This week God gave me “fresh” manna and when He did,
it truly was a kiss,
a reminder that despite my daily self-centeredness,
He loves me.
He loves us when times are good and when we are good,
but, oh, He loves us when times are bad, and when we are bad.
That’s the gospel truth.
He also shows us how to respond when times are bad.
Psalm 126 shows us how not to waste our tears, but to sow our tears.
What His Spirit showed me that was new to me, and thrilled my soul,
is how the book of Ruth is an illustration of Psalm 126.
Both of these “works of art”
use the land as a picture of what God can do in the hearts of God’s people.
The same One who can turn a desert into a garden
can do that in our hearts,
and even the hearts of those whom we have all but given up on.
Both of these “works of arts” show how God can flood our sisterhood,
our fellowship, with resurrection power.
For we can encourage one another to find strength in God..
The book of Ruth begins with a famine in the land and ends with a harvest,
paralleling what He is doing in the hearts of His people.
Psalm 126 begins remembering a time of joy, of fertility,
because the community is now facing barrenness,
and praying God will restore them they way He restores the land.
Naomi has often been called a female Job, for within the first five verses,
she has lost her home, her husband, her sons, and
her hope of ever being a grandmother.
Her widowed daughters-in-law have been as barren as the land.
Naomi is lamenting, remembering days past, when her arms were full.
She feels forsaken by God.
She has often been called a female Job.
Like Job, she has lost so much.
Like Job, she laments, which is a huge secret in sowing our tears,
for it keeps us connected to God.
Unlike Job, who had miserable comforters,
Naomi has a true friend in Ruth.
As the story unfolds, God uses this most unlikely vessel,
a barren Moabite widow.
We’ll see how TOGETHER,
they stay connected to God,
and how Ruth comes home to Naomi rejoicing,
bringing in the sheaves.
In the same way, Psalm 126 has the Israelites remembering days past,
when life was sweet, their bellies full, and their mouths full of laughter.
But now, there seems to be a famine of some kind, and they are lamenting.
But we learn from this psalm, and from Ruth and Naomi,
how to respond to God in these barren times,
so that one day we too may come home rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves.
I’ve spoken and written so much about the book of Ruth, cherishing its beauty.
Yet God’s Word is ever new. Seeing this parallel with Psalm 126, and also reading a new and intriguing book on Ruth by Carolyn Custis James, has brought what
is often describes as “fresh manna,” echoing back to the warning to the Israeltites
not to try to store up manna, but gather each day.
We must never assume we’ve stored up all we need to know from the Word,
but gather each day.
James is somewhat controversial in Reformed circles because she is a feminist, but I believe she is a feminist in the best sense of the word. Though I have not read all her works, what I have read seems neither strident nor unscriptural. I do think it is easy to fall into the trap of painting a caricature of someone based on what others have said, without real basis, and I feel the Reformed community has done that with James, when she really has so much to offer. She sees how differently Christianity is from the world religions in its high view of women and encourages us to embrace this same view. Here is a taste of what James brings in “The Gospel of Ruth.”
Naomi’s wrestlings with God are weighty matters, not to be brushed aside as a matter of female disposition or minimized as some kind of hormonal episode. The Bible takes her seriously and expects us to do that same…And the simple everyday battles Ruth is fighting to put food on the table and to rescue a dying family are not private matters of little concern to anyone else. The redemption of humanity hangs in the balance. The line Ruth is fighting to save “just happens” to be the royal line of Israel – the ancestors of the Messiah. Ironically, God’s purposes of humanity are riding on the shoulders of two women the world believes have lost their ability to contribute…Just as Jesus overturned the trading tables in the temple, he also overthrows humanity’s habit of devaluing of women and girls.
Though God blessed Steve and me with biological and adopted children, I do not want to reinforce the stereotype that women only have value when they are married and mothering. Indeed, Isaiah 54 flies in the face of that stereotype.
God values us not on the basis of race, gender, or fertility. We are valued simply because we are His: male or female, Greek or Jew, slave or free… He is also compassionate to us when we are facing barrenness of any sort: physical, emotional, spiritual… He saw the tears of Hagar, of Naomi, of the Widow from Nain, of the Samaritan woman… and came to each of them, giving them what they needed.
Just as I believe God gifted most men to be providers and protectors, He gifted most women to be relational. God gave us the book of Ruth, in part, I believe, to show us how to use that gift to bring glory to Him, and so that together, we may come home rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves.
Let’s go!
God Hunt: Be alert this week to people from your past who strengthened you, and people each day who are in your path, and see them through the eyes of God. Is it possible that you will have a “divine” intervention?
Sunday
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
2. Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes.
Monday: Psalm 126
3. Read Psalm 126:
A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
(My dear friend Twila is plagued with severe migraines that have returned in ferocity and frequency, and last week when she was at my house for a visit, she had to go home due to a migraine. I hugged her and prayed for her and through tears she said, “But everything else in my life is so good!” She is not forgetting God’s goodness even in the midst of pain.)
C. What does the psalmist ask in verses 4-6?
D. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
This from one commentator on the meaning of “Negeb or Negev”
God’s people here view themselves like one of those dry riverbeds in the Negev, the desert of the south of Israel. But their prayer is that God will restore them like the streams in the Negev. Such a vivid picture, because at certain seasons when there’s rainfall in the Negev it comes copiously, abundantly, and in a few hours what was a dry riverbed is transformed into an overflowing, torrential stream…
Tuesday: The God Who Makes Dry Bones Live
The men are all dead by verse 5, and the lead characters in this story are Naomi and Ruth. Yes, Boaz comes in later, and he is important in that he is a Christ-figure, but God gives us the gift of showing that women have value and can be used mightily of Him even when they may not have what the world values. Naomi was probably a wealthy woman in Bethlehem, for Elimilech was an Ephrathrite, which not only links him to David, but was a wealthier clan. Cyril J. Barber says “being an Ephrathrite was equivalent to being from a well-established family in Boston.” She also was the mother of sons, which were valued much more highly than daughters in that culture.
4. Read Ruth 1:1-5 and describe all that Naomi has lost, and how this could parallel Psalm 126.
5. Though Naomi is in high-tide grief, she is still kind to her daughters-in-law. See if you can find examples of this in Ruth 1:6-9.
Ruth must have seen something in Naomi that she didn’t see in the women who embraced the god Moab. And yet Naomi’s circumstances are terrible, and would repel rather than draw people to her God, who allowed it all. So, why did Ruth leave her family, her land, her people — and commit her whole life to Naomi and to Naomi’s God? Right now I am dealing, as are many of you, with a family member who is absolutely hostile to the real Jesus. She is facing real trouble and I have been at her side over these last several months. Yet last night she raised the subject of my faith again, and spoke angrily about it, bringing up old arguments like the Crusades, Christians who owned slaves…and her belief that the Bible says the earth is flat. I didn’t want to argue. I kissed her, told her I loved her, and came home weary, thinking, “Is she a lost cause?”
So what James wrote here, is what I must never forget.
The apostle Paul raises the subject of barrenness to the level of a theological teaching when he brings up Sarah and Abraham in Romans…God chose a hopelessly infertile elderly couple when he wanted to build a great nation… Humanly speaking, it was a lost cause from the start, for Abraham’s “body was as good as dead” and “Sarah’s womb was also dead.” Yet Abraham believed “God had power to do what he had promised.” …Ezekiel preached to a field of dry bones, but only God could bring those bones to life. It takes God’s mega-voltage resurrection power to awaken a human soul from death to life. No amount of persuasion, perseverance, loving kindness, or proven evangelistic techniques can overcome the grip of death and breathe life into the human soul, although God regularly employs all of these methods and more in the birthing process. The same high-voltage resurrection power that released Jesus from the tomb works every time a sinner turns to Christ.
