For many, summer is our favorite season. “The winter is past, the time of singing has come.” How we want to seize it, and, as the psalmist says, “to love life and see good days.” These are photos from my youngest daughter’s vacation with her husband and children last month in the California Redwoods. God lifted her out of a very dark place to loving life.
Yet we know it is possible to have beautiful weather, breath-taking scenery, family… and yet, be miserable in our hearts. We will all experience sorrow and trouble, yet there are some believers who will have an inextinguishable joy, even in the midst of trouble, and will see many “good days” and “love life.” For the rest of this summer we are going to learn secrets from proverbs, psalms, and the Beatitudes on how to join those believers who are “loving life” and seeing “good days.” When something is important, God drums it throughout His Word. What I am so eager to show you is that there are steps into darkness, with each step taking you into increasing darkness — and there are steps into light, with each step taking you into increasing light.
Recently at our little church, my brother Ron asked, “Why does God hate it so much when we sin?”
His holiness cannot abide sin, but it is His love that hates it for us, for He knows how it quenches His Spirit, and robs us of joy and peace. I am not saying that misery is always caused by sin, but rather, that sin always causes misery.
When Jesus gave His famous Beatitudes, He was not giving new news, but picking up the same word He had spoken through David in the Psalms and through Solomon in Proverbs. In the Beatitudes, Jesus told us how we could be blessed, happy, and loving life and seeing good days. Each Beatitude takes us up a step into increasing light. You gather momentum, and if you get stuck, you have to go back to the first step.
The first step is realizing we are poor in Spirit (realizing our need for God) and mourning our sin. It is humility and a fear of the Lord that takes us up the first step of experiencing blessing and “good days.” It is a step we cannot skip and expect to love life.
We’ve been in Proverbs so far this summer, and we will continue, but now we will join Proverbs with the Beatitudes. I’ve always been fascinated with the list of sins God hates in Proverbs 6:17-19. Solomon writes:
There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him:
- haughty eyes
- a lying tongue,
- hands that shed innocent blood,
- a heart that devises wicked schemes,
- feet that are quick to rush into evil,
- a false witness who pours out lies,
- and a man who stirs up discord among brothers
I wondered: Do these increase in hatefulness to the Lord so that sowing discord is the worst sin? But when I compared it to the list in the Sermon on the Mount, light came. Just as the Beatitudes are steps up into increasing light, this list in Proverbs shows steps down into increasing darkness. When you are haughty (instead of being poor in Spirit) you don’t fear God, and that leads to lying, to bloodshed, to wicked schemes, and discord among brothers. This list warns us about taking steps down into increasing darkness.
The Lord, both through the positive teachings of the Beatitudes and the negative admonitions of this list in Proverbs is trying to help us to have good days and love life.
We will also be sharing, daily, ways we have seen God at work in our life. One of the big ways for me was how the video for my new book, The Jesus Who Surprises, came together. (It will be released July 23rd.) But you can see the videos now at my website. https://deebrestin.com/the-jesus-who-surprises/ God so overwhelmed me through the testimonies of the 20 women in these teaching sessions.
Would you not “love life” and “see good days?” Join us for this summer adventure! If you are new, just follow the easy getting started directions.
https://deebrestin.com/getting-started/
On a personal note, we’ve hit a snag getting the DVD’s for The Jesus Who Surprises on Amazon, so I appreciate prayer for this. The Lord has so been with us in this whole video, that I suspect an enemy attack. Also, if any of you buy the book, I’d so appreciate a review on Amazon as quickly after July 23 as possible. (Thank you!)
Sunday:
- What stands out to you from the above and why?
- How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer?
Monday: Perspective on Proverbs from the Beatitudes
Insight on the Beatitudes will come from men like Spurgeon, Martin Lloyd-Jones, and Colin Smith. Sometimes it is said, and I have said it, that joy is different than happiness. But that is a teaching that is new to the last century and I’m realizing may not be true! Saints of old saw that Scripture indeed teaches that God wants His children to be blessed — and that Greek comes from a word meaning happy. Martin Lloyd Jones wrote:
Happiness is the great question confronting mankind. The whole world is longing for happiness and it is tragic to observe the ways in which people are seeking it. The vast majority, alas, are doing so in a way that is bound to produce misery. Anything which, by evading the difficulties, merely makes people happy for the time being, is ultimately going to add to their misery and problems. That is where the utter deceitfulness of sin comes in; it is always offering happiness, and it always leads to unhappiness and to final misery and wretchedness. The Sermon on the Mount says, however, that if you really want to be happy, here is the way. There are certain general lessons, I suggest, to be drawn from the Beatitudes. First, all Christians are to be like this . Read the Beatitudes, and there you have a description of what every Christian is meant to be. It is not merely the description of some exceptional Christians. Our Lord does not say here that He is going to paint a picture of what certain outstanding characters are going to be and can be in this world. It is His description of every single Christian.
3. What are Martin Lloyd Jones main points from the above?
4. Today, read Matthew 5:1-10 slowly and prayerfully, and then answer the following questions.
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- What do you think it means to be blessed? (See more than one translation and check out the meaning of the Greek word through blueletterbible.com.)
- Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? Comment on this.
- What is the first Beatitude? What do you think it means?
- What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why?
- What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two?
- Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is?
Tuesday: How Do You Get These Qualities?
This, from Martin Lloyd Jones
None of these descriptions refers to what we may call a natural tendency. Each one of them is wholly a disposition which is produced by grace alone and the operation of the Holy Spirit upon us. I cannot emphasize this too strongly. No man naturally conforms to the descriptions here given in the Beatitudes, and we must be very careful to draw a sharp distinction between the spiritual qualities that are here described and material ones which appear to be like them. Let me put it like this. There are some people who appear to be naturally ‘poor in spirit’; that is not what is described here by our Lord. There are people who appear to be naturally ‘meek’; when we deal with that statement I hope to be able to show you that the meekness which Christ talks about is not that which appears to be natural meekness in an ordinary unregenerate person. These are not natural qualities; nobody by birth and by nature is like this.
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (See Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8.
6. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes?
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
8. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
9. Share a time when the fear of the Lord led you to repentance and repentance led to joy.
Wednesday: Momentum
10. Watch the following 3 minute video from Colin Smith and share what you learn.
11. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the fist sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
12. In both Proverbs and Beatitudes, we see, first, the importance of being “poor in Spirit,” in not being “haughty.” What does Psalm 138:6 teach?
13. What does it mean to know the proud from “afar?”
God knows all about the proud but distances himself from them.
Albert Motyer
14. If you want intimacy with the Lord, what is the first step? Confess your sins in true repentance silently or here.
15. How have you seen God at work in your life?
Thursday-Friday: Martin Lloyd Jones
15. Read the following on the Beatitudes from Martyn Lloyd Jones and share your notes and comments.
http://www.cma-ministries.org/Introduction_to_Beatitudes_Lloyd-Jones.htm
16. Has anything in Scripture this week become radioactive to you? If so what?
Saturday:
17. What is your take-a-way and why?
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What stands out to you from the above and why?
I always thought one sin was worse than another (killing vs lying), but then I learned (here) that sin is sin (one is not worse than another). Now You are saying the haughty is the precursor to the others? Do you mean it’s the worst on the list? Or, that it just leads to the others?
I am in in the middle of your book and will complete it ASAP to post a review. I got the book from you though; is there a way to post a review or do I need to buy the book to do that? Or, is there another place to post the review?
How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer?
I believe God is at work this summer because I am struggling so much with a personal issue and I am certain He is behind my pseudo-success at being strong with the problem. I am sad that it has made me more withdrawn and “dark” inside though; trying to beat it is hard work and I don’t feel so joyful all the time. I am looking forward to this series on the light.
Laura, I think you can post a review without buying the book. There might be a place you can check off that says you received it from the publisher to review or something like that. I too am reading. This book is VERY hard to put down.
To answer your questions, Laura:
Are all sins the same in God’s eyes?
Yes and no! Yes in that any sin leads to death. No in that some are more serious than others. For example, Jesus told Pilate that the one who turned him over to him was guilty of the “greater sin.”
