IT’S SO EASY TO BECOME MARTHAS AT CHRISTMAS
WORRIED AND ANXIOUS ABOUT SO MANY THINGS
TRYING TO SATISFY OUR RAVENOUS IDOLS
OF COMFORT, CONTROL, AND APPROVAL
AND LOSING
THE JOY,
THE PEACE, &
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING
INSTEAD, THIS ADVENT, BEGINNING TODAY
LET US SEEK FIRST TO BE IN HIS PRESENCE
AND WHAT WE WILL DISCOVER IS THAT
SOME CHRISTMAS TASKS WILL FALL AWAY
AND THE THINGS THAT REMAIN WILL BE TRANSFORMED
WITH JOY
WITH A PEACE THE WORLD CANNOT GIVE
MOST OF THE TIME HIS PRESENCE IS GENTLE
LIKE SOFTLY FALLING SNOW
CHANGING YOUR HEART
LIKE THE PRISTINE POWDER TRANSFORMS
THE SOD INTO A WINTER WONDERLAND
YES, MOST OF THE TIME HE WILL COME GENTLY
BUT HE MAY ALSO SURPRISE YOU
OVERWHELM YOU
FILL YOUR HEART WITH EXCEEDING GREAT JOY!
LORD WE CANNOT SEEK YOU WITHOUT YOU DRAWING US, AND SO I ASK
FOR YOUR SPIRIT TO WOO EACH OF US
TO GIVE US THE DESIRE, AS YOU DID THE MAGI, TO FIND YOU,
TO SEE YOUR FACE,
AND TO WORSHIP YOU.
IF IT PLEASES YOU, DEAR LORD,
MAY WE EXPERIENCE JUST A TASTE OF WHAT THE MAGI EXPERIENCED
OF KNOWING YOUR WORD LED THEM ARIGHT
AND REJOICING WITH EXCEEDING GREAT JOY!
THINK ABOUT THE MAGI AS YOU READ THIS QUOTE FROM WALTER WANGERIN:
Faith is work.
It is a struggle.
You must struggle
with all your heart.
And on the way God
will ambush you.
Oh, how long the Magi journeyed to seek the one born King of the Jews.
It was hard work — but then, when they drew near to Bethlehem,
they were indeed astonished, amazed and ambushed!
They saw the star reappear.
They rejoiced with exceeding great joy!
They knew: it is true!
I’ve shown the following clip of T. S. Elliot reading his poem, Journey of the Magi before,
and I will, if God gives me life, keep showing it at Advent, for it is so rich.
Watch, listen, let it sink in, and share your contemplations.
We are beginning our journey of seeking His presence.
SUNDAY/MONDAY REFLECTIONS
1. What stood out to you from the comparison to Martha — and why?
2. What stood out to you from the Journey of the Magi and why?
BIBLE STUDY: MONDAY-WEDNESDAY
There is always a danger with familiar passages to glaze over, but honestly, I saw new things that are helping me to seek Him. And I’m so praying that His Spirit will do the same for you. So read slowly, with fresh eyes, to discover some of the ways God wooed the Magi and ways they responded that kept them in His presence. It is a clear picture of what Larry Crabbe called “dependent responsibility.”
Perhaps these three responses of the Magi will help you experience His presence:
- WORD (It was the Word that led them to the Savior — may we stay in His Word each day)
- WAY (When given a choice, they chose the right way — not to go back to Herod, but a different way. May we be so sensitive to His Spirit throughout the day that we keep avoiding the wrong way and go God’s way.)
- WORSHIP (Their hearts responded with worship when they saw the star, the baby. May we find ways and quiet moments to worship: using music, poetry, and where we go in our minds.)
3. As an overview, read Matthew 2:1-12 and find ways God wooed them and ways they responded so as to stay in His presence. (See if you can find the Word, the Way, and the Worship.)
4. Read Matthew 2:1-2.
A. How did God woo the Magi to seek the one born to be king of the Jews? (vs. 1-2)
B. What are some ways God wooed you to Himself, both initially, and is continuing to woo you now?
5. Read Matthew 2:3-6
A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?)
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him? (In the paid sermon, Keller gives detail into the fact that he was a maniacal monster.)
C. With whom did Herod consult? What might have been his motives, but how do you see God having the upper hand?
D. What prophecy did the chief priests and scribes quote, and what wisdom did this give the Magi?
Clearly, one of the ways we seek His presence is allowing His Word to lead us, as the Magi did. That can only happen if we are not too distracted to contemplate His Word. Read this by Sara Young:
Relax in my healing presence. As you spend time with Me, your thoughts tend to jump ahead to today’s plans and problems. Bring your mind back to me. Let the light of my presence soak into you as you focus your thoughts on Me. Thus I equip you to face whatever the day brings. This sacrifice of time pleases Me and strengthens you. Do not skimp on our time together. Resist the clamor of tasks awaiting to be done. “You have chosen what it better and it will not be taken away from you.”
(Jesus Calling, January 2)
6. How can you stay in His presence this week through His Word? Do you have a plan to defeat the call of your idols?
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie?
B. Discerning God’s voice amongst the lies of the world, the flesh, and the devil means taking thoughts captive to Him. The lies will tell you to go one way, but God will tell you to go “another way.” Right now, I’d like you to ask Him to help you discern His voice by asking:
1) Lord — what is important for me to do this Advent and what is not? (Be still and listen.)
2) Lord — I know my idols will fight what is best for me, lying to me, telling me to run to them because I cannot trust You. Help me trust You, hear you, and by faith go in the way You would lead me. What lies are my idols telling me that could lead me into danger?
8. Read Matthew 2:10-11
A. How did the Magi feel when the star re-appeared and why?
B. If you have a recent time when God “amazed, ambushed you,” we’d love to hear it!
C. What did the Magi did when they saw the child? (Find two things)
D. What part does worship play in experiencing His presence? How might you bring worship into more of your life this Advent?
E. Do you think giving to the poor (as the Magi did with this family who was poor in worldly wealth) can play a part in experiencing His presence? (Consider also Matthew 25:35-40)
F. What one thing might you do to bless the poor, the lonely, the prisoner, the least of these this Advent?
G. Is there a poem, a hymn, a carol you might go to in your mind this week, replacing any worry or complaining?
THURSDAY – FRIDAY SERMON FROM KELLER
FREE SERMON ON THE MAGI: LINK
Many of Keller’s Christmas messages are geared toward the non-Christian, as is this, but I find it to be a great blessing to my faith and to my ability to relate to non-Christians.
9. What notes to you have on the above?
OPTIONAL PAID SERMON ON THE MAGI: LINK
This is an important message, but still it is optional. Keller talks about how though Christ brings peace, He also brings a “fight.” Our idols will fight us — where as before there was no fight. People will persecute us if we are living authentically. In the end, we will have peace, but in this world, we will feel discord — as the Magi did, as Joseph and Mary did, and certainly, as Christ did. I thought of you who are married to unbelievers or who had unbelieving husbands leave you — so much pain — you could perhaps have had a temporary peace by relinquishing Christ. But oh — what you would give up. Part of experiencing His presence is a fight — saying no to our very loud idols, and doing what is right, no matter the cost. If you can listen, do! (There was one part of the sermon that confused me — I’m not quite sure how Rachael’s death led to life for her — unless Keller meant simply the life of Benjamin. So I’m eager for your thoughts.)
10. What notes do you have on the above?
Saturday:
11. What is your take-a-way and why?
12. Did you sense His presence this week? If so, share!
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3. As an overview, read Matthew 2:1-12 and find ways God wooed them and ways they responded so as to stay in His presence. (See if you can find the Word, the Way, and the Worship.)
The magi (a caste of wise men specializing in astronomy, astrology and natural science) were not of the Jewish nation but they came seeking the King of Jews in order to worship Him. Not for scientific inquiry or to fulfill some curiosity. They came to worship. How strange. Nevertheless, God used natural means to call them to Himself. Won’t our God use any means to call us to Himself to woo us? For me, God used devastating loneliness and an awareness of my sin to woo me. Otherwise, I certainly would not have searched Him out.
All the magi knew was that they were seeking the King of the Jews so they went to His capital. They knew enough to go to Jerusalem. And while there they found His word and His word told them where to find their king. God’s prophet foretold that the Messiah was to be born in Bethelem. And when they got there, they worshipped. How did they worship? By bowing before Him and offering up their treasures. What is it that I treasure most? I want to be able to offer that to Him. He paid for my sin so there is nothing I can do to repay Him but it is reasonable, logical that I offer all that I am, all that I have to Him. (Rom 12:1)
I see the way in how the Lord led the Magi. Sometimes I want the Lord to move miraculously in my life. I want to see some great excitement but after the Magi had offered up their treasures the Lord led them in how they were return home. Now that they had found the King of the Jews should they live in some great mansion in His kingdom? No the Child and His earthly family had to flee to Egypt. The Magi had to return home perhaps forever changed but they had to return to regular life. Can I live this way? Live a consecrated and worshipful life in this regular, hoo-hum life?