Resurrection power took hold of Ruth on the road from Moab to Bethlehem. There’s no other way to explain what happened to her.
6. Describe the persistence you see in Ruth 1:10-18. How do you explain it? What hope does this give you?
7. Do you believe that God can make dry bones live? If so, why?
8. Are you being alert to the people in your path? Do you have a God Hunt to share?
Wednesday: Better Together
In both Psalm 126 and in the book of Ruth, we see the beauty of community, of helping one another find strength in God. It is what we have here!
Ruth’s famous commitment is often spoken at weddings, even though it was actually spoken by one woman to another. It is also a picture of what God asks from us, to trust Him, to cling to Him for better or for worse, to make His people our people, and to stay close to Him even in death. I like this particular song and the words spoken in the middle because it points out what is really valuable in life: our relationship with God and with one another. That is the only thing that will last. Listen to this and then share your comments:
9. Share your comments on the above.
10. How have your sisters here strengthened you in the hard times? Be specific if possible.
11. How many times did Naomi send Ruth back? Why do you think Ruth did not give up?
12. When times are bad, what do you know about God that can keep you going? Speak this to your soul.
Thursday: Listening with Your Heart
13. Read Ruth 1:19-22
A. Describe Naomi’s lament in verses 20-21.
B. How could these words have hurt Ruth?
C. What do you think Ruth might have heard that helped her not to take offense?
I’ve been reading Abba’s Child by Brennan Manning. He contrasts the Pharisee who pretends all is well with the child who is open and honest. The Pharisee does not need God, but we are to look to our Father the way a child continually does with his mother or father.
Naomi has not pretended she has it all together. And Ruth has listened between the lines.
Naomi is hurting so much that she is no longer expecting God to meet her needs. Ruth listens not so much to Naomi’s words, but to her heart — which we can do if we exercise our relational gift. Ruth also doesn’t judge Naomi by these bitter words, but remembers the woman who loved her and gave her grace, even though she was a Moabite. And God comes to Ruth, flooding her dry bones with life. And Ruth trusts Naomi’s God, and goes forth in faith. Then God uses Ruth to restore Naomi. God leads Ruth to the field of godly Boaz, Boaz, our Christ-figure, fills Ruth’s arms with grain, and Ruth returns that night to Naomi, bringing in the sheaves.
14. Read Ruth 2:17-23
A. Describe the scene in verses 17-18.
B. How do you see a turn in Naomi’s attitude toward God in verses 19-20?
C. What were some of the things that Ruth did that helped Naomi heal?
15. Are you being alert to the people in your path? Do you have a God Hunt to share?
Friday: The Gift Women Can Use For The Glory of God
I think you will love today, so I’m hoping you are still with me! Sociolinguist Deborah Tannen has enlightened me on why language styles of men and women are so different. Status is important to men (perhaps because God wired them to be providers). Men like to hold the floor and engage in report talk, sharing stories, jokes…but sometimes they are not the best listeners. Connection is important to women (perhaps because God wired them to be nurturers.) Women engage, not in “report talk,” but in “rapport talk,” volleying in conversation, establishing ties. You can see these differing drives in the conversation of children. Watch this from Deborah Tannen:
16. What did you learn and what comments do you have on the above?
17. Read Ruth 2:19-22 and describe the “rapport talk” between Ruth and Naomi.
18. How did each woman not only listen and connect, but also help one another find strength in God?
19. Have you been alert to the people in your path? Have you been able to use your gift for nurturing to the glory of God? If so, share.
Saturday:
20. What is your take-a-way and why?
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1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
I am inspired and encouraged by Dee’s zeal for the Word! I also want to read James’ book!, just read a good article on it. But most of all, this stirred my heart–to be flooded with “resurrection power”, and encouraging one another to find strength in God. We all have trials and desperately need this resurrection power in our lives. My devotion this morning (Spurgeon) was on Matthew 14:30, Peter’s cry: “Beginning to sink he cried out, ‘Lord, save me.’ We have been saved by His resurrection power and it is available to us for every moment–as I call upon Him, He promises to rescue.
I’m glad you want to read James book, Lizzy. It is really good. I feel I saw much of what she saw when I wrote A Woman of Love, but she has wonderful illustrations and is eloquent too.
Dee, I love the different perspective on Ruth. I’m curious now to read the book by Carolyn Custis James. I have struggled with the relationship of Christian ministry from a female perspective. I am an emotional, relational person and that seems to be taboo in much of our Christian tradition. Much to ponder.
Oh, I know, Diane. I fear often the church and Christian ministries don’t embrace women the way Jesus did.
This week God gave me “fresh” manna and when He did,
it truly was a kiss,
a reminder that despite my daily self-centeredness,
He loves me.
This is what stood out to me Dee…encouraging that He still speaks intimately & personally to each one of us when we are seeking Him. And the reminder that in all my messiness He always LOVES me!!! I love the way Jesus respected women & met their needs & used them for His glory, & I know He still does! 🙂
🙂
Sunday
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
This comment stood out to me as a timeless truth.
“We must never assume we’ve stored up all we need to know from the Word,
but gather each day.”
Also these thoughts on how God values each of us.
“God values us not on the basis of race, gender, or fertility. We are valued simply because we are His: male or female, Greek or Jew, slave or free… He is also compassionate to us when we are facing barrenness of any sort: physical, emotional, spiritual… He saw the tears of Hagar, of Naomi, of the Widow from Nain, of the Samaritan woman… and came to each of them, giving them what they needed.”
This is my prayer for a sweet young mother in our church who lost an incredibly beautiful special needs 2 year old baby girl a couple of years ago. That God would be compassionate to her in her emotional and spiritual barrenness coming to her and giving her what she needs.
2. Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes.
Before Christmas this young mother briefly shared some of her hearts’s struggle.
God put her on my heart as I saw her in church again this morning. My concern is for her and her two other children now growing up in the shadow of the grief and loss of their baby sister. I dare not minimize the pain of their Mommy but I was reminded here that God in his great compassion can come to her in her suffering and for the sake of her children and her marriage bring her what she needs.
Love your heart, Bev.
1. What stood out? “We must not assume we’ve stored up all we need to know from the Word, but gather each day.” I have a dear friend who feels there is nothing new for her. She is OK with thinking that, but I am appalled. I am dismayed to think I could know it all during my life on earth. Wouldn’t I get bored in eternity? But just as God is infinite so is His Word. There is never an end to what we can see in Him and in His Word.
Sunday
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
Me, three with Diane and Lizzy! I want to read the book on Ruth, too by Carolyn James.
Several things stood out to me:
a. I cried when I read words like “God loves us when we are bad…not waste our tears but sow our tears; bringing in the sheaves; what God can do in hardened hearts, ours and those we love.” Fresh manna each day-Lord rain it on us!
b. The story of Ruth from a new perspective. This OT book always tugs at my heart.
c. We are valued simply because we are His. “I am my Beloved and He is mine.
2. Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes.
At our church, we always have a greeting time during the worship service. Today, I walked around and talked briefly to as many as I can- a young family who just welcomed a new baby.There was Mr. Jones who is a veteran, an elderly lady in her 90’s living in the nursing home who braved the cold (16 degrees here in MO) with her niece who was visiting from California, a grandson ( who is autistic) of one of our pianists, another older man whose wife just had a heart attack, etc. As I went back to my pew, I had an overwhelming sense of gratitude to God for these brothers and sisters whom the Lord has brought to us to minister to. Age, appearance, personality, differing opinions about certain matters, rich, poor-it doesn’t matter. They have come to worship God and we are in it together!
What a beautiful perspective on the people in worship! Thank you for helping to tune my heart.
You were playing the hostess, using your relational gift to His glory, Bing.