Is this list in Proverbs listing sins in order of grievousness?
I used to think so, but now I believe they are showing how one leads to another.
Do you have to buy a book to post a review?
No — but you need to wait for July 23 for Amazon — but not for Christian book.
Christian book is another site?
Feeling similar, Laura. 🙂
Looking forward to new insights on the Beatitudes.
1. What stands out to you from the above and why? I am SO glad to know Dee’s youngest daughter is coming out of her dark time into enjoying life again. Such good news!
I am looking forward to joining Proverbs with the Beatitudes. I never doubt He will illumine new places in my/our heart.
2. How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer? So yesterday I met with another high school band mom at a local coffee shop. She lives in my town. I met her last April -God had us share a hotel room as strangers at a band competition and we connected. She is a believer-we both say that hotel room arrangement was such a move of God. 🙂 We shared and shared yesterday morning over coffee at a quaint coffee shop in town. I told her about my year long desire to start a local bible study with other women here in town. Starting with a few. We are praying about who to invite and what to study but it would be Saturday mornings early in the a.m. at that coffee shop. (It is Christian owned and all profits go to help the needy locally and afar-and God has SO increased business there-amazing coffee. They have had a long standing teen ministry on Thursday nights there. Wonderful family. )
Rebecca…WOW, your Sat morning Bible study sounds like an awesome idea! I’m sure God will draw people there 🙂 & use it for His glory!
Jenny, We will see! Still praying about who to invite-start small maybe and of course what God would have us study. Pray if God leads you too! Thanks so much.
Sunday
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
The pictures of your daughters vacation are beautiful and I especially like the one of the kids running and laughing!
I liked what you said Dee about the Beatitudes. “Each Beatitude takes us up a step into increasing light. You gather momentum, and if you get stuck, you have to go back to the first step.” Several years ago Jim and I taught The Beatitudes in adult Sunday School class and because we live in an area with many lighthouses we likened climbing a lighthouse to the Beatitudes.
I have missed being here and look forward to this study.
2. How have you seen God work in you life so far in the beginning of summer?
This has been a rough summer for me physically, but God has shown me His faithfulness through the testimony of others and reading your book, The Jesus Who Surprises has been such an encouragement. It has also challenged me in my walk. I am thankful for the way God draws me to Him…growth is definitely not painless!
I’m so sorry it has been a rough summer physically — but so glad ot have you back.
Sweet to think of the young teenager I knew teaching the Beatitudes with his dear wife. His father would be so pleased. Or perhaps he was alive then!
Thank you Dee and yes, he was alive and always called to see how each Sunday went.
Sweet. Reminds me of the proverbs about training your children and they give you joy!
Lovely to see you again Sharon…Hope things are improving for your health. Praise the Lord for His faithfulness & encouragement !
Thank you so much Jenny! 🙂
1. What stands out to you and why?
This stood out to me right out of the gate this morning: “The winter is past, the time of SINGING has come.”
For the Lord has been reminding, encouraging, telling me to SING more and to sing with and for others. My intro-vertedness often holds me back. But He has been telling me to sing anyway. And He has been telling me very clearly and unmistakably. So…… when I read these words at the top of this study this morning, the word SING jumped out and put a lump in my throat.
A few years ago, a friend said to me, “When you see the dark clouds coming …….. sing.”
Paul Tripp recently spoke at the Getty Music Worship Conference. He says, “God has hard-wired you to sing- The song that rules your heart will set the agenda for your behavior and relationships.” He referenced Colossians 3:16 Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
He said, “Sing and watch what God will do….. becoming the singing army of the Savior.” Paul Tripp described singing laments, encouragements and much grace and hope in the midst of life’s ups and downs. (No wonder the Psalms were sung!)
Dee, thank you for sharing this story of your daughter coming through a dark time. I wonder what place music and song might have had in her season of moving from darkness to light. After the death of our baby daughter many years ago, I moved into a very dark time. It was scary and disorienting at times. I often cried out to God to not let this dark time go to waste. And in my dark desperation I began to pick up my guitar and set old hymns to new tunes and these became my prayers when I didn’t even know what or how to pray or how to hear our Lord. And so singing literally gave me a way to step out of despair and into hope. Through the loss of my mama and dad (with Alzheimers) it was singing and playing my guitar that gave me a pathway through the confusion and sadness.
P.S. Dee ~ I’ve finished the pre-release copy of your book. Thank you!! Do I need to wait until July 23rd to post my review? Any place to post besides Amazon?
Music does help so, Nila.
You can post on Christianbook now — but must wait for the 23rd for Amazon.Thank you so much.
Oh yes Nila…music is so healing for me too…singing & proclaiming Truth! So glad it has helped u…You go girl! Xxx
Nila, I love your thoughts and testimony here. It reminds me of the old hymn by William Cowper who himself suffered from depression, “Sometimes a Light Surprises A Christian While He Sings.” I tried to copy the words here but it kept messing up. The words are so good and I think you would like them.
“The song that rules your heart will set the agenda for your behavior and relationships.” That gives pause for much thought.
Oh how I love the way you share God’s truth with us!
Susan Wimmer
Sunday: Loved the pics of your precious family Dee…enjoying Life together!
Then this: “Each Beatitude takes us up a step into increasing light. You gather momentum, and if you get stuck, you have to go back to the first step.” I have never thought of these as steps toward light, so looking fwd to discovering more this week. Jesus is the Light of the world so I guess its also taking steps towards Him?
Love that way of looking at it Jenny. Yes!
Looking forward to this study.
So glad to have you — love “Kathy Grateful”
Welcome, Kathy Grateful! You will love being here.
Welcome Kathy!
Greetings, Kathy! Looking forward to getting to know you!
Welcome Kathy!
1. What stood out? “Not saying that misery is always caused by sin, but rather, that sin always causes misery.”, and how you may need to go back to the first step and take it one step at a time. Both of these are encouragements to me to keep going and not be discouraged.
2. God hunt in the summer…the first thing that comes to mind are the things that define summer for me. Long days, hot weather, the colors, evenings outside grilling and eating and having fires. Knowing primarily that God made the seasons and sustains them. The God who holds it all in place can be trusted with my life as well.
3. Martin Lloyd Jones says: “the whole world longs for happiness and the majority seek it in ways that bring misery. The deceitfulness of sin offers happiness but leads to misery and wretchedness. Anything that evades difficulties merely gives short term happiness but in the long run add to problems and misery. But the Beatitudes paint what every Chirstian is meant to have.
4. Blessed means to be fortunate, happy, granted favor.
The beatitudes say make us blessed are the opposite of what the world says to do and be. The world says be healthy, wealthy, and have all our wants met. Like you said, Dee, a good marriage, stable financial status, and health. But God is more interested in our eternity. How are we preparing now for then? Jesus told about Lazerus and the rich man. He said the rich man had everything on earth, but failed to prepare for eternity and ended up with nothing, in hell.
the first beatitude is blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Like you already said, Dee, it’s when we recognize our need and turn to God that we can be blessed. And I think you are right as well to say we often need to go back to this step and count our need for God. It is easy for us to get off track and forget that.
the second beatitude is blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. The verse comes to mind that we are to mourn with those who mourn. To feel not only our own pain, but enter into the pain of others and help them bear it. We try so hard not to feel any negative emotion, but evidently God sees it as necessary in this life.
the third beatitude is blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Maybe God is more willing and interested in giving the earth to those who are quiet and lowly enough to recognize what He would be giving them.
The combined meaning. God can be trusted to give us abundant goodness as we keep our eyes focused on Him through all the difficulties of life.
Good contemplations, Mary!
3. What are Martin Lloyd Jones main points from the above?
A. That every man desires to be happy and unfortunately anything which, by evading the difficulties, merely makes people happy for the time being, ultimately adds to their misery and problems.
B. Sin is deceitful. It promises to lead to happiness but leads to unhappiness, final misery and wretchedness.
C. The Beatitudes from the sermon on the mount show us the way-how to truly be happy.
D. Lesson from Beatitudes: ALL Christians should be like this-we are meant to be like this, not just a few of us.
4. Today, read Matthew 5:1-10 slowly and prayerfully, and then answer the following questions. (So I am TOTALLY blessed this morning. I had no idea that blessed means happy and thought mourning was mourning a death, so.just.wow..so exciting! Oh and I haven’t connected the first three before.)
