Jesus tells us that unless we become like a little child,
we won’t enter the kingdom of heaven!
In a positive way, He says the same with the first Beatitude.
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
Our symbol this week is a little child.
Above is my firstborn granddaughter, Emily Brestin, who is leaning hard on Jesus for she is a single mother in medical school.
With her is my firstborn great-granddaughter, Jovie Brestin, who knows her need and leans on her mother for everything.
In this week’s sesson, which Keller doesn’t cover, but we will,
every section shows us how we must have the humility and attitude of a child.
I am going to show this video again, and I want you to watch the expressions of the children, and describe the attitude you see in them that is so precious in the sight of God. It is also a perfect song for the season of walking toward the cross.
Highlights From Last Week:
This from Diane fits in perfectly with becoming like a child — her memory of how her life changed as a 9 year old after receiving Christ:
I was about 9 years old when my eyes first were really opened to Jesus. I was attending a Vacation Bible School and responded to an invitation to repent and come to Jesus. It is like I suddenly understood the good news. I had to walk home afterward by myself because my brother had gone ahead. The trees, hills and the air and everything in nature seemed different somehow as if God was right there speaking his nearness and glory. It was a kiss from the King.
This from our own Jill to help us pray for the medical workers in the thick of things:
I am an RN. I have already been tasked in this pandemic when the virus crossed into Montana several days ago. (I have worked extra all week.) Our neighbor counties have confirmed positives so we are gearing up and getting ready. Currently I am team leading (with two others) our facility’s COVID-19 nurse triage line. I am also on-call for the ICU. I assume this is how God wants me to respond….with the tasks given to me to help care for our community. Our family is self-isolating as well as trying to send cards to local nursing homes to cheer them in their isolation…. I can’t help but be struck by how God does NOT want us o live in isolation but the enemy does…. I am not saying we shouldn’t be good stewards for our community’s health but it does seem a direct tactic by the Enemy … we have to find ways to continue community and drawing together in times of trouble! (Thinking of the Italians singing together.)
This link from our own Julie with wonderful additional insight to the Transfiguration:
On a personal note, I am having a growing confidence that His Spirit is leading me on writing a book on naming your children with the wisdom of God. If you have a naming story, I’d love to see it. You can e-mail me at comments@deebrestin.com Or, if you have named a child an unusual biblical name or the name of a notable Christian, I’d love to hear how he or she feels about his or her name! And can he or she link it to a story?
Sunday:
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What stands out to you from the above and why?
- Is this time of the Corona Virus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears?
David Briscoe has a wonderful sermon on Psalm 34 where he explains that the fear or awe of the Lord can deliver you from the fear of your circumstances. It’s 2.50: https://gospelinlife.com/downloads/prayer-of-seeking-8771/
Monday: The Heart of a Servant
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them?
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant?
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself.
4. How does our concern for status in the Christian community get in the way of Jesus’ mission?
It is so easy to be critical of other believers when they are doing things differently from you, or when you forget that you are not in competition, but all working for the Kingdom. I often have to talk to my soul about this, for I am prone to being critical. Yet Jesus says:
4. Read Mark 9:38-41
A. Carefully describe the dialogue between John and Jesus.
B. How does pride enter into looking down on other true believers?
5. Read John 17:20-23
A. For whom is Jesus praying here?
B. What specifically does He pray in verse 23 and why?
C. Could you pray this for yourself and for your local body?
6. How have you seen God at work in your life recently?
Tuesday: Causing Little Ones To Stumble
N. T. Wright says that most commentators agree that the graphic images in this section should not be taken literally, but do indeed show the gravity of sinning against others or sin in general.
7. Read Mark 9:42
A. What does Jesus say here?
B. What are some of the ways we might cause a child to stumble spiritually?
C. Every parent is a sinner, but some are better at repenting to their child. Can you share a
time a parent did this with you well or that you did this well with a child?
D. Pray for the children in your life or for those training them.
8. Read Mark 9:43-49
A. How does Jesus show the gravity of sin?
B. How does He show the gravity of hell?
C. What do you think verse 50 means?
Wednesday: The Purpose of Marriage
9. Read Mark 10:1-12
A. What question do the Pharisees ask and why might this have been a
trap? (Mark 6:17 may give light.)
B. How did Jesus answer that both showed respect for Moses but also
explained God’s best plan for marriage?
10. Our own Angela who participates here occasionally is a thoughtful blogger. Read the
following and share your comments:
http://refreshmysoulblog.blogspot.com/2014/01/the-ebb-and-flow-of-marriage-and-how-it.html
11. What qualities does a little child have that could bring peace to a troubled
marriage?
Thursday: Becoming Like Children in Humility
In biblical days, children were not esteemed the way they are today. That helped them have humility. I imagine even the child that Jesus took and placed among the arguing disciples in Mark 9:36 was shocked. Now Jesus reiterates the importance of becoming like children.
12. Read Mark 10:13-16
A. What happens in this passage? How do you imagine the disciples felt?
B. What lesson does Jesus have for them in verse 15? What do you think He
means?
One of the main reasons people reject Jesus is pride; they believe they don’t need Him and can make it through life on their own. But only when we renounce our pride and come to Him with the humility and trust of a child can we be saved.
Don’t let your pride, or anything else, keep you from Christ. Instead, humble yourself before Him, and trust your life completely to Him. Then commit all you are and all you have into His hands, for He alone is “the way and the truth and the life” (John 14:6).
Billy Graham
13. 2 Corinthians 4:4 says:
The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.
Pray for a few God puts on your heart who have been blinded, who, in their pride, do noy see God’s great glory and holiness, and do not realize their desperate need.
Friday: Becoming Like Children in Realizing our Helplessness
We find the genius of children, spiritually speaking, in their helpless state.
Gary Thomas
14. Read again Mark 9:36-37; Mark 9:42 and Mark 10:13-16. Does anything quicken you?
15. Pray whatever God has shown you about becoming like a child or about
not causing a little one to stumble.
Saturday: Review
16. What is your take-a-way this week and why?
96 comments
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
Dee, you have a great-granddaughter!
Children are a blessing. Love the children’s choir. Cooper enjoyed watching the video with me this morning. He and Grace know the song well since it is one of the pieces in my repertoire of dance 😊.
2. Is this time of the Corona Virus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears?
I can honestly say that I am not fearful of the virus. I know God is present and fully in control. Back off Satan 🖐! I AM fearful of people, especially those who are not tethered to God. I love seeing the “mothering” from churches, friends, and others. I am enjoying being in my pjs more and I kind of wonder if this part of Gods plan is to slow the world down, to take a breath, to smell the roses, to care for one another, to bring us together? If and when I get anxious, that is when I read the Bible, read this blog, listen to a Christian podcast, or listen to Christian music. Immersion in Christ is how I work through fear.
Oh Laura — if you ever do a dance to that song, film it please for us!
And I love this: Immersion in Christ is how I work through fear.
Check our Facebook page Dee. I did it in my living room a few years ago for us. I will see if I can pin it to the top of the page for you. Actually, all this online learning has taught me how to upload YouTube videos. I’ll post it here if I can 🙂
I tried to find it but couldn’t, so if you could post it here it would be wonderful! Or a link to it…
I tried to share it through messenger with you. I don’t see that it went though. I can’t get to the original video 😔. Fb wont let me download it. I’m going to see if Renee can help me pin it to the top of the fb page.
I thought of you Laura as I listened to the children’s choir and wondered if you ever did a dance to this. It definitely makes me want to get up and dance. Right now we are working from home and I have Christian music playing all day off of Pandora while I work. I love being home working and sing along to all the songs that come on. So much better when I can praise Him.
So true Julie!