2. Seeing with fresh eyes. Listening to Tim Keller and realizing I have gotten complacent and lackadaisical about how the Lord feels. Instead of being concerned about His heart, I have been all about mine.
Lord, this week would you help me see everything through this lenses? Please keep placing the question before me, “how could I do this thing and hurt my Lord?”.
3.A. It is the picture of a redeemed and restored people, almost like a dream, filled with laughter and joy. Each one proclaiming the great things God has done for them.
B. Remembering the good during the hard times helps the present trouble to not overwhelm either the past or the future.
C. The Psalmist asks for restoration. That tears would end in joy, and weeping not only with joy, but also with fruitfulness (bringing sheaves with them).
D. Looking at a charmed life, you would expect positive feelings, but when God turns tough times into joy and praise and fruitfulness, that highlights God as unique and praiseworthy.
4. What all had Naomi lost? Income, home, status, country, husband, two sons, hope for grandchildren, protection, security, comfort. Pretty much everything.
Parellels to Ps 126: captives also lose most everything. There is a lot of weeping and tears.
5. Examples of Naomi’s kindness. She didn’t immediately turn the girls out when the sons died. She showed that she cared about them and their future. She started out for Judah with them, keeping them under her arm, wanting them. When she did encourage them to leave her, it was because she thought they could do better for themselves back home. She was affectionate with them, and said a blessing over them.
Fresh insight for me from Mary: captives also lose everything…
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
Love the idea of Naomi being a female Job. I’ve never heard that before.
2. Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes.
I was with a group of women yesterday who opened my eyes to being more in tune with the end times. We listened to a prophetic sermon (one that comes off the cuff I guess?) It was actually a bit frightening; the things they were saying. I left unsettled and need to ponder more on this idea.
Laura,
When you say a prophetic sermon, I am not sure what you mean (?). If you get a chance, could you clarify? Was this an exposition of God’s Word from a trusted Bible teacher or pastor? I LOVE how you ponder and search and question….and I think you are wise to do so in this particular situation. I think of the very familiar and comforting Proverbs 3:5-7: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make straight your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil.” Psalm 119 is another….it just blows me away how the Spirit moved David to write such profuse praise for God’s Word and it’s sufficiency for all of our lives! Test EVERYTHING against His Word – as I KNOW you do always, dear Laura. You are such a gift to this body of sisters in not allowing us to be complacent! Amen.
Thanks for the encouraging words. I FB messaged you.
Laura,
I too am curious what you mean by a “prophetic sermon” off the cuff. I agree with Jackie’s wise counsel to you that we need to test everything against the Word of God. If you left feeling a little frightened and unsettled then perhaps God was checking something in your Spirit and as Jackie said seek explanation from trusted bible teachers or pastors. I believe ultimately we are comforted and find peace of heart and mind from God’s Word.
Bev, I am going to try to post it on the FB page. I am unable to find it online.
Good words from your sisters, Laura!
Laura–continuing on my current Sproul kick, he has some excellent sermons on the end times that were airing just before he died. But I would just encourage you that we have nothing to fear.
3. Read Psalm 126:
A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
They want to restore their fortunes (they had lost), they were crying over their situation and anticipate rejoicing, and they will bring in the harvest that was lost before.
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
We need to remember the good times because the hard times are SO hard and devastating. They are in the moment; they are REAL and painful.
C. What does the psalmist ask in verses 4-6?
The Psalmist wants the Lord to restore their fortunes like a river flowing.
D. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
He is changing the scene for the people of Zion; from dry to wet, from empty to full, from sorrow to joy.
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
The richness of the parallels and the metaphors of the Word of God, how God uses what we have in our natural world – what we can see, smell, taste, and touch, and even hear, and helps us understand a deep spiritual truth. So it is with the parallel between the land, its time of lying fallow during famine (our hearts) and how God uses His resurrection power to restore it and make it green, lush, and fruitful again (again, our hearts). There is so much to ponder in the idea of “sowing our tears”. I am wanting to know more about how Ruth parallels Psalm 126. I enjoyed reading what you quoted from James’ book on Ruth, especially this: “God’s purposes of humanity are riding on the shoulders of two women the world believes have lost their ability to contribute.” How many times do I perhaps put certain people into that category, that they have lost their ability to contribute? How many times do I feel this way about myself?
Yeah, Susan. “How many times do I perhaps put certain people into that category, that they have lost their ability to contribute? How many times do I feel this way about myself?” I do this, too. Lord, help us to see your wonder working power in our lives and in the lives of others to contribute to the building of your kingdom.
3. Read Psalm 126
A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
The psalmist says that experienced a kind of “dream-like state” (we were like men who dreamed). Perhaps a feeling of “is this really happening?” Laughter filled their mouths and songs of joy filled their tongues. I picture butterflies in their stomachs and such delight welling up from their insides that it just erupted from their mouths. They are filled with joy because of what the Lord has done for them.
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
Because during hard times, we can get into the mindset that this is the only reality for us – past, present, and future. There has to be something we can look back on and remember – times that were pleasant, when we enjoyed blessings, so that we can draw hope from those memories.
C. What does the psalmist ask in verses 4-6?
The psalmist ask for restoration, “Restore our fortunes, O Lord”; the people have shed plenty of tears and now he asks for them to reap a harvest of joy. I am pondering the verse, “He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow….” Could this seed possibly represent even a tiny seed of faith (in God)?
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
That instead of backing away from God Naomi sowed her tears. Psalm 126- those who sow their tears will reap with songs of joy. This so encouraged me this morning.
Also how God gave her Ruth so that “together” they will stay connected to God. Isn’t that beautiful! God never meant for us to be alone for He is with us through one another too. We all have daily burdens and trials whether they be as a result of our sin or otherwise. We really need one another both here on the blog and also face to face.
Yes, Rebecca, “we all have burdens and trials”, we need each other.
Thank you for always such great insight and for sharing so honestly.
Rebecca — you and I have shared so much together!
3. Read Psalm 126:
What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
When victories had been won and times were good the people felt like they were dreaming as it was to good to be true. They had great joy and were full of verbal praise. Others took notice of God’s goodness to them and they gave God praise for the great things He had done for them.
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
Because I believe they carry us through and help us maintain perspective when life is hard. The very real truth is that God is good all the time. He never wavers in his goodness, his steadfastness, his faithfulness and his sovereignty over our lives. He is our very hope and only hope in all of life the good times and bad times alike.
C. What does the psalmist ask in verses 4-6?
They are asking God to pour out blessing over the dryness and from the hard and painful times of tears and struggle a harvest of blessing will come bringing great joy.
D. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
It is all about the LORD. He does it.
Verse 1 “when the LORD restored”
Verse 2 “the LORD has done great things”
Verse 3 “the LORD has done great things”
Verse 4 “Restore….O LORD,
What stands out to me is the story of Ruth and Naomi. From a time of sorrow and mourning how God brought them close and how they honored God in their obedience. I have loved this book and look forward to gaining more insights.
Be alert to the people in your life: Yes, my take on this is to seek to have less emphasis on me and to
listen well, and let God direct the concerns I have. Praying for courage, patience and to obey the Holy Spirit.
1. What stood out to you from the above and why?
I’m struck by the picture contrasting the harvested land, now dirt with only the remains of harvested corn stalks, and the lush green grass. Immediately, I was drawn to the lush green of the healthy carpet of grass…it looks so healthy, so vibrant. But then the other land also was fruitful with corn prior to the harvest and at some point the grass looking so lush and vibrant will regenerate, some withering and dying away to make way for new growth. Kind of like how the Lord pruning the unfruitful or dead “branches” to encourage new growth. I think it’s a cycle of sorts…all part of the Lord’s plan to transform us into the likeness of Jesus.