” Can I live this way? Live a consecrated and worshipful life in this regular, hoo-hum life?”
I can relate, this is the struggle isn’t it?
I listened to a John Piper sermon once when I was at an extremely low & vulnerable point. He called us “live on hope”.
Living on hope is sometimes a difficult walk, but God does ambush us with love and whisper that it will all be so incredible when we get home to Him who loves us.
Do you know how I can get access to this sermon, Chris? It sounds like the encouragement I need right now.
Diane I went searching and prayed to find it for you, I am not finished searching, Piper has so many on hope! But this one was so rich, I teared up when I remembered it and thought perhaps it would be just what you need now:
http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/called-to-suffer-and-rejoice-to-finish-the-aim-of-christs-afflictions
Thanks so much, Chris. You are sweet!
Here is another for you Diane, he has so much on hope, I encourage you to take a look at some of the others:
http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/sermons/happy-in-hope-patient-in-pain-constant-in-prayer
Listened to this as well. It was really good and was had a Christmas message intertwined in it. thanks for giving me these links.
I listened to this sermon and see the powerful truth in it. Suffering has made Dee such a fragrance of Christ’s beauty to us here, drawing us to Him. Your suffering, Chris, has made you a powerful fragrance to me/all of us as well, as has the suffering of many, many others here. Your testimonies are powerful with God’s truth precisely because of your turning to Him in your suffering.
So good, Melanie.
I love the closing lines of Eliot’s poem — goes with what you said in your final paragraph.
Really good stuff, Melanie.
Thanks for this insight.
2. What stood out to you from the Journey of the Magi and why?
Persistence and obedience…the Magi could have easily decided it was all just “too hard”, the obstacles and challenges too daunting, go back home to comfort and “security” free of all the troubles and inconveniences of travel and the unknown. BUT, their persistence and obedience didn’t allow them to give up and they were blessed with the greatest gift of all…the presence of Emmanuel.
4. Read Matthew 2:1-2.
A. How did God woo the Magi to seek the one born to be king of the Jews? (vs. 1-2)
The magi were interested in astronomy…the star and the prophecy of the newborn king of the Jews wooed them.
B. What are some ways God wooed you to Himself, both initially, and is continuing to woo you now?
This was a sweet question to ponder. God has wooed me (and continues to woo me) to Himself is through people…some people known personally to me as family, friends, mentors, and acquaintances, others not personally known to me yet influencing me with their writing, actions, and/or sermons. God also has wooed me (and continues to woo me) with coincidences that are meant just for me…circumstances that ironically all line up; something said, read, or heard at an optimal time, etc.
I see that there are many comments to posted I have yet to read…I posted this before going back to read them; I will go back and read them now. Blessings to each of you this advent season.
Nanci,
I like your answer to B. I hadn’t thought of this but it is true in my life as well, that “God has wooed me (and continues to woo me) with coincidences that are meant just for me…circumstances that ironically all line up; something said, read, or heard at an optimal time, etc.” And yes, He uses people, too – often complete strangers.
So good Nanci–reminds me of one of the Keller sermons where he says there are no “coincidences”–God is always orchestrating, always working…love how you see Him knitting all things together
Hi Elizabeth…the Esther sermon you suggested was wonderful…do you remember which sermon “there are no coincidences” is from?
I have been so stressed that I haven’t even turned my laptop on for 2 days, so I had a lot of reading to do. Welcome to the new ladies, I haven’t been here long but have found this group of ladies to be strongly supportive, caring and always willing to lift each other up in prayer, with a word of encouragement too. I know He hears and and answers our prayers always, although there are times when I wish His time was a little closer to my time, but I know He is there.
1. What stood out to you from the comparison to Martha — and why? Well although my name is Mary, I really can be a Martha around Christmas, although I am getting better (I think). Christmas Eve is at my house, extended family etc and I used to spend weeks planning and preparing and had to have everything “just so” I used to tell myself that it was my gift to the family, but the truth was it was probably putting on a show and that idol of controlling the outcome. I was on the verge of a Christmas crash some years back when I was going through a hard time and just didn’t have the energy to do much and that year I had slacked off and no one seemed to notice (it was more likely God pointing this out). I used to spend days cooking, baking and getting ready for the festival I was too busy focusing on this that other, more important, things suffered. Now I get everyone to bring something and I will even order a cake, instead of making one if I don’t feel will have the time. I do find when I let a bunch of the details go, everyone still enjoys themselves and I am not stressed to the max to make sure things are perfect. I am still a work in progress though (as always).
2. What stood out to you from the Journey of the Magi and why? Well I smiled at the Wangerin poem at the part where he says that on the way God will ambush you. The picture in my mind is me traveling down a road with my focus elsewhere and God jumping out from behind a bush saying “surprise” here I am. I was more pensive when listening to T.S. Elliot. He describes the Magi travels through all sorts of places, the carousing of the camelmen the hostility of the cities and towns. I thought of the city that I live in, there are huge numbers of Christmas Parties where people will act like the camelmen, the hostility to those who focus more on Christ than on the parties. Charging high prices, which cabs and hotels do with those who have partied too much. They didn’t care about the star or birth, they weren’t even paying attention, they were carousing.
I thought his sharing of the journey of the Magi’s is much like ours. God drew the Magi through all of the normal activities, they kept their attention on the goal of following the star and even though their journey was difficult and very tiring, they kept going. Once the reached their goal, they returned home and were no longer able to see things around them as they used to. When they started their journey things around them were normal, when they finished their journey things around them are alien.
Today, God still draws us on the journey, but if we are focused on the star guiding us, we will see the things around us, but they will no longer be normal, they will be alien. We will be transformed by what God has to show us even though the journey may be long and hard and hostile in places.
This week I do have a praise item. Even though I spent part of Sunday decorating my house, tree up etc, I asked my son if he would come to church with me and he came willingly. I know that some of you are praying for him, so I really appreciate the prayer support for him. Thank you.
Oh Mary I will pray for you to be stress free. Focus and listen to what The Lord wants you to do and he will guide the way.
Thank you, I do believe that this is part of His plan and He does have something pretty cool in mind. I will know what that is when He reveals it.
Mary, so thankful your son said yes and came with you to church! I think he has something “pretty cool in mind” for all of us!
This was rich Mary, I thought of the words to Turn your eyes Upon Jesus as I read your thoughts on the wise men.
O soul, are you weary and troubled?
No light in the darkness you see?
There’s a light for a look at the Savior,
And life more abundant and free!
Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,
And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,
In the light of His glory and grace.
Through death into life everlasting
He passed, and we follow Him there;
Over us sin no more hath dominion—
For more than conquerors we are!
His Word shall not fail you—He promised;
Believe Him, and all will be well:
Then go to a world that is dying,
His perfect salvation to tell!
Wow! The words of “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” just jump off the page to me. Thanks, Chris.
This song is perfect for this season.
Thanks!
What an awesome response, that song is perfect.
Loved that Chris, thank you
LOVE this Chris–I haven’t heard this in a while–and oh, I love getting it stuck in my head for today–thanks for posting the words!
Love your picture of the ambush, Mary!
Your words are so encouraging to me, last Sunday while sitting in church I felt an overwhelming ache for my children. As I recalled the joy of having them lined up in a row next to me when they were young -I knew instantly what I wanted most for Christmas. I asked each of them that they come to one service with me – they could pick the time. I have gotten no responses from two of them and rather than allow it to consume me I remain hopeful. Your post refreshed my hope and my heart this morning.
Mary,
I love the parallel you draw between the Magi’s journey and ours…God drawing them/us through the normal activities, and them/us keeping our eyes on the journey even though it is difficult and tiring at times.
Upon reaching the goal of seeing the King, they were transformed…nothing was ever the same again. Isn’t that the same for us? As we pursue the goal of His presence, every encounter with the King brings transformation in us, changing our perspectives on everything around us…but those encounters/ambushes make the difficult journey well worth it, don’t they? 🙂
5. Read Matthew 2:3-6
A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?)
I believe he was jealous. He wanted no one to take his place in the eyes if his people. He was afraid of the babe.
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him? (In the paid sermon, Keller gives detail into the fact that he was a maniacal monster.)
Well….are these the same people who would eventually order Jesus put to death? I think they were afraid of his potential power. A fear of the unknown. They had heard but didn’t understand his ultimate mesmerizing following of the people.