A. What do you think it means to be blessed? (See more than one translation and check out the meaning of the Greek word through blueletterbible.com.) It means to be happy.
B. Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? No. The focus is on the inward man.
C. What is the first Beatitude? Happy is the poor in spirit. What do you think it means? A believer who is truly humble-in awe of God and realizes he or she is nothing without Christ and is beyond grateful that she is covered in His righteousness-that He would want her so. She knows she did nothing to deserve it or earn it-He did everything to have her. You would find her hard pressed to be judgmental of others who struggle. The poor in spirit is the opposite of being haughty.
D. What is the second Beatitude? Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted. What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why? I cheated because Dee mentioned it in this post but it is a thrill to know what mourning means here! It means to mourn our sin. I think if we are truly His we will. We can’t repent and turn if we don’t mourn first.
E. What is the third Beatitude? Blessed are the meek. Not fighting against God but knowing that whatever He does in our life-even discipline is good. How might this be related to the first two? I think a meek person is in awe of God and sees it is all Him and not her in regard to her righteousness, more easily can mourn and repent and turn of her sin and not fight against God because she knows His goodness and that everything He does is good and for her good. She has experienced His goodness in her inner man-deeply.
F. Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is? I am not sure I am getting to the point but this is what I see: The first three describe having a relationship with Jesus-what it looks like for I think without His spirit inside we can’t be like this and they are all three part of each other as I noted above. So I think we have to be His first. This totally brings me to my knees! SO grateful He drew me to Him in the first place.
One of the things I simply love about you Rebecca is your enthusiasm — and also your honesty. I have seen consolation cards for the death of a loved one that say “Blessed are those who mourn.” 🙂
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
Those pictures of your daughter’s vacation in CA are stunning, and I am also happy to hear that she has moved out of that dark place. When I think of moving out of a dark place, and then see those photos, I think of just how much nature can minister to our souls; I know it does to mine. The Beatitudes are steps up into the light, and the list from Proverbs show a descent down into darkness. I would like to learn more about these.
2. How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer?
This summer has had its ups and downs for me. My job that I love is being eliminated, and so that is a loss, not only of the job, but the weekly working with people that I’ve grown close to. We will all go our separate ways, though I’m sure we’ll keep in touch. But, it makes me sad. There has been a deepening friendship with a former coworker who resigned last summer; when we got together last week, we went a little bit deeper. Right now, there is a deep rift between my daughter and my husband, which I suspect won’t get better anytime soon, because she has shut him out, and he refuses to apologize or make the first move. One day I was really feeling down, and I went to one of my favorite parks and walked. This is where God ministers to me, when I am out in the woods, in nature. I literally feel lifted up when I am there.
One thing I love about you Susan is how you do allow nature to restore your soul. Will pray for the continuation of your friendships from work and for God to break the wall between your husband and daughter, unless He has allowed it for a reason.
3. What are Martin Lloyd Jones main points from the above?
Everyone wants happiness. Some pursue it in ways that eventually lead to misery. Avoiding the difficulties in life, skirting around them in the pursuit of happiness, is a mistake because it only gives temporary happiness. Sin always promises happiness, but results in misery. The Beatitudes are a description of what every Christian is meant to be like and also shows the way to be truly happy.
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3. What are Martin Lloyd Jones main points from the above?
Many people are searching/longing for happiness, but in all the wrong ways and places. They are being deceived by sin which can bring happiness for a time but eventually brings misery. The Sermon On the Mount leads us to true happiness and the Beatitudes is what all Christians are to be like.
4. Today, read Matthew 5:1-10 slowly and prayerfully, and then answer the following questions.
1. What do you think it means to be blessed? (See more than one translation and check out the meaning of the Greek word through blueletterbible.com.).
The Amplified version is quite interesting as it has a meaning for blessed in each verse.
Verse 3 – spiritually prosperous, happy, to be admired.
Verse 4 – forgiven, refreshed by God’s Grace.
Verse 5 – inwardly peaceful, spiritually secure, worthy of respect.
Verse 6 – joyful, nourished by God’s goodness.
Verse 7 – content, sheltered by God’s promises.
Verse 8 – anticipating God’s presence, spiritually mature.
Verse 9 – spiritually calm with life – joy in God‘s favor.
Verse 10 – comforted by inner peace and God‘s love.
Blessedness – a sense of God’s approval. A happiness that comes from pure character (which sees) sin as the fountain head of all misery and holiness as the effectual cure for every woe.
2. Do you see anything in the beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? Comment on this. No
3. What is the first to Beatitude? What do you think it means?
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of God.” Realizing what state we’re in and walking in total dependence upon God.
4. What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why?
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” He’s telling them to mourn their sin, repent, for only then will they find comfort.
5. What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two?
“Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth.” The other word used here for gentle is meekness, which is strength under (God’s) control. If we’re right inwardly before God, we’ll have the self-control to treat others right.
6. Seeing the relationship between the first three Beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is?
Having a right relationship with God, helps us to have a right relationship with others.
So helpful. Last comment reminds me of the greatest commandment and second. To love God with all our heart and to love others.
Great from Amplified, Sharon.
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
I want this: “yet there are some believers who will have an inextinguishable joy, even in the midst of trouble”
“The first step is realizing we are poor in Spirit (realizing our need for God) and mourning our sin. How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer?”
I was reminded too of this from a John Piper devotional: “God does not bless us begrudgingly. There is a kind of eagerness about the beneficence of God. He does not wait for us to come to him. He seeks us out, because it is his pleasure to do us good. God is not waiting for us; he is pursuing us. That, in fact, is the literal translation of Psalm 23:6, “Surely goodness and mercy shall pursue me all the days of my life.”
God just brought to mind a funny memory. On our honeymoon, in Hawaii, I was 22 and even more frugal than I am now. I found out we could go listen to a time share talk and get a free coupon for dinner at a really nice restaurant. So we went. Over and over the lady kept listing off all the benefits and each time she would say “YOU GET THIS!” Just makes me smile to know our God really speaks truth, and tells me that as His child, I “get this”, He longs for me to receive His blessing. Sorry for that ramble! 😉
2. How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer?
I have definitely felt His working in me and His gentle reminders of mercy amidst some storms. Some old wounds, I have felt are more scars now and while there is lasting impact, there is not a daily pain. Some newer wounds are painful, but I know He is here with me. I do know His voice, and I praise Him that I hear it. He has been teaching me more about the brokenness of this life, and that is helping me see the good that is here as His generous mercy. I see Him as working in bringing this study, so timely. I am so eager to delve in!
I smile to think of you going to a Time Share for a free dinner.
3. What are Martin Lloyd Jones main points from the above?
We all long for happiness.
Most of us try to get it the wrong way, producing misery instead.
Sin always offers happiness and always leads to misery.
The Sermon on the Mount gives us the way to be happy through the Beatitudes, and this is for all Christians to follow.
4. Today, read Matthew 5:1-10 slowly and prayerfully, and then answer the following questions.
What do you think it means to be blessed?
I found this interesting: “The Greek word translated blessed in these passages is makarioi which means to be fully satisfied. It refers to those receiving God’s favor, regardless of the circumstances”
Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation?
No. There is no mention of material possessions, health, good relationships or what we normally tend to think of as “blessings”. But what the Beatitudes offer is something deeper. True satisfaction in Christ alone.
What is the first Beatitude? What do you think it means?
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven”
Being poor in spirit means I recognize my depravity, that nothing good lies in me except Christ.
What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why?
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
When I look honestly at my sin, I mourn for how I have grieved God and others.
What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two?
“Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.”
In line with the first 2 Beatitudes, I see my need of Him and humble and submit myself to God’s way.
Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is?
Recognizing we are desperately in need of a Savior.
Love the “true satisfaction” — what every person truly longs for!
Sunday:
1. What stands out to you ?
His holiness cannot abide sin, but it is His love that hates it for us, for He knows how it quenches His Spirit, and robs us of joy and peace.