The other thing that struck me is “God values us not on the basis of …” My/our value has nothing to do with worldly labels, it is all the grace of our Lord.
I need to go back and read the book of Ruth…the impression I have of Naomi is different; a re-read will likely be beneficial.
Nanci, I love your insight on the contrasting picture of the land. I want to be the lush green grass all the time. Like the man/woman of Psalm 1. But I can look at some “dry” spells of my life and see it as a time of making way for new growth knowing by the watering of God’s Word and infilling of the Spirit, I would be green again! Transforming us.
3. A) Ps 126: 1-3; “mouths filled with laughter”, “tongues with singing”, “The Lord has done great things for them”…”The Lord has done great things for US! We are glad!”
B). Its important to remember good times in the hard times, because it stirs Hope & Faith & encouragement. God has helped us before & He will come thro again. He is faithful.
C). The psalmist asks for captivity to be turned to Freedom, suddenly & powerfully like a torrent rushing thro a dry riverbed! He states that those who sow in tears shall reap with joy & singing.
D). God’s power reverses barrenness & devastation ; He alone can restore abundantly & cause us to flourish where there was emptiness, dryness, & despair. He is our God of Hope & our Redeemer. Thank You Lord!!
2. Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes.
Yesterday as I was entering church for worship, there was a gal greeting who was greeting a few weeks prior. That Sunday a few weeks prior I was running late, was feeling disheveled (not one of my better days). I darted into church uttering to her that I was late; she said something so simple, yet so meaningful to me. I was so happy to see her greeting so I could share with her that I was thankful for her words to me that morning, what a blessing they were to me. If we allow, the Holy Spirit can move in the simplest ways with profound results.
So true, Nanci. A good word can do so much.
3A. The phrase “the Lord surrounds His people” – this is such a reassuring phrase that whatever desert we are in the Lord protects. “The wicked will not rule the land of the godly” is a great picture and I am thinking of our land which is not so godly as once we thought….
B. why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
I need this picture of the good times to keep me from losing hope. As I prayed for courage today, I look back on the joys that I experienced and it is a help.
C. The psalmist asks God, “Do good to those who do good, banish those who turn to crooked ways.”
Yes! How I am in agreement as I see so much evil that masquerades as good to our younger generation…I am seeing my granddaughter’s desires so in tune with the worldly and it hurts me to the core.
D. God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden- Yes, I am totally assured of God’s power. My problem is that I want the garden all the time. This winter with cold, snow and ice is robbing me of that joy I get from being mobile in my yard…
A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
Restored fortunes
When we dreamed
Mouths filled with laughter
Songs of joy
Filled with joy
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
It gives us hope; it magnifies the Lord; our “mountains” become “mole hills” as we remember God’s faithfulness
A. What does the psalmist ask in verses 4-6?
For their fortunes to be restored like streams in the Negev
For their tears to reap joy
For them to be able to bring in the sheaves
B. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
God has done it before vs. 1 used the word “When…” not “if” and the result was the nations said He has done great things…; therefore, He will do it again in the midst of tears.
I thought of one Chinese-Filipino friend. He was a middle aged wealthy man, drunkard, womanizer and steep in sin as somebody would say. By “chance” he befriended an American Southern Baptist missionary, got invited to a bible study of which I was a part of.
Our group consisted of young professionals then and college students. We prayed for this man who seemed to be a real “nice” person but was lost. In his testimony later on after he received Christ, he said that once after being in a bar, he went to sleep and had a dream. He said he saw many of us and we were crying because he does not know the Lord. He said it was a long dream-with almost everybody crying over his lost soul. Wow-we were astounded. We saw this guy being transformed from a dry ground to a garden of fruitfulness. He and his estranged wife got back together, and later after a few years, his wife got saved and much later his daughter also! God has done great things!
3. Read Psalm 126: A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
“we were like those who dream.” (v.1)
“our mouth was filled with laughter”; “our tongue with shouts of joy” (v. 2)
” we are glad.” (v. #3)
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
In the hard times it is easy (for me) to become tunnel visioned. It’s easy to obsess over what is hard and feel suffocated by it. When I force myself to remember the good times, the times in the past when the Lord came to my rescue, it helps me find hope again. It also gives me perspective–most things in life are only a season. It has been different before and it will be different again…there is some peace in the fact that things do always change over time, in some way, and we can hope and pray for good to come of the changing.
C. What does the psalmist ask in verses 4-6?
To restore. Restore what they once had, and restore the joy.
D. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
Only God can create streams where there are none, bring joy where there is sadness, allow our tears to be seeds that bear hope. I hope this isn’t a rabbit trail, but as I read this today I was inspired to find places where we hear of God’s promise and power to restore. I wanted to share a few that encouraged my heart:
Jeremiah 30:17 “For I will restore health to you, and your wounds I will heal, declares the Lord”
Joel 2:25-26 “I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the hopper, the destroyer, and the cutter, my great army, which I sent among you. “You shall eat in plenty and be satisfied, and praise the name of the Lord your God, who has dealt wondrously with you. And my people shall never again be put to shame.”
Isaiah 61:7 “Instead of your shame there shall be a double portion; instead of dishonor they shall rejoice in their lot; therefore in their land they shall possess a double portion; they shall have everlasting joy.”
Job 42:10 “And the Lord restored the fortunes of Job, when he had prayed for his friends. And the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before.”
1 Peter 5:10 “And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.”
Revelation 21:1-5 “Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold, I am making all things new.” Also he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”
Jeremiah 30:1-24 “Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel: Write in a book all the words that I have spoken to you. For behold, days are coming, declares the Lord, when I will restore the fortunes of my people, Israel and Judah, says the Lord, and I will bring them back to the land that I gave to their fathers, and they shall take possession of it.”
Wow Lizzy — love those verses for God turning deserts into gardens!
Love these verse, too, Lizzy. In fact will print them to pray for my daughter, Ruth.
4. Read Ruth 1:1-5 and describe all that Naomi has lost, and how this could parallel Psalm 126.
Well, I wondered as I read why they went to Moab? If they were so wealthy in their homeland, why did they leave? Oh! I see, there was a famine. Whoops sorry I missed that in the first pass. So, she has lost her homeland, has no food, no husband, and both the sons did.
Psalm 126 talks of losing everything and being barren.
5. Though Naomi is in high-tide grief, she is still kind to her daughters-in-law. See if you can find examples of this in Ruth 1:6-9.
She wishes a blessing on each of them as she tells them to go back to their respective homes. She also kisses them.
3. D. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
God turns the captives’ weeping and sorrow into laughter, joy, and praise. He restores them, not only by bringing them home, but He also revives their hearts. There are word pictures here of dry stream beds being filled with water, and of seed bearing a harvest of sheaves.
4. Read Ruth 1:1-5 and describe all that Naomi has lost, and how this could parallel Psalm 126.
Just in moving from Bethlehem to Moab, Naomi was uprooted from her home; perhaps she had parents, siblings, extended family there, and she had to leave them behind. There was no mail, phones, or texting back then, so she really would’ve been cut-off from her family. She left her friends behind. The people of Moab worshipped other gods, so to go into that foreign culture would have been hard; I am assuming there was no place to go to worship the God of the Israelites, so she had no faith community. I would think, in a way, she lost a sense of her identity. What about the language barrier? This parallels the psalm in that as captives, the Israelites were taken away into places that were foreign to them as well – foreign gods, strange foods, different customs, a different language spoken. Naomi then lost her husband and her two sons. Immediate family – gone. She became “un-tethered” to her own people. I note that she had lived there 10+ years by then….I would think she had learned the language by then, and perhaps felt more at-home there, but still, she didn’t belong to anyone there now. Her daughters-in-law had families, but Naomi had nothing. Now she was a widow, and childless, and had no means to support or protect herself.