3. As an overview, Read Matthew 2:1-12 and find ways God wooed them and ways they responded so as to stay in His presence. (See if you can find the Word, the Way, and the Worship)
Magi from the east came to Jerusalem – they were wise men who had studied the prophecies about the Messiah and they recognized the sign of His coming. We talked about this in church last week, and said these men were from the area of Babylon, where Daniel had been in captivity. Daniel did lots of prophesying in his time. No doubt what he said continued to be passed on from generation to generation. There were scholars who were waiting and watching. These Magi didn’t miss His coming because they were paying attention to the Word.
They followed the Way to the Messiah by following the star that appeared to them. This, too, is interesting – I caught a snatch of a conversation on Moody radio last week where they were talking about this “star” and because stars don’t move, the Bible scholar on the radio suggested it may have actually been the Shekinah glory of God. This could be plausible, because in the Exodus, the people were led by a pillar of cloud and a pillar of fire that moved. Either way, it took faith for them to pack up and follow – they saw this object of light in the sky, believed it was their sign, and they got moving. Also, I wonder if the star temporarily disappeared because when they got to Jerusalem, they asked where the king of the Jews was and it says that Herod sent them in the direction of Bethlehem. As they went on to Bethlehem, the same star they had seen in the east is there again, going ahead of them.
The Worship – I just realized that when they came first to Jerusalem, they met the king who was ruling over that land – King Herod – but nowhere does it say they bowed to him in worship. They only asked Herod where the king of the Jews was. Then when they found the child, they knew they had found the true king, and they bowed and worshipped. It really is amazing to think about grown men who are scholars, wise men – bowing with their faces to the ground before a child. That is such proof of their faith and belief – if others had been watching them, they would’ve thought these men were behaving foolishly. They also worshipped Jesus by presenting him with precious, costly gifts.
Susan, I liked especially your thoughts on others watching would have thought the wise men were behaving foolishly, I thought of you and the way your family sometimes react to your faith, and that you are wise to worship in spite of their disapproval and criticism, I feel sure it must be a witness to them.
This reminds me of a Tozer quote I saw yesterday:
“Go to church once a week and nobody pays attention. Worship God seven days a week and you become strange!”
— A. W. Tozer
🙂
Susan, loved your comments!
4. Read Matthew 2:1-2.
A. How did God woo the Magi to seek the one born to be king of the Jews? (vs.1-2)
God sent them a “birth announcement” in the form of a star, or light, in the sky that stood out from all the other stars. He must have lit a fire in their hearts, too, because they saw, and they came.
B. What are some ways God wooed you to Himself, both initially, and is continuing to woo you now?
Wow – growing up not going to church, I can think of some “wooings” God used – I used to sit in the kitchen and watch Billy Graham on our little black and white set; a birthday card when I turned 14 from the volunteer coordinator at the nursing home where I volunteered that said “Jesus loves you – you are special in His sight” – the first time I’d heard that. A desire in my late 20’s to somehow get on the inside of a church family, to belong.
He still is faithful to woo me today, especially when I turn away from Him and choose to sin. It makes me feel very unhappy and I miss Him. I feel restless without Him.
I have followed the readings and posts for several months and have not posted for a few reasons. Often it’s due to tears filling my eyes as I am overwhelmed reading both the heartache & compassion here. Also, I am involved in many discussion boards for school- many days they devour all the words in my head. Each post is a gift that touches my heart and gives encouragement – I thank you for your open and honest expression of faith.
In regards to the “Martha” and the “wooing by God “ questions, I need to share this scripture, which I have read so many times over the years, yet has new meaning to me today- in this season. I pray it blesses all of you as it has me, a true gift from above, wooing me back to a heart of worship (which is where I yearn to stay but wander away from so easily).
“So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.” Romans 12:1-2 MSG
I used to think it would be so much easier if this transformation and maturity happened in an instant like powdered instant coffee. Over time I am recognizing that it is in the battle and the struggle I come to better understand His mercy and love. This Christmas with no job /income I can’t slide into the chaos “without even thinking” as is my usual pattern. The financial situation has been a blessing because it takes away any temptation to become one with the culture and helps focus my eyes on God. Rather than allowing myself to make comparisons to what others have or can do materially- I am trying to focus in prayer on what gifts God has given me to share- a card of encouragement or an offer to run errands, babysitting so a young couple can have a date night, even simply devoting time in prayer rather than shopping is a secret and free gift I can give. God finds value in each of us for who we are and our worship of him. In some moments I wish this bump in the road happened sooner because God is proving to me again and again the infinite wisdom of His ways.
Welcome, rebecca. I am encouraged about how God is meeting you in your “bump in the road”.
Your passage made my heart leap so I posted it on my Facebook wall as soon as I read it in my email, it is getting tons of attention already.
Welcome to you Rebecca! we are glad you decided to post.
Welcome, Rebecca! I’m so glad you shared this with us – I can see why it’s getting noticed on Chris’ facebook page. I love how you equate devoting time in prayer (rather than shopping) as a secret and free gift.
Thank you- My world centered self tricks me to believe it is not a gift, but really what better gift can we give then prayer for hope, peace and ultimately salvation? I am thrilled to be held up by others in prayer to my Jesus, that is much better than any trinket money can buy. I want to turn my Christmas upside down! The worlds way to celebrate every time-It is filled with disappointment and frustration, taking the focus off where it belongs.
Love how you want to turn your Christmas upside down, Rebecca…Welcome!
I am glad you are here. I cherish the words you typed about the things that don’t cost money. So important.
I CERTAINLY AGREE WITH THE AFFIRMATION HERE, REBECCA.
We have another Rebecca here too — I am wondering if you would mind going to that avatar (directions on sign-up) and posting your picture to help us?
I think I was able to upload a picture, I am trying to change my name to post as Becca as well to make it simpler ~ Thank you
Welcome “new” rebecca! Loved this “I am recognizing that it is in the battle and the struggle I come to better understand His mercy and love.”
Would you be able to add an initial after your name (if not pic)–that way in our emails we’d know which “rebecca” it is? So glad you are with us and thankful for your rich sharing.
Wow! What an illuminating passage! Thanks so much for sharing it, Rebecca, I’m going to print it out. God’s word is so rich!
Many have joined us in the last couple of weeks and I just want to say “Welcome” to you all. This blog is precious to me and may God bless and grow you through your participation here. I am so glad you are here, though I may not be able to respond to many of your comments because my life is under heavy pressure right now.
Ditto. Welcome everyone 🙂
6. How can you stay in His presence this week through His Word? Do you have a plan to defeat the call of your idols?
Well beginning the day here is the first part of the plan. I am praying as I shop, for wisdom & right priorities, and how to show love to the people in my life, how to see the heart needs they have instead of just material ones.
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie? That he wanted to know where the child was so that he could also worship Him. God sent them a dream warning them to go home another way.
I thought about our discussion concerning the fear of man vs the fear of God. That the wise men didn’t allow fear of Herod to control them.
I have often thought of Dee’s question to us ‘What does it mean that if I fear God I don’t need to fear anything else?’
Haven Today has had Sally Lloyd-Jones on again this week, I know how many of us love her, here is the link:
http://www.haventoday.org/sally-lloydjones-christmas-stories-s-205.html
Is this a relative of Martin Loyd Jones?
G. Is there a poem, a hymn, a carol you might go to in your mind this week, replacing any worry or complaining?
O Holy Night “Long lay the world, in sin, and there replining till He appeared and the soul “felt its worth”. A thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices…”
Dawn,
I know I can sing the Christmas hymns without really hearing the words, the line “the world lays in sin and error, pining” sums up what I do with great skill- pine over my sin.
That song makes me think of one hymn I cling to
“It is well with my soul”
…My sin, not in part but the whole, is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more, praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!”
This song is a battle cry and victory cry – I use it when the world is dark and I sing (usually in my head- so I don’t get locked up) until I feel it. I tend to hang on to sins I have repented of – I have allowed my past to separate me from God. An ongoing battle but I try to visualize that my sin has been” nailed to the cross” and I must let go to open my arms to God.
Thank you for sharing- and i thank God for that holy night!
Rebecca, thanks for clarifying the words. I always thought that replining must be an old word that isn’t used anymore lol. It’s funny but Monday wasn’t a very good day for me at work and O Holy Night and It Is Well With My Soul kept coming to mind.
3. As an overview, read Matthew 2:1-12 and find ways God wooed them and ways they responded so as to stay in His presence. (See if you can find the Word, the Way, and the Worship.)
WORD –the fulfillment the OT prophesy found in Micah 5:2– v.6 “for so it is written by the prophet: “‘And you, O Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah;for from you shall come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel.’
WAY: v. 9 “After listening to the king, they went on their way.”; v. 12 “being warned …they departed to their own country by another way.” Interesting to me that the Way came from obedience to the king. The whole picture of the Magi reminds us that God has power over all and will use who He desires to do His will.