I recently asked myself why I did not feel the joy in my soul that I should feel as a Christian. I believe there are many reasons and I’m working on fleshing this out.
2. How have you seen God work so far in you life this summer?
God has given me this study and helped me to see sin that needs rooting out of my life. I’m hopeful for restoration and renewal.
Thankful for your vulnerability, Chris. This is what we all need but some refuse to say so.
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (See Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8.) The fear of the Lord. Trusting Him with all of me, submitting to Him in all of my ways, fearing him and shunning evil.
6. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes? Being in awe of the Lord puts Him in His rightful place in my heart realizing I am spiritually bankrupt-I have nothing to offer Him – Yet He has given all of Himself to me I am His-I can trust Him with all of me. 🙂 Mourning my sin means a deep sorrow that I have offended Him and put a rock in the stream of our intimacy which leads to repentance (not bending toward evil) and submitting myself to Him in all of my ways. I looked up the meaning of meekness and it is having the right to do something but not doing it for the benefit of someone else-sooo opposite of this world’s system. A humble and gentle heart toward others which comes from a heart in awe of Jesus. He had the right to do whatever He wanted being the very nature of God but for our sake submitted to death on the cross.
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
To give up my rights for another so they can flourish. To guard my thoughts and submit them to Jesus and to repent when I sin and then oh Joy. To submit to Him moment by moment with the hard for in the middle of it is the sweet. He is making me more like Him-to desire that more than life -Him being my joy, my full satisfaction.
Love your answers to 2, Rebecca. I wish you could have heard brother Ron last night with his pages of writing on how Jesus was unselfish. : )
Oh I would have loved to hear that from sweet Ron!Missing him too, and your dear dear church family!
5. The first steps is receiving the qualities listed in Matt are to fear the Lord and trust in Him. For me that means taking a step back from my relentless pursuit of whatever is on my mind, and think about Him. How would I describe Him to an unbeliever? What is He worth? Things like that set me on a better path.
6. Get the focus off ourselves and onto Him. But like Martin Lloyd Jones says, this is not a natural thing. It is a work of the Spirit, produced by grace alone. Yet there must be something of our participation in it after God’s grace, or why even bother telling us? If it just happens because God wants it to be, then I don’t even need to read my Bible anymore. But Paul says to ‘work out your salvation’, and speaks of ‘striving’ to live a life worthy of the Lord.
7. Today, what would it look like to do this? It feels very foreign to me right now. I used to think I knew. Even to fear Him…is there a balance between that right of His to strike me in whatever way He chooses, and the security of knowing I am His and am always in His care?
8. God hunt this week. Yesterday’s Ann Voscamp’s post spoke to serving unseen. I sent it to my daughters because I think every woman feels unseen in most of her roles. And then I met with my mentee, and thought that I really don’t know what impact I am having on her. Which is not a new thought, but this time instead of asking the question of myself in despair, I was asking it in hope. It made a big difference.
Love that about “unseen.”
Tuesday
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (see Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8).
Fearing the Lord, trusting in Him with all your heart, seeking His will and turn away for evil.
6. How is this similar to the first three beatitudes?
We have to empty ourselves of self and fill ourselves up with Christ. I don’t know if that makes sense but He’s the only One who can forgive our sins. He’s the only One that can bring true happiness that can spill out of us and pour onto others. More of Him and less of me…that is my prayer!
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear him?
I think I’d be a lot less anxious about certain things. More selfless. God’s working on me in this area…again more of Him and less of me!
8. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
God’s working on me getting past “knowledge” and getting to the heart. Putting into action what He’s teaching me.
9. Share a time when the fear the Lord lead you to repentance and repentance lead to joy.
There have been times when living my life the way I though was best took me down roads I wished I’d never gone. It always amazed me that while living this way there was always a voice telling me, “you really shouldn’t be doing this or that.” I will admit I ignored it longer than I should of but when I realized it was the Holy Spirit gently wooing me back, I listened, got on my knees and asked for forgiveness and the weight lifted off my shoulders was wonderful, peaceful and definitely brought joy! Psalm 30:5; “For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for a lifetime; Weeping may last for the night, but a shout of joy comes in the morning.”
Jim asked me this question one time. How do you know you’re His child? I said because when I’m not walking in accordance to His will and choosing my will instead…I’m a miserable person. God disciplines us because He loves us…amazing grace!
So want people to read this from Sharon:
There have been times when living my life the way I though was best took me down roads I wished I’d never gone. It always amazed me that while living this way there was always a voice telling me, “you really shouldn’t be doing this or that.” I will admit I ignored it longer than I should of but when I realized it was the Holy Spirit gently wooing me back, I listened, got on my knees and asked for forgiveness and the weight lifted off my shoulders was wonderful, peaceful and definitely brought joy! Psalm 30:5; “For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for a lifetime; Weeping may last for the night, but a shout of joy comes in the morning.”
Jim asked me this question one time. How do you know you’re His child? I said because when I’m not walking in accordance to His will and choosing my will instead…I’m a miserable person. God disciplines us because He loves us…amazing grace!
Yes Sharon, thank you for sharing this! I can relate to the feeling miserable when I’m walking in my own way, not His.
Sharon, thank you for sharing this powerful testimony of His wooing you, your repentance, and the joy that came
Dee, miss him! Can you get a copy of it? I’d love to see it.
Rebecca — not sure what you are asking. A copy of what?
Dee, I meant to put that comment under your comment about Ron. 🙂
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (See Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8.)
Submitting to the Lord. Trusting Him, being teachable.
6. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes?
Recognizing our need for Him, that we have nothing on our own, our hands are empty. We are humble, submissive, teachable.
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
Taking everything to Him in prayer. It is definitely a moment by moment act, over and over, releasing my clutch and trusting His hands. I have some unknowns ahead that can feel overwhelming, yet as I continually release, I really do have peace. And in His kindness, He reminds me of His presence in other ways, so I know that He hears, He sees, He loves.
8. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
In the last hour I’ve seen Him answer a prayer for my husband with his job, and a sweet one for myself that so lifted my heart. I’m thankful for His grace, He knows I will tend to first start the path of worry—but He alerts me to release it to Him, and I can know He is at work. These last few weeks had been emotionally hard for me, and I had written in my prayer journal, specifically asking Him to show me His face, show me He sees. Yesterday He overflowed me in a completely unexpected and generous way, but so like Him—reminding me of His presence and love.
9. Share a time when the fear of the Lord led you to repentance and repentance led to joy.
It’s still a process, but He brought me to repent of my un-forgiveness towards my family members who have not accepted my son. I do believe my sin of un-forgiveness and its close “cousin” self-righteousness, have been a barrier to me glorifying God and being used of Him more, and to experiencing joy. It is a process, because my sin nature can quickly go back to self pity and justifying myself, but He has been working deep in my heart and I believe He has brought this week’s study and this material, at this specific time to truly free me to bring Him more glory and experience more joy.
So thankful for this, Lizzy — I am being so blessed by looking at the Beatitudes as a way to be happy.
I am seeing these same things in myself.
Loving this look at the beatitudes. Been away this week but trying to catch up.
Sunday:
1. What stands out to you from the above and why?
I love the pictures that you posted of your daughter’s family. The faces of the children were so bright and happy. And the view! “For the beauty of the earth, for the glory of the skies…Lord of all to thee we raise, this our hymn of grateful praise!”
The stairs leading to darkness lends a somber reminder to what could be if we take steps to its path.
Thankful for your videos, Dee. I am about to finish reading your book and it has blessed me beyond measure. I am slowly putting my review together.
2. How have you seen God work in your life so far in the beginning of summer?
I am thankful to God for pacing me as I prepare for school to start. As the first day gets closer, I am more aware of how much I need to depend on Him. I am learning to let go of unrealistic expectations of myself and to let Him lead me. Letting go of some of my commitments has been a painful process as my idol of approval tends to rear its ugly head periodically. Jan Silvious phrase, “you are not going to get to me” has been a marvelous help. I cannot believe the power of these words in my life lately.