5. Though Naomi is in high-tide grief, she is still kind to her daughters-in-law. See if you can find examples of this in Ruth 1:6-9.
When Naomi hears that the Lord has provided food for His people, she makes plans to return home and to take her daughters-in-law with her, so that they, too, can be provided for by the Lord. They set out together on the road back to Bethlehem, but there, Naomi has a change of heart. Perhaps she remembers how she felt, moving to a foreign land, and has second thoughts about taking them with her. While I’m sure she didn’t want to travel alone, she puts them first, and feels that it would be better for the two to return to their mother’s home. She considers their welfare above her own. She asks the Lord to be kind to them and to let them each find another husband. It’s clear that this was very hard for Naomi because she kissed them and they were all weeping; they loved each other. Naomi is totally unselfish here because they were willing to go with her, and she could have clung to them for security, comfort, and affirmation, but she was willing to let them go, thinking it was for the best.
6. Describe the persistence you see in Ruth 1:10-18. How do you explain it? What hope does this give you?
At first, both Ruth and Orpah insist that they will go back with Naomi to her people. But Naomi is persistent in her reasons that it is not what is best for them: “Am I going to have more sons, who could become your husbands? I am too old to have another husband. Even if I had a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons – would you wait until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for them? It is more bitter for me than for you, because the Lord’s hand has gone out against me!” When Naomi states that the Lord’s hand is against her, she’s really making a case for them to stay; why have that rub-off on them? These arguments are enough for Orpah, and she returns home. Naomi points out to Ruth that her sister-in-law is going back to her people and her gods.
Ruth’s persistence: “Where you go I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me.”
There is no explanation other than that God must have been drawing Ruth, because Naomi wasn’t exactly “helping” God’s case here by portraying Him as attractive; she had said that the Lord’s hand was against her, and certainly all the evidence pointed to that conclusion. Even though Naomi’s God was a God who allowed bad things to happen, Ruth chose Him over the gods of her people. The hope is that God can draw people to Himself at His choosing. Naomi didn’t say things like, “God always brings good, even out of tragedy….” She was bitter and disillusioned, and maybe even angry at God, but she was real. God didn’t need her as His PR person. There had to be something more that Ruth wanted, even more than to stay with Naomi, and that had to be God. To go back to her own people would mean she would lose Him.
Susan, I love how much thought you have put into your answers and the time you take to type it all out. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
Love this Susan — God didn’t need Naomi as a PR person. We can be real, and it will not stop His resurrection power.
Susan, I so loved your insight that we can be real for it will not stop His resurrection power. So many times the evil one comes and condemns me for my mistakes as a parent.. “that is why” my son doesn’t want Him, and yet memories come up of all the times God helped us sow His word and His Love into his life growing up..which was daily, life on life..BUT even this was given to my son by Him and for my son to turn it will be by his power ALONE. This SO frees me and compels me to pray for him and love him even more. Thank you for building upon what God made radiate in my heart via this blog this morning and in reading 1 Peter in my quiet time!! 🙂 🙂 SEE? How good it is that He has given us YOU here?? I love you sis.
Rebecca, now you have helped me something. Even though I saw this truth as applying to Naomi and Ruth, I didn’t see its application for myself, until you shared here about your son. I also have those self-blaming thoughts about why my children don’t follow Him. I don’t really “preach” to my son, for example, but am I really “real” – about my fears, disappointments, questions, doubts, and even depression or sadness at times? I often try to keep up a good front, believing that that will speak volumes to him about my faith, my hope in God. I’ve listened to sermons about having a deep, inner joy, even when life circumstances are bad, but I don’t see Naomi doing that here. She wasn’t trying to “evangelize” her daughter-in-laws – she told them basically to stay away and go back!
3. Read Psalm 126:
A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3?
They are full of joy because of what God had done. Like a child who dances about freely without any physical limitations or hesitations-laughing and singing. Songs of praise to God flowing out. All the nations are claiming the Lord has done great things for the Israelites.. and they respond exclaiming yes He has and they are full of joy. They are also glad that God is glorifying Himself through them to their enemies.
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
I loved Lizzy’s response so I will note what stood out and how her comment helped me. Remembering the good times helps take my eyes off of my circumstances and on Him which gives me back hope when I feel hopeless in the moment. Also, remembering the good times helps me to remember that these rough times are seasons and things change.
OH my heart! I hate to hear that this is happening to Twila but so encouraging to hear her response in the middle of such excruciating pain. Lord help Twila and restore her health, bring up your word she has so hidden deeply inside to encourage her this morning. Thank you for how even in her pain she is glorifying you by remembering your goodness to her.
Thank you, Rebecca!
4. Read Ruth 1:1-5 and describe all that Naomi has lost, and how this could parallel Psalm 126.
Fortunes lost for Ruth would be the loss of her husband, and 2 sons. She was also in a foreign land for at least 10 years. Since they left Jerusalem, she would have to go back empty handed and nothing to show for their time in Moab.
5. Though Naomi is in high-tide grief, she is still kind to her daughters-in-law. See if you can find examples of this in Ruth 1:6-9.
She gave them her blessing for them to stay in Moab with the hope that somebody will marry them and provide for them. She was thinking of their future and not hers.
6. Describe the persistence you see in Ruth 1:10-18. How do you explain it? What hope does this give you?
Ruth entreated Naomi to let her go with her. She made a commitment in words that she will be with Naomi forever. She also clung to Naomi which I think is a sign of sincerity. God had already worked in Ruth’s heart even before this significant event. It gives me the hope of Romans 8:28 that even in times of our losses, God will work things out and that He is Jehovah Jireh-the one who provides. He provided Ruth for Naomi and He provided for both of them later through Boaz. And we all have our own Boaz in Jesus Christ!
7. Do you believe that God can make dry bones live? If so, why?
Yes, because His Word says so. And I have seen spiritually dead people come alive in Christ. That includes me.
8. Are you being alert to the people in your path? Do you have a God Hunt to share?
20 some years ago, a group of my women friends and I started a Moms In Touch group (now Moms in Prayer). We have prayed for many years together and kind of dwindled in numbers when our kids went to college but have kept in touch and would pray together occasionally. Tammy was one of these women. God continues to allow our paths to cross and about 2 weeks ago we decided to pray together weekly again. As a friend and prayer partner, God has used her to strengthen my faith and to persevere in prayer. I see her grow in the Lord as well. Yesterday we met for prayer and as a special ed teacher, God used her to provide insight to my situation at school. And to add a special touch to the blessing that she is-she was out at a store when she responded to my text and was able to pick up a bottle of oil that I ran out of and needed! The weather was kind of nasty and I dreaded going out and Richard was gone for the day. Isn’t that how our God works? No small concern of ours escape His loving ways. I smile just thinking God knew my Filipino body and arthritic shoulder could use a break from the cold. He does have a sharp sense of humor. (Smile)
Sweet story, Bing.
4. Read Ruth 1:1-5 and describe all that Naomi has lost, and how this could parallel Psalm 126.
Naomi lost her home, her husband and both of her sons. Her life became barren like a desert and full of tears and weeping.
5. Though Naomi is in high-tide grief, she is still kind to her daughters-in-law. See if you can find examples of this in Ruth 1:6-9.
Naomi gave them permission to return to their birth homes and families and gave them a blessing from the Lord for their kindnesses to her in handling the deaths of her husband and her sons. She asked that they find rest and comfort in a new husband. She had their best interests in mind. She demonstrated her affection for them.