WORSHIP: v. 10-11 “ When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy… and they fell down and worshiped him…. they offered him gifts” Love their model of worship.
4. Read Matthew 2:1-2.
A. How did God woo the Magi to seek the one born to be king of the Jews? (vs. 1-2)
They came from thousands of miles away—earnestly seeking. Only He could have put that desire in their hearts, and given them the wisdom to know He is the Messiah. It’s a humbling example, when I think of how little effort I make on a daily basis to seek Him.
Jeremiah 29:13 “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”
B. What are some ways God wooed you to Himself, both initially, and is continuing to woo you now?
Nature—the sky this morning caught my eye through the window. Rushing to get kids out the door, I had to stop and at least smile—it was the pink kind. The water, lakes–I cannot get enough of. His presence is so rich in nature. I love His details in flowers, the colors…I always think, He didn’t HAVE to do that, to make everything so beautiful–but He did, He did it for us, and to show us more of Him. To draw us in.
Music—OH. I am so blessed by a husband who plays the guitar and sings..and beautiful worship at church and so often, He seems to plan the service just for me—music always draws me closer.
A lot of times it’s the little day to day prayers He answers—stopping over flowing toilets just in time (we have bad cheap toilets and you wouldn’t believe how many I’ve prayed over!) or reminding me of something important I nearly forgot about…I see all of those things from Him. Those things where you say “wow—that could have been really awful…” and realize it only wasn’t “really awful” because He stepped in and either prevented me from a big mistake, or dropping a treasured heirloom ornament…they are “little” but they are Him. A lot of times at work I’ll all of a sudden see a calculating mistake before sending out a mass email, and know He stopped me! Or when only He knew something matter to me and He did it, hard to explain, but there are times, often, when He just speaks to me, and I know He was just giving me a touch of His love.
Bigger times are when there is a pain or loneliness that even those closest to me cannot get in to—and I know He is in it with me. Hi Word, and His Word in song, in those times especially–speak to my soul. There are times when you know you don’t want to hear ANYONE else’s words–only His.
Elizabeth — I so love this post. I started copying things I liked — but then there were too many, I’d just be copying the post.
Elizabeth, you are SO right, the beauty and intricacies of nature are definitely God wooing me too…snowflakes, hoar frost, cardinals, bluebirds, chickadees, evergreen trees, acorns, deer, the colors of a sunrise, etc. etc. and yes, what a gift music is, when lyrics hit you… and then as you said, the many “there but for the grace of God” moments…
What beautiful reminders of His presence and goodness in the everyday things in life that can so easily be overlooked or expained away.
Thanks for sharing these insights, Elizabeth.
4. Read Matthew 2:1-2.
A. How did God woo the Magi to seek the one born to be king of the Jews? (vs. 1-2) – After Jesus was born the Magi had come to Jerusalem and saw the star that rose in the sky and asked where they could find Him to worship Him.
B. What are some ways God wooed you to Himself, both initially, and is continuing to woo you now? – Initially it was listening to a testimony of a friend of a friend and I saw how eager and excited he was of the things that God had done in his life up to that point and I wanted that excitement in my life so that day he led me to the Lord. And now I just feel the tug at my heart to continue to read and learn about him and even to the point of wanting to work at my church to just be able to be surrounded by his presence every day while at work would be so awesome. I pray that something comes up at the church that would work out for me to pursue this tug that I feel so strongly about. I sometimes say my having a job in the secular world is getting in the way of my reading and studying about God and His Word.
I pray that will happen for you, Julie:)
love how He wooed you Julie, and I imagine the testimony you are to others in your secular job–the love of Christ you share and how that draws others to Him just as you were drawn by seeing it in another…
The sky at sunset here today was stunning, deep colors of pink streaming through the clouds.
I thought of you Elizabeth & of God, how He doesn’t have to make it so beautiful, but He does!
I am so encouraged and uplifting by reading your prayers for me & my family! Thank you soo much!
As for Christmas there is only 3 things I pray for. Precious time with my boys, peace (even if just for the day) with my husband, and the healing relationship with a dear friend of mine. I look to Him with Hope.
Krista
Love and prayers going your way, Dear Krista
Father, I would love to join Krista in asking You for these three things if it be pleasing to You to grant them. We know You know best but if it pleases you, we ask, seek, and knock for precious time with boys, peace (even if just for one day) with her husband, and healing with a friend.
In Jesus Name
Thank you, Lord God, let Your Will be done.
Thank you so much ladies!
I agree with these prayers for you dear Krista–may this Christmas be filled with peace for your family
I will be praying for these three things for you, Krista (and a few more!)
C. With whom did Herod consult? What might have been his motives, but how do you see God having the upper hand?
The chief priests and teachers.
D. What prophecy did the chief priests and scribes quote, and what wisdom did this give the Magi?
They quoted from the Old Testament (Micah). They knew the new ruler was born.
I just realized I didn’t answer the second part of “C.”
He wanted to get rid of the new “king.” God made sure the wiseman had the star to follow and then gave them a dream to go home by another route.
6. How can you stay in His presence this week through His Word? Do you have a plan to defeat the call of your idols?
I typically do my Bible study in the morning, however I have been sick with a head cold and had minimal sleep this week. It has been difficult. I am sufficing with trying to do a few questions at night. I am behind. I am going to bed now and hope to resume the study tomorrow morning by sitting in a chair instead of laying in bed where I tend to fall back asleep off and on.
Get better, Laura…praying for you and your mom
Hope you feel better soon Laura.
Take care, Laura…colds are a real bummer. I will pray for you to kick the cold and for a big boost to your immune system; I’m sure that the emotional stress you have been under with your Mom’s situation has wrecked havoc there. I’m so happy to hear that your Mom has advocates physically present; I will continue to pray for her well-being.
Was on the road for about 6 hours today (listened to sermons) and am doing this backwards.
I was thinking that Rachel’s struggle/death was life in the following ways (in addition to Benjamin)
-death ushered her into presence of God
-also life through her connection with Jesus:
She was mother of Joseph
She was buried in Bethlehem (or on the way to? couldn’t tell for sure from the passage in Genesis, but I think Keller said she was buried in Bethlem)
Jeremiah 31:5 refers to Rachel mourning for her children. Then Matthew refers to that prophecy as fulfilled through Herod’s killing of children less than 2 years old. So, in a sense, her weeping for her children, her struggle was connected to birth of Jesus.
There may be more that I’m not seeing, since (I think) Keller seemed to indicate that there is a lot to unpack in Rachel’s struggle.
Will be gone the rest of the week with variable Internet access (and no cell phone reception in some places)
Take care, Renee…blessings!
Those are good thoughts, Renee.
I have sometimes pondered if Rachael was a believer because I see no fruit — but God knows. We know He had mercy on her often — and her dad certainly set her up for a hard life.
But good thoughts — I knew I could count on you. 🙂
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie? Herod was trying to manipulate them by telling them that he too wanted to go and worship the child. After listening to Herod, the Magi went on their way and found Christ. It was after they had found the child and after they had presented their gifts and worshiped that God gave them the dream. It struck me that God did not correct the lie right away. I don’t really know for sure how much time passed between the private meeting with Herod and the time they had their dream, but it wouldn’t have been quickly. God didn’t give the message to the Magi when they were in Jerusalem when they first heard Herod, He waited and corrected the lie at the time that the Magi needed to take action.
B. Discerning God’s voice amongst the lies of the world, the flesh, and the devil means taking thoughts captive to Him. The lies will tell you to go one way, but God will tell you to go “another way.” Right now, I’d like you to ask Him to help you discern His voice by asking:
1) Lord — what is important for me to do this Advent and what is not? (Be still and listen.) This year I think it will be important just to chill, not to be busy running around doing things. I was concerned when I started my new job that there was a comment that I was expected to work the week between Christmas and New Year’s (something I haven’t done in almost 20 years) and I said that my daughter was coming into town and I didn’t really want to work that week; but I keep getting the sense that I need that time with my kids and that the work will still be there the week following so I will be pushing a little harder not to be in the office for those few days.