Thank you, Bing. And thanks for working on the review. I was told by one author that if you don’t buy from Amazon they don’t post — so you can be a test and let me know. They say they will — so we will see!
I will let you know. And if they don’t, I plan to buy a copy for a friend anyway but will wait to do that to test the system first. Pat, my friend said she plans to post a review as well.
A. What do you think it means to be blessed? (See more than one translation and check out the meaning of the Greek word through blueletterbible.com.)
Blessed means happy, count happy. I found it interesting that another meaning is said of God. Does this mean that we are said of God or reflecting of God when we are truly happy?
Amplified expanded on the meaning that I thought was interesting.
B. Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? Comment on this.
No, because these are all more about self rather than focusing on others and God.
C. What is the first Beatitude? What do you think it means?
Poor in spirit-not prideful, mindful of our lowly estate. What is man that you are mindful of him (Psalm 8)
D. What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why?
Mourn because we need to be mourning of our sinfulness and thus will be forgiven if we confess
E. What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two?
Meek-if we consider ourselves recipient of grace we will be reflecting 1 and 2
F. Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is?
Humility like in Jesus? Philippians 2
Tuesday: how do you get these qualities?
Comment on M.L. Jones next quote.
“Grace alone and the operation of the Holy Spirit upon us.” A person can be outwardly “meek” but not surrendered to Christ inside. “ The Beatitudes are not natural qualities…”
1. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (See Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8.
Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom
Leaning not on your understanding; acknowledging God; not be wise in our own eyes
2. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes?
We are not to trust ourselves but to fear the Lord and have Him first in our lives and He will direct us on how to be happy in Him.
3. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
This means to be continually seeking Him and not to be afraid. It means to be in awe of His character and to acknowledge that without Him, I cannot do anything or have the happiness I am seeking.
TO REMEMBER HIM AT ALL TIMES. Because I forget and revert to the automode of self-reliance or fear of man.
4. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
He continues to reveal Himself to me in a way that I have not experienced before. His character continues to be fleshed out. And I am so humbled that He has been mindful of me.
5. Share a time when the fear of the Lord led you to repentance and repentance led to joy.
I find envy creeping up on me when I see postings of “happy” people soaking in the sun(I have to deal with nasty allergic reactions to bites while working in the garden lol), with their families(I am so far from my Mom), and seem not to have any cares in the world. I know these are not necessarily true and I repent of these things. And then He reminds me of Psalm 103 (speaking truth to my soul) and I start counting my blessings that money cannot buy. And joy floods my soul.
11. When I read this list, I get the picture of me trying to hide my sin nature. On that path, everything you do is another step deeper. It is trying to hide what is growing in me exponentially. You lie about one thing and have to tell more lies to keep the first one hidden. The first step down is being full of pride. That’s the one that says I don’t want to be exposed for what I really am, because I think I’m pretty special. It is a stone going downhill. It makes more stones start falling with it.
12. It says when we rightly see ourselves, God is near. But when we insist on pride, He knows us, but it is from a distance.
13. I believe that distance is really the difference in whether I am standing with my back to God, or my face. When we give up our pretense and turn to Him, acknowledging Him, we are no longer ‘far away’.
14. Humble myself and talk with Him.
15. God at work in my life? Just the very fact that He is mine and I am His. I didn’t come from a believing family, so it wasn’t a heritage for me. It was a surprising mercy. And all the ways He has lead me and is leading me day by day. Lately I’ve been burdened, both for my son whose marriage is faltering. But also by a sense of distance from God. Yet I hear Him whisper to me, and I know He is right there. I think I’m being tested, but what all is happening in the spiritual realm I really don’t know.
3. What are Martin Lloyd Jones main points from the above?
We all want to be happy.
We look for happiness in the wrong places.
When we look for happiness in the wrong places, we tend to sin.
The Sermon on the Mount tells us how to be happy.
Christians are meant to follow the beatitudes.
4.
1. To be blessed to me means to be “one” with God. The BLB says it means to be happy.
2. Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? Comment on this.
I do not see anything about having good health, a good marriage, or stable finances. God says we should not worry about those things (John 14:1)
3. What is the first Beatitude? What do you think it means?
Blessed are the poor in spirit. I think it means those of us who question our own faithfulness? Always reflecting on how we could be better at being more Christ-like?
4. What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why?
It’s saying blessed are those who mourn. Not really sure here but maybe it means those who repent for their sins? The Message says you are blessed when you have lost the most dear thing. Then you will run to God and need Him.
5. What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two?
Blessed are the humble for they will inherit the earth. I guess if you are humble then you will look inward to see how you can be better (#1), and you will also realize you can’t “do” life on your own, you need God (#2). If #2 means to repent of your sins, that also means you would need to have a humble attitude to recognize the need for forgiveness.
6. Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is?
I think it means that we need God to be happy.
Love this: We need God to be happy.
10. Watch the following 3 minute video from Colin Smith and share what you learn.
Many who profess to be Christians get stuck, and settle for the little blessings that they have, but we are made for more, and our hearts long to live under God’s full blessing.
A happy marriage, gifted children, good health, fulfilling work, financial stability are all rich blessings but none of these gifts is included in the Lord’s description of a blessed life. Jesus speaks of the blessing of God in the Beatitudes, hidden in places we do not expect. Jesus describes a person who is poor in spirit, mourns over sin, and meekly submits to God’s will, longing to grow in righteousness.
The Beatitudes do not tell one how to become a Christian, as if salvation comes by works, rather they show what a true Christian looks like. The smile of God’s favor is ours when we trust in Christ as our Savior. Being in Christ grants us a new relationship before God, cleansing us from sin, reconciling us to the Father. We are given an inheritance as His child, and given His Holy Spirit within us.
11. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the fist sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
When our eyes are haughty, proud, we do not see ourselves correctly. We do not see our sin and our need for God, instead we have put ourselves on the throne. In order to try to prove our self worth, we lie—to ourselves, and others. From our eyes, to our tongue, next our minds…justifying our actions and devising evil.
It reminds me of the progression James speaks of: “but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters.” (James 1:16-19)
12. In both Proverbs and Beatitudes, we see, first, the importance of being “poor in Spirit,” in not being “haughty.” What does Psalm 138:6 teach?
That although the Lord is exalted above all, He looks kindly on those who are lowly, “but the haughty he knows from afar”.
13. What does it mean to know the proud from “afar?”
They are distant from Him, not under His wing. In meditating on this thought, I decided to look up a few verses about when the Lord draws NEAR…it really moved my heart to see this contrast.
Psalm 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.
Psalm 145:18 The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth.
Leviticus 10:3 Then Moses said to Aaron, “This is what the Lord has said: ‘Among those who are near me I will be sanctified, and before all the people I will be glorified.’”
And my favorite passage, Luke 24:15 While they were talking and discussing together, Jesus himself drew near and went with them.
Love how you saw the drew near in that Emmaus passage!
Your answer to #11: When our eyes are haughty, proud, we do not see ourselves correctly. We do not see our sin and our need for God, instead we have put ourselves on the throne. In order to try to prove our self worth, we lie—to ourselves, and others. From our eyes, to our tongue, next our minds…justifying our actions and devising evil.
This is so relevant to my situation. The enemy is so subtle in the way sin is presented, like Eve in the garden, being enticed so easily-yet there is that moment with the red flag where I question the sin and sadly the moment passes and soon the justification begins. Oh, how thankful I am for the freedom of the cross!
4. Today, read Matthew 5:1-10 slowly and prayerfully, and then answer the following questions.
1. What do you think it means to be blessed? I think it means to be happy.
2. Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? No, I do not see any of those things being promised. What I see being promised are things only God can deliver and give: a share in His kingdom, comfort, His presence, being a part of His family.
3. What is the first Beatitude? What do you think it means? The first one says that if you are poor in spirit, you will get the kingdom of heaven. It’s kind of a play on words – thinking of material poverty, receiving a kingdom would be the opposite. I believe that being poor in spirit means that you understand you don’t come to God with an offer of who you are or what you have, yet you receive a great gift.
4. What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why? The second one talks about the one who mourns will be comforted. Perhaps this means the mourning we have over death of loved ones, loss, a sense of our own unworthiness, our sin, and all that is wrong in this world.