6. Describe the persistence you see in Ruth 1:10-18. How do you explain it? What hope does this give you?
Naomi urged them strongly to go back to a normal life because she saw no future for them by keeping them responsible to her. She regretted her circumstances affect on their lives. She wanted better for them. But Ruth was persistent and clung to Naomi. She told Naomi to stop asking her to leave her and made a strong verbal commitment to spend the rest of her life with her. Obviously Ruth had love and security in her relationship to Naomi that superseded her fears of her future.
7. Do you believe that God can make dry bones live? If so, why?
Yes, One of my brothers strayed from the Lord a number of years ago and made choices that were hard to live with. But he sincerely repented of his sins. And committed to live for the Lord. He suffered for some years the result of those former sins in his relationship to his wife and sons. But these many years later after the death of his last wife and some very dry years God has blessed him with a wonderful godly wife and he is enjoying what a marriage in the Lord was intended to be. We have hope that God will work in the lives of his sons as well. Again making dry bones live.
6. Describe the persistence you see in Ruth 1:10-18. How do you explain it? What hope does this give you?
What I saw in this passage for the first time is that the daughters-in-law were already in Moab, that they left their homeland to go with Naomi and one (Orpah) turned back. For some reason it always seemed to me that all 3 were in a foreign land and on the way back to Judah Naomi tried to send the other 2 to their families.
Why did they start out with Naomi in the first place? Why didn’t the departure scene take place in Moab with Naomi leaving the 2 behind? Was the journey harder than they anticipated? Did they run low on supplies? Did Naomi regret asking (expecting) the 2 to come with her? Or was Naomi getting more upset with God as time went on and she didn’t trust that He was going to take care of them?
This parallels other stories where many people start out on the journey with Christ, but some turn back.
7. Do you believe that God can make dry bones live? If so, why?
Yes. If I said no I would be saying that part of the bible isn’t true.
The hope that I have in both of these is that while we are to be obedient to God and share the gospel with others, ultimately success or failure isn’t on us. We can’t make it happen, nor can we stop it from happening.
The dry bones didn’t ask to be revived, I doubt they could even hear what Ezekiel was saying, but they came to life as a result of God’s power through Ezekiel’s obedience.
Naomi unknowingly tried to thwart God’s plan by sending Ruth home, but He was saving Ruth (and the Jews) and nothing Naomi did could change that.
Love your final sentence, Dawn.
Dawn, you have some really good insights here – I never thought about why Ruth and Orpah started out with Naomi and then turned back, and was Naomi’s bitterness increasing? And, that Naomi, unknowingly, tried to thwart God’s plan by sending Ruth back!
3.A. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in v. 1-3?
Restoration seemed like a dream, people filled with laughter, shouting joyfully (delighted)…the people were glad (satisfied, grateful).
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times?
*When we recall good times in the hard times it gives us hope of seeing good times again.
*It makes us more grateful for those good times.
*It makes us more aware of the “good times”.
C. What does the psalmist ask in v. 4-6?
The psalmist asks for restoration; he asks that the hard times endured/persevered through bring growth and “fruitfulness.”
D. How do you see God’s power in turning a barren desert into a garden in this psalm?
God’s power is inexplicable, the power of the Lord is beyond human comprehension. It could only be of the Lord’s doing.
4. (Ruth 1:1-5) Describe all that Naomi has lost and how this could parallel with Psalm 126.
v. 1, Naomi lost her home when they moved to Moab; in her homeland she lost the readily availability of food.
v. 3, Naomi lost her husband.
v. 5, Naomi lost her two sons.
Naomi has lost all that is truly important to her; she is in the pit of despair. This is similar to the people in Psalm 126.
5. Through Naomi … find examples of this is Ruth 1:6-9.
v. 6, Naomi maintains an association (relationship) with her daughter-in-laws.
v. 7-8, Naomi encourages her daughter-in-laws to return to their families/family home to seek marriage, i.e., restoration.
Naomi prays a blessing upon them.
6. Describe the persistence…How do you explain it? What hope does it give you?
Ruth was adamant, she was going with Naomi and there was no other option. I’m not really sure how to explain it…human sense would tell me that when Naomi tells her daughter-in-laws that “the Lord’s hand has gone against me” and they witness her losses, it was likely not all that inviting to follow Naomi. I don’t know if they were superstitious, if so, Naomi could be seen as “bad luck.” Perhaps Ruth saw something more in Naomi in the days prior that drew her to Naomi, perhaps they developed a close, loving relationship/friendship, maybe Ruth heard bits and pieces from her husband and his family that whet her appetite for what they had in their Lord. I don’t really know…ultimately, it was all a part of the Lord’s plan. What hope it gives?…with God any, ANY, thing is possible. Even the most desperate of situations can be restored. My mind can not fully fathom all the twists, turns, etc. involved in the Lord’s plan. All I need to remember is that God is good and with Him nothing is impossible. Great hope!
All I need to remember is that God is good and with Him nothing is impossible. Great hope!
6. Ruth’s persistence. It is as you say, Dee, she saw something different in Naomi. Something better. She was responding to God’s wooing of her. She used her natural stubbornness for a good purpose – “I am going with you”. We all have stubbornness, but when it is good, then we call it persistence.
7. Can God make dry bones live? I am convicted by this. My head knows the answer is yes. He says it here, and He has shown it with the nation of Israel. But I am not living like I believe it. I’ve gained back nearly all of the 20# I lost last year, and have stopped trying.
8. People in my path fo Tuesday. I’m home all day and told my husband I’ve been basically worthless today. He said, “you aren’t worthless. Your worth is based in Christ, not in what you accomplish.”
Oh Mary — I am going to pray that you won’t give up. That God will help you get back on the right path and you will find joy in it. We can pray for each other in this — I’ve gained 5 pounds that I have been struggling to get off. And I love your husband’s response.
thank you for the encouragement and prayers. And yes, I will pray for you.
Sunday
1. What stood out to you from the above and why? – It is so encouraging to know that God is with me no matter what my attitude may be in a given day. To know that I can cry out to him and He will hear me and guide me through.
2. Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes.
Sunday
2, . Be alert to the people in your path and report anything God helped you to see with fresh eyes. – My friend Amanda is a counselor and she encourages her patients to come up with a word that has meaning to them at that specific time, so I decided to do that this year. I have been very stressed out lately with all that is going on and can say that I have not had the best attitude toward my husband, so I thought about what I needed and my word that I came up with is RELEASE. I’m thankful to Amanda for having a facebook page for her company and having that little exercise on there. I can say it has helped me a great deal in this short time. I do feel that when I gave my struggles to the Lord he released me from the burden I am carrying.
Good Word, Julie. Release.
Julie, I love this word, Release. When I have my bad attitude I want to remember this word. Thanks for sharing.
Julie, my word for 2018 is “intentional”…:)
9. Comments on the song. The gift of love between people is what lasts, not possessions or accomplishments.
10. How has the blog been helpful in hard times? My concerns have been small, but I relish the things I learn here and the different perspectives on scripture. Just the support given to those who are having big trials speaks to me in a positive way. I know that I, also, would be supported.
11. How many times did Naomi send Ruth back? Three.
why didn’t Ruth give up? I’ve wondered about the family Ruth left behind. Maybe they weren’t good people. Maybe they had shunned her for marrying an Israelite. Maybe it was purely the pull of the true God.
12. What about God can keep me going? He has promised to never leave me or forsake me.
9. Share your comments on the above.
The song and it’s accompanying message speaks to the value and importance of relationship. We were made by God for relationship and the quality of relationships influence our lives for good or for bad. As Dee says above “what is really valuable in life: our relationship with God and with one another. That is the only thing that will last”.
10. How have your sisters here strengthened you in the hard times? Be specific if possible.
One of the things I observed early on when I was a silent observer was the heart for prayer in this group. I often see commitment to pray for needs and regularly prayers are written out here on the blog. That always strengthens and encourages my heart.