Sunday:
1. What stands out to you from the above and why? – What beautiful Grandchildren you have Dee. So adorable. The picture of your great-grandchild reminds me of how I should be clinging to Jesus in all ways. So precious to have this innocence. The children in the video, have so much joy in their faces, to be free to sing to the Lord and tell everyone WHO HE IS. Diane’s story of when she became a Christian really spoke to me. And how our eyes change to see the world He created in a different way. Even though we have seen these things before, they are all so different once you believe in the Creator. Jill I will be praying for you and all our medical personal. Thank you for stepping in at this time to help others that are in need even though you know the risks, you take your oath to heart.
2. In this time of the Corona Virus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears? – I need to trust Him that he is instructing the Government in the way they are responding and that the Government is in prayer over this. I pray that they are heeding His will and not their own. I don’t really have any fear over this. I’m saddened that so many have become affected by this virus and for those that lost their lives. I think I’m more amazed at those that are not listening to what the Government is saying and do what they are asking us to do. They are in authority over us here on earth and need to be respected. I don’t know if this makes me cold hearted or not, (which is something I’m really working to be aware of) but I again am amazed at those that have travelled and are now worried they may not get back. I just don’t get it.
Lord help me in this area where I struggle to make sense out of those who are not listening. I don’t want to come across as cold hearted, and maybe I am. But we need to listen to those in authority and do what we can. Help me to have the perspective you want me to have in these situations. I really try to have your glory, grace and mercy shine though the things I do and say, but I know I am failing in this right now. I need you, Lord, to take control of my thoughts and actions. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen.
So good to remind us to pray for our government leaders! Thanks, Julie.
Sunday
1.What stands out to you from the above and why?
A much needed balm for the soul…precious, precious picture of your granddaughter and great granddaughter, seeing all those beautiful smiling faces singing and Diane’s very descriptive testimony…made me feel like I was right there with her, such joy!! Jill, I am and will continue to pray for all healthcare workers during this time…thank you and may his hand of protection be upon you and others here on this blog.
2. Is this time of the Corona Virus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears?
I have found this time to be more stressful than I thought. I need to trust Him in taking care of my son. He has no choice but to be in the public. I shared my concern with him and this is his text to me. “I’ve resigned myself to the fact that I’m probably going to get it, and I’ll deal with that when it comes. This will all pass eventually and I plan on all of us coming out on the other side happy and healthy.” I told him I hope he doesn’t get it and will keep him in prayer. As a mother it’s so hard not to be able to protect him.
I feel Him delivering me out of my fears when I have a heart of thanksgiving, so I’m going to be intentional throughout my day to lift up my heart in thanksgiving and praise to Him. Also, to be more conscientious of the needs of others.
Father,
We do ask for your protection over Sharon and Jim’s son. We also ask for peace for them.
In Jesus Name
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
One of the things that this corona virus is teaching us is that we are NOT in control. We cannot fix this. I am also being convicted that it is not enough to simply pray to God to protect us from this disease or to pray for him to remove it. We must come in humble, honest repentance, begging God’s forgiveness for our prideful, arrogant ways. This goes against our natural tendencies. How hard it is to say we are sorry, to admit we did something wrong! But that is what we must do before a holy God. The Bible makes it clear many times that God will not hear us, unless we do. This, I believe, is at least part of what Jesus means when he calls us to be childlike.
“If my people, who are called by my name, humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.” 2 Chronicles 7:14
2. Is this time of the Corona Virus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears?
I am aware that, more than ever, it is crucial to place myself before the Word of God and seek His face and listen to Him. In the morning, it sets the tone for the day. Then there are times throughout the day, when I just start to feel overwhelmed and when I turn to Him, he calms my soul when I refocus on Him, either with a quick prayer or take more time right then. I need Him, desperately.
Elaine Hedy This program thought this was my first comment. I did comment in the first chapter and then just wrote my replies on paper. I love this video and wrote my comment and then was told to register first! So you might have two comments from me. The first girl who sings the solo knows what she is singing about and totally believes this. She is so focused on this song and singing about her savior. The whole choir is also so very focused on this dance. They totally are giving their 100% attention and singing this song. They are believers too. They are beautiful and worshiping as they sing about Jesus. Thank you for bringing this video back.
Hi Elaine! Welcome.
I too so loved that first girl and saw what you did, that she knew what she was singing about and totally believed it. So beautiful.
Become Like a Little child! The title stands out for sure. All the images of children represent purity, in devotion, in trust, in joy! I love the singing children who put their hearts in the music they are singing. Last week I watched a video of a small child reciting scripture delightfully- 26 verses, based on alphabetical correlation. He was so happy as he said these verses, and my heart rejoiced, for these will go through him for his lifetime, I am sure.
My need to trust during this pandemic- oh yes, that my husband and I do not become exposed as we are over 75, he has asthma, and all the other issues- keeping supplied with basics,etc. I listened to a wonderful sermon on Philippians 4:6-8 tonight and plan to review daily! The little child memorized Phil. 4:6, too! I am praying to grow in trust and pray without ceasing, thinking on whatsoever things are of good repute…
So good, Shirley. Reminds me of what Laura said about overcoming fear by immersing herself in Christ.
1. What stands out to you from the above and why? I watched the children as you said to, Dee. I made myself be patient and observe. They sing together, in unison. When the camera focuses on them they do not change their actions or expressions, they stay genuine. They do not seek extra attention they just play their part and add their voice to the song.
2. In this time of the Coronavirus, where do you need to trust him as a child trusts his parent? How is he delivering you out of your fears? I wonder if this is a smidge what it feels like to go to war… hearing from other hospitals how bad it has gotten and knowing that we are probably not doing enough to flatten the curve to not overwhelm our system…knowing my duty is risky and just hoping God protects me…I am not scared, I am just praying for safety, boldness, strength, and PPE. He has put me here, in this place, with a calling so it must be that I am meant to be here in this place doing whatever comes on my shift. It has not truly hit our hospital yet but likely it will….
Thank you for all your prayers! So crucial for those on the frontlines! There are a lot of concerning stories coming from other hospitals where it is only beginning to hit. My biggest prayer is for PPE to become available for healthcare workers…this will save their lives…
Jill — you are such an example of laying down your life. Keller has often mentioned how it is Christians who have been willing to march into the plagues, knowing this life is not all there is. I hear Christian medical workers from Cuba are going to Italy. Impressive.
And you made me smile with your comment “I made myself be patient and observe.”
We are continuing to pray for you, Jill. You are a shining example to us. May God protect you. And, I may have missed it, but what is PPE?
Personal protective equipment- these initials in the medical field
Thank you, Shirley. For answering my question regarding PPE. That makes sense.
Thank you, Shirley, for answering my question regarding PPE. That makes sense.
Thank you Jill. I know you are touching peoples lives. I will pray for you.
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details.
The disciples and Jesus arrived at Capernaum and we’re eating dinner in a house. Jesus asks the disciples what they were discussing on the road as they walked. They were too embarrassed (?) to admit they were arguing which was the “greatest” so they said nothing. Jesus tells them that to be first you must be last. They must be a servant to others. He also took a child in His arms and said that those who welcome children would also welcome Him and the Father.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them?
I guess that children are vulnerable and are probably the “least” with respect to order of “importance?” Plus, generally speaking, children are a blessing, sweet, and vulnerable. They look to their elders for direction and guidance.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant?
Probably to my family right now, both immediate and extended.
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself.
Dear Lord help me have faith like a child. These are stressful times and the things of this world really are not important compared to my belief in You and Your kingdom. Thank You for the peace You bring me when I listen to You. Lord, help me be humble and trusting of You. I love You Lord. I know You have us covered. Help my family members see You and know You again in their lives. I pray in Your Holy Name. Amen.
4. How does our concern for status in the Christian community get in the way of Jesus’ mission?
We focus on ourselves too much. We are not heavenly focused.
Loved your Lord of the Dance on facebook, Laura!
Thanks Dee! I’m glad you got to see it 😊 it is joyful to dance for God.