5. What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two? The third one talks about the meek inheriting the earth. When I think of a meek person, this is one who doesn’t grab at or fight for something. Related to the first Beatitude, the kingdom of heaven isn’t something we have to fight for or try to step on other people to get; it is an inheritance. Perhaps some mourn over their earthly lives, all of the misfortune and suffering that comes to them, yet God promises an inheritance.
6. Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is? I’m not sure I get all of this, but I see the words “poor, mourn, and meek”, and I think of the human condition. We all are bankrupt, though we try to fill our accounts with worldly things, and God may indeed bless us with family, friends, and good health, and wealth. But still, those things don’t last and can’t fill the empty parts of us. Then I see the opposite words, “kingdom, comforted, inherit”. Maybe Jesus is just telling us simply to trust in the Father to give us what we really need, enduring, lasting things that we cannot lose? We have to believe and trust that He will.
Jesus is just telling us simply to trust in the Father to give us what we really need, enduring, lasting things that we cannot lose? We have to believe and trust that He will.
AMEN!!
Simply trust. That means NOT trusting in the idols we set up for ourselves. Turning to God first, not after we’ve tried all other options. Things we really need. Lasting things we cannot lose. These thoughts are so rich.
So good…”not trusting in the idols we set up for ourselves.
1. Watch the following 3-minute video from Colin Smith and share what you learn.
The Beatitudes embodies the true Christian. They are not qualifications to be a Christian or salvation will be by works. When we are united in Christ, He empowers us to have these characteristics BE-Attitudes.
2. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the first sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
Not sure really how one sin leads to another but I will take a stab at it. Lord illumine my heart. Haughty is being prideful so I do not want to be seen as any less so I would lie and do things at the expense of the other person (shed blood). I would need to plan (wicked schemes) to cover up my deeds since I don’t want to lose my pride. This, therefore, becomes a habit and a propensity to rush into the auto mode of evil and lying. And since no man is an island, what I do affects the community and can cause conflict within.
This also shows that my sin has consequences not only for me but for those around me.
I think that’s good! I think the essence of pride is solving problems my way instead of God’s way — and that is the root of all sin.
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (See Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8.
The first step is to be humble and willing to learn. We need to trust Him and acknowledge Him in everything. We need to turn away from evil.
6. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes?
This repeats the bit about being humble and having humility.
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
Well, I suppose I wouldn’t always know what I am doing as I wait for the Lord (which happens often for me). He takes SO long sometimes, and sometimes He actually doesn’t answer me at all which is frustrating. Fearing Him means I will stay straight on a good path.
8. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
He has given me patience with watching little children that I never thought I could have.
9. Share a time when the fear of the Lord led you to repentance and repentance led to joy.
Well, I am actually going through a personal struggle right now. He has spoken to me and I am sorry for my actions. Because I have recognized that my actions have been wrong and have asked the Lord to help me, I am a happier person.
Wednesday
10. Watch the following three minute video from Colin Smith and share what you learn.
Jesus describes a person who is poor in spirit, who mourns over their sins and meekly submits to the will of God.
Beatitudes don’t tell you how to become a Christian. They tell you what a true Christian looks like. The smile of God’s favor (love this) is yours, when through the bond of faith, Jesus Christ becomes yours and you become His. He breathes His Holy Spirit into you, filling you with the power and presence of His own life.
11. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the first sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
“A proud look (the attitude that makes one overestimate oneself and discount others)…” Amplified
I can see how having this attitude, a proud look/haughty eyes, could lead to the rest, because all you care about is self. I’m not sure if you mean there is a progression, as I would think “a heart that devises wicked plans” would come before “hands that shed innocent blood.” And maybe looking at the action as worse, than what’s in the heart, isn’t right??
12. In both Proverbs and Beatitudes, we see, first, the importance of being “poor in spirit, in not being haughty.” What does Psalm 138:6 teach?
The Lord regards the lowly (invites them into His fellowship).
The proud and haughty He knows from a distance.
13. What does it mean to know the proud from afar?
I think from what the Amplified said about how He regards the lowly…inviting them into fellowship, knowing from a distance would be not inviting them into His fellowship.
“A glance from afar reveals to Him their emptiness and offensiveness. He has no fellowship with them, but views them from a distance; He is not deceived but knows the truth about them; despite their blustering; He has no respect unto them, but utterly abhors them.” ~Spurgeon
14. If you want intimacy with the Lord what is the first step? Confess your sins in true repentance silently or here. Humility. Being “poor in spirit.”
15. How have you seen God at work in your life?
He’s tenderizing my heart to things I’ve become hardened to.
Good quote from Spurgeon. Do you have the Spurgeon Bible?
No, I don’t have the Spurgeon Bible but I downloaded the Blue Letter Bible app several years ago. It’s been so useful in studying the Word and would highly recommend it.
Thanks!
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8)
Fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; trusting in Him and not ourselves; acknowledging Him in all that we do, and not being wise in our own eyes.
6. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes?
Both passages speak about trusting in God to give to us what we cannot give or obtain for ourselves, and both describe a life that is “in sync” with God.
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
To fear Him means for me, to take seriously my sin, because He takes it seriously. It’s not a small matter to Him, yet I tend to ignore or rationalize my sinful attitudes and thoughts. What would it look like to trust in the Lord, and not myself? This has alway been somewhat unclear to me. Years ago, our pastor gave a sermon about God’s will, and said that many people agonize over whether it is God’s will to take this job or that one, or whether to move to Georgia or not, or whether to buy this dress or not. But then he pointed to several passages in the Bible that talk about what is God’s will. He said something like, “I don’t think God cares whether you move to GA or not, but are you in His will according to these passages? (Ex: it is His will to give thanks in everything)” So now I am between a rock and a hard place. My current job is ending on August 2, and I must find a new job. Yesterday, I had an interview for a staff nurse position on one of the patient units at the hospital where I now work as a home care coordinator. After the interview, I was asked if I had some time to just go around with one of the nurses and observe, which I did for about two hours. It’s been four years since I’ve been a staff nurse, and a lot has changed, including all of the charting on the computer. And, it’s a very busy unit. I left feeling very overwhelmed and having thoughts like “I can’t do this anymore”. But on the other hand, I reminded myself that I used to work at a time when we did paper charting and transitioned to everything on the computer, and I learned how. So am I supposed to trust that God is going to help me in some way to readjust to this kind of nursing? But I can’t just sit there and “rely” on Him….I need to do the hard work of learning new things and re-learning old things. I also can’t sit around and wait for Him to drop a new job in my lap. I suppose my idol of approval is going to take a hit when I feel utterly stupid, even though I’ve been a nurse for over 30 years; these young nurses are sharp and up-do-date.
8. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
Through unusual timing….On Tuesday, my two coworkers and I, plus another nurse who works as a coordinator at another of our hospitals, were to attend a meeting to update us on our jobs. Beth, who was working with me on Tuesday, and Debbie, who was driving in from home, all thought that the meeting was at our main home care office, as all of our meetings have been there in the past. Beth and I had to leave work early at 3 to get to the meeting at 3:30. As I was coming down the aisle in the parking lot, I passed another car, and it was Marlene, the nurse from the other hospital. We both stopped and rolled down our windows. I said what are you doing here? She wondered where I was going! The meeting was, in fact, right there at the hospital in HR! Beth was parked in a different lot, so I quickly called her and then called Debbie, and told them about the meeting location. If not for seeing Marlene, the three of us would have ended up in the wrong place, and missed our meeting, or been very late. As it was, the meeting was giving us our two week notice and discussing severance for those it applies to.
9. Share a time when the fear of the Lord led you to repentance and repentance led to joy.
Well, I struggle with this one too, because often, I will see my sin and ask God to forgive me, yet I have a hard time not continuing to beat myself up for it. What I feel most often is the sense that a particular sin is causing me to feel distant from God, and it makes me miss Him and want things to be okay between us.
Susan, please know that I’m praying for you and your job situation…that He would give you wisdom and clarity. Oh! How He loves you!!