11. How many times did Naomi send Ruth back? Why do you think Ruth did not give up?
I’m not sure if it is 3 or 4 times Naomi encouraged Ruth to go back to her own people before she decided to say no more because she saw Ruth’s resolve. It would be apparent to me that Ruth had established a strong relationship to Naomi over the years of her being her daughter in law and had grown to love her deeply. It wasn’t about her it was about Naomi and Ruth was committed to her for life.
12. When times are bad, what do you know about God that can keep you going? Speak this to your soul.
God is sovereign. He is always faithful. He cares and brings peace to my heart with his presence. And He often brings love and support through my brothers and sisters in Christ.
Thank You Father for the privilege of being your beloved. You promise you will never leave me or forsake me. You are gentle and gracious. Thank you for meeting all my needs through the Cross of Jesus Christ.
6. Describe persistence in 1:10-18
I see persistence through the love and commitment of Ruth. She has committed her life to Naomi and Naomi’s God.
What hope does this give you?
It gives me hope as I focus on God and trust Him to lead me.
If I take my eyes off I sink, but that reminds me to turn back and trust. It is a rocky road yet I have hope.
7. Do you believe God can make dry bones live? Yes! “For from him and through him and for him are all things”, Romans 11:36 It was in my devotional reading this morning, Growing Gratitude(odb.org)
He is Creator and restorer of all things.
8. Are you being alert to people in your path? Well, my path is limited and yet I consider my neighbors. One is hurting physically and emotionally. I had tea with her and I am praying for her-D. and her daughters. I pray especially for her daughter, A. who needs saving faith, she is 22 and I pray for a Christian to be her true friend. I invite her to worship but she is not responding yet-often works those hours. She hurts her Mom so often by her hardheartedness.
6. Describe the persistence you see in Ruth 1:10-18. How do you explain it? What hope does this give you?
She tells Naomi that she will go with her anywhere she went. Ruth was loyal to Naomi. I can’t explain her persistence other than she truly loved and believed Naomi; perhaps Naomi had described God to Ruth and Ruth was interested and seeking for something more than idols?
7. Do you believe that God can make dry bones live? If so, why?
Well, I suppose He can do anything, right? There are people who are saved later in life. They could be considered dry up until that point. He brought people back to life through Jesus in the New Testament. He can take us from the depths of our despair into joyful praise. He made Jobs life better after all he went through. He can turn ashes to beauty.
8. Are you being alert to the people in your path? Do you have a God Hunt to share?
Rough week. Appreciate my friends who have supported me and George throughout our grandchildren ordeal. They are kind and thoughtful in the midst of pain.
You have had such a rough week. It doubles me down to pray.
9. Share your comments on the above.
Touching song; tender and sweet. He left us here for each other. It is sometimes difficult though, when people misrepresent who you are and you are supposed to let them “…slap the other cheek…” as Jesus said. These people who cross our path are hateful and uncaring. Are we to appreciate them? That God put them in our way so we would have to acknowledge them? Not every person we encounter is pleasant.
10. How have your sisters here strengthened you in the hard times? Be specific if possible.
Oh my ! I could take many pages to describe this. I am in the midst of a huge trial right now; wondering why God is silent, wondering if we are doing the right things; making the right choices. My sisters here are beautiful through it all! They encourage, cry with me, pray for me, love me, and to think I have only met a few of them in person! How sweet it is to have this place with these ladies.
11. How many times did Naomi send Ruth back? Why do you think Ruth did not give up?
Three times in passages 10-18. I think she was loyal to Naomi and knowing she was an older woman maybe she didn’t want to leave her all alone? Maybe she was afraid she might not make it back to Bethlehem?
12. When times are bad, what do you know about God that can keep you going? Speak this to your soul.
I know He is faithful. I know He has a plan. I know He does all things for our good. I know He loves me no matter what. I know He is always with me even if I don’t feel it.
Laura: Amen to your last line! Its hard to remember that He is with us when we can’t feel Him, but He is sending others to encourage u. Yes, He will be faithful & give u all u need.
Wed 9). The song was sweet indeed, & a reminder of the most important things…our relationships & how we impact each other’s lives 🙂
10). I have shared some hard things on this blog & been encouraged & lifted up when you have responded. Last Sat night I shared a prayer request for my daughter, & the struggle I’ve been having to keep away from co-dependent behaviors. I was feeling very sad & scared & needing some comfort. Dear BING responded almost immediately & said she would be praying, & that she has struggles with her daughter too. I was so comforted & strengthened & relieved of the heaviness. Thank you Bing! Yesterday my dtr & I had a good honest phone conversation & cleared the air. Today we have enjoyed texting & I was able to let her practice an interview with me, & give her support & my love. Praise God!
11). Naomi tried to send Ruth back 3 x at least. I think Ruth had her mind made up, was committed to her Mother in law & loved her. Maybe she didn’t have much to go back to, & Naomi was her real family.
12). When times are bad, I will remind my soul that the Lord sees me, knows me & is working in my life. All aspects of my life. He has compassion on me in my struggles. He loves me thro it all & He is trustworthy. He will never leave me alone or condemn me. He is transforming me & drawing me closer to Him.
So good to hear of support you are getting, Jenny!
7. Do you believe that God can make dry bones live? If so, why?
God created everything…His capacity is infinite, making dry bones live would be a snap for Him.
10. How have your sisters here strengthen you in the hard times?
I remember coming on the blog distraught after just finding out that my unmarried daughter, young, somewhat immature, working part-time, going to school full-time, was pregnant. It was completely unexpected news…I could see her future swirling down the drain…hopes and dreams stifled, etc. The empathy and encouragement shared by the sisters here was such a comfort. I remember specifically Chris sharing that she had experienced a similar circumstance, assuring me that all was not lost and that it would be okay; God would bring good out of this all. (and He did…:D )
11. How many times did Naomi send Ruth back? Why do you think Ruth did not give up?
Naomi sent Ruth back three times (twice with Orpah, once alone). I think that Ruth had a strong bond with her mother-in-law; Ruth was committed to caring for Naomi, doing all that she (Ruth) could to provide for her (Naomi).
12. When times are bad, what do you know about God that can keep you going?
God is good and I am loved…nothing (NO THING) can separate me from His love; He loves me with an everlasting love. I trust in my faithful, loving Lord; I trust that He will use this hardship for some good; I trust in His good plans. My Lord is for me, I need not be afraid…this too shall pass.
I remember that too, Nanci — and it gives us all hope to hear ashes to beauty stories.
10. How have your sisters here strengthened you in the hard times? Be specific if possible.
The women here prayed me through my sister’s illness and her death and afterwards. You have shared the Word with me to encourage me. I can be myself and feel accepted and loved.
11. How many times did Naomi send Ruth back? Why do you think Ruth did not give up?
3x The Spirit of God has been working in the heart of Ruth for a long time before this significant event. I can just imagine the peace that was in her heart when she clung to Naomi. I believed she did not know what the future held for them, but she was looking to the God of Naomi to take care of them. And He did!
12. When times are bad, what do you know about God that can keep you going? Speak this to your soul.
Lamentations 3:20-24
I well remember them, and my soul is downcast within me. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope:
Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, “The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.”
Bing: I love that verse in Lamentations too. Scroll back just a little & read my post. Thank you for your prayers & encouragement! 🙂
The Song of Ruth: I have listened to this several times because it is so touching to me.
“Wherever you go, I will go.” This speaks of the deep love and commitment that Ruth has for Naomi.
And yes, Dee, the words in the middle are so meaningful. Yes our relationships with God and with others-That is the only thing that will last.”