Monday: The Heart of a Servant
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details. – Jesus asked the disciples what they were arguing about on the road to Capernaum. They didn’t tell Jesus that they were arguing about who was greatest, but it appears that Jesus knew anyway. He brought a child in to them and took the child in to his arms and said when they welcome the child they welcome Him and the Father.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them? – I feel it is to show the innocence of a child. That the worry they are having of who is greatest, is blinding them to see the goodness of Jesus.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant? – I feel right now, I’m to be a servant in my own home, to be more serving to my husband. To be joyful that I still have the opportunity to serve.
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself. – Lord I want to be a servant of yours, help me to be joyful in doing things that I don’t really like to do. Help me to see that it is a gift from you to be able to serve others and to be a servant in my home. I need your help in this Lord to serve as you have served. In Jesus Name Amen.
4. How does our concern for status in the Christian community get in the way of Jesus’ mission? – I think we are being fake, trying to make people think we know more than we really do. By doing this we are putting up a roadblock up to what Jesus can really do through us. We are the one leading, and leaving Jesus out of our plan.
4. Read Mark 9:38-41
A. Carefully describe the dialogue between John and Jesus. – John called Jesus teacher and told him he stopped someone that was driving out demons because he was not one of them. Jesus told them that if they are driving out demons, they will not turn around and talk bad about him.
B. How does pride enter into looking down on other true believers? – When we let pride be our focus, we don’t see the gifts given to other believers by Jesus. We think we are better than any other Christian, but in reality we are all the same, a sinner, who Jesus died for.
5. Read John 17:20-23
A. For whom is Jesus praying here? – he is praying for believers and those that will become believers through our actions.
B. What specifically does He pray in verse 23 and why? – That we have complete unity so the world know that Jesus was sent by the Father.
C. Could you pray this for yourself and for your local body? – Lord, remove any pride that I may still be holding on to. Help to see the worth in other believers as you see them. Help me walk in unity, so others who are wondering about you, will see that you were sent to us by your Father to help us and not to divide us. I can only do this with you walking with me Lord. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen.
6. How have you seen God at work in your life recently? – I see him tugging at my heart. To be in His Word either by doing this blog, or doing book study with other ladies. It is becoming more of a priority for me and I know that is only Him changing my heart on how I look at things and to see what is more important in life.
Julie it is great to see you so active here.
People have time now to be with the Lord, but I’ve noticed, even in our church where we are doing a zoom Bible study, not all have done their lesson. So the reason must be that they are not hungry. I remember in the Momentum study he said that appetite can be cultivated, for you can learn to like something. The more you are in the Word, the more you want it. I see that in you.
I’ve been thinking about getting on Zoom to see if I can figure out how to invite our Life Group so we can still have our meetings and discuss the pulpit notes. I will have look in to it. What a great idea, thanks Dee.
The Lord gave me this scripture yesterday. I am praying in the stopping of our work we will be seeking Him all the more. Lord makes us hungry!!!!!
“So that everyone He has made to Know His work He stops all people from their labor” Job 37:7
Lord may we take this deep and may it be everlasting not to be forgotten in all aspects of our lives.
May all those isolating thru this be isolated with You growing closer to You. In Jesus Name Amen
Amen Liz!
Read Mark 9:38-41
A. Carefully describe the dialogue between John and Jesus.
John tells Jesus that he has seen someone who was trying to cast out demons and was not in their “group” so they told him to stop. Jesus gets annoyed and tells them to not stop people who were trying to do good in His name. He says that anyone who is not against them/Him was for them/Him. He also says that any kind act (giving water to someone) in the name of the Lord will be rewarded.
B. How does pride enter into looking down on other true believers?
I think I tend to think my way is better than others. Each of us is just trying to “make it” through life “under the sun” so we should be kind and not judge-mental to others. Just because we have different ways of worship doesn’t mean we aren’t all focused on the same thing; God.
5. Read John 17:20-23
A. For whom is Jesus praying here?
For me, for us!
B. What specifically does He pray in verse 23 and why?
He wants us to be One with Him and the Father! In verse 23 He is asking the Father to help us be in unity together. He wants the world to know that we are loved because we have Him in us.
C. Could you pray this for yourself and for your local body?
Oh Lord thank You for this beautiful prayer for me; for us! Help our church family be in unity for these next few months as we endure lives that are out of the control we normally have. Help us love each other well. Heal our country, our world. Defend us against Satan in that mysterious way that you have in the past. It is so amazing to think that You could bring Satan to his knees in a way that we could not begin to understand, like how you did in Jericho with Joshua! I can’t wait to see how You solve our problem now with this terrible disease. I pray in Your Holy Name Lord. Amen.
6. How have you seen God at work in your life recently?
I think the amazing way people in my community have stepped forward to encourage each other. It has been a blessing. I hope I have been an encourager to others as well. This is a hard time for all of us.
Monday
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details.
Jesus asks His disciples what they were discussing and arguing about on their way to Capernaum. They kept silent because they were debating which one of them was the greatest. Jesus sat down to teach, called the disciples over and said, “If anyone wants to be first he must be last of all and a servant of all.” He then took a child in His arms saying whoever receives this child in My name receives Me and Him who sent Me.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them?
He wants them to have a pure and humble attitude, to be like Him. I can’t get the verse in the next chapter out of my mind. Mark 10:45 “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” Denying self, obedience and sacrifice.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant?
I feel He’s calling me to be a servant to my grandchildren.
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself. I know that there are times that I live with such selfishness. May I be reminded that it isn’t about me. Especially with my grandchildren. May I have an attitude of sacrifice, putting their needs first so that maybe, just maybe they will get a glimpse of Your great love through my humanness.
4. How does our concern for status in the Christian community get in the way of Jesus’ mission?
It becomes all about me rather than the mission and we are no longer light or salt.
4. Read Mark 9:38-41
A. Carefully describe the dialogue between John and Jesus.
John said to Jesus that they saw someone using His name to cast out a demon and they told him to stop because he wasn’t in their group. Jesus told him not to stop them, because no one who performs a miracle in My name, will be able to speak evil of Me afterwards. Anyone not against us is for us. If you’re given a cup of water because you belong to the Messiah, I truly tell you that person will surely be rewarded.
B. How does pride enter into looking down on other true believers?
It makes you think that you’re better than they are, you have all the right answers so they must be wrong.
You have such a good attitude, Sharon!
Monday
5. Read John 17:20-23
A. For whom is Jesus praying here?
His disciples and all who will ever believe in Him through their message.
B. What specifically does He pray in verse 23 and why?
That He is in them and they are in Him. So they may experience such perfect unity that the world will know that You (God) sent Me (Jesus) and You (God) love them as much as You (God) love me (Jesus).
C. Could you pray this for yourself and for your local body?
Oh Lord, this is so needed in my life as I come from a completely different denomination than the body I’m in now. I know there may be different views and interpretations but we are all in You and You in us. Remove the arrogance and critical spirit that rears its ugly head so that there will be unity and the world will desire to know You.
6. How have you seen God at work in your life recently?
He has tenderized my heart towards others. To see others through the lens of His grace and love.
Mark 9:33-36 Jesus asked the disciples what they were discussing on the way. But they were silent! They had been arguing about who was the greatest. Jesus called the 12 and sat down,saying” If anyone would be first, he must be last of all and servant of all. He took a little child and put him in the midst of them. “Whoever receives a little child, receives me and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me.
B. Jesus’ point is that serving is the main ministry.
C. Jesus is calling me to be a servant to a group of elderly widows in my organization. Many are in assisted living facilities, some live alone and others are cared for by families.
D. Father God, I thank you that I have this outreach ministry. Sometimes it is hard to have conversations but you give me words and ways to meet these ladies. Thank you for my conversation today, even though this dear lady has Alzheimer’s she remembered something about the opportunity she had before her husband died.May I remember that even the least of these is very dear to you. thank you and praise you for the lessons learned through humility. Amen
Love how you are reaching out, Shirley.
