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Christian Behavior (Beginning Book 3 of Mere Christianity)

Congratulations to all who have made it this far!

Now, in July, we will cover Book 3 of Mere Christianity:

CHRISTIAN BEHAVIOR

Lewis begins with some foundational principles,

showing how the following world’s standard of morality:

is radically different than Christianity’s standard of behavior.

The truth is, even if we are in the privacy of our own bedroom,

what we do does affect others, for as John Donne put it:

Lewis says: “Moral rules are instructions for running a machine.”

When we break the moral rule, even in the privacy of our own home,

whether it is too much food, too much television, or too much ruminating over wrongs done to us, we hurt our machine, which is part of the big machine

of society. Or, as Jesus puts it, “a little yeast can ruin the whole dough.”

Lewis also dismantles the world’s view of God, which is often that God is a Cosmic Killjoy.

Instead, we find, as John Piper put it:

In true Lewis’ style, he is helping us to think,

to logically unravel the lies the world embraces,

so that the truth can set us free.

Since it’s a holiday week with the 4th of July, we’ll just do 2 short chapters, but get started now so you don’t fall behind!

 

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Sunday:

1. What stands out to you from the above and why?

2. Can you give an illustration from your own life that would dismantle either of these lies?

  • Lie 1: We can break a moral law without hurting ourselves or others

 

  • Lie 2: God’s rules mean He is a cosmic killjoy

Monday: The Three Parts of Morality

3. Read and/or watch this chapter and share two things that stood out to you.

Tuesday: Reflections on Chapter 1 of Book 3:

Point One: Thinking of moral laws as a way to keep our machine running smoothly

I, Dee, think I will always have to fight the desire to eat junk, deceiving myself to do it. Yet I know that it breaks down my machine, making me sluggish and sad, and that does affect not just me but others. Who wants to be around a woman like this?

4. Where are some areas where you tend to deceive yourself and hurt yourself? Be specific. Explain how it also hurts others.

 

Point Two. Moral laws are not ideals, for ideals can be personal preferences. But moral  laws are immutable, just like the law of gravity. They are not a matter of personal preference, they are given to protect you and every moral failure is going to eventually cause you and others trouble, for it is breaking God’s perfect plan.

5. Where do you see the world going crazy with thinking morality is personal preference?

 

Illustration: ships sailing in formation

 

6. What are the three points of morality?

 

7. How does Lewis use a fleet of ships moving to illustrate the above?

 

8. Why does Lewis say that the fact that people are going to live forever factor into the consideration of their choices?

Wednesday (Happy 4th of July!) & Thursday: The Cardinal Virtues

9. Read and/or listen to the following and comment on two things that stood out to you.

 

 

Friday: Reflecting on Cardinal Virtues

 

 

10. What does Lewis say is the difference between cardinal and theological virtues?

11. What is prudence? Where would you be wise to ask God for it in your life now?

 

 

I’ve been going through Keller’s devotional on Proverbs this summer and he makes the point that proverbs show us the same action can be right or wrong, given the circumstances. Sometimes it is right to answer a fool, and sometimes it is not.  It takes prudence to know the right course.

12. Lewis makes the point that today temperance just has come to mean teetotalers — but that is Mohammedanism. How does Lewis say the Christian should think of temperance?

 

I have spoken for the Women’s Christian Temperance Union, which still exists, but has broadened their perspective to temperance in all things. But the below poster from their original days made me smile.

 

13. Idolatry is often turning a good thing into an ultimate thing, being intemperate. Where do you need to ask God for temperance?

 

14. How does Lewis define justice? Why do you think Lady Justice has a blindfold on? (How this might help transform the news media — if they didn’t know which side the Republicans or Democrats were on?)

 

 



15. Fortitude is the courage to persevere. Where do you need to ask God for this?

 

 

 

If ever I or my children would complain to Steve about how much work we had to do, he would tell us: “When that happens to me, I work as hard as I can and as long as I can and then, as things are accomplished, I feel so much better!”

This month I have 8 grandchildren and some of their friends here. Whenever I hear “I’m bored” I tell them that is a choice. They must persevere with their creativity until they are not bored or face discipline!

Saturday:

15. What is your take-a-way this week and why?

 

 

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  1. 9. Read and/or listen to the following and comment on two things that stood out to you.

     

    I liked Lewis’ discussion on the virtue of prudence, that we are not meant to remain childlike in intelligence: He wants a chid’s heart, but a grown-up’s head. I just read in Proverbs this morning that the wise man counts his steps. In other words, he thinks through what he plans to do, thinking about the consequences.

     

    I also found Lewis’ comment interesting where he said, “One of the marks of a certain type of bad man is that he cannot give up a thing himself without wanting every one else to give it up. That is not the Christian way.” Lewis says that the Christian may have his own good reasons for abstaining from something but should not look down on others who do it, or he should not say that the thing itself is inherently bad.

     

    10. What does Lewis say is the difference between cardinal and theological virtues?

     

    Cardinal virtues are those which all civilized people understand and are those virtues that are considered pivotal. Theological virtues are generally understood only by Christians.

     

    11. What is prudence? Where would you be wise to ask God for it now in your life?

     

    Prudence is common sense; taking the time to think about what you are doing and what is the likely outcome. I would also call it being intentional about living. Wow, there are so many areas in my life that require practical common sense: in my relationships, how to manage my time wisely, how to plan for the future.

     

    12. Lewis makes the point that today temperance just has come to mean teetotalers – but that is Mohammedanism. How does Lewis say the Christian should think of temperance?

     

    Originally, temperance meant not abstaining, but going the right length and no further in regards to all pleasures, not just drinking. Using the example of drinking, a Christian may choose to abstain if he knows he has a weakness in this area or if someone else does and he would be encouraging them to drink to excess if he drank in their company. To have temperance does not mean having a condemning attitude and you can also enjoy seeing others enjoy the thing you choose not to partake in.

     

    13. Idolatry is often turning a good thing into an ultimate thing, being intemperate. Where do you need to ask God for temperance?

     

    In spending money. Lewis says that when you make something the center of your life, devoting all your thoughts to it, you are being intemperate.

     

    14. How does Lewis define justice? Why do you think Lady Justice has a blindfold on?

     

    Justice is more than what goes on in the legal system. It includes all things we call “fairness”: honesty, give and take, truthfulness, keeping promises. Perhaps she is blindfolded to represent being fair and impartial.

     

    15. Fortitude is the courage to persevere. Where do you need to ask God for this?

     

    Often it’s just to persevere in the daily struggles, mishaps, and disappointments of life. I need perseverance to not give up hope in my marriage.

     

    16. What is your take-away this week and why?

     

    That what I do, even in the privacy of my own thoughts, will affect me and others. God’s moral rules are to keep the human machine running smoothly. I also liked Lewis’ discussion at the end of the chapter about virtues that a virtue is not just the right action, but rather an internal quality or character. Doing a right action for the wrong reason does not build the internal quality of character called a virtue.