The strength of my blog sisters: Oh I could go on and on but basically I am so enriched by their openness, their wisdom, and knowledge of the Word that is helping me as I encounter my daily ordeals. These are a lifelong challenge and I know that God is with me, yet I do grow spiritually from identifying with each of you.
It seems that each name comes to mind with a picture of their loyalty to God and each other. Thank you all.
11.Three times Naomi sent Ruth back-verses 8, 12, and 15. However in spite of Orpah’s decision, Ruth persisted in her loyalty to Naomi.
Why did she not give up? She had experienced the faith in Naomi’s God and desired to follow God, too.
13. When times are bad what do you know about God that can keep you going? He has my heart and my life, when others let me down.He is keeping me close and I know His promises are true!
Presently I feel in a famine, yet there are occasional refreshing words.. Yes, I am loved with an everlasting love. Psalm 119:45 I will walk at liberty, for I seek your precepts.
This morning God had this stand out for me:
Dee’s story about her family member, and then this quote by James: It takes God’s mega-voltage resurrection power to awaken a human soul from death to life. No amount of persuasion, perseverance, loving kindness, or proven evangelistic techniques can overcome the grip of death and breathe life into the human soul, although God regularly employs all of these methods and more in the birthing process. The same high-voltage resurrection power that released Jesus from the tomb works every time a sinner turns to Christ.
Yes, Rebecca — clinging to that power for you and yours.
Yes Rebecca, I love that quote too! Such a relief to know that God is doing all the work. He chooses to use we frail vessels but He works inspite of our weakness. Its all the work of His Spirit & resurrection power.
Thurs: Listening with your Heart
13. A) Naomi’s lament; she asked the people who knew her to change her name to Mara (bitterness), because she had gone out full & returned empty & had been afflicted by the Almighty.
B). Ruth could have been hurt because Naomi didn’t acknowledge how God had blessed her with Ruth as a daughter. Naomi was totally focused on all she had lost.
C). I think Ruth was humble & loved Naomi enough to see beyond her bitterness of soul. She knew the grief & despair Naomi was experiencing & had compassion for her.
14. A). Ruth gleans all day in the fields, then beats out the grain…hard work! She takes it home to Naomi with extra for her to eat. She cares for her. They must have rejoiced together.
B). Naomi has new hope & she sees that God is at work. He hasn’t forgotten her.
C). Ruth helped Naomi heal gently, lovingly, patiently. She was a humble servant, providing for Naomi’s immediate physical needs, but also emotionally. She didn’t judge but showed kindness & commitment. She lived WITH her & was present.
Am I being alert to the people in my path? There is a patient I’ve been seeing on & off who has many physical needs & fear of losing her independence. She’s only 2 yrs older than me & her husband has dementia, so she also takes care of him. She is Catholic so I feel I can share my faith as she receives it. I have done grocery shopping for her & will pray that I can minister as the Lord leads me to. I can’t spend a lot of time as I have many other pts to see & its a full time job, but the Lord carves out spaces.
Such a blessing to read that “God used Ruth to restore Naomi”. What a privilege that He can use us to restore others as we yield to His leading!
14. Ruth 2:20, 21
This statement that you made, Dee: Naomi is hurting so much that she is no longer expecting God to meet her needs. Ruth listens not so much to Naomi’s words, but to her heart.
I went to sleep last night listening to John Piper talking about “Words for the Wind”. (It is from an app called Solid Joys Daily Devotional in which Piper gives 2 or 3 minute audio nuggets. It is Jan. 16th’s audio entry.) As I listened, I thought of how Ruth responded to Naomi’s desperate, hurting words. She remained. It seems that she was maybe even quiet. She listened past the words and surely read between the lines.
Here are a few brief snippets from what John Piper said in this encouraging audio devotion:
Piper said, “Do you think that you can reprove words when the speech of a despairing man is wind? (Job 6:26) In grief, loss and despair people often say things they would not normally say. They paint reality with darker strokes than they will tomorrow when the sun comes up. They sing in minor keys and talk as if that is the only music.
Piper continues, Lets not spend our time and energy reproving such words. They will be blown away themselves on the wind.… one need not clip the leaves in autumn. They will soon blow off of themselves….
Oh how quickly we are for defending God or the Truth.
Restoring the soul not reproving the sore is the aim of our love.
I am so grateful for two friends with patient, listening hearts who have done this for me in recent days.
Nila, I was lifted up to see your name. Had been missing you!
Nice to see you here, Nila!
Nila, Thanks for sharing these Piper thoughts. I think they give a very good perspective to Naomi’s lament. And wise counsel in allowing the hurting person to process without reproving their words.
Nila, thanks for sharing these words from John Piper. In my own family I have heard some say really terrible, awful words when they are hurting, and how quickly I want to “reprove” them for those words. It makes you want to blurt out, “Don’t say that!” My two sisters no longer speak, and one of them holds onto those kinds of words, said by the other, as proof of the reason she doesn’t want a relationship with her anymore.
13.A. Naomi’s lament. She says her life used to be pleasant but now is bitter. She used to be full but now is empty. She blames God.
I guess I have been blaming God for not helping me in the ways I think He should. The ways I’ve been asking for. I’ve grown discouraged and dejected. I recognize that as sin.
C. Ruth was never mentioned as part of the problem. Only the Lord was blamed. Your observations are helpful that Ruth could remember her before the bitterness set in.
14.A. The scene is the barley field and then the way back to Naomi with the half bushel of grain.
B. The turn in Naomi. She recognized the good fortune as the hand of God and repents of her previous unbelief. She also clicks on the fact that Boaz is a kinsman redeemer.
C. Ruth helped Naomi heal by being cheerful and steadfast. She got up and did the hard but positive thing, going out to glean. She let Naomi process at her own rate.
15. A God hunt. I have a cold, and have cancelled a couple of appointments this week. I had offered a co worker to take her Friday this week before I was sick. She called yesterday and asked me to take a different day for her next week. That means I can stay home longer and heal up.
Mary B…I hope u can rest up & get better quickly. May your heart be encouraged by our God of all hope 🙂
Monday: Psalm 126
3. Read Psalm 126:
A. We don’t know what time the psalmist is remembering in his sorrow, but we do know he remembers how they felt. What pictures, phrases, and praise do you find in verses 1-3? – I can picture them all smiling and laughing and full of joy. I can picture a celebration with everyone having fun.
B. Why is it important to remember the good times in the hard times? – Remembering the good times when you are going through a rough patch will help you get through it. It brings to mind that the Lord was there for you in past trials and will help you stay strong and focused and know that He will help you through your present trial.
13.A. Describe Naomi’s lament in v. 20-21.
Naomi has suffered great losses…she is despondent, she has lost all that was truly important to her; she blames the Lord for her suffering and sees no end to it. She has no hope that life will ever get better; she is doomed by the Lord; He has turned against her.
B. How could these words have hurt Ruth?
Ruth was a blessing to Naomi, their relationship was a blessing, yet Naomi never gave Ruth or their relationship a thought.
C. What do you think Ruth might have heard that helped her not to take offense.
Ruth heard Naomi’s deep sorrow and grief, her heartache.
14.A. Describe the scene in v. 17-18.
Ruth provided for Naomi; she provided Naomi with grain for future use and roasted grain that Naomi could enjoy on the spot.
B. How do you see a turn in Naomi’s attitude toward God in v. 19-20?
Naomi is beginning to trust again in the Lord; she asks the Lord’s blessing on the man whose field Ruth was allowed to work in.
C. What were some of the things that Ruth did that helped Naomi heal?
Ruth didn’t press Naomi to “buck up buttercup,” or “get over it,” she gave Naomi time and space, and remained her companion, confidant, and friend. She loved Naomi unconditionally. Ruth provided tangible evidence of the Lord’s provision and blessing (e.g., food, shelter).