Susan: May the Lord provide a new job that will bring you joy & where He can shine thro you! I know what u mean about young sharp nurses & how things have changed! We oldies still have a lot to give though, especially our experience 🙂
Love both your processing on the job opportunity and your God Hunt!
Susan, I posted a comment to your job situation that disappeared. In any case, please know that while it can take some time to become fluid in the new role, and you won’t feel like the expert you are now, it can be done. Will be praying for you…
Susan, dear sister, you are a wonderful person and nurse. Praying for the Lord to give you clarity and courage as you step into a new role. I do understand about being older compared to young nurses nowadays. They seem to know so much, much more! Have you ever taught about teaching? You expressed yourself so well and have so much insight-something young nurses need to be mentored in.
I will pray for the job that fits your need. Love you Susan!
16. Martin Lloyd Jones on the beatitudes.
a. All Christians are to look like the beatitudes, not just the elite or special ones.
b. All Christians are meant to all of these characteristics, and all at the same time. Meaning that they are so intertwined as to need to be shown together.
C. None of them are a natural tendency. If someone appears to have them, as a non Christian, it is just that their temperament falls closer to those lines.
d. There is an essential, utter difference between believers and unbelievers. It is a basic and fundamental difference. The inside goal is different, as are their routes of moving toward those goals. What they admire is different. How they act is different. Though here, the non Christian is more consistent. He says he is living for himself and does so.
The christian sees the world as the entry into something vast, eternal and glorious. Believers should be consistently different, because how they see their own reality is different.
e. They belong to two entirely different realms. The first and last beatitude have the same reward, the kingdom of heaven. This is where we belong.
“This is where we belong.” 🙂
Mon:
Main points are: . The whole world is longing for happiness and it is tragic to observe the ways in which people are seeking it; true happiness comes from following God & His ways. Sin is deceitful. The Beatitudes show us how every Christian should live.
What do you think it means to be blessed? (See more than one translation and check out the meaning of the Greek word through blueletterbible.com.) Blessed means Happy, consecrated.
Do you see anything in the Beatitudes about having health, a good marriage, a stable financial situation? Comment on this. No , nothing obvious. I’m guessing that if we live the way Jesus is telling us to, then our relationships would be healthy? No prosperity gospel tho.
What is the first Beatitude? What do you think it means? To be Poor in spirit is to know how much I need the Lord, to know I am spiritually poor. Then mine is the Kingdom of Heaven because I run to Jesus.
What is the second Beatitude? What do you think Jesus is telling them to mourn and why? To mourn our sin & depravation without Him. Only then can He truly comfort & heal us.
What is the third Beatitude, and how might this be related to the first two? Happy are the humble; they will receive what God has promised. We need humility & a teachable spirit in order for God to bless us. The 1st 2 Beatitudes also require humility & recognizing my need for God.
Seeing the relationship between the first three beatitudes gives you a clue to their meaning. What do you think it is?If I humble myself under God’s mighty hand & call out for Him, He will redeem, comfort & bless me & I will be one of His own children.
The gospel according to the Beatitudes!
If I humble myself under God’s mighty hand & call out for Him, He will redeem, comfort & bless me & I will be one of His own children.
5. What does the book of Proverbs say is the first step in receiving these qualities? (See Proverbs 1:7 and 3:5-8.
To have “fear of the Lord”, to Trust in Him with all my heart, & obey Him.
6. How is this similar to the first three Beatitudes?
Seeing my need to rely on the Lord, & coming to Him humbly in all areas of my life.
7. What would it look like in your life today to trust the Lord and not yourself? To fear Him?
I would be less anxious about the unknowns & the outcomes; I would have more peace in the depths of my soul, no matter what the circumstances. I would believe & stand on His promises to provide for me & to go before me.
8. How have you seen God at work in your life this week?
So many kind, loving friends checking up on me & reaching out. Also got to pray with 2 of my patients who are believers, & they were really encouraged…& so was I! 🙂
9. Share a time when the fear of the Lord led you to repentance and repentance led to joy.
When I had a bad attitude about work & a certain difficult patient I had to see. I surrendered it all to the Lord & He stretched me & gave me added confidence & joy . That was one of the patients I got to pray for & his discouragement & resistance melted away! Joy!
11. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the fist sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
Being prideful & lying to cover up sin, could lead to multiplied lies, evil plans, hurting others, focus on self instaead of God & what is true & right.
12. In both Proverbs and Beatitudes, we see, first, the importance of being “poor in Spirit,” in not being “haughty.” What does Psalm 138:6 teach?
Even tho God is so High above us, He stoops down & listens to the lowly & humble…not the proud.
13. What does it mean to know the proud from “afar?”
To distance Oneself from the proud; God is not responsive to a proud heart.
God knows all about the proud but distances himself from them.
Albert Motyer
14. If you want intimacy with the Lord, what is the first step? Confess your sins in true repentance silently or here.
Humbling myself before the Lord, acknowledging how High above me He is, & confessing any sin He brings to mind, bowing before Him .
10. Colin Smith describes a life many, including myself, don’t understand; one where the things of this world are minimal and the important characteristics God wants us to have are prominent to us. Because they are first and foremost to us, we are joyful people.
11. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the fist sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
I suppose? By being arrogant you would tend to put all your faith in your ways instead of God’s ways. By doing so, you would not have a problem lying (selfish gain), killing (to control a situation), an evil heart (not concerned with others), gossiping (to show bad in others and make yourself look good), lying about others (again to profit for yourself), and someone who likes to “rile up” those who struggle seeing eye to eye anyway (control).
12. In both Proverbs and Beatitudes, we see, first, the importance of being “poor in Spirit,” in not being “haughty.” What does Psalm 138:6 teach?
This Psalm says the Lord recognizes the humble, but not the proud.
13. What does it mean to know the proud from “afar?”
At a distance.
God knows all about the proud but distances himself from them.
Albert Motyer
14. If you want intimacy with the Lord, what is the first step? Confess your sins in true repentance silently or here.
We need to Humble ourselves before Him.
15. How have you seen God at work in your life?
A couple of things in the past few days…..first, I told my pastor I would help with dancing for a kids camp we are doing this Saturday, but I really wasn’t sure what he wanted and I didn’t really have time to lesson plan for it. I steps a woman with whom I have danced with several years ago who said she would love to help and would choreograph a piece for us to teach the k-6 kids we have signed up for the dance session.
The second thing is that today, after many hours of filling out forms to see if we could get some child care assistance form the state, we were told no, that we make too much money. We were disappointed since preschool/day care is very expensive. We weren’t sure what we would do. Later we received a call that there was a mistake and we will be allowed to receive funding! We just need to get a few documents together and we will be all set! Thank You Lord!
Laura–what a huge praise to get the assistance for child care! For the state to call back with a mistake in your favor–that is completely a blessing to you from the Lord!
I know right?!
Wow Laura! That was totally God! He is providing for u & u are growing & being such a blessing to others! Xx. 🙂
You nailed it, Laura:
By being arrogant you would tend to put all your faith in your ways instead of God’s ways.
And yes, huge God hunt!
Laura,
Wow! God showed up in a BIG way! Thank you, Lord!
16. More from Martin Lloyd Jones. What is the kingdom of heaven?
a. It is spiritual, not political. His rule when followed, is the kingdom here, now, already.
b. It is in His people, and therefore can come near people. It is in all believers.
c. It is coming, in the future, spiritually, physically, and politically.
Summary. How different are we? Do we belong to the kingdom? Do we want the characteristics of the beatitudes? What is my reaction to the beatitudes? Examine yourself.
comments… It is consistent with scripture to examine ourselves. Ps 4, on our beds. 1 Cor 11 prior to communion. Lam 3 let us examine ourselves. 2 Cor 13 are you a believer? Ps 139 asks God to examine me. I need both, because it is so easy to slide away.
Thursday-Friday
15. Read the following on the Beatitudes from Martyn Lloyd Jones and share your notes and comments.
Beatitudes , the delineation of the Christian man in his essential features and characteristics. We are to be interested in character before we consider conduct.
I. All Christians are to be like this. There is no difference between a preacher and the congregation – no distinction in the Bible other than offices, which the Beatitudes is not about. They are a description of character!