2) Lord — I know my idols will fight what is best for me, lying to me, telling me to run to them because I cannot trust You. Help me trust You, hear you, and by faith go in the way You would lead me. What lies are my idols telling me that could lead me into danger? That darn job. I shouldn’t complain as I really do appreciate that God provided a job so that I could at least pay my bills (something I prayed for and He answered), but when I was offered the job I got this feeling that this was more a negative thing than a positive one, however staying unemployed was even less palatable (at least in my mind, which I now wonder about). Things are so busy that when I get in, it is really hard to think about anything other than the job. Sometimes I am so focused on the what I am doing that everything else seeps into the background. Today in the middle of dealing with a complex issue, my cell phone beeped and there was the email’s from this blog and I needed a bit of a break and when I opened the list, the very first one was from Chris with the words “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” that was just the right moment and it was totally God. I know I need reminders like that daily otherwise I could get sucked down into that danger of my focus being on my work, rather than my Lord, it is a constant and daily struggle. I have begun to notice and ask myself why it is so easy for me to be focused and immersed in the daily grind of the work, but when it comes to doing the same thing with God and His Word that I get so easily distracted. Although I never thought of it before I wonder if job is another idol that I need to keep behind me. This is bad, those idols that I wasn’t even aware of are starting to add up. I am now thinking that this is all part of His plan to show me that I perhaps rely too much on my abilities and too little on His. I know He has a plan and I now wonder if He has another little ambush in store. I suspect I might be having the meeting with Herod but that He will reveal what I need to know and/or do at the time I need to take action, just like He did with the Magi. I think I will have to mull this over some more.
Mary — you are reminding me of Mary who “pondered these things in her heart.” That’s so good — even at that darn job for which you prayed! 🙂
Mary, praying for you and your job..sounds alittle overwhelming. I know he has a plan for you too:)
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie?
He told them he would go and worship the baby. God gave the magi a dream that told them to avoid Herod.
8. Read Matthew 2:10-11
A. How did the Magi feel when the star re-appeared and why?
They were overjoyed because it was their “guiding light.”
B. If you have a recent time when God “amazed, ambushed you,” we’d love to hear it!
Well, I think it happens often in little ways. On Sunday night I asked my sister in law if the hospital was going to kill my mom that night. At 3:31 I woke up, not realizing mom was in trouble (at that exact time). The next day I found out what happened. I think He wanted me to know He was present.
C. What did the Magi did when they saw the child? (Find two things)
They bowed and worshiped him. They gave him gifts.
Great story in B.
3. As an overview, read Matthew 2:1-12 and find ways God wooed them and ways they responded so as to stay in His presence. (See if you can find the Word, the Way, and the Worship.)
The Word: I knew they studied the prophecy books but I was wondering in Matthew 2: 1,2 where they learned of the Star. I found a great link at CRI: http://www.icr.org/home/resources/resources_tracts_whentheysawthestar/
God wooed them through their study of the Word-First off, they believed Him- the prophecies about Jesus coming, and went on the journey by faith and persevered.
The Way: They were asked by the King to report to him where Jesus was so the King could worship him, and they had a dream warning them not to tell Herod so they obeyed and took a different route home. They obeyed.
The Worship: They were overjoyed when they saw the star-I can’t imagine how wonderful that anticipation must have been, and then seeing Jesus-they bowed down and worshiped Him.
so good to see your face Rebecca! I prayed for you especially this morning-missed you this week!
4. Read Matthew 2:1-2.
A. How did God woo the Magi to seek the one born to be king of the Jews? (vs. 1-2)
I answered this above-ooops.. 🙂 But am also thinking of their hearts, how God gave them moldable hearts-hearts who yearned to be in His presence-who wanted to go deeper so they studied His Word, and then stepped out in faith and persevered continuing to be sensitive to the spirit through hard times. This is a great example of dependent responsibility.
B. What are some ways God wooed you to Himself, both initially, and is continuing to woo you now?
Through His Word-Ruminating in His word letting it soak in and not only expose, like a mirror, the dark places-but He reminds me of who He is, His Character, The Gospel-how He woos me by His Word. Since I am a very busy working mom, wife and in ministry, God is wooing me now through Keller’s Sermons-I am listening to his sermons on sin-so good.
I wanted so to get on yesterday morning and dig in-but I spent almost two hours figuring out why my computer kept going down-and also my Airrave was down. Fixed it, but couldn’t get online to do the study. 🙁 God has His timing though-so wonderful what He has shown me this morning-thankful!
Hi Everyone!
I haven’t been able to follow along this week but hope to get some time in tomorrow!
It’s been a hectic week with work and making an effort to get up bright and early so I can make the gym!
Praise report!
I finally will get to enter the Health Management program so I can get my Associates and then Bacholers!
I am attending Rasmussen College, which I didn’t realize is a partner of my employer!
I am hoping also to get sometime in and do some volunteer work with Care Net. A non for profit organization that is Pro Life and does a tremendous job counseling young moms who seek the Life alternative.
Dee I have your app on my iPhone and it is so much easy to follow the studies. I have been listening to the Idol Lies videos!
Have a great Blessed day everyone!
good to see you Laura Marie and great praise for you about your schooling–that’s exciting!
I’m really happy for you, Laura Marie – this is good news!
Thanks to those who welcomed me earlier this week. I have been reading the passage daily and meditating on it. I listened to Journey of the Magi and have been thinking about it as well, looking into where they were from. I have also listened to one of the Tim Keller messages. God ambushed me this morning and I am so moved that He is a God of even the slightest detail. My husband is having outpatient surgery this morning on his shoulder. It happened that his nurse, a male, is a Moody graduate who is a missionary home on furlough. Since we have been on several short term mission trips and know people at Moody we had some great conversation which made it easier to be here this morning.
Love your ambush story, Karen!
Love how God “ambushed” you! Hope your husband’s surgery went well
That must’ve been so encouraging for you and your husband. Hope he is recovering well!
5. Read Matthew 2:3-6
A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?) – he was disturbed and upset I think. I feel his control idol was working and maybe even his fear idol because once Jesus was born and became ruler he may have feared his people would not listen to him any longer and would start following Jesus.
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him? (In the paid sermon, Keller gives detail into the fact that he was a maniacal monster.) – I think because Herod probably put bad thoughts into their heads, possibly spread lies about Jesus to them. He may have even threatened the in some way if they followed Jesus.
C. With whom did Herod consult? What might have been his motives, but how do you see God having the upper hand? – he gathered together the people’s chief priests and teachers of the law. To find out even more information on this wonderful new blessing being born, but God had his prophet already in place with the promise to Bethlehem and the people Israel that they would have a ruler born.
D. What prophecy did the chief priests and scribes quote, and what wisdom did this give the Magi? – I think I answered part of this above, but I think the wisdom that the Magi got was how powerful God was and Jesus would be once he came and ruled the people of Israel.
Read Matthew 2:3-6
5. A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?)
I think this got his heart racing, and he was threatened – especially his control idol, and definitely his security as well.
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him?
Possibly they were afraid he’d take his anger out on them, being as nasty as he was. Or, did the people “like” God, but not love Him enough to fully trust Him, and take Him at His word? It can be hard to trust God, even when circumstances are less than ideal, when we can’t see what’s coming down the path.
5. A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?)
Herod felt threatened. His idol of control/power squirming within at the thought of Someone greater than he receiving attention, praise, respect.
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him? (In the paid sermon, Keller gives detail into the fact that he was a maniacal monster.)
Maybe the feared what he would do if he was overturned? If Herod was maniacal (haven’t heard sermon yet), then I imagine him in an angry state was not welcomed by anyone.
C. With whom did Herod consult? What might have been his motives, but how do you see God having the upper hand?
He consulted the chief priests and scribes. They would know of the OT prophesies and where the Messiah was to be born. He said he wanted to know His location so he could worship Him—but really wanted to go and kill Him.
D. What prophecy did the chief priests and scribes quote, and what wisdom did this give the Magi?
Micah 5:2—it told them where the Messiah would be born in Bethlehem.
5. Read Matthew 2:3-6
A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?) –
Herod was “deeply disturbed”…why?…because he could not tolerate any threat to his kingship; he wold not put up with anyone trying to take his power and control. The idol?…power and control…he was willing to murder his own family members out of fear and distrust.
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him?
Herod is a crazy, nut-job…all Jerusalem was troubled because there was no telling what this madman-King might do.
C. With whom did Herod consult? What might have been his motives, but how do you see God having the upper hand?
Herod consulted with the leading priests and teachers of religious law.
His motives?…information seeking; to squelch any potential threat to his kingship.
God having the upper hand?…God did not allow Herod to touch Jesus; Jesus survived despite Herod’s most barbaric methods.
D. What prophecy did the chief priests and scribes quote, and what wisdom did this give the Magi?
Micah 5:2…this told the Magi where the newborn king would be born…Bethlehem.
6. How can you stay in His presence this week through His Word? Do you have a plan to defeat the call of your idols?
I need to locate some key scriptural texts that I can recite and focus on when my idols start distracting me. Yesterday I allowed myself to become undone; I was disappointed with myself and allowed my disappointment and self anger to affect the better portion of my afternoon and evening…which made me all the more angry at myself for wasting my life…what a vicious cycle. I need to take captive my thoughts and not allow the negativity my idols spew to overtake me. I am heading to my bible as soon as I submit this comment to locate some pertinent texts that I will write down on recipe cards for handy reference.
Your insight into “all Jerusalem troubled” was good. It mystified me at first — but that makes so much sense.
Good plan for defeating idols — let us know how you do today.
Thanks for asking, Dee. I am trying to use the sword of the Spirit…sometimes I am successful and other times, not so much. I find that it helps me to have a recipe card with pertinent scriptural texts to rely upon when needed…I keep it in my purse and have it by my computer at work. I also have a small notebook that I keep in my work bag with various quotes, sayings, texts, etc. that I have read in devotions and such that have touched me or spoke to me in some way written down. Both of these help me refocusing.
God ambushed me a couple days ago — and I’m still stunned. Part of me wants to be “un-ambushed.” This was not a feel-good moment. I heard “truth” which calls for obedience. I don’t know what obedience will entail, but that’s not the problem. The problem is that this truth most likely is true/right. And it is shaking up my view of the world & how God might lead me in this world. I’m (sorta) wanting to turn back the clock and put the scales back on my eyes (which I can’t do); at the same time, I am excited about following Him. Still too soon to write more.
Mysterious??? 😉
Mysterious…..yes – I want to know more!
Lord — be with Renee and give her the faith to trust You even more. It’s exciting to see you working in her life.
Renee, I was just feeling the same thoughts about part of me wanting to be “not favored”, “not ambushed”. In this season reading about Mary being highly favored by God and knowing the amount of pain it involved for her is scary. But as you stated- we can’t go back and I pray right now that God renew in you the strength and endurance to follow the path before you with not just a compliant attitude but with great joy and celebration. Thank you for sharing- your testimony refreshes my spirit today.
Becca — you are so cute! And thanks for coming on as Becca — that helps us so much to differentiate from the Rebecca who has been with us for years.
Becca–GREAT to see your smiling face! And I love your insight–part of you wanting to be “not favored”–I relate to that–wanting the transformation, but OH, at the same time, knowing the pain involved of when He messes with our hearts, is scary–and yet,as we go forward in faith we know He will carry us.
5. Read Matthew 2:3-6
A. The “Good News” doesn’t seem like good news to everyone. How did Herod feel, and why do you think (what idol might have been protesting?)
Herod was disturbed by this news. His idol of power/control was being threatened; another king could take away or diminish his power and control. His idol of comfort/security could have been threatened, too.
B. Why do you think “all Jerusalem” was troubled with him?
If the king was happy, everyone could breathe easy. If Herod became unhappy or upset about something, he may have taken out his ire on those around him – a king in a bad temper could result in people being thrown in prison or worse.
C. With whom did Herod consult? What might have been his motives, but how do you see God having the upper hand?
Herod consulted the Jewish chief priests and teachers of the law. Perhaps he was hoping it was all a mythical legend, that the Magi had come all this way for nothing. But then they matter-of-factly quote the prophecy about the Messiah coming from Bethlehem. It’s there in writing.
D. What prophecy did the chief priests and scribes quote, and what wisdom did this give the Magi?
They quoted from Micah 5:2, about a ruler coming out of Bethlehem. I find it interesting that the prophecy calls Jesus a ruler and then a shepherd. Shepherds were lowly in the social order of that day. It tells what kind of a ruler He came to be. Perhaps this gave the Magi insight that the one they were seeking was not born into a rich family; it for sure told them where to look.
6. How can you stay in His presence this week through His Word? Do you have a plan to defeat the call of your idols?
My first answer is that I must not have a very good “plan” because I have had a few battles with my control idol—just about daily! I have a desire to meditate longer in the Word—and each day, I have felt distracted by something. But here’s one thought—I have put a verse across the big picture window over the dining table—its off the kitchen—so we all see it, all day. For November I did it with Ps 136:1, and my youngest had memorized in a few days—so I decided to try again for December.
This verse is maybe a little less popular… 😉
Acts 20:35 “Jesus Said, It is more blessed to give than to receive”. I’m sure you all are thinking–bit of a preachy mom move?! But, I was thinking more on it today—there are SO many ways for me to apply this verse to my own life, daily. It is more blessed to give love, patience, forgiveness…than to wait until I receive it. Whatever it is I think I so desperately need…this morning it was sleep!, most afternoons it’s just peace, quiet…no more questions and neediness! But whatever “it” is—I am more blessed when I give of myself, my time, my ears, my arms…when I give up my own agenda, than I am when I get my way.
Now maybe I just completely over-analyzed that way out of context…but I do think it will help me to lay my own agenda down more and more and embrace what He brings before me…so often it is a challenge, but He will walk me through it.
Elizabeth,
I think you brought something more out of this verse for sure….we can look at it as more than giving money or material things – as gifts, or to the poor/needy.
I find in myself that I love to be loved-on, to be encouraged, to be listened to, to be affirmed…I have to make a concentrated effort to BE an encourager, to serve rather than to be served.
Hi everyone
I am new to this study and I must say that my eyes are so open. The story of the birth of Jesus is so deep and so real. So very blessed and Thankful for such a Savior who continues to search and love me when I am not worthy.
Idols, I have become quite the couch potato. I am rethinking Christmas this year. Thank you all for your love for one another. I have so much to chew on.
Welcome Joyce! So good to have you join us
Glad you are with us on the journey, Joyce 🙂
Welcome, welcome, Joyce! So very glad you are here, rethinking Christmas and idols!
Ladies- I have read the past couple of studies but I haven’t posted anything. Life kept me busy and I allowed myself to become distracted with worries and concerns that I should leave at the foot of the throne! Just wanted to thank everyone for their insight….so deep and helpful! I am reminded tonight that I have been so busy with Christmas….I have focused little on Christ. Sure I have had my devotions…but I have been planning and purchasing and planning some more….without getting wrapped up into what makes this a joyous season. Ugh….I am such a Martha! God help me! Look forward to the coming weeks study. You women are truly so amazing…I will lift you all up in prayer.
Glad you popped in, Sarah! And thanks for your honesty – I think we can all relate – even if not this particular Christmas season, then in times past. I’ve been distracted, worried and anxious about getting my house cleaned before my boys come home from college!
I have missed you all! Working on my computer again this morning..thankful for system restore-am now restoring Firefox..a virus almost got our computer. The boys got on last night.
6. How can you stay in His presence this week through His Word? Do you have a plan to defeat the call of your idols?
One way is by trying to be on here daily doing the Bible study. It gets me into the Word, and reading other’s comments encourages me that we’re doing this together.
I’ve had a couple days this week where I’ve just had this vague sense of anxiousness, of being unsettled. I always feel like I have so much to get done every day. I’ve tackled a couple of major cleaning projects – like scrubbing walls and moving furniture kind. I feel under pressure to get the house in shape before my sons get home in another week. I feel that all the responsibility for preparing is on me – my daughter and I put up and decorated the tree, I put up the outside lights in the pouring rain, there are cookies to bake to take to my mom’s on Christmas day, and gifts still need to be purchased.
My husband’s job takes all of his time and energy. During the week, my daughter and I eat dinner as he is never home early enough. He is tired and worn out from work.
I liked the reading Dee posted from Jesus Calling above. So many times I am so distracted by what I must get done that it is hard to keep my mind focused on praying and talking to Him. The other morning I made myself get on my knees and talk to God about why I felt so nervous inside and I was quoting Psalm 42, “Why are you downcast, O my soul and why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God!” I think my idol may be my own security. I don’t think my kids actually care if the house is spic and span, but for some reason it makes me feel a sense of security when it is. I also think it helps me feel a sense of affirmation for myself, that I can keep an orderly home. I have always struggled with being organized and having a cleaning routine. When I go into other’s homes that are neat and clean, it makes me feel ashamed of my lack in this area. I’ve been taught in past Bible studies that God is a God of order and that it is my job as a wife to keep my home in good order. I grew up in a home that was always neat and clean.
Friday I felt very anxious, like butterflies in my stomach. I spent some time with Jesus, talking to Him, and reading my Bible. As I worked, I tried to focus my thoughts on Him, and I listened to some of a Keller sermon. I felt more at peace – that what I got done would be what I got done, and the rest can wait.
Great Susan — yes, isn’t that a great quote from Jesus Calling?
Proud of you.
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie?
I noticed that Herod called the Magi “secretly” to talk to them about the time the star had appeared, and then he lied to them, saying that they should report back to him about the child so that he could also go and worship him.
I am sure he had to say this privately to the Magi because anyone who knew him well would have known that he didn’t want to worship this newborn king but that his intentions were evil.
God intervened by sending the Magi a dream and warning them not to go back to Herod.
B. Discerning God’s voice amongst the lies of the world, the flesh, and the devil means taking thoughts captive to Him. The lies will tell you to go one way, but God will tell you to go “another way”. Right now, I’d like you to ask Him to help you discern His voice by asking:
1)Lord – what is important for me to do this Advent and what is not? (Be still and listen.)
My mom came to mind…to pray for her and to spend time with her. To talk with her (not at her) about her feelings, hopes, desires. To gently point her to Jesus. Just this week I gave her somewhat of my written testimony that I spoke to my ABF class when I was asked to speak about grace. A lot of it was my journey through the study on idolatry and what I learned about God through those passages in Hosea and Jeremiah. I also had a copy of the Martin French painting of Hosea and Gomer. She has read it, and I’d like to talk to her more. Another thought was to love, obey, and follow Jesus. And that it’s not just for a special Advent time of year, but 365 days of the year. The truth that He came down is for every day of my life. It is important for me to love my family and show them His love.
2)Lord – I know my idols will fight what is best for me, lying to me, telling me to run to them because I cannot trust You. Help me trust You, hear You, and by faith go in the way You would lead me. What lies are my idols telling me that could lead me into danger?
Turning to food for comfort at this time of year is especially easy to do; there’s so much good food to be had. And running myself ragged trying to get approval and affirmation means I don’t take care of myself by eating healthy or getting enough rest. I can get irritable and impatient then with my family. My idols lie and say that what I want and how I want things to be is more important than what those around me want, making me get upset or setting me up for disappointment if things don’t go my way. Idols steal my joy in the Lord and make me difficult to get along with.
One thing I’ve wanted to do but so far I’ve been unsuccessful – I’d like to spend even 10 or 15 minutes at night, before bed, reading a Christian book or devotional, spending time with Him. But that darned couch calls loudly and most every night I think I’ll just rest for a minute and I fall asleep on the couch and wake up 3 hours later at midnight and then go up to bed. It’s been a real bad habit for way too long. Maybe I need to give up the comfort of the couch to sit at the kitchen table and then go up to bed when I’m done.
8. Read Matthew 2:10-11
A. How did the Magi feel when the star reappeared and why?
They were overjoyed.
B. If you have a recent time when God “amazed, ambushed you”, we’d love to hear it!
I have a CD I listen to every Christmas called Proclaiming Christmas (a collection of Christmas song, reading, and drama produced by Moody broadcasting for Proclaim) Proclaim was a radio show that Joe Stowell used to do. My favorite one is a drama, read by Joe Stowell, called David the Shepherd. Every Christmas Eve, I gather the kids, light the Advent wreath, and we listen to it. (Now it’s met by loud groans….oh mom, not this again!) I can’t listen to it without crying. I listened to it this past week while I was cleaning and found myself sitting on the floor weeping. It just moves me so. It’s about David (not King David but a shepherd boy who was named after King David) and his dad lying on their backs under the stars talking about how David hates being a shepherd because the other kids won’t play with him…he even wishes he’d never been born. Then it dramatizes suddenly the sky lighting up – the sheep standing at attention – the voice of the angel – the whole host of angels in the sky – and suddenly, it all disappears like that….they are stunned, and then his uncle says let’s go and they run…David has to run back to shut the sheep gate…they go and see the baby. Then it is when David is an adult, he sees Jesus teaching in his town and their eyes meet…he wonders if Jesus remembers him…but he doesn’t care, David knows that God cares about shepherds.
It just captures my imagination every time about what that night was like for those shepherds and just gets my heart that God loved us so much that He came down.
C. What did the Magi do when they saw the child? (Find two things)
They bowed down in worship and presented Him with gifts.
D. What part does worship play in experiencing His presence? How might you bring worship into more of your life this Advent?
I find that I often experience Him more when I start with praising and worshipping Him instead of just rushing into my time with Him with all of my needs and concerns. It gets my focus off of me and onto who He is. It makes Him bigger and me smaller. I think music is a good way to worship Him, listening to it during the day. Many of the Psalms also help me to praise Him.
Susan — do you have a link for that CD — sounds like a great Christmas gift!
Dee,
I purchased that CD several years ago – it was offered on the Proclaim! radio program with Joe Stowell. I don’t know if there’s anywhere you can still get it today. I’ll try hunting around on the internet, though.
Thanks!
On Saturdays we love to hear “take-a-ways.” Even if you haven’t gotten through the whole lesson — how did God speak to you? What will you take a way?
Oh, I wish I hadn’t gotten so behind this week. The lesson is SO good and I would have been blessed to have done it sooner. Still hoping to get to the sermon next!
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie?
He said he wanted to know where the Child had been born, so that he could go and worship Him—when really, he planned to have Him killed. But God. God came to the Magi in a dream and told them not to return to Herod and to go home a different route. Then God also came to Joseph in a dream and told him to flee Egypt to escape Herod’s plot (v13).
B. Discerning God’s voice amongst the lies of the world, the flesh, and the devil means taking thoughts captive to Him. The lies will tell you to go one way, but God will tell you to go “another way.” Right now, I’d like you to ask Him to help you discern His voice by asking:
1) Lord — what is important for me to do this Advent and what is not? (Be still and listen.)
2 things quickly come to mind. More meditating on His Word. I had bought some devotions for me (apart from kids stuff) to read and still have not gotten to it—at this point, I just think I need to be reading His Word. The 2nd thing, is more “still” time with my kids. That may mean letting go of the organizing I’d planned to do over Christmas break…but I feel like I need to just slow down and be present more with them—not “busy with many things”—martha mom syndrome.
2) Lord — I know my idols will fight what is best for me, lying to me, telling me to run to them because I cannot trust You. Help me trust You, hear you, and by faith go in the way You would lead me. What lies are my idols telling me that could lead me into danger?
That being “productive” matters more than coloring with my kids. That I’m too tired to read the Word. That I’ll come back to it later, after….
8. Read Matthew 2:10-11
A. How did the Magi feel when the star re-appeared and why?
“they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy” I love the NIV word “overjoyed”.
B. If you have a recent time when God “amazed, ambushed you,” we’d love to hear it!
It may not be the most recent, but what comes to mind is a time I posted about, it was 6 weeks ago at church. I was in a a particularly difficult time of stuggle, and barely made it to service. The sermon was (supposed to be) on Ruth, but the entire message focused on Isaiah 43, a passage God gave me in high school as a very significant word from Him. Since then, it has been my favorite, my sister wrote it in calligraphy it into my Bible cover. That service, we sang all of my very favorites–‘Jesus Lover of My Soul’, ‘Arise My Soul, Arise’, ‘God Will Take Care of You’, and ‘Isaiah 43’. I remember just crying the entire time, there was NO WAY for me to not feel and see it as His gift to me, His speaking to me in my pain–and there was no room for doubt, no “oh maybe I’m just over-thinking”—it was Him, loving me.
C. What did the Magi do when they saw the child? (Find two things)
They bowed down, and worshipped Him. They opened their “treasures” and gave Him gifts.
D. What part does worship play in experiencing His presence? How might you bring worship into more of your life this Advent?
To stop what I am doing, get off my camel, put down what I am carrying, remove the distractions—and bow down. Worship Him.
I do think the key is “doing less”. We are so hard-wired to do more. And this season it’s at it’s worst. To worship Him, I have to stop, empty myself, and go to my knees.
E. Do you think giving to the poor (as the Magi did with this family who was poor in worldly wealth) can play a part in experiencing His presence? (Consider also Matthew 25:35-40)
When we consider the poor, I think it helps us to re-evaluate what is most important. We did our “Operation Christmas” shoeboxes last month, and they have some amazing videos on their site. We watched one of a young boy living off what they can sell from trash dumps—but then they showed him opening his shoebox gift and praying to receive Christ and he got it—he knew what truly matters is Christ.
F. What one thing might you do to bless the poor, the lonely, the prisoner, the least of these this Advent?
I am very excited that we will get to help serve the homeless Christmas lunch this year at a shelter in downtown Charlotte. I have no idea what to expect—but I love that it will be ON Christmas, and we can leave our gifts here and go and be reminded of what it means to be His hands and feet.
A few years ago, when I first came across Ann Voskamp’s site, I picked up something from her. We started setting aside what my husband and I spend on each other, and going through the World Vision and Compassion catalogs—buying goats and chickens for the poor. The kids love looking through and picking things out. The stories included are gut-wrenching, and powerful. It really challenges my perspective.
G. Is there a poem, a hymn, a carol you might go to in your mind this week, replacing any worry or complaining?
I love O come, O come, Emmanuel.
“O come, O come, Emmanuel
And ransom captive Israel
That mourns in lonely exile here
Until the Son of God appear
Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
Shall come to thee, O Israel.
I am only half-way through the sermon, but wanted to go ahead and give my takeaway.
11. What is your take-a-way and why?
I think the first time I heard the TS Elliot poem was when we studied it last year. I don’t know many poems, but I love this one. As I read it again this morning—I was struck by a different part. “Just the worst time of the year
For a journey, and such a long journey”. It was a terrible time of year for a journey. What echoed in my mind was all the times have said “this just isn’t a good time”, or “I’ too overwhelmed—too much going on”. It seems God often calls us to Him when it isn’t an “easy” time to answer. As Dee said “Faith is work. It is a struggle. You must struggle with all your heart.” So I cannot just wait for that day that never comes when I can go sit long hours in front of the water and read and pray…He calls to me now. This entire lesson is SO applicable to my life all year long, not just in Advent. In the midst of all that is around me. In all the distractions of the world, He calls—quiet, and gentle, as Dee said. I don’t want to miss His quiet voice luring me.
Elizabeth-this is a balm to me..right where we are at sister-I am learning this, “He calls to me now.” SO so good..this reminds me of when Voskamp talked about having intimacy with God even while scrubbing the toilets, and I am thinking even in the middle of being overwhelmed or in a painful season-I don’t know but I am thinking the best times of intimacy can come in these times-and our faith is tested and strengthened.
I agree with both of you, elizabeth and Rebecca. This is just what I am finding myself. “even in the middle of being overwhelmed or in a painful season-I don’t know but I am thinking the best times of intimacy can come in these times-and our faith is tested and strengthened.” God is teaching me so much through this present difficult season. The pain is ever present, but God’s presence is constant as well. And I cherish the walking so closely to Him, even if it means pain.
7. Read Matthew 2:7-12
A. What lie did Herod tell the Magi and how did God correct that lie?
Herod told the magi that once he knew the location of the newborn king, he too would go to worship Him. God foiled Herod’s plan by instructing the magi to not return to Herod in a dream.
B. 1) Lord — what is important for me to do this Advent and what is not? (
God wants me to put aside all the materialistic wants, and even more importantly the distraction there of, and concentrate on Him…drawing ever closer and becoming increasingly attentive.
2) Lord — I know my idols will fight what is best for me, lying to me, telling me to run to them because I cannot trust You. Help me trust You, hear you, and by faith go in the way You would lead me. What lies are my idols telling me that could lead me into danger?
My idols tell me I need “more” and I need to be “more”…both are vicious cycles that have become of late increasingly loud and distracting. I’m quite frustrated with myself when I jump on either track; both lead to the same destinations…distraction; distance from God and drawing towards “the world”; self-anger, self-judgment, self-incrimination; fear, shame, guilt; and always second guessing. (I’m reading Thomas Brooks, “Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices”.)
8. Read Matthew 2:10-11
A. How did the Magi feel when the star re-appeared and why?
The Magi were filled with joy–they had reached the destination and were in the presence of “God with us”…Emmanuel.
B. If you have a recent time when God “amazed, ambushed you,” we’d love to hear it!
A special act of friendship…unexpected and touching…to explain would be quite lengthy, therefore I will leave it at that.
C. What did the Magi did when they saw the child? (Find two things)
Bowed down,
worshiped, and
offered gifts.
D. What part does worship play in experiencing His presence? How might you bring worship into more of your life this Advent?
Worship provides perspective of God’s greatness…His love…His faithfulness…His provision…a realization of my blessing that God loves me and redeemed me…worship puts it all in proper perspective.
E. Do you think giving to the poor (as the Magi did with this family who was poor in worldly wealth) can play a part in experiencing His presence? (Consider also Matthew 25:35-40)
Absolutely, as long as the heart motive is correct…if the hear motive is pure and loving, then I believe the giver is touched by and touches the recipient with God’s presence.
F. What one thing might you do to bless the poor, the lonely, the prisoner, the least of these this Advent? So many thoughts and ideas…do I donate from my abundance to the local women’s shelter?…do I provide fabric covered composition notebooks for parents of children in the cancer treatment area of Children’s Hospital? (Our small group has adopted a family and will be giving them $400+ this Christmas to do what they will with. The family is my cousin’s son and daughter-in-law whose 18 month old son, Jay, is battling neuroblastoma. They live and own a home in northwest WI but have been in the Milwaukee area living with relatives for the past several months since that is where Jay is receiving treatment. Our group is also accumulating toys for kids in the cancer treatment area…I thought the small notebooks with a pen might be a nice gesture for moms and dads.)
G. Is there a poem, a hymn, a carol you might go to in your mind this week, replacing any worry or complaining?
“O Lord, How Shall I Meet You”
v. 1 O Lord, how shall I meet You, how welcome You aright? Your people long to greet You, my hope, my heart’s delight! Oh, kindle, Lord most holy, Your lamp within my breast to do in spirit lowly all that may please You best.
v. 3 I lay in fetters (freedom restricted) groaning; You came to set me free. I stood, my shame bemoaning; You came to honor me. A glorious crown You give me, a treasure safe on high that will not fail or leave me as early riches fly.
v. 4 Love caused Your incarnation; love brought You down to me. Your thirst for my salvation procured my liberty. Oh love beyond all telling, that led You to embrace in love, all love excelling, our lost and fallen race.
I have this written on an index cards for quick reference…:)
Nanci–heartbreaking to hear of your cousin’s child–praying now for them, for a miracle.
Me too…thanks for your prayers…actually Jay is the grandson of my cousin-in-law…her son’s son. Tests to see if the chemotherapy Jay has been receiving has been working these past six months will happen the week of December 17…the results will be delivered to parents, Travis and Bridget, on December 21.
What a profound poem/ song, Nanci. Thanks for sharing.
I just shared this short clip with my family–it’s hard to watch, but thought it went well with Dee’s question in #7:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=ZGd64OG7U_A
I am sorry to have been absent, our wifi was out in our house all day Thursday and part of Friday, and I worked the past two days.
If I might ask I need prayers. On Thursday morning I was asked if I would do a taped interview to be played during a Sunday service, to be taped early next week and played on the 16th. Bill and I had been asked last minute last week to light the advent candle during the service,Which we did.
I do not like to have attention focused on me. I shared with a friend that I don’t feel my reluctance to speak is any better than someone who would be overjoyed to be chosen, it is just the opposite side of the coin.
Anyways, I did agree to do it, every time I try to set my thoughts in some sort of order, I am feeling overwhelmed and scattered, I think what is in my heart wont fit in the 5 minute time limit, then the enemy starts in on me, after all what do I really know of humility accept that I need to grow in it.
Ugh, please pray the the Holy Spirit will move, and glorify God though me in spite of me.
Thanks girls, truly
I trust that the Lord will equip you…I will pray for your discernment. Just think the special plans the Lord has in store…otherwise why would the evil one be so vigilant in his attempts to derail you?..likely you will say something the Lord has for you to say, unbeknown to you, that may plan a seed for a life changing impact on another…blessings to you, Chris.
Oh, Chris. You have such a beautiful spirit through your submitting to Him because of what you have gone through. This is such a special opportunity. Lord, give them your Spirit and your words as they share about You. Sweet Chris, be assured of my prayers.
Thank Diane and Nanci, your encouragement means so much to me!
During the sermon yesterday I began to feel more peace, after the service a lady I met recently and our Pastor prayed with me, I hope to forget myself & my inadequacies and glorify Him.
Ambushed by this song yesterday morning before work. My mind had been on full speed & needed song quite time for reflection & meditation.
It’s called Perfect Peace by Laura Story:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6eDvl4Xbh8&sns=em
E. Do you think giving to the poor (as the Magi did with this family who was poor in worldly wealth)can play a part in experiencing His presence? (Consider also Matthew 25:35-40)
Yes, but I think of how often a need is presented and it’s so easy to just write the check, to give the money, and then forget about it. I think if I’m going to experience Him through this avenue, I have to invest more of myself. If it’s not possible face-to-face, then to pray for the person/s receiving it and if it is a face-to-face interaction, then can I look into their eyes and see Christ?
F. What one thing might you do to bless the poor, the lonely, the prisoner, the least of these this Advent?
One thing is to be a good listener. People in my own family will be hurting this Christmas, missing a son/grandson/brother who died. I can listen, I can pray for them.
G. Is there a poem, a hymn, a carol you might go to in your mind this week, replacing any worry or complaining?
One of my favorite hymns is Be Thou My Vision. It reminds me to fill my mind with Him, and not myself or my circumstances.
I just got a chance to listen to Christmas War by Keller today. Thanks, Dee. This is a good one. I was just talking to our 6 year old grandson yesterday about how King Herod tried to kill Jesus (long story, ha ha) but he was fascinated and kept pretending one of the men was Herod was he played with the nativity figures. Boys … go figure … but I had his attention.
I also want to pass along an interesting Christmas story that deals with the effect of Herod. It’s called The Innkeeper, by John Piper.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7EnfxHQYWQQ