of His presence…).
One thing that is becoming radioactive with me, started with an older Tim Keller sermon on what is means to glorify Christ in one’s life. This was my New Year commitment. I heard “Beholding the Glory of Christ” and what that means. It is giving me a new perspective on trust and keeping my eyes on Him.
I also had a very nice surprise from a former neighbor in Seattle. He was a good friend of my husband and he sent a beautiful Christmas floral arrangement, honoring Ronny’s life. It meant so much, as they both had silly (clean) senses of humor, and he reminded me of some of the laughs they shared.
Thank you, Dee, for all that you do to make this blog happen. It is such a wonderful part of my life. I am excited for this study on The Prodigal God.
Patti, What sweet remembrances of Ronny and your friend. Heaven is gonna be so delightful with Jesus in the middle of our reunions.
Amen, Bev!
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!)
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners?
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering?
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable. We all have sinned and we all need repentance. Christ’s love is inclusive of all who desire to know Him. He seeks the hearts of the lost, not the “self righteous”, like the Pharisees, who see no need to repent. “Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep, which was lost.” He rejoices when one of His, who has strayed, comes home. “….there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons, who need no repentance.”
Read Luke 15:8-10
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable. God rejoices over, even one who is lost, repenting. A lost soul that repents, like a lost coin, is worth seeking out. V. 10 “ there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner, who repents.”
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today?
The son, who squandered his inheritance, soon learned that he had failed and made a bad choice, he desired to repent and knew he did not deserve his father’s forgiveness or love. The father saw the sincerity in his son’s repentance and his change of heart. The father is compassionate, filled with love and quick to forgive his youngest son. This demonstrates one with a truly repentant heart is quickly received into our Heavenly Father’s kingdom. The older son was a Gary and would not welcome his brother home. The older son demonstrates the bitter self-centered attitude and exclusiveness of the Pharisees, who could not understand the love and joy of God’s forgiveness.
Good summary, Patti!
Monday: The Text – Luke 15:1-10
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!)
Tax collectors and other notorious sinners.
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners?
They considered themselves righteous and everyone else unclean because they were keeping the law.
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering?
My version says “complain.” They were muttering about Jesus associating with sinners.
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
If a man has 100 sheep and one of them gets lost, he’ll leave the 99 and search for the lost sheep until it is found. He’ll joyfully carry it home on his shoulders where he gathers friends and neighbors and asks them to rejoice with him.
Read Luke 15:8-10
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
A woman has 10 coins and loses one so she turns on the lights and sweeps the entire house searching carefully until she finds it. When she does she calls her friends and neighbors to rejoice with her.
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today?
The younger son who leaves and spends his inheritance is the lost son, a notorious sinner. The older son represents the Pharisee as he’s angry that his father is celebrating the return of his son who squandered all his money while he stayed home and served his father.
Religion…I’m a good person, I go to church, I help the needy, I follow all the do’s and don’ts and I’m not a sinner because I do all the former.
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Relationship…I am a sinner saved by grace, I’m not saved by my good works but saved unto good works.
Ephesians 2:8-10 “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”
Love this truth, Sharon:
Relationship…I am a sinner saved by grace, I’m not saved by my good works but saved unto good works.
Ephesians 2:8-10 “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”
BEAUTIFUL CLEAR ANSWERS
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
The main idea is that we ALL count. God pursues us and loves us in our sinfulness.
“And when he has found it, he will joyfully carry it home on his shoulders. When he arrives, he will call together his friends and neighbors, saying, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’”
Luke 15:5-6 NLT
“In the same way, there is more joy in heaven over one lost sinner who repents and returns to God than over ninety-nine others who are righteous and haven’t strayed away!”
Luke 15:7 NLT
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!) Tax collectors and sinners were gathered to hear Jesus but the Pharisees and teachers of the law were there muttering
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners? Because they wanted to believe their careful following of the law and the rules and regs they created would get them into heaven
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering? Indignantly complaining in a crowd Jesus
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable. That the shepherd ( meaning church leader) goes after the lost sheep (the person who has lost their way) rejoicing with others that he has found my lost sheep” (vs 6) In same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over 1sinner who repents than over 99 righteous people who do not need to repent (vs7)
Read Luke 15:8-10
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable. That we seek the lost and there is rejoicing in heaven when a sinner repents. We are to search for the loss lighting a lamp, sweeping house and searching carefully and then rejoice with others (vs 9) that a sinner has repented.
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today? The younger son the tax collectors and sinners because he comes to understand he has sinned The older son Pharisees and teachers of the law because he felt he followed all the rules and got nothing in return
Good too see what the Pharisees thought would get them into heaven!
Monday: The Text – Luke 15:1-1
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!)
—The Pharisees and teachers of religious law.
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners?
—They prided themselves selves as being better and more knowledgeable than the average person because they kept all the rules.
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering?
—They had a grumbling and complaining attitude against Jesus.
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
—there is great joy when the lost is found. Just like a shepherd who will go and search for a lost sheep it brings great joy to all and is cause for rejoicing when the sheep is found and brought home.
(He will joyfully carry it home) verse 5
(Rejoice with me) verse 6
—So it is when a sinner repents and returns to God.
(There is more joy in Heaven) verse 7
Read Luke 15:8-10
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
—Again there is joy and rejoicing over finding the lost.
(Rejoice with me) verse 9
(there is joy in the presence of God’s angels) verse 10
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today?
—The younger wayward son is a picture of all broken and lost sinners and their condition before repenting and returning to God. His situation was hopeless and he could not save himself from it.
The older son was a picture of the Pharisees and teachers of the religious law who were self righteous and thought themselves better and more deserving of place and more worthy than lowly sinners because of their actions.
Tuesday: Meditating on Words and Images in Parables
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
—It seems to me muttering comes out of a discontented heart. It is a kind of whining about what we don’t like or approve of. I would guess that most muttering is not actually vocalized and happens silently in our thoughts stemming from a discontented heart. That mulling something over and over and not letting it go. Yes I definitely do that. It takes an intentional decision to stop it and bring my heart and thoughts back into line with God’s heart.
Muttering is unkind and indirect. I’ve listened to some of the Jefferson Fisher podcasts on communicating in healthy ways. I need this as a recovering passive-aggressive woman. Fisher is helping me communicate more honestly, kindly, and also helping others see that they may be being passive-aggressive and unkind. If someone else hurts me with a sideways comment, instead of responding in kind, I might ask, “Could you say that again?” Or “What did you intend by saying that to me?”
8. What thoughts do you have on the above?
—Because muttering comes from a complaining attitude and is indirect it is hard to address. There’s a lack of honesty and it hinders communication.
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application?
—The information that a lost sheep will not follow its Shepherd home but needs to be caught, (Keller said seized) thrown to the ground and tied up then carried home. Thats the only way to save a lost sheep.
What a powerful image and representative of me as a lost sinner who can’t possibly save myself. But I am of such great value to my Shepherd he will forcibly rescue me. What encouragement!
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today?
—“All we like sheep have gone astray. We have all turned to our own way. And therefore, all sheep need to be rescued.”
I find great comfort in the reality that Jesus as my Shepherd has rescued me from my sin and from eternal death. And I can have the confidence that He will continue to rescue me as needed from myself and my muttering ways.
Great points, Bev! I so need Him daily to rescue me from myself!
This is so good from Bev — it is what I am working on in 2026 and need prayer!
—It seems to me muttering comes out of a discontented heart. It is a kind of whining about what we don’t like or approve of. I would guess that most muttering is not actually vocalized and happens silently in our thoughts stemming from a discontented heart. That mulling something over and over and not letting it go. Yes I definitely do that. It takes an intentional decision to stop it and bring my heart and thoughts back into line with God’s heart.
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
Muttering seems to be a sort of complaining, but not openly. It is almost an attitude, that can come on quickly when someone says something cruel or degrading to another person. I think of passive aggressive, as muttering with a side of sarcasm, so you can say, “ I was just joking”. Words usually follow a thought. I have been guilty of this when I am hurt, but I usually keep it in my heart and don’t say any words….I tend to just be quiet…words can be hurtful and start wars….so maybe I do muttering silently.. ( and maybe go home and cry later). I do not like confrontation, so I try to re-set my thoughts and pray before I speak.
Muttering is unkind and indirect. I’ve listened to some of the Jefferson Fisher podcasts on communicating in healthy ways. I need this as a recovering passive-aggressive woman. Fisher is helping me communicate more honestly, kindly, and also helping others see that they may be being passive-aggressive and unkind. If someone else hurts me with a sideways comment, instead of responding in kind, I might ask, “Could you say that again?” Or “What did you intend by saying that to me?”
8. What thoughts do you have on the above?
I think honest communication is the best for any relationship, but it is often hard for people to realize the fine line between a funny comment and hurtful words. It starts with the heart and priorities. I want God to give me a mental swat if I think a cruel thought…I don’t want to be that person…I am crushed if I think I have hurt someone.
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application?
I am definitely one of the sheep and I am so thankful for the Shepherd, who loves and values each of us, enough to put up with our stubborn hearts and foolish mistakes. I need the Good Shepherd to get through every day. I am getting better at listening to His voice and depending on it constantly.
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today? We all need our Shepherd and we all need to be rescued. We too easily make our number one desire, something that will disappoint us at some point in our life. The Shepherd will never leave us and He will be with us always, even to the end of the age. My deepest hope for today, is that I always make Jesus my number one priority. He will keep me from running off the cliff to the grassy spot, only to fall off into the ravine. He will be my hedge of protection, all of my life. I can think of many times in my life, when He rescued me from the abyss, and threw me over His shoulder and carried me home. How I thank Him!
I don’t think I’ve ever heard you say a harsh word.
Tuesday: Meditating on Words and Images in Parables
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
Dissatisfaction, irritation, selfishness.
I think that most muttering is either done in silence or barely audible…done under your breath.
No, I never mutter…I just say it out loud (just kidding)! It is one sin that I’ve asked the Lord to help me in and show me how to communicate my feelings more healthily.
Muttering is unkind and indirect. I’ve listened to some of the Jefferson Fisher podcasts on communicating in healthy ways. I need this as a recovering passive-aggressive woman. Fisher is helping me communicate more honestly, kindly, and also helping others see that they may be being passive-aggressive and unkind. If someone else hurts me with a sideways comment, instead of responding in kind, I might ask, “Could you say that again?” Or “What did you intend by saying that to me?”
8. What thoughts do you have on the above?
I think that’s very good, especially the communicating more honestly in a kind way.
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application?
When a lost sheep is found it needs to be hog tied and carried because it’s too dumb to follow the shepherd…it would stay lost.
I’m so thankful that Jesus is my Shepherd. Rescuing me from my own will and carrying me on His shoulders to live in His will.
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today?
Keller says it perfectly…”if you are feeding your soul anywhere but at the hand of Jesus or at the feet of Jesus, our great shepherd, you’re like a sheep on a ledge.”
My deepest hope is spending eternity with Jesus.
Sharon — we can pray for one another in our muttering! I am endeavoring to stop muttering and start praying for the person or review my memory work.
Thank you Dee and will definitely keep us both in prayer!
I am trying to do the same! When my heart starts to mutter, I start to pray for that person. It has changed my heart perspective. Thank you, Dee and Sharon! Golden!
I love your answer to 7. Sharon. You state it so well. I pray that way too. I need the Lord’s help every moment.
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
I could look at this two different ways. One is she had money but lost a coin and looked for it and found it and then was happy and wanted to celebrate with her friends. The other way is that you were lucky to have coins so what’s the problem with missing just one? But, money was tight and very valued in those days so the fact that she was willing to share after she found it was important.
““Or suppose a woman has ten silver coins and loses one. Won’t she light a lamp and sweep the entire house and search carefully until she finds it? And when she finds it, she will call in her friends and neighbors and say, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost coin.’”
Luke 15:8-9 NLT
This scripture supports the idea that she valued the coin and wanted to share her happiness with others.
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why?
The older son is a Pharisee because he was judgmental.
The younger son was a sinner. He was a part of the lost sheep that needed to be found and loved on by his father.
What would be parallels today?
Me! I am the sinner who needs the love. Especially now. Those in wealthy situations who have all their needs met would be likened to the Pharisees. They don’t appreciate their lives that are blessed.
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
They want to express displeasure with something or someone but not address them directly. I’m not sure. Maybe it’s internal grumbling or fault finding. I unfortunately have muttered
Muttering is unkind and indirect. I’ve listened to some of the Jefferson Fisher podcasts on communicating in healthy ways. I need this as a recovering passive-aggressive woman. Fisher is helping me communicate more honestly, kindly, and also helping others see that they may be being passive-aggressive and unkind. If someone else hurts me with a sideways comment, instead of responding in kind, I might ask, “Could you say that again?” Or “What did you intend by saying that to me?”
8. What thoughts do you have on the above? It’s a healthy response giving the opportunity for discussion and/or an apology if warranted. I’m probably not mentally quick enough or brave enough to do it
Now, when you’re trying to understand a parable, one of the best ways to do it is to, since it’s a metaphor, it’s an extended metaphor, is to meditate on the images. And so, let’s take a look at the sheep, the search itself, and the shepherd, and see what each one of those teaches us about how grace creates community.
First of all, the sheep. Now, when you and I hear that we are sheep, and He is the Shepherd, it just makes us feel warm, fuzzy, gauzy, you know, and we think of fluffy little lambs and, you know, green pastures and still waters. But you need to know that when the Bible calls Him the Great Shepherd and us sheep, it is a very important and very well-meant spiritual insult. It’s an insult.
Here are the words of a pastor who before he went into the ministry was a shepherd. Here’s what he says. He understands what it means. He says, “A sheep is a stupid animal. It loses its directions continually in a way that a cat or dog never does. And even when you find a lost sheep, the lost sheep rushes to and fro and will not follow you home. So, when you find it, you must seize it throw it to the ground, tie its forelegs and hind legs together, put it over your shoulders and carry it home. That’s the only way to save a lost sheep.”
Okay, let’s meditate on the meaning of this metaphor. I’m not kidding. There’s two things this teaches us. The Bible tried to tell us something about ourselves, about us. And the two things are, first of all, this teaches us that, like sheep, we need to be rescued. We constantly need to be rescued. Probably the favorite thing my wife and I do in our and have ever done our whole lives and do, is that if we get to Britain, we get out a book called Back Roads of Britain, and we drive, you know, into the most remote parts we can find. And one of the things you’ll see in those remote parts is sheep. And even us tourists can see something pretty interesting, and that is, when sheep see grass, no matter where it is, no matter how steep or how dangerous a spot, they just go for the grass. They go and start eating the grass, even though they go to a place that is impossible to climb down from. So, they go and they eat the grass till the grass is gone, and then they either have to be rescued or else they plunge to their death. And we actually saw this. There’s all these, you know, on these steep mountainsides, and they’re the sheep, you know, eating, and there they are, sometimes they’re eating and suddenly, and they fall down, fall to their death at the bottom of a cliff, you know, why? They’re sheep.
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application? Like sheep we need to constantly be rescued. To worship and thank God for His patience with me and His willingness to continually rescue me.
Sometimes when the minister or the priest gives you the bread in the Communion or the Lord’s Supper, the minister or the priest will say, “Feed on Him in your heart by faith.” Now that assumes that your soul is feeding on something. That means that you have taken the deepest hopes of your heart for happiness and security, and you’ve rested those hopes in something. It might be image, status, might be wealth, it might be family, it might be Mr. X or Ms. X falling in love with you. But whatever it is, if you are feeding your soul anywhere but at the hand of Jesus or at the feet of Jesus, our great shepherd, you’re like a sheep on a ledge. A perfect example of this would be this. Look, you’re dating somebody, Mr. X, Ms. X, okay? You’re dating somebody. And it’s one thing to date. It’s one thing to be in love. One thing to hope for is that the person marries you, that’s one thing. It’s another thing to feed your soul, that is to say, to rest your heart’s deepest hopes on that person and that relationship. To say, I know I’m somebody. I know I’m okay. I feel secure about the future. I know I’m valuable because this person loves me. Well, you know what that means? You’re like a sheep that have gone up to the place where the grass is going. If you break up, you won’t just be disappointed. It’ll be a spiritual, emotional plunge. You have no self left. You have no hope left. And the Bible says we’re all doing that. All we like sheep have gone astray. We have all turned to our own way. And therefore, all sheep need to be rescued.
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today? If our sense of value and worth is tied to anything but Jesus, we are a few steps away from emotional or spiritual crisis. I’m very short sighted. Lord, get me through tomorrow.
From Judy:
If our sense of value and worth is tied to anything but Jesus, we are a few steps away from emotional or spiritual crisis.
12. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point? If your dog is lost and you find him, he’s delighted and gladly follows you home. A sheep is ambivalent. To get him back home, you have to tie his legs and throw him over your shoulders and carry him home. The point is who our Great Shepherd is. We can not get home to heaven without Him. We need His hand to lead and carry us home to the Father. Kelley’s quote We need a Savior. We need somebody who has to do everything that we should do, has to live the life we should have lived and die the death we should have died to bring us all the way home.
13. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man? Have you observed this? Rousseau said children are born innocent. that we just mess people up with education, we mess people up, the culture mess people up, but we’re essentially innocent and the idea of original sin is repugnant. Grandchildren are so adorable it’s easy to overlook behavior at young ages. People don’t always want to take responsibility for their sins and use Adam’s blame game.
14. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer? What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey? Grumbling I need His grace to make a concentrated effort to be aware of when my thoughts are moving towards negativity leading to complaining
Amen to Dee, Judy! Such a great truth!
Yes, to Judy’s thoughts. I have been in a crisis before and am thankful that He came to my rescue. I hope those crises are fewer and less, and I have more of leaning on Jesus, my Shepherd.
Love this, Judy! But whatever it is, if you are feeding your soul anywhere but at the hand of Jesus or at the feet of Jesus, our great shepherd, you’re like a sheep on a ledge.
Me too. Sheep on a ledge!
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
It’s a funny word! I think of the person mumbling when they are muttering. Usually it is negative words. The intent of the heart is for the person hearing it TO hear it. The mutter-er wants to get the point across without actually facing the person directly. They want to hurt the person with words to make them think about what they are doing. It’s very judgmental.
I catch myself talking to myself at times, cynically. Like, “Wow, another obstacle for Laura…” same kind of thing but directed more at no one, or fate. Possibly God (!).
Oh, Laura! These are such good points!
Wednesday: Nothing In My Hand I Give
12. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point?
—A dog will follow you home but a sheep will not. A sheep insists on going its own way of just wandering as it pleases. A sheep cannot help itself to get where it needs in order to get back home. We are sheep!
Keller’s point. “We need a Savior. We need somebody who has to do everything that we should do, has to live the life we should have lived and die the death we should have died to bring us all the way home.”
13. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man? Have you observed this?
—Rousseau an Enlightenment philosopher taught that human beings were born innocent. As Keller notes that even after 200 years, two world wars, global terrorism, being so disillusioned with all of our leaders and all of our cultural institutions, everybody knows that the Enlightenment is wrong and people acknowledge that Rousseau was wrong. But in the face of all that society still hangs on to the thinking that the idea of original sin is repugnant. It is ironic that man steeped in his original sin refuses to believe his original sin is the problem. I see how we make excuses for our sin not wanting to acknowledge we are as bad as we are without a Savior. Society promotes an I’m OK Your’re OK philosophy and encourages people to look everywhere but to Jesus for help to change.
14. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer? What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey?
—When I knowingly set aside the practice of discipline in my personal life it is further evidence of my being a sheep going my own way of wandering and I can’t get back home on my own. I desperately need God’s rescuing grace and I am dependent on Him and no amount of self-will and good intentions will help me or get me where I need to be.
Dee, thank you for making your comments, blue.
8. What thoughts do you have on the above?
It’s interesting that there is somebody who’s written a book about making a retort to people who makes snide comments to you! I think the first one is appropriate. The second one would make me feel uncomfortable to say.
thanks for telling me that is helpful, Laura!
I agree with Laura, Dee. Love your comments in blue!
Monday: The Text – Luke 15:1-1
Read Luke 15:1-2
1. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!)
To the tax collectors and sinners and Pharisees and teachers of the law
2. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners?
They were following the law.
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering?
They were muttering against Jesus. They also refer to him as “man” rather than Jesus’ name. This exposes their pride. To mutter is “a privately expressed complaint or expression of dissatisfaction.”
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
Read Luke 15:8-10
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable.
The importance of finding a lost sheep and rejoicing over that one and sharing the joy with others. One sinner saved is a source of joy. Don’t think numbers.
Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.
5. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today?
Young son represented by tax collectors and sinners, who could be anybody who has turned away from God and made a “mess” of their lives
Older son represented by the Pharisees and teachers of the law, who could be anybody who thinks they are saved by the law and good works
Tuesday: Meditating on Words and Images in Parables
Listen and read simultaneously — or listen and then read. Because God so anointed Keller as a preacher, don’t just read.
1. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you?
The intent of mutterings in my heart, whether expressed outwardly or just kept internally, could be thoughts of superiority over the other person, self-preoccupation, or the use of world standards. This shows my pride.
Muttering is unkind and indirect. I’ve listened to some of the Jefferson Fisher podcasts on communicating in healthy ways. I need this as a recovering passive-aggressive woman. Fisher is helping me communicate more honestly, kindly, and also helping others see that they may be being passive-aggressive and unkind. If someone else hurts me with a sideways comment, instead of responding in kind, I might ask, “Could you say that again?” Or “What did you intend by saying that to me?”
2. What thoughts do you have on the above?
The two questions you suggested to ask to help others are very courageous words. But I believe, if they were asked kindly, they would give time for the other person to reflect on their hearts’ intent. This would call for a mutually good relationship with the other person. I am not sure I could ask the second question to somebody I don’t trust. Am I operating in fear?
1. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application?
Sheep are stupid. And I am a sheep! Ugh. I always need to be rescued. And Jesus comes to rescue me. Each. Time. Thank you, Lord.
I should keep my eyes focused on Jesus, my Great and Good Shepherd, so I do not go wandering. But when I do wander, I have the confidence that Jesus will come after me. Oh, what joyful confidence!
2. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today?
We can hope in things, people, or happy circumstances other than Jesus. My deepest hope today is to fix my eyes on Jesus and live my life with and for Him.
Now that I have had a cataract removed from one eye, I can see more clearly than in the last several years. All things are vivid, some things I’d rather not see, like dust in corners hahaha. I hope that that which was “hidden” from my spiritual eyes would be made clear, and it will always be a reflection of the glory of Jesus.
Love your cataract parallel!
Wednesday: Nothing In My Hand I Give
1. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point?
A dog, when found, will follow you home. Not the sheep. It has to be brought home, hogtied, carried all the way home.
A teacher is not enough. We need a Savior. We have done nothing to get saved. It is all grace. What Keller said here is very clear: We need somebody who has to do everything that we should do, has to live the life we should have lived, and die the death we should have died to bring us all the way home.
Nothing, indeed, my hand can bring.
1. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man? Have you observed this?
Rousseau (of the Enlightenment) said that all children are born innocent. The world’s mess is brought about by things other than the original sin.
I think I have seen it in parents who do not discipline young children because they think it is just a stage, and they will get over it.
“Follow your heart,” counsel. Well, we know that the heart is deceitful.
We know that the gospel saves us from the penalty of sin, but we may be slower to understand it can also save us from the power of sin. When God awakened me to my sinful habit of side-ways comments, to stop, I had to have faith that if I responded instead in a godly way, that I would experience the good fruit of submission, in myself, and perhaps also in my relationships.
2. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer? What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey?
Somebody coined a term that has stuck with me, “peeking into my circumstance” rather than Christ. I long to direct my attention to Christ first thing instead of letting my mind run away to various what-if scenarios.
I need to believe God’s promises:
Jeremiah 29:11; Proverbs 3:5-6 Ephesians 3:20; Philippians 4:6-7, many promises in the Psalm,s Psalm 23, 42, 119, etc
Wednesday: Nothing In My Hand I Give
12. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point?
A sheep can’t find its way home, it has to be tied up and carried home…a dog can.
The point per Keller…”we, like sheep are utterly lost in sin and can do nothing to contribute to our salvation and have to be saved sheerly by grace, not by cooperating.” I love this illustration from Keller as I’ve had so many conversations where people think they had a part in their salvation.
13. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man?
Enlightenment…children are born innocent and it’s their education or culture that messed them up.
Some people don’t/can’t believe they’re hopelessly sinful.
Have you observed this?
Oh yes…I’ve shared before that my sister who is Buddhist doesn’t think anyone is evil or born sinful.
14. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer?
Muttering
Cynicism
Critical spirit
What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey?
I need to believe and have faith that God isn’t done with me yet. Trust that He is continuing to do a work in my heart and life…by His grace I can have victory over the power of these sins.
Is your sister a mother? Hard to see how a mom would not realize children are naturally sinful!
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application?
I read a book that was so good called “A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23.” It’s by Phillip Keller. It was wonderful! Here’s a link:
https://a.co/d/ciDY853
Sheep seem kind of dumb…maybe I need to search more for Him!
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today?
We are to “feed” our souls with Jesus. Nothing else. I hope for peace in my family.
Laura, we did that book as a Bible study once in the past and loved it. I need to read it again!
I love that book, too! I I wondered if that was who Keller was speaking of, when he said “ a man who was a shepherd before he was a pastor.
Yes — so good. We did it in our church.
I don’t think Philip Keller was a pastor. He did do missionary work however and his parents were missionaries also.
12. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point?
We, like the sheep, need our Shepherd to take us home. We need to be in relationship with the Shepherd, because we are easily distracted by ‘“grassy spots” that are just too irresistible for our own good. A dog has a sense of loyalty to its master. A sheep wants what it wants, with no thought of anything else. We need our Shepherd every moment to stay on the path to our eternal home. So thankful He continually woos us back to Him.
13. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man? Have you observed this? We say this, but do we live it? It is easy for humans to identify the sins and shortcomings of others, but we are so much easier on ourselves and can find excuses for our own bad behavior. I love this by Psascal:
Blaise Pascal, smarter than anybody else in this room, struggled with this doctrine of sin, and yet at one point in his pensées he says, “Nothing jolts us more rudely than this doctrine. And yet, but for this mystery, the most incomprehensible of all, we remain incomprehensible to ourselves.”
We know that the gospel saves us from the penalty of sin, but we may be slower to understand it can also save us from the power of sin. When God awakened me to my sinful habit of side-ways comments, to stop, I had to have faith that if I responded instead in a godly way, that I would experience the good fruit of submission, in myself, and perhaps also in my relationships.
14. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer? What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey?
I think worry, fear and lack of deep trust are things I struggle with. I can look back on my life and see how very trustworthy Jesus always has been. When I let go and trust, I can better see Him working! I am a recovering sheep, always in need of my Shepherd. I need to trust Him more.
Thursday: Grace Creates Real Community
This point is so obvious, yet I needed to be reminded. As we rid our hearts of sin, we become closer, a real loving family, whether it is our biological family, our church family, or right here!
15. Give an example from your life about how true repentance brought you closer to another person. Be specific.
—My brother who is one year older than myself and I had always been very close while growing up and he was also a very close friend with my husband as a youth and into the early years of our marriage. In his early thirties my brother had an affair with a coworker. At the time he was an elder in his church and singing and ministering in churches as part of a music trio that was growing in popularity in our area. My husband and I were part of planting a church in our own community and my brother served on a committee to help support and oversee that happening. When he acknowledged his sin it was devastating and brought division into our relationship. It upset our whole family. His own marriage ended in divorce and for about 5 years he was out of fellowship but God granted him a true repentance and he came back to the Lord and became a changed man. I will never forget the day he stood in my kitchen and asked for forgiveness. God’s grace overcame and our relationship was restored. We have enjoyed a closeness in the Lord for many years now.
16. What is Keller saying about how our identity affects community? Application for you?
—When we identify with others through what our life experiences are we naturally draw together and create a community.
For me this is born out in the community of the church, the body of Christ. It is because of my relationship to Jesus who saved my soul and set me free from the power of sin and death that causes me to gravitate toward others who have truly experienced the same transformation of Salvation.
17. What experience have true believers been through that should bond them together? Has this been true for you? Explain.
—My answer is in the previous question but to enlarge on that it hasn’t just happened in my own local church body but on a larger scale. I have found community with other believers in various places. I had a community of believers for a number of years when I served in Christian Women’s Club. My husband and I currently have a new community of believers down here in Texas. We also have a community of believers from all over the nation because he has served on a National board of pastors and church leaders as the treasure for a number of years and we have developed close relationships. Being part of the family of God is a beautiful thing.
18. Why is it that if your identity is in something other than being a child of God, it brings stress and sorrow?
—Because the joy of Salvation is the only source of being completely settled in my heart and mind that I am valued and belong to Jesus. Anything less cannot meet my deepest hearts needs and will disappoint.
19. Are you growing in having your primary identity in Christ? Or do you need prayer?
—Well we all need prayer 😊 but having settled in my heart and mind that I am God’s treasure deepens and solidifies my identity in Christ more and more each day. I am deeply grateful at this point in time to know Him and be known by Him. He is the solid Rock of my life.
Bev, your answer to #15 gave me chills and how wonderful God’s grace is!
Yes — that was quite a story of a prodigal come home.
12. What is the difference between a sheep and a dog as far as getting home safely? What is the point?
A sheep doesn’t pay attention. It goes any way it wants to go. The dog wants to be with the owner so the dog will listen to the owner. The sheep. An do nothing in its own. It must be saved by the shepherd.
We must pay attention to Jesus. He is our way home to heaven. He is our salvation.
15. Give an example from your life about how true repentance brought you closer to another person. Be specific. A friend whose political views are more extreme than mine would sometimes go into long explanations about some thing and I always felt wanted my agreement. Once in orneriness I disagreed with her and pointed out a different viewpoint This lead to a unpleasant exchange I apologized later in the day and felt the best thing was to remind myself that it’s God who is control of all things and refrain from commenting on her viewpoints. Results it gives me peace and our friendship continues. She was here yesterday with 2 others for input on a class she is going to teach on forgiveness.
16. What is Keller saying about how our identity affects community? Application for you? What and who I identify with is who I probably am with the most, but in heaven the community is built around sinners saved by grace and that’s where the joy is. Application for me? I should not discredit people around me because of different political and cultural views, social economic status, education, age or anything different from me
17. What experience have true believers been through that should bond them together? Has this been true for you? Explain. Sinner saved by grace. Without Him I am condemned to pay for my own sins and spend eternity without God. Apart from Him I can do no genuine or lasting work. Yes, believers pray together, worship the same God whether we are in our church or going to a worship service at a women’s homeless center. The Holy Spirit is there ministering to us all so we can minister to one another as needed
18. Why is it that if your identity is in something other than being a child of God, it brings stress and sorrow? Because other things aren’t lasting. They can leave, die, become irrelevant, or fade leaving a person searching for purpose and approval.
19. Are you growing in having your primary identity in Christ? Or do you need prayer? Yes and yes
It is so sad how Christians are divided by politics. I think you are right that is wise to remain silent unless you know you can have a good discussion in love — but I think that’s rare.
Silence is wise and is spoken of in Proverbs. Prayer at such times and listening to the Holy Spirit for direction is wise. I love your example of not discrediting someone for a different political view. I love your admitting to giving into emotions and then restoring relationships. This is not easy but is the Christ like behavior we are shown in scripture.
I agree!
Thursday: Grace Creates Real Community
15. Give an example from your life about how true repentance brought you closer to another person. Be specific.
It brought me closer to my Dad. It was truly an exciting time in my life as I had gone through a rebellion and God drew me back to Him with a truly repentant heart. I remember calling my Dad and from then on the calls and conversations about the Lord and what we were gleaning from His Word never stopped. We learned so much from each other and could be honest in our struggles and challenges. Oh, how I miss those times and I treasure them in my heart and memories.
16. What is Keller saying about how our identity affects community?
Whatever our identity is in, that is the community we’ll be involved in, relate to or bond with.
Application for you?
It’s important to have my identity in Jesus Christ and be inviting of all communities regardless of political beliefs, race or religion…extend grace.
17. What experience have true believers been through that should bond them together?
Salvation
Has this been true for you? Explain.
Yes, my best friend here bonded over our relationship with the Lord and wanting to know Him more. When our kids were younger we used to meet every Saturday morning for a devotional and prayed for our kids.
18. Why is it that if your identity is in something other than being a child of God, it brings stress and sorrow?
I think if your identity is in something other than being a child of God your community is limited and it’s all about how it makes you feel and what you’ve accomplished…it’s only a temporary joy.
19. Are you growing in having your primary identity in Christ?
Yes, but I do need to broaden my community.
Or do you need prayer?
Always!
I love the sweet redemption of your relationship with your dad, Sharon. What a beautiful blessing to share your blessings from God’s Word with each other.
I love this too:
I think if your identity is in something other than being a child of God your community is limited and it’s all about how it makes you feel and what you’ve accomplished…it’s only a temporary joy.
Sharon, Your answer to #15 is a beautiful thing in your relationship to your dad. What sweet memories for you.
13. What are some illustrations that Keller gives that show the idea of being sinful is repugnant to man? Have you observed this?
Keller speaks of the well educated not believing they are sinful, or that babies are not sinful. We can’t imagine that we are really full of sin, right?
I suppose I have justified my own sin by thinking that, “at least I haven’t done _____.” I loved your reply to Sharon about mothers and having sinful kids!
14. What sinful habit are you longing to conquer? What do you need to believe and trust in order to obey?
I’m too embarrassed to admit this awful habit I have. I know that I need to cling to Jesus, remember to have hope, and also the good fruit to come, after the fact. Trust that He wants me healed.
You don’t need to share, Laura. God knows He will walk with you through it. It is between you and God and He is more than able. I will pray for you.
Laura, Patti is right. We don’t need the details of something that is between just you and God. But by at least acknowledging to us your need we can pray for you. My closest friend Lynda had a sin she never revealed to even me and we have shared deeply about our lives through the years but over time God was faithful to rescue her and He can rescue you too 💕😊
Laura, I grew up in a home that justified good moral behavior as good enough to get into heaven. That put so much pressure on me as a child to behave. The freedom that come in Christ to know that we can mess up and make it right with repentance is amazing! I’m still a work in progress as I still fight putting stock in good behavior. Why, I don’t know, haha. It is hard to fight against what we grew up with and the desire to make our own salvation, but alas, we can not!
I guess it’s hard for me too. We want to instill good behavior in our children so that they behave at school, church, etc. it’s a fine line for me. I guess the idea is to not link it to getting into heaven. Sometimes I say, “what would Jesus do?” to try to have the child reflect on the way to act. Is this wrong?
Monday: The Text – Luke 15:1-1
Read Luke 15:1-2
2. To whom is Jesus going to give these three parables? (This is so important in understanding all 3 parables!) The Pharisees, teachers of the law.
3. Why do you think the Pharisees and teachers of the law didn’t see themselves as sinners? They were teachers of the law and studied the law as a profession.
3. Define the word muttered. About whom were they muttering? Speaking under their breath to one another about their complaints of one nearby or not present.
Read Luke 15:3-7
4. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable. We need saving, like a lost sheep. WE are sinners and need to be saved by grace. “Just so…there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents…”
Read Luke 15:8-10:
5. What is the main message here? Support your answer with phrases from the parable. A woman lost one of ten coins and searched diligently for it. This represents the lost soul who God is searching for- “Just so, I tell you, there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” The parable represents this joy with the woman calling her friends together and asking them to rejoice that she has found her coin. How much more the Lord rejoices over a repentant sinner. Righteous people who don’t think they need saving, don’t need a savior.
6. With the above in mind, what group do you think each of the sons in the parable in Luke 15:11-31 represents and why? What would be parallels today? The younger son represents the lost sheep-the sinner who needs saving. The eldest son represents the righteous person who doesn’t think he needs saving-he was angry that the father celebrated his lost son returning home because his good deeds had not been recognized. Achievements like graduation from school, marriage, children, monetary success, etc. give us joy that tends to make us look down on those who have not achieved these things. We feel like our hard work has won us these rewards, rather than understanding God’s good grace has given us what we have. An understanding of original sin and our need for grace levels the playing field for us among everyone in our culture, no matter the class, race or profession.
So true from Chris:
An understanding of original sin and our need for grace levels the playing field for us among everyone in our culture, no matter the class, race or profession.
Dee
Tuesday: Meditating on Words and Images in Parables
7. Meditate on the word muttering. If someone is muttering, what may be the intent of his heart? Can you mutter silently? Do you? In my mind muttering is not kind, and something you would never say to a person directly, but only to another person as some sort of complaint. I would say muttering is not something one wants to share publicly, but something one wants to say behind another’s back in order to make themselves feel better than the other or express dissatisfaction. I definitely do!! Yikes.
8. What thoughts do you have on the above? I agree completely and I love the ideas for responses. My first thought about muttering is that it starts as a THOUGHT. I find myself muttering in my mind about how annoyed I am with my now 8 year old. I tell myself, stop it. He’s not being naughty and it’s normal for 8 year olds to…… And yes, it’s annoying, but find something to appreciate about him. So I’m using what Michael Reeves talked about in his sermon on Psalm 42-I’m talking to myself and trying to change my attitude.
10. What stands out to you from Keller’s meditation on the metaphor of sheep? Application? What stands out is how true this is about people being dumb like sheep and constantly needing rescuing. We can’t escape the sinful habits. We get saved by grace and have so much joy and new understanding about sin and grace, but we keep falling into sin!
11. What is Keller’s point? What is your deepest hope for today? We cannot find our hope here on earth, but must find our hope in Jesus. Funny how our focus can change and we can get focused on TODAY. We have a list of things to accomplish and can get wrapped up in that. We can get focused on a relationship and how important that is. We can focus on many things. Our deepest hope must always be Jesus. My hope is for me to keep this as my focus each day and to help others around me do the same.
I love this, Chris. I need this every day:
And yes, it’s annoying, but find something to appreciate about him. So I’m using what Michael Reeves talked about in his sermon on Psalm 42-I’m talking to myself and trying to change my attitude.
I am going to read Psalm 42 right now.
This is what I need every day to: “Our deepest hope must always be Jesus. My hope is for me to keep this as my focus each day and to help others around me do the same.”
Friday: The Bond That Cements
20. What illustration from the above stands out to you and why?
—At the close of the sermon Keller gave two ways when you believe in the gospel that belief creates a unique kind of community. Something he said in the first one stood out to me. He referred to the church as “a place of beautiful, unified difference”. And he calls us to commit to being part of building a community like that.
There is a richness to that comment. When community is practiced well in the church it is a beautiful thing and I think a big part of that is because when everyone if on the same page (unified) it displays the beauty of all those stones from the quarry being perfectly fit together to form the whole.
21. Share a time when you bonded with a “stranger” upon discovering your bond in Christ.
—There have been many in my lifetime. A recent experience was when our son brought a man from India to be an overnight guest in our home. His name was Moorthy and the cultural differences were many but as we sat and shared about Jesus in our lives we had a sweet bond of fellowship with him.
22. Tests of real communty
Do you feel free to admit you are a sinner at church? Here?
—Yes I do. Especially here. 💕
Does your church reflect the community in which you live or is it mostly made up of upper class, or white, or aged?
—Our home church in Broken Bow is a wide mixture of ages and varied in economic status but it is predominantly white just because that is what our population base is in rural Nebraska. We have just a very few who are black or Hispanic.
When we move to Lincoln our church there is large and is much more diverse.
Are you able to give grace to challenging sheep?
—Only with the help of the Holy Spirit because in my flesh I sorely lack patience for them but I feel I am at least growing and experiencing the grace of God to others more and more. I just want to come to the point where it is a natural response as a fruit of my walk with Jesus.
Love your experience with Moorthy. Jesus is truly the bond that makes all the difference.
15. Give an example from your life about how true repentance brought you closer to another person. Be specific.
After I got married and had children! It changed my whole perspective on life! Jesus became the center of my life, instead of selfish me! I was still and continue to be a sheep, who daily needs my Shepherd. It opened up a wonderful relationship with my mom. We already had a good relationship, but then I could see how wise her counsel had always been. She had a gentle spirit, as did my dad, and they continued to always guide me closer to Jesus. They became more involved in Bible studies and so did I, even though we lived miles apart. We always remained very close. I am so grateful for God and for my parents.