II. All Christians are meant to manifest all of these characteristics. They are a necessity. Meant to be manifested at the same time. It is right and true to say that in some Christians some will be more manifest than others as we’re not fully perfect. This is not a justification, just recognition. The Beatitudes are a complete whole and can’t be divided.
III. None of these descriptions refers to what we call a natural tendency. They are produced by grace and the operation of the Holy Spirit upon us. Not a description of natural temper.
IV. These descriptions suggest the essential, utter differences between the Christian and the non-Christian. When the church is absolutely different from the world, she invariably attracts it. This must be true of us as individuals.
They are different …
a. In what they admire. The world admires self-confidence, self-expression and mastering of life, the Christian believes in being ‘poor in spirit’.
b. In what they seek. Righteousness vs wealth, status etc.
c. In what they do. If they admire and seek different things, they will clearly do different things.
d. Their belief as to what they do. A non-Christian is very confident as to his own capacity and is prepared to do anything. The Christian is truly aware of his own limitations.
V. The Christian and the non- Christian belong to entirely different realms. The rewards of the first and last Beatitudes are both ‘the kingdom of heaven’. His whole kingdom is primarily a spiritual one. Kingdom means Christ’s rule or the sphere and realm which He is reigning.
It’s considered three ways…
a. Wherever He was present and exercising authority while in the flesh.
b. It’s presence at this moment in all who are believers.
c. There is a sense in which it is yet to come. It will come when the rule and reign of Christ will be established over the whole world, even in a physical and material sense.
Vital questions which we should therefore ask ourselves…
Do we belong to this kingdom?
Is He our King and our Lord?
Are we manifesting these qualities in our daily lives?
Is it our ambition to do so?
Do we see that this is what we are meant to be?
Are we truly blessed?
Are we happy?
Have you been filled?
Have we got peace?
What do we find ourselves to be?
Let every man examine himself!
Penetrating questions!
14. If you want intimacy with the Lord, what is the first step? Confess your sins in true repentance silently or here.
To come before Him anytime and to remember Him. I repent of my tendencies to start my day without Him and to seek self’s ways rather than going to Him for guidance.
15. How have you seen God at work in your life?
God has been helping me to be OK when I make a mistake-“you are not going to get to me”. He has helped me quench my idol of approval from people of authority in my life. He allows me to see the manipulations of the enemy.
I want to “save” people and often think I need to do something to “fix” them. God reminds me through His Word that He alone can bring change in a person’s heart.
11. Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Can you see how the first sin might lead one to commit the second and so on? If so, share.
I am not sure if this is a progressive list because one of the first three sins is murder (shedding innocent blood), and the last sin listed is stirring up dissension, which is not good, but certainly not as bad as killing someone. However, the very first sin listed is pride (haughty eyes), and here, it seems that it is completely unbridled and unchecked. I can feel prideful and be guilty of the sin of pride, but I recognize it most of the time. This here seems to be a kind of pride that says there is no one bigger than me, no one I am accountable to, and so lying ensues, then killing, and a heart that plans wicked schemes. All attempts to control, to play God, to treat others as if they are your puppets whom you manipulate to your own ends.
12. In both Proverbs and Beatitudes, we see, first, the importance of being “poor in Spirit”, in not being “haughty”. What does Psalm 138:6 teach?
God “knows” everyone, but is says that He “looks upon the lowly”, which gives the idea that He is concerned and responsive to them. The proud, He “knows from afar”, giving the idea that He keeps His distance from them.
13. What does it mean to know the proud from “afar”?
The proud to not have intimacy with the Lord, because their pride stands between them and God.
14. If you want intimacy with the Lord, what is the first step? Confess your sins in true repentance silently or here.
The first step in intimacy with God is coming to Him with humbleness, admitting your need for Him, and that you are “poor” and have nothing to offer.
15. How have you seen God at work in your life?
Through the support and friendship of others, through quiet moments like yesterday, sitting on our shaded front porch when it was extremely hot (we are under a heat warning in Ohio), my daughter and I….I just love being with her. She has been such a gift in my life and in our family. I am watching her grow, mature, and blossom. I drove her to Erie, PA on Thursday for her interview at Lake Erie College of Osteopathic Medicine. She is trying to gain admittance as part of their early acceptance program, in which, if she gets in, she would have a seat waiting for her when she graduates from college in four years, as long as she maintains their standards for her grades and requirements. I saw her handle herself well. She is a strong young woman.
10. Watch the following 3 minute video from Colin Smith and share what you learn.
Beatitudes tells what a true Christian should look like, not how to become a Christian –what a person should do to earn favor with God. A smile of God’s favor is yours when through the bond of faith Jesus Christ becomes yours and you become His bringing you into a right relationship with God.
A true Christian should be Poor in spirit, mourn over sins, meekly submit to God’s will, and longs to grow in righteousness.
I do have a story for #9..but always run out of time to submit it. Perhaps God is saying not now. 🙂 So I will wait.
Did you all see Liz and Laura met up! 🙂 Pictures are up on our Bible Study FB page. I love that!
15. Read the following on the Beatitudes from Martyn Lloyd Jones and share your notes and comments.
http://www.cma-ministries.org/Introduction_to_Beatitudes_Lloyd-Jones.htm
These are all verbatim from the article. It was so good and I did not want to mess it up!
That is where the utter deceitfulness of sin comes in; it is always offering happiness, and it always leads to unhappiness and to final misery and wretchedness.
We are to be interested primarily in character before we consider conduct.
First, all Christians are to be like this
But these Beatitudes are not a description of offices; they are a description of the character of a Christian. And from the standpoint of character, and of what we are meant to be, there is no difference between one Christian and another.
This is not merely a description of the Hudson Taylors or the George Mullers or the Whitefields or Wesleys of this world; it is a description of every Christian. We are all of us meant to conform to its pattern and to rise to its standard.
all Christians are meant to manifest all of these characteristics
The Beatitudes are a complete whole and you cannot divide them;
None of these descriptions refers to what we may call a natural tendency.
In other words, it will be our business to show what we have here in each individual case[Beatitude] is not a description of a natural temper, it is rather a disposition that is produced by grace.
And not only are we meant to be like this; we can be like this. That is the central glory of the gospel. It can take the proudest man by nature and make him a man who is poor in spirit.
They cut right across all natural states and natural dispositions.
The glory of the gospel is that when the Church is absolutely different from the world, she invariably attracts it. It is then that the world is made to listen to her message, though it may hate it at first. That is how revival comes
Another essential difference between men is in their belief as to what they can do. The man of the world is very confident as to his own capacity and is prepared to do anything. The Christian is a man, and the only man in the world, who is truly aware of his own limitations.
The Christian and the non-Christian belong to two entirely different realms.
16. Has anything in Scripture this week become radioactive to you? If so what?
Blessed are the poor in Spirit for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven. Pride (the middle letter is “I”!) does not have a place in God’s kingdom. I realized, too that being poor in spirit means being meek, mourning over my sin, seeking righteousness, merciful, peacemaker, etc.
Saturday:
17. What is your take-a-way and why?
The Beatitudes are what should describe a Christian. This is very enlightening to me and also helpful. George Mueller said that the first duty of a Christian is to have my soul happy in the Lord. Now, I have the answer to how to be that!
Love this from Bing:
The Beatitudes are what should describe a Christian. This is very enlightening to me and also helpful. George Mueller said that the first duty of a Christian is to have my soul happy in the Lord. Now, I have the answer to how to be that!
15. I was not able to finish this weeks’ lesson until now. A few things stand out with respect to the article:
We all want it be happy and are searching for things to make us happy.
Everyone who proclaims to be a Christian will have the Beatitudes within them, not just the pastors, lay leaders, or people who are canonized by the church.
We live in this world but are not of the world we live in.
The Beatitudes are not characteristics we are born with, rather attributes we grow into becoming.
There are those who demonstrate the Beatitudes, who are not Christians. These are physical temperaments they are born with and have nothing to do with a spiritual nature. We become like Jesus through the Holy Spirit as we carry on our lives. (Not sure I really understand this one though)…