I am thinking on this question about status in the Christian community. I believe that it may become a pride issue rather than having a servant’s heart. There is focus on the job position and title rather than on the task of serving. I think about the recognition that goes to leaders and that is not important to God. Yes, I agree, Dee, it is easy to be critical. God gifts us all differently and that is what the body of Christ is about- each doing her part to accomplish our kingdom mission.
Mark 9:38-41 In this scene with the disciples they were upset because one not with them was casting out demons in Jesus’ name. But Jesus said, Do not stop him, for no one doing work in my name will speak evil of me. “For the one who is not against us is for us!”
B. How does pride enter in the way of Jesus’ mission? So the disciples felt honored to be chosen by Jesus and were upset with this situation. I think this is very realistic even now with some believers. Some feel their doctrine is the only viewpoint that is correct, but I don’t always agree. Some churches’ leaders only use one version of the Bible, not accepting more modern versions.I think we need to listen more to one another and be less critical, though I do fall into that at times,too.
7. Read Mark 9:42
A. What does Jesus say here?
If anyone causes a child to fall into sin, who is a believer, it is better to put a millstone around your neck and be thrown into the sea.
B. What are some of the ways we might cause a child to stumble spiritually?
Maybe if we don’t go to church, or don’t have a closely knit church family for them too lean on? If we don’t provide a Bible at home for reading? If we don’t role model the ways of Jesus… kindness, self control, joy, etc.; the fruits of the Spirit?
C. Every parent is a sinner, but some are better at repenting to their child. Can you share a time a parent did this with you well or that you did this well with a child?
I can’t really think of a specific example, but I have, on occasion, hurt one of v my kids feelings so I apologized.
D. Pray for the children in your life or for those training them.
Dearest Lord, raising children is hard work. It is hard to be patient and kind, and easier to lose our cool when they aren’t behaving well. Thank You for the fruits of the Spirit to remind us to be kind, joyful, have self control, peaceful, gentleness, patience, goodness, and loving. Help us, as caregivers to model these characteristics as best as we can. Help us keep them in the forefront of our minds so we don’t harm the ones we are responsible for raising. Thank You Lord for giving us the way to live. Your way is the best way. Amen.
“But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!”
Galatians 5:22-23 NLT
https://www.bible.com/116/gal.5.22-23.nlt
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details.
The disciples have been discussing along their trip about who would be greatest, and Jesus, knowing their thoughts, uses the opportunity to teach them about humility, trust and obedience. Here Jesus is teaching the Twelve in the privacy of a home. He brings in a child and takes him into his arms. Because it is possible that this is Peter’s home, it is also possible that this may be one of Peter’s children. I wonder. Jesus says if you receive one such child “in my name” you receive me and also the Father who sent him.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them?
In that culture, a child is of low status and caring for a child was considered a lowly task. Humbly caring for people of low status out of obedience to Christ will be in fellowship with Jesus and the Father.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant?
We usually have Krista’s children with us every other weekend as part of “shared custody”. Because of the Corona virus, this is extremely risky but we are still planning, at this point, to have them from Thursday to Monday this weekend. I am fearful of contracting the virus or of one of them becoming sick while they are here. Is this part of what Jesus is calling me to? Is he calling me to receive these vulnerable children at risk to my and my family’s health? Also, planned long before this pandemic, Krista’s fiancé had planned to move into a little home they are buying this weekend. How do you “social distance” and help someone move? What should we do, Lord?
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself.
God, give me wisdom regarding the risks we seem to be called to do this weekend because of this Corona virus. You are able to protect us. You call us to show love, even at great risk. My personal inclination is isolation and self-protection, yet you do not give us a “spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” Show me what that means and the courage to live it out with confidence in you.
Interesting to think it could have been one of Peter’s children. Makes me think of the movies on The Chosen. It’s a free app. Have you seen any of them, Diane? Be interested in your thoughts.
Oh – I do pray for wisdom for you. If you do, wear masks and keep everything clean! I pray protection.
Interesting to think it could have been one of Peter’s children. I love how the new free app for the movies The Chosen portrays Peter’s wife and mother–in-law. Have you seen any of those Diane? Would love your thoughts. Of course he could have had children!
Got done with Tuesday and went to correct something and said it was spam…don’t know if it will post of not?
So sorry — don’t know why it did that – -and I didn’t see anything to approve. Please let me know if it happens again and I’ll have website company look into it.
No worries Dee, those things happen😊
7. Read Mark 9:42
A. What does Jesus say here? – He is telling us that we better not cause anyone that believes in Him to sin or stumble. We need to lift each other up and be one, likeminded. We should be all the same team.
B. What are some of the ways we might cause a child to stumble spiritually? – Our actions against what is right could make them stumble. Not respecting each other, not loving others. Basically going against the 10 commandments and a ‘child’ see you do that. If they are a new believer they will think that it is ok to do things as we see fit and not how Jesus would want us to do them.
C. Every parent is a sinner, but some are better at repenting to their child. Can you share a time a parent did this with you well or that you did this well with a child? – I had to apologize to my son, because I had been juding someone for doing something I new was not right, but ended up doing myself and he found out about it. I had to let him know I was wrong, and I should not have been judging them that it wasn’t my place to judge.
D. Pray for the children in your life or for those training them. – Lord, though my kids are grown, I continue to pray that you put someone in their path to lead them back to the cross, if they have walked away, or for someone to lead them to you. You know who that person should be. I pray for the parents of my grandchildren, that they can find you, to have you in their hearts so they can teach and lead the ones that were placed in their lives by you. Help me Lord to be an example, yet I won’t be a perfect example, help me to know what to say to them, and when to say it. Help me to know how to direct my kids and grandkids in the right direction that their lives will be with you, from now until their last breath. In Jesus Name I Pray. AMEN
8. Read Mark 9:43-49
A. How does Jesus show the gravity of sin? – He is comparing it to our limbs, things we need in our daily lives to function, but if they are being used incorrectly, ‘cut them off, pluck them out’. Which is much better than going to hell where the fire never goes out and the WORM does not die. I’m guessing since this worm is singular, does it refer to satan? It is better to have little and still live a life pleasing to God then to stumble with ‘things’ that causes us to walk away, or stray away from God.
B. How does He show the gravity of hell? – I think I answered this all in the question above.
C. What do you think verse 50 means? – If we fall away from God, or think we can do something because he won’t know, (silly I know), we are fooling ourselves in believing we are still ok with our relationship with Him. The more we do to pull us away from God, the harder it is to get back to Him. We start to doubt our salvation, we think we have too much ‘bad’ for God to forgive us and when we start self diagnosing our Christian life, we feel the burden of sins, and just stay away. We think that there is no way back from our sins, but all we have to do is cry out to Him, ask for fogiveness, and repent and learn to live a healthier Christian, God Like life.
Good prayer, Julie. I agree. Amen!
John 17:20-23 Jesus is praying for ” those who will believe in me through their word.” In verse 23 he prays that “they may become perfectly one, so that the world will know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.”
Prayer : Father I thank you for these words of Jesus and I pray that I might be a witness that your glory has been given to me and may I love others and share your word and desire a goal of oneness with my brothers and sisters and may our lives be characterized with love for one another.
6. Have I seen God at work in my life? Yes, God has been leading me to be reaching out to others and to show kindness during this time of frustration, uncertainty and confusion. It is hard to be restricted, we so like our freedom to come and go as we please. Now it requires a new normal for everyone.
Mark 9:42 Jesus says that if anyone causes one of these little ones to sin, it would be better for him to drown…with a stone hung around his neck.
B. Ways that might cause a child to stumble spiritually: probably the first way is to abuse a child emotionally or physically and cause a deep bitterness; recently is the way some parents encourage transgenderism I feel is so wrong by denying the gender God made them to be.
C. Every parent is a sinner,but some are better at repenting than others. This question causes a sensitivity to me; I don’t ever remember having my parent repent and I was probably not much better at it. This makes me sad. It is a wonderful example for a child.