16. What is Keller saying about how our identity affects community? Application for you?
Christians are a faith community of sinners, who are bonded in their faith in Jesus Christ. We are hopelessly lost in sin, but we are saved by sheer grace. I am a sheep, who is saved by the grace and the gift of Jesus, who took on my sins, and died on the cross for me. He rejoices over my repentance. I rejoice over the repentance of other sinners saved by grace.
17. What experience have true believers been through that should bond them together? Has this been true for you? Explain.
As true believers, we are sinners, not perfect people, who have received eternal life through the gift of Jesus. The more intense the experience, the more intense the bond. When we give ourselves to Him completely, it changes everything.
We are dead in our sins, but with the gift from God, we are one in His spirit, a bond that we understand, and friends that we rejoice with, because we understand that we are feeding our souls on Him. We are valued by the One who loves us more than earthly person can. It is nothing we have done, so it’s not based on performance, so we can have no pride.
Yes, this is true for me. We have a bond, where we can openly and safely pray for one another through the worst times, with no judgment. (Regardless of any difference in background…beautiful unified difference…as Keller says) We rejoice with one another for answered prayer. We fit together from the life and death experience from sin to grace, so we understand one another well. This blog is a beautiful community of believers, filled with love.
This is so Patti — and why we love her so.
Yes, this is true for me. We have a bond, where we can openly and safely pray for one another through the worst times, with no judgment. (Regardless of any difference in background…beautiful unified difference…as Keller says) We rejoice with one another for answered prayer. We fit together from the life and death experience from sin to grace, so we understand one another well. This blog is a beautiful community of believers, filled with love.
20. What illustration from the above stands out to you and why? Because of the politics in this country, people from a different political party.
21. Share a time when you bonded with a “stranger” upon discovering your bond in Christ. I recently had to have an interview to volunteer at a Catholic hospital The interviewer seemed to be anxious and overwhelmed. I asked if I could pray for her. She said yes and Holy Spirit brought her peace and the room atmosphere changed. After a few moments she even mentioned it.
Do you feel free to admit you are a sinner at church? Here? I think in a group I feel safe with at church I can admit sin. Yes, I must feel safe here because I can admit sin.
Does your church reflect the community in which you live or is it mostly made up of upper class, or white, or aged? My church is changing. . I love it when I see people from other races and we are also starting to have a few who are in recovery.
D. Are you able to give grace to challenging sheep? Most of the time, but I don’t find the challenging sheep in our growing diverse flock. I find them in the people who look like me.
20. What illustration from the above stands out to you and why? I love the way we can easily bond with a Christian friend, even in the first meeting. We are like the stones that are chiseled and formed by the Master builder, Jesus. When we meet, things fit so well, it is like we have always know one another. I had that happen when I met Dee in our Bible study, many years ago.
21. Share a time when you bonded with a “stranger” upon discovering your bond in Christ.
I have had that happen a number of times. Of course, with Dee. As recently as yesterday… I met my new CPA, and we started talking about schools and I learned he is a Christian and has his kids in a Christian school.
22. Tests of real communty
Do you feel free to admit you are a sinner at church? Here?
Yes, I feel loved and accepted here and at church. We are all sheep, with a wonderful Shepherd.
Does your church reflect the community in which you live or is it mostly made up of upper class, or white, or aged?
My church here is pretty eclectic, which is a bit unusual for a somewhat small town on the East Coast. When I first came here, years ago, it was not that eclectic. My former church and neighborhood in Washington was a great mixture. I love having friends for all over the world, of all nationalities. There is a great richness in knowing friends from many cultures.
Are you able to give grace to challenging sheep?
Yes, we are all challenging sheep. I am grateful for the grace I have been given and I still am given. Grateful for the opportunity to show grace to others.
We are all challenging sheep. :-). BUT NOT ME!
Oh, I am a challenged sheep. So thankful the Lord has that rod and staff on me. 😉 I have been shown so much grace from others in my life. I am happy to have the opportunity to show that grace to others! 🙏🥰
Friday: The Bond That Cements
20. What illustration from the above stands out to you and why?
The illustration from David Martin Lloyd Jones…”you’re a Christian first” and whatever second. I have never been around “racial” Christian’s until I moved to the south and it was disappointing to me. Our pastor, at a church meeting told us that a family was going to be coming to our church that was a mixed marriage and to please be welcoming and accepting! My response (inside) was, really?!
21. Share a time when you bonded with a “stranger” upon discovering your bond with Christ?
My husband and I took a train ride in western NC and the couple sharing our table with us turned out to be Christians from Pennsylvania…immediate bond and enjoyable meal shared over blessing the meal.
22. Tests of real community
A. Do you feel free to admit you are a sinner at church? Here?
Yes to both.
B. Does your church reflect the community in which you live or is it mostly made up of upper class, or white, or aged?
White but we do have a mixed couple…not the same ones from the above answer I gave.
C. Are you able to give grace to challenging sheep?
I am much better than I used to be.
So many questions about this but won’t go down that rabbit hole.
Sharon, I’m so curious. I love the rabbit holes 😉
I would say racial discrimination is still alive and well in Christian communities. Couples of mixed races still are a curiosity to some. Interesting that the color of skin, culture, and even denominational differences have set so many apart. I love how Keller brings people together with unity in Christ and emphasizes the richness of diversity.
I, too, love that Keller does that!
Chris, I know we’re all sinners in need of grace and we need to extend that same grace to others. My rabbit hole is if you have someone attending church that is living with their partner, this person is part of our worship team and very accepted and loved but nothing is being done. How much are we loving this person if the sin isn’t confronted. I have spoken to our worship leaders and the only response I get is, “I know…” I feel that sometimes grace is misinterpreted as carte blanche to allow sin so as not to cause waves. I really feel this situation is hurting the growth of our church but no one else seems to care.
That saddens my heart, too, Sharon.
15. Give an example from your life about how true repentance brought you closer to another person. Be specific. I would say my greatest offenses have been against my parents and husband, sadly. We often hurt those we are closest to. When I have hurt people and gone to them directly either in person or with a letter and apologized, that’s when forgiveness is given and restoration happens. The offense causes a brokenness in the relationship that is like a dam holding back water. There is no more flow of the relationship until that dam is broken. With my mom, I held onto a grudge for years about my parent’s divorce. I just could not understand why she sent my dad away. At 14 I could not possible understand all the complexities and as a new Christian at 16, 17 years old, I felt even more justified when I learned God hated divorce. I put a wide gap between my mother and I for a long time. I’m sure it caused her much pain. Probably, that is what I wanted was for her to feel my pain in the divorce. As I matured, I came to see that the incredible difficulty she faced after our tragic car crash when I was 10 years old, placed her in a very difficult position. She had more than she could handle and my dad’s brain injury was incredibly difficult without the support of a Christian community. We had family support and medical support, but not the spiritual support needed for such a trial. Our restored relationship started small. I began to pray for her, realizing that as a Christian I needed to forgive. Over the years I looked for ways to rebuild our relationship. Finally, I found the courage to go and talk with her directly about all of it. Honestly, I think we could still hash out more, but we are in a much better place than we ever were. Now if mom would finally forgive the Lord for allowing that tragedy and open her life up to His love for her. She considers herself a Christian, but has a lot of walls up in that regard. I hope to see the Lord reach her with his Word one day.
16. What is Keller saying about how our identity affects community? Application for you? Keller is saying that a community is formed through a bond and a life and death bond is thicker than blood bond. In our family, the death of babies is our bond currently, besides Jesus. There are some stark contrasts in the people our kids have chosen for spouses. Sadly, it has taken sometimes years for some of them to be “accepted” into our family. Sure they come to family functions and are treated well, but that deep bond takes time to form. The Lord has seen fit to give us two great losses and the bond has grown dramatically. Our newest DIL, came after those tragedies and has yet to form a deep bond in the family. She is a new Christian and comes from a non-Christian upbringing. Let’s just say marriage for them has been rough these first few months. We are working at helping them restore and learn to live a Christian marriage. They are young. Praying they can hold it together and work hard on this.
17. What experience have true believers been through that should bond them together? Our love for the Lord and our transformation from lost to found. Has this been true for you? Yes. Explain. No matter how sinful I find my relationships with believers, there is always that ability to reconcile. We forgive because Christ has forgiven us. I do have one area I am working on now and it is tough, but I know the Lord will work and deliver true forgiveness.
18. Why is it that if your identity is in something other than being a child of God, it brings stress and sorrow? Other identities cannot hold up like Christ! They always fail us.
19. Are you growing in having your primary identity in Christ? Or do you need prayer? I always need prayer. I do see growth as I keep striving to learn more and restore more in my life for Christ.
Dear Chris, You have been through so much since your childhood years. I am so happy for you, that you and your mom have worked out your relationship. Relationships are not easy, and after the terrible accident and losing two children, it had to be so difficult. My heart breaks for you, yet so thankful we have our Heavenly Father. Thank you for sharing this story of ongoing restoration. Only God can heal our hearts.
Thank you, Patti! God is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in Him. Nahum 1:7.
CHRIS — THANKS SO FOR TELLING YOUR STORY! I TOO AM SO HAPPY FOR YOUR RECONCILIATON WITH YOUR MOM
23. What is your take-a-way this week and why?
The Lord is my Shepherd. I shall not want. He truly is and all I need to do is to let Him be my Shepherd every day.
Patti, I love this, “…all I need to do is let Him be my Shepherd every day.” Yes!
20. What illustration from the above stands out to you and why? The illustration of the quarry and being through the life and death chiseling of the Lord and how THIS work in our hearts can bond us with another who can be so different. I experienced this last week with an article from Voice of the Martyrs. This Arabic speaking woman from the Middle East, who had been to the quarry in a heart breaking tragedy and learned to forgive the murdered of her husband, became one I could bond with in this life and death struggle and learning to forgive. A different tragedy in my life, but similar struggle in pain and forgiveness.
21. Share a time when you bonded with a “stranger” upon discovering your bond in Christ. Oh this is happening now! There is a woman I am meeting on Sunday who I barely know. She was befriended by a family I am close with because she is a single mom who just had a special needs baby. Her story is miraculous. She is a Christian and this is what has bonded her to this family and soon to me. I have felt called to support her from first hearing about her story. She is from Egypt and is 44 years old, having her first baby. She came to the USA as a young adult to escape abuse from her Muslim neighbor. Her family essentially disowned her because she was abused, though her family claimed to be Christian. She has lived here since and now her abusive husband left her when learning they were having a Down Syndrome baby. She moved to my community in Michigan from California, because she has found believers who want to support her. She had no friends or family in California. She was advised to abort her baby by many health professionals along the way. She found my friends in a facebook support page for mom’s with Down Syndrome babies. I went to her baby shower that my friends put on and now I have been invited to meet her baby in the NICU and drop off my gift to her from our church small group. I am so excited to meet her again and grow our friendship. Baby boy was just born Wednesday. She named him Eden 🤍.He will need a heart surgery in the near future and has been experiencing trouble breathing. Prayers appreciated.
Oh, Chris! I will be praying for your new friend and her baby, Eden. What a story.
Interesting she named him Eden. I have a dear friend with a Down Syndrome daughter named Eden. So has me thinking about what that means to them.
Yes, I’m planning to ask. I only know one child named Eden and she’s a girl, as well. I’ve not heard it used as a boy name. Thanks for praying for them.
Also, more prayers for my son and his new marriage. It’s not sounding good.
22. Tests of real communty
Do you feel free to admit you are a sinner at church? Here? We have a pretty new church community. There are some I feel comfortable with but this is a closer knit community for me to do that in. Our church is welcoming of sinners (haha) and we have had many very bold testimonies at baptisms. We have many who are recovered from substance abuse and other things. It is great to see the Lord working. I would say that not many share about such sins as mine like unforgiveness and moral superiority syndrome. It’s not as dramatic a story, but sure does impact relationships and probably should be shared more.
Does your church reflect the community in which you live or is it mostly made up of upper class, or white, or aged? Our community is mostly white. We do have a variety of ages in our church and special needs, along with a variety of economic status.
Are you able to give grace to challenging sheep? This can be hard. I do find I can be judgmental and need to work on this as I would love to be more compassionate.
Saturday:
My takeaways-This is kind of long, as I still couldn’t focus my eyes very well after the first cataract surgery. I listened to Tim K. several times, so I can at least contribute some.
1. Because I am like sheep (and stupid), my soul can indiscriminately be fed on spiritual “grass” that is not of God. I can be like the sheep on the ledge, oblivious to the danger. I need to focus on Jesus, my Shepherd, who leads me to the right path and feeds me with his truth.
2. Grace creates community, the Jesus kind. The upside-down kind of community, diverse, sinners saved by grace, bonded by life and death, intense experiences. Like the one we have here. I have only met Dee and Patti in person from this blog, but I have felt the bond of Jesus with the rest of you just as I have with them both.
3. Religion (pointers to live a good life-saved by works) vs. relationship (with Jesus- saved by grace)
4. Joy in this unique community brings the outsiders inside.
5. You go to the “quarry”-experience the life and death experience of a new birth, of the gospel, and you will fit with one another as “living stones”.
6. Trust yourself to the Shepherd, but commit yourselves to one another. We need one another.
7. A community of grace-a place of beautiful diversity. A place where you can admit you are a sinner—a place where we can be shepherds to one another.
This is another Tim Keller gem. Thank you, Dee.
Singers from 15 countries (300 singers) singing “No man is an island”. The beauty of diversity
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycbrO9XSDwY&list=RDycbrO9XSDwY&start_radio=1
Great takeaways, Bing. I will check out this video. Thank you!
I love this summary. I’ll look up the video. Thanks 😊
Wow. What a powerful song. Thank you.