D. Prayer : Dear Father, I pray for my grandson who is raising 3 little daughters. Father, my prayer is for him and his wife to come to a closer walk with you. Help them to teach their daughters well by loving you and each other. You know these little ones and my desire for them to grow up safely and learn to follow you. I pray in the name of Jesus, Amen
So true about children and transgender. Lord, have mercy on these little ones.
Mark 9:43-49 How does God show the gravity of sin? He states that whatever part of the body causes you to sin, it is better for it to be cut off.
This strong language I believe is showing that sin is a severe problem, not to be treated lightly.
B. He shows the gravity of hell by saying there the fire is not quenched. This is a frightening symbol- of constant punishment.
C. Verse 50 states that if salt has lost its saltiness, how will you make it salty again? I thought this was referring to being the example of
love and kindness, but the context confuses me. It does give the goal of being at peace with one another. Hoping to get a better understanding, as others share their thoughts.
I understand your confusion on verse 50. My thoughts were that back in those days salt was a preservative. And if it lost it’s saltiness or purpose, like in preserving meat, the meat would decay. If we don’t remove the sources of temptation in our lives and allow sin to take over, we’ve lost our saltiness or purpose. We are to be in the world, not of the world. I also like this from John MacArthur which I paraphrased… We can be a preservative by allowing the work of the Word and the Spirit to produce godly character. A godly character produces peace which enables us to have peace with one another. I hope this helps.
Sharon, yes, this does help. Certainly the aspect of salt being a preservative. Thank you
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
I like the video of the children singing. They all look happy, interested, and excited to be there singing, like they are giving it their all.
2. In this time of coronavirus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears?
Sometimes I am not afraid, and other times I am, and a podcast conversation between Anita Lustrea and Michelle Van Loon really helped me to understand that it’s okay to say, “I am afraid.” But I don’t have to sit there with my fear. They also talked about what we can do with that fear, how we can turn to God. Besides being here on our blog, I’m watching Fr. James Martin’s daily FB live as he reads and discusses daily gospel readings, answering comments and questions, and applies the readings to what’s going on in our world today. He also wrote a wonderful article for the NY Times in which he said that we don’t have to know the “why” this is happening and maybe, that’s the best answer anyway. The real question is, can you trust in a God you don’t understand? That’s enough for me. I also must trust Him to protect me when I go to work at the hospital. I work on a surgical floor with two units, one side is orthopedic and the other is general/trauma surgery. On Monday, we learned that a nurse on the ortho side has tested positive for the coronavirus and three other nurses are awaiting their test results while self-quarantined at home. They are closing the orthopedic side because all elective surgeries are cancelled, so only the general surgery side will be open. That’s usually where I work, but now because we will combine our staff, some of us will need to float to other medical units in the hospital. There are a few patients in the hospital now with the virus and one of the medical floors has been dedicated for those patients with the virus who are not in the ICU. I need to trust Him to protect not just all the healthcare workers, but all of the people who work at places like grocery stores and gas stations, pharmacists and workers in our drugstores.
Father, I do ask for Your protection over our dear Susan. Thank You for her heart and for sustaining her. Thank You for the wisdom she brings.
Susan, I have been praying for you.
Oh Susan, I will be praying for you and all of the medical staff around the country. Trying to be a light in this dark world right now. Stay Safe.
Praying for you Susan. Thank you for your work.
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details.
Jesus and His disciples arrive in Capernaum and stay in someone’s house. Jesus asks His disciples what they were discussing out on the road, but they won’t answer, likely because they’d been arguing about which of them was the greatest. Jesus calls them all together and tells them that wanting to be first means being a servant, which shows He knew without them telling Him just what they were arguing about. He then has a little child come over, takes the child in His arms, and says that anyone who welcomes a child like this on His behalf also welcomes Him, and anyone who welcomes Him also welcomes His Father.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them?
They were letting their egos get in the way, thinking about being big and important, maybe even famous. In contrast, here was a little child who was dependent on the adults who cared for him, and Jesus puts the focus onto this child, of no importance or significance in the world’s eyes.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant?
In my work as a nurse, not considering any task too menial for me to do. To continue to serve the family that I have at home, now my husband and college-age daughter who is home now from school, and to not complain about the stay at home order and the changes in our lifestyle because of the coronavirus. I don’t always go through a day though without complaining, but I’m trying. I am trying to be a support for my daughter as she has a lot going on right now with trying to adjust to learning online at home, being separated from her friends, and some big decisions she’s trying to make.
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself.
Lord, I think you have told me that there are times I need to get off my high horse. I want to deny that I can act proudly but it is true. I can work hard and sacrifice but want others to notice and give me approval. Help me to be trusting like a small child who isn’t concerned with greatness but is content with being small.
8. Read Mark 9:43-49
A. How does Jesus show the gravity of sin?
He equates it to cutting off a body part or gouging an eye. He says it’s better to have one less body part than to enter hell with all intact.
B. How does He show the gravity of hell?
Here’s how the NLT puts it:
“‘where the maggots never die and the fire never goes out.’”
Mark 9:48 NLT
https://www.bible.com/116/mrk.9.48.nlt
yuck!
C. What do you think verse 50 means?
Again, the NLT says we will “…all be tested with fire.” The ESV says “…salted with fire.”
I guess we will be given chances to refrain from sinning and should do our best to not sin?
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
Love the look on Jovie’s face, and Emily watching her. Such wonder and awe. Love the kids singing, their expressions of almost trying to contain or be disciplined with their joy but it bursts out through their voices. And I was touched my Diane’s story last week, I can picture her as a child and that moment His love pierced her heart. I have thought a lot about the nurses too, especially many who we see regularly for Philip’s St Judes visits, they all have young kids at home and yet must work–I know it’s a challenge.
2. Is this time of the Corona Virus, where do you need to trust Him as a child trusts his parent? How is He delivering you out of your fears?
We are completely shut down, all been staying home and inside since last week. Our very family-friendly community is eerily quiet, the first time in 13 years I ever seen no kids outside, no neighbors talking, our parks are closed. It is a stark difference where I live. We’ve cancelled school through to May, most businesses are shut down. But honestly, I have had a steady peace throughout. I was concerned at first about some of the logistics, but He has continued to provide. I’ve loved having my husband working from home, enjoying teaching my kids at home. It has been a gift to us in those ways. There are work challenges for sure, and my plate is extra full, but He’s allowed me to see the good and I’m thankful for that.
Lizzy — love your closing testimony. I thought you would do well in these times, and you are.
Wednesday
9. Read Mark 10:1-12
A. What question do the Pharisees ask and why might this have been trap? (Mark 6:17 may give light.)
They asked, “should a man be allowed to divorce his wife?” I think the Pharisees were trying to get Jesus in trouble with Herod because he imprisoned John for his views on divorce and marriage. They wanted so badly to get Him out of the way because of His views and popularity.
B. How did Jesus answer that both showed respect for Moses but also explained God’s best plan for marriage?
He told them that Moses wrote the commandment because of their hardness of heart. But from the beginning of creation God made male and female. It was His plan that a man should leave his father and mother and the two become one flesh. Therefore. what God has united and joined together, man must not separate.
10. Our own Angela who participates here occasionally is a thoughtful blogger. Read the following and share your comments:
I liked that when her husband does not love her well that she prays for him, but in the meantime let’s the lover of her soul fill that void. When he does love her well she is thankful, for this gives her a glimpse of the greater love Christ has for her.
It’s dangerous when things are going smoothly (spouse loving us well) because we can so easily make our spouses an idol. Its also dangerous when things aren’t going smoothly (spouse not loving well) because we can make our need for approval an idol. She takes both extremes and in each one keeps the focus on Christ…wow!
11. What qualities does a little child have that could bring peace to a troubled marriage?
Unconditional love and total dependence (as a child is upon a parent so should couples be upon God).
You do have such a good husband, as I was blessed to have, and it is good you have the insight you do.
Wednesday: The Purpose of Marriage
9. Read Mark 10:1-12
A. What question do the Pharisees ask and why might this have been a trap? (Mark 6:17 may give light.) – They asked if it was permitted for a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away. Could they have been wanting to see if he answered differently this time?
B. How did Jesus answer that both showed respect for Moses but also explained God’s best plan for marriage? – He told them that Moses allowed it because their hearts were hard. But God created man and woman in the beginning to become like one flesh and because God joined them together, no man should separate the joining.
10. Our own Angela who participates here occasionally is a thoughtful blogger. Read the following and share your comments: – Great blog from Angela. It’s so important for me to remember that my husband is not meant to fulfill the spot only Jesus can fill. He is here more as a companion, to love as well as he can love. And I should be doing the same. I cannot put my husband in the role Jesus came to earth to fill. That would be setting him up for failure from the start. I need to filled up with love from Jesus, so I have enough love to give away and then return again to Jesus to fill the emptiness that giving away my love will create. Great reminders, thank you Angela.
http://refreshmysoulblog.blogspot.com/2014/01/the-ebb-and-flow-of-marriage-and-how-it.html
11. What qualities does a little child have that could bring peace to a troubled marriage? – They love unconditionally, have no worries in the world, have faith in everything and see things and say things with joy in their hearts. They are able to turn a bleak moment into happiness in an instant.
Mark 10:1-12 A. The Pharisees ask Jesus, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him. Yes, they were looking for any wrong answer that would cause him criticism by the authorities.Yes, Mark 6:17 refers to Herod taking his brother’s wife.
B. Jesus’ answered that Moses allowed divorce because of their hardness of heart.
C. Jesus stated that they should be one flesh (God had created them male and female) and what God joined together must not be put asunder.
10. The blog shared some beautiful concepts, that the husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church, with sacrificial love. The wife should be submissive to her husband,but when her husband is not loving well, she prays for him and runs to the cross. It is a beautiful picture; however we are all sinners and do not love in this manner very well. It is an ideal we should aspire to.
What qualities does a little child have that could bring peace to a troubled marriage? Well they are powerless and look to parents for all their needs and give unconditional love and adoration in return. My heart aches for all little children who lose a parent to divorce, or must live in a dysfunctional family. But so many grow up with pain and scars. Childlike qualities include humility, trust, joyful hearts.
Great summary, Shirley: Childlike qualities include humility, trust, joyful hearts.
3. Read Mark 9:33-36
A. What happens here? Note details. They walked to Capernaum. Jesus does not stop their discussion while walking but instead waits till they arrive to ask about it. He does not ask because he does not know, he asks because he wants them to realize and repent. He wants them to think about it. They do not answer the question but keep silent knowing their answer will be incriminating and embarrassing. He gathers them to himself, he lowers himself with them (sitting). Then he gives them a picture – a child coming to his arms. He does not openly rebuke their prideful thoughts nor make them explain themselves or even say, “sorry.” He just shows them his truth and love. He does say whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all … which without the context of the child gives a somewhat different meaning.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them? A child has no status and no way to prove him/herself. Kids mess up, make bad choices, and are self-centered but Christ receives the child wholly and the child receives his love wholly because he is largely unhindered by what he has or has not achieved. He just wants to be loved.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant? In parenting… I am impatient and lazy in many situations…I see Christ’s patience and quiet resolve and it humbly convicts me.
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself. Lord, may I come to you as a child, open armed, unhindered by my wrongs and rights, but just enveloped in your arms. And God, soften my heart to receive others as you do, patient, calm, loving, solid in your love not seeking foundation in others’ unstable approval.
4. How does our concern for status in the Christian community get in the way of Jesus’ mission? It trips us up to be concerned with accomplishment and approval instead of just doing the one thing God gives us – offering our singular voice to the choir. I am reminded of the time my son, 5 years old at the time, was given a part in my husband’s professional band. The director literally pointed at him to play one note 6 individual times in the song. He nailed it but no one compared him to the professional musicians around him including himself. He was just tickled to participate and everyone else was tickled to have him participate. He watched for his cue and did his job with a smile. He was just doing his part, there was no status involved, before, after, or during, he just obeyed his cue.
Love this story of your son and how he did his part, tickled to participate!
Thursday
12. Read Mark 10:13-16
A. What happens in this passage? How do you imagine the disciples felt?
Parents we’re trying to bring their children to Jesus so He could touch and bless them, but the disciples told them not to bother Jesus. Jesus became indignant when He saw this, He said, “allow the children to come to Me; do not forbid them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.” Jesus took each child one by one in His arms, blessed them while placing His hands on them. I think the disciples were probably a little embarrassed by His reprimand, but also shocked that Jesus would even want to bother with them.
B. What lesson does Jesus have for them in verse 15? What do you think He means?
Jesus says, “I tell you the truth, anyone who doesn’t receive the Kingdom of God like a child will never enter it.”
You mentioned above about it being like the first Beatitude…”Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of God. Just as these children are humble and know they’re viewed as insignificant, that is how one is to receive the Kingdom of God. Otherwise they’ll never enter it. We must see our need for Him and become devoid of spiritual arrogance.
13. 2 Corinthians 4:4 says:
The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.
Pray for a few God puts on your heart who have been blinded, who, in their pride, do not see God’s great glory and holiness, and do not realize their desperate need.
This goes right along with my prayer for my sister I had earlier today, God is amazing. I was reading Psalm 104 which speaks of Gods creation and provision and I lifted my sister up to Him. Being a Buddhist she worships the created things and I cried out to God that He would open her eyes to see the CREATOR! To take away her pride and just humble herself before HIM. Her drinking water in Hawaii comes from the mountain springs and in verse 10 of this Psalm it says, “YOU send springs into the valleys; Their waters flow amount the mountains.” She literally survives because of the water HE provides! Oh how I pray that she would see her spiritual need for the water that JESUS offers, the living water, the only water that truly satisfies. In the precious name of Jesus, Amen!
I thank you Dee for your obedience in writing this blog…it has truly blessed me!
4. Read Mark 9:38-41
A. Carefully describe the dialogue between John and Jesus. John tells Jesus that they tried stopping someone that was using Jesus’ name to cast out demons. This is interesting… was this individual doing things contrary to Jesus’ teachings so they didn’t want Jesus to be associated with him? Was this individual just trying to gain fame by doing deeds? Or was this individual truly believing in Jesus and using that power to help others? Were the disciples upset because this individual wasn’t in the group and therefore shouldn’t be doing their work? Jesus tells them to not stop him. Jesus says that those who do work in his name will not be able to speak evil of him. Then he says that whoever is not against him is for him… but I thought he said elsewhere that whoever is not for them is against them…? I’ll have to look it up.
B. How does pride enter into looking down on other true believers? Pride leads us to believe that we can be better than others. Pride lies and says that our foundation is on our accomplishment. Pride leads us to automatically rank those we come in contact with, comparing them to ourselves and others.
5. Read John 17:20-23
A. For whom is Jesus praying here? All the believers that would come through the disciples words.
B. What specifically does He pray in verse 23 and why? He prays that we would be one SO THAT the world may know that God sent a Christ and God loves us as He loves Jesus.
C. Could you pray this for yourself and for your local body? Yes! God, indeed, that you would make us one, intent on your love and ajesus, not just one single church, but the entire community of believers here in our little town that I believe are hungry for the true Gospel and not just a list of rules! God, may it be!!
6. How have you seen God at work in your life recently? I have been thrown into a position at the hospital I work at which involves A LOT of peopling. I am an ICU nurse because I like comprehensively taking care of one (sometimes, and at most, two) patient. So interacting with 50 people a day is draining and they are all asking me to problem solve…. anyway…. I was part of a situation where one individual was being unkind to another and I could see it wearing on her so I went to her office later and told her that no matter what anyone told her or thought of her it did not get rid of the fact that she is valuable. And then I told her I appreciate her. I don’t know if it made a difference but it felt like my Divine cue for the day.
Praying for you, Jill. So good to take time to encourage others. Keep following His prompting. 💕 Psalm 91:
3Surely he will save you
from the fowler’s snare
and from the deadly pestilence.
4He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
So good of you to follow His Spirit and encourage the one being attacked, Jill.
9. Read Mark 10:1-12
A. What question do the Pharisees ask and why might this have been a trap? (Mark 6:17 may give light.)
They ask Him if a man should be able to divorce his wife. I think it might have been a trap because they were trying to see if Jesus agreed with the customary ancient law of the OT, which is what everyone believed because they didn’t have the NT. If he didn’t (they knew He knew the scriptures well because He has demonstrated this to them since she was a child), then they would have “caught” Him.
B. How did Jesus answer that both showed respect for Moses but also explained God’s best plan for marriage?
He said that Moses was basically trying to save them from themselves (!) by allowing divorce to be accepted. He also said that God made it perfect that a man and a woman should cleave together and be one. He said that divorce was not acceptable and if a couple divorces and remarried then they are committing adultery.
Thursday: Becoming Like Children in Humility
In biblical days, children were not esteemed the way they are today. That helped them have humility. I imagine even the child that Jesus took and placed among the arguing disciples in Mark 9:36 was shocked. Now Jesus reiterates the importance of becoming like children.
12. Read Mark 10:13-16
A. What happens in this passage? How do you imagine the disciples felt? – People were bringing children to Jesus so he could bless them and when the disciples saw them doing this, they rebuked them. Jesus told them to stop and let the children come to him. I would hope the disciples felt convicted. Maybe they felt embarrassed that Jesus corrected them in front of people. Maybe hurt, that Jesus didn’t understand they were just trying to protect him for the mass of people coming to him.
B. What lesson does Jesus have for them in verse 15? What do you think He means? – He is telling them that anyone that does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will never enter it. I think because children are so innocent and believe anything you tell them and get excited over things. Their innocence gives them more joy. There is no stress to enter the kingdom like a child does, but as adults we tend to make things complicated and more about our needs and wants instead of what Jesus can give us that is plenty and all we need.
One of the main reasons people reject Jesus is pride; they believe they don’t need Him and can make it through life on their own. But only when we renounce our pride and come to Him with the humility and trust of a child can we be saved.
Don’t let your pride, or anything else, keep you from Christ. Instead, humble yourself before Him, and trust your life completely to Him. Then commit all you are and all you have into His hands, for He alone is “the way and the truth and the life” (John 14:6).
Billy Graham
13. 2 Corinthians 4:4 says:
The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.
Pray for a few God puts on your heart who have been blinded, who, in their pride, do not see God’s great glory and holiness, and do not realize their desperate need. – Lord, I lift up Ann, LeRoy and Joe all three of these people you have put on my mind just now when I asked for names. My heart hurts for them as they are lost in this world. They know of you, but don’t know you. They are stopping all blessings that could come to them, if they would just open their hearts to you. They think because bad has happened in their life that you aren’t there, that you weren’t there and no talking from or anyone is getting through to them. I’ve tried Lord and so has my husband to let them know that they need you, that they can’t live this life on earth without and think that they will be happy. I pray big, bold prayers that someone will get to them and break down the walls around their hearts before it’s too late. I fear for the life they will have if they don’t see the Light. Thank you Lord for protecting them till now, I ask that you continue until they come to you. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen!
Mark 10: 13-16 This passage where Jesus says, “Let the children come to me;do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God,”has always been a favorite passage of mine. I love pictures of Jesus with children! Yes, for of such is the kingdom of heaven! Innocence, trust, joy- children have enthusiasm. The disciples were trying to keep parents from bringing children to Jesus for him to touch them, but Jesus took them in his arms and blessed them. Apparently the disciples felt that the children were in the way and there were more important issues for Jesus’ time.
B. What lesson is Jesus trying to teach? That we all need to come to Jesus with open hearts and complete trust in him for all our needs.
13. II Cor. 4:4 “the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers”
Praying for a friend from childhood who seems to have blinders. She is not warm to discussions of faith, though she was brought up to go to church she seems to have minimal interest. Father God, I am praying for my friend, C. who needs salvation. She is a good friend who is especially kind to others, but also seems to have a pride problem. I do not know her heart, but I am concerned about her soul. May she have her eyes opened and be listening to your word. May she know the joy of your unconditional love and may her thoughts of “religion” be replaced by the truth. For you are the way, the truth and the life. I also pray for my 15 year old granddaughter, for she is seeming to follow the ways of the world. May she also have her eyes opened. For that path is the broad way and leads away from truth.
Father, I pray the scripture of Colossians 4:3-6 that You will open to me a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, to make it clear, and to walk in wisdom, using gracious speech. Father we are in a crisis and I know so many are fearful. May this be a time to turn to your word. I pray in Jesus’ name.
Good prayer, Shirley.
I do believe this is a judgment from God and we are all called to repentance, for He may avert it.
10. Our own Angela who participates here occasionally is a thoughtful blogger. Read the following and comment.
love. It is woven through this blog post of Angela’s and it is a beautiful thing. I especially liked this:
“He left the perfect union of the Trinity, the perfect dance of God the Father, God the Son, and God the Spirit, to pursue His people, His bride. He left that union and put on flesh. He willingly came limiting Himself to be like us to live the perfect sinless life we could never live. To trade places with us by being the perfect sacrifice. This is love. Unselfish, get nothing in return, lay down your life for another love.”
11. What qualities does a little child have that could bring peace to a troubled marriage?
I’m thinking sweetness. I’m thinking the way Grace says to me (often), “Nana, I love you.” So kind and loving. The way Cooper smiles at me in the morning and wants to do nothing more than snuggle. So sweet. My marriage could use a little more of that from both of us.
From Laura:
The way Cooper smiles at me in the morning and wants to do nothing more than snuggle. So sweet. My marriage could use a little more of that from both of us.
12. Read Mark 10:13-16
A. What happens in this passage? How do you imagine the disciples felt?
Parents were bringing their children to Jesus for a blessing. The disciples didn’t want them to bother Jesus. Jesus got upset because He wanted to bless the children. He said that those who accept as children would be the ones who enter heaven. He blessed the children.
B. What lesson does Jesus have for them in verse 15? What do you think He
means?
He says those who receive the kingdom of God as a child will enter heaven. I think it means that we just have faith without questioning, as children who are young tend to do with their parents. They just believe what their parents say because they trust them wholeheartedly.
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14. Read again Mark 9:36-37; Mark 9:42 and Mark 10:13-16. Does anything quicken you?
What quickened me is the vision of Jesus taking the children into His arms. I think of how insignificant I am in this world just as these children were and yet Jesus sweeps me up into His arms. I remember as a little child seeing the picture of Jesus holding the children on His lap…it was always such a comfort knowing that He cared for me as a child and now as an adult.
15. Pray whatever God has shown you about becoming like a child or about not causing a little one to stumble.
Lord, help me to see my need for You, to have an attitude of humility and awe. To feel the comfort of Your arms around me, surrendering all to You. You are a good, good Father.
7. Read Mark 9:42
A. What does Jesus say here? He says that it would be better for a man to sink to the bottom of the sea quickly and without hope of rescue than it would be for a man to cause a little one to sin.
B. What are some of the ways we might cause a child to stumble spiritually? The one that pops into my head is selfish parenting. When I get angry or require obedience for my convenience instead of addressing the heart I teach my kids that self is most important. This convicts me often. There are other ways but the biggest one is to teach kids to cope without Christ, to teach selfishness by example, to require religion rather than Gospel…
C. Every parent is a sinner, but some are better at repenting to their child. Can you share a time a parent did this with you well or that you did this well with a child? I do not remember a specific moment of repentance from either of my parents but I DO remember my mom was humble and loving always…I would guess that she did repent but I cannot remember because it was not notably out of character for her loving ways. I try to repent to my children when I ‘go wrong.’ This sometimes happens after a bad day or sometimes immediately when I realize the error in my attitude. The older they get the more I am aware of the pride and fear of being wrong rise in me against repenting but that actually helps me see the choice for what it is: a choice. To lay down self and realize parenting is about love and discipleship much more than it ever has been about being right.
8. Read Mark 9:43-49
A. How does Jesus show the gravity of sin? Sin is so bad that we should do whatever it takes to get it out of our lives. Even if it means amputation and pain. (I do think this is metaphorical and not literal but it certainly demonstrates how fiercely we should seek to get rid of avenues of sin,)
B. How does He show the gravity of hell? They will be “salted” by fire…preserved by fire… it will last and last and last….and the worm will not die… worm I think is suffering … in life a worm would eventually die it will not in hell.
C. What do you think verse 50 means? Salt is flavor and preservation. Message translates it purpose. I think it is encouragement to not loose the Word or Hope of Christ. To keep our hearts focused on him and not loose our peace with each other (be in conflict). The disciples were arguing about who would be best this was not realizing their true purpose but being distracted and loosing their saltiness it also was not keeping peace.
I think your simple explanation is probably the right one, and certainly puts hell in perspective:
in life a worm would eventually die it will not in hell.
I wanted to share this 23 minute talk from Tony Evans for Gods purpose for this pandemic. It is good and thought provoking.
https://youtu.be/fZYSxs5pS0M
This was awesome Sharon! Thanks for posting…
Thanks so much, Sharon!
Friday: Becoming Like Children in Realizing our Helplessness
14. Read again Mark 9:36-37; Mark 9:42 and Mark 10:13-16. Does anything quicken you? – Jesus held children in his arms, he embraced them. He held them in high regard and rebuked anyone that stopped them from coming to him. He welcomed children with his open arms.
15. Pray whatever God has shown you about becoming like a child or about not causing a little one to stumble. – Lord I need to have my eyes wide open to see with joy just what God has for me. I need to not expect anything but welcome everything you provide with joy and excitement. Help me Lord to not do anything that will make any child question your goodness and love. You are all we can depend on that will never fail us and I don’t to be the one to stop a child for knowing your love. Please open my heart to your leading Lord. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen.
Whoever receives a little child in my name, receives me.Mark 9:37 Yes, this verse quickens me. A little child is very vulnerable because he depends totally on the one who cares for him. This is a great responsibility. God has given this responsibility to each Christian and my prayer is that these little ones will be guided and loved.
Heavenly father, You are a kind and loving Father and you give this command to your followers. I pray for little children to be so valued and loved because in doing this we are fulfilling your mission for us. To nurture and bring them only good things. Forgive us when we are irritable because a child needs repetition and patience. We become self-centered and impatient. thank you for the picture of you holding a child and blessing him and caring for him. True joy is watching the child feel secure and loved. Yes, Father, we accept this and help us to be childlike in our relationship to you. We know that you promise to hear our prayers and meet our needs. Thank you and praise you for your sacrifice for us, for accepting the task of suffering and dying for us. I pray for the unsaved to draw near and to have hearts prepared to receive your love. In the name of Jesus, Amen
Good to highlight our great responsibility to children. In these times, most have more time with their children, so we pray it is used well.
14. Read again Mark 9:36-37; Mark 9:42 and Mark 10:13-16. Does anything quicken you?
It struck me as I read verses 36 & 37 that my husband and I welcomed the grand babies when it was a hard thing to swallow. I am glad I did and didn’t act like I would have years ago…I have learned so much through the years about how God wants me to behave. I am so happy I have changed my ways. Thank You Jesus. Thank You for Dee and Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth, Tim Keller and this who have helped set me on a straighter path.
9:42 strikes me this morning because drowning must be an awful way to die. Ugh… thinking of that puts such pressure to make sure I don’t “steal” the grand kids spirituality. Since I read this earlier this week, I decided we would study the fruits of the Spirit for awhile in our little homeschool we have coloring pages, a book I borrowed, and I’m thinking we may try to act out scenes of each one. This should take us a few weeks to go through all of them to commit to memory. One of my favorite things churches do is VBS in the summer. I always learn SO much from those times together with the children!
In Mark 10, He is very defensive of the children. I guess that would mean He is also defensive toward us too then.
15. Pray whatever God has shown you about becoming like a child or about not causing a little one to stumble.
3. Read Mark 9:33-36 A. What happens here? Note details.
The disciples are arguing about who is the greatest among them. Jesus knows their thoughts and tells them whoever wants to be first, must be last and serve all.
B. What point is Jesus making to the arguing disciples by putting a little child among them?
His Kingdom is not like the world’s—He has turned it upside down. We are called to be humble, teachable, servants. The least will be the greatest in the Kingdom.
C. Where is the Lord calling you to be a servant?
My family. So often my attitude or tone can set the mood in our home, and I am so thankful the Lord has given me such peace, even joy, in this time. There is much more to do with everyone home all day, but I am enjoying it. My job has also increased quite a bit in this time, but I feel thankful for it, and to be able to serve.
D. Pray whatever the Lord is showing you through this passage for yourself.
Humility. One of my favorite books is a little one by Andrew Murray called “Humility”. He says “humility is the very essence of holiness. It is the displacement of self by the enthronement of God. Where God is all, self is nothing….not to be occupied with your sin but to be fully occupied with God brings deliverance from self.”
4. How does our concern for status in the Christian community get in the way of Jesus’ mission?
Even in my desire to be humble, I want others to think I’m humble, so there is my pride! Working for churches for over 20 years, I still struggle with wanting to be seen as helpful, responsible…my pride is always lurking. All I can do is confess it each time I realize, and ask His forgiveness, go back to the Cross, and seek to serve others.
Another quote from the same book I mentioned earlier: “The humble person feels no jealousy or envy. He can praise God when others are preferred and blessed before him. He can hear others praised and himself forgotten, because in God’s presence he has learned to say with Paul, ‘I am nothing'”
4. Read Mark 9:38-41 A. Carefully describe the dialogue between John and Jesus.
John told Jesus that they had tried to stop someone who was to cast out demons in Jesus’ name. Jesus tells him not to stop the man because whoever is not against Him is for Him, and will not lose His reward.
B. How does pride enter into looking down on other true believers?
We might be jealous of the praise they receive, and feel we are not measuring up.
5. Read John 17:20-23 A. For whom is Jesus praying here?
For those who will believe in Him through the message of the Gospel.
B. What specifically does He pray in verse 23 and why?
He prays for complete unity between believers and Him and the Father, so the world would know the Father sent Him and loves the world as He loves Christ.
9. Read Mark 10:1-2
A. What question do the Pharisees ask and why might this have been a trap? They asked whether it is *lawful* for a man to divorce his wife. I suspect this was a sensitive subject and the Pharisees had a specific way to approach in order to remain ‘lawful’ but also give the certain people what they want. They were trying to trip up Christ on nuances that they had decided on.
B. How did Jesus answer that both showed respect for Moses but also explained God’s best plan for marriage? He put Moses decision in context…”because of your hard hearts…” but then quotes God’s perfect plan from Creation in Genesis. With Christ marriages can be redeemed AND women will be treated with value and respect. Tho he does later talk about divorce is a permissible escape for one whose spouse is unfaithful.
10. Our own Angela who participates here occasionally is a thoughtful blogger. Read the following and share your comments. Angela’s articulated response to her husband when he is not loving well sticks with me. To pray for him and trust God to move in his heart and also to let Christ fill the lover-of-my-soul role that my husband was never meant to fill.
A. What qualities does a little child have that could bring peace to a troubled marriage? A young child forgives easily and completely…tho not immediately. A child is less concerned with maintaining a reputation and image but more concerned with the people they love and the relationship with them. Both these serve any relationship on earth well, especially